🐾 Hey Dog Lover,
Does your rescue dog really trust you… or are they just surviving politely?
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the biggest mistakes new adopters make—assuming that a dog who cuddles, follows them, or “seems fine” is actually feeling safe. The truth? Trust goes deeper than tail wags or staying close.
We’ll talk about what real trust looks like (hint: soft eyes, relaxed body, no bracing), how to spot the difference between affection and actual security, and how to approach this with curiosity rather than guilt. Because when your dog says “I don’t feel safe,” they’re not being stubborn—they’re being honest. And that’s powerful feedback.
How interesting! 🐶
We hope you enjoy this episode.
Tracy xoxox
Next Steps 🐾👣
Ready to take your relationship with your dog to the next level?
Consider joining the Fearless Framework, our 12-month coaching program with monthly Zooms, community support, and everything you need to build a big, beautiful bond with your dog.
👉 beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover 🐾🐾
Ever saw a dog so cute you couldn’t help but just rush over to give them a little pet?
(Yeah, me too.)
But sometimes we need to pause and consider what our movement means to a dog.
In fact, this is one of the biggest—and most misunderstood—reasons fearful dogs struggle to feel safe, even with people who love them dearly.
In this episode, we explore what it means to “come in too hot” from your dog’s perspective.
We’ll talk about prey-mind vs. predator-mind, body language, and the often-overlooked subtleties of pressure and approach that can either build trust… or blow it.
You’ll learn:
What “predator energy” looks like from a dog’s point of view
How to soften your presence so your dog can breathe
Why the way you connect matters more than the thing you do
If you’ve ever been told your dog is “weird” or “overreacting,” this one will shift your lens completely—and help you show up in a way your dog can actually feel safe around.
I hope you enjoy this one.
Tracy xoxo
Next steps: 🐾👣
Join the Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework—our 12-month online coaching program that’s changing the game for reactive, anxious, and misunderstood dogs.
When you enroll, you’ll get:
Monthly live Zoom Q&A calls and trainings to guide you through the tough stuff
Access to a supportive private community of humans walking this same road
A Relationship-First Roadmap that helps you lead with calm confidence
Real coaching. Real connection. Real change—for you and your dog
Because your dog doesn’t need perfect.
They need you. Aligned, aware, and ready to lead with heart.
Come join us at 👉 beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶
Special thanks to Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover 🐾🐾
You’ve probably heard it before—“just toss some treats when your dog sees a trigger, to change their emotional response to the trigger."
And yes, that can work.
But there’s a small problem...
You’re not part of the solution.
In this episode, we’re unpacking the popular advice around food, fear, and emotional responses in dogs—especially when it comes to the why behind the behaviour.
Because here’s the truth: if you’re not part of the process, you’re missing out on how YOU can influence your dog’s behaviour in a meaningful way.
We’ll talk about:
Why “treat and retreat” might not be the whole picture
The difference between influencing vs. observing behaviour
How to build trust from the inside out—not from the sidelines
If your dog is still anxious, reactive, or unsure—despite all the food and effort—this one’s for you.
I hope you enjoy this one.
Tracy xoxo
Next steps: 🐾👣
Join the Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework, our signature 12-month online coaching program built for dog lovers just like you.
This is where everything changes.
Here’s what you’ll get inside:
Monthly Zoom Q&A calls and trainings where we tackle your real-life challenges
A private, supportive community of people walking the same path
Step-by-step lessons on trust, leadership, and relevance—not just rules and techniques
Coaching that grows you, not just your dog’s behaviour
Your relationship will bloom.
Everything gets better and easier when you understand how to be the person your dog needs you to be.
Join us at: 👉 beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Music Credit 🎶
Special thanks to Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover 🐾
In this episode, I’m joined by Paisley as we tackle real questions pulled straight from our Living Beyond Obedience community—aka questions you didn’t even know you asked, but probably needed to.
We cover everything from how to help a rescue dog who’s scared of strangers and medical routines, to introducing new dogs after a loss, to managing reactivity and overwhelm in anxious dogs. It's honest, thoughtful, and packed with relatable struggles and supportive solutions.
Whether you're living with a fearful pup, navigating meds, or just wondering why your dog can’t seem to settle—you’ll probably find yourself in one of these stories.
Hope you enjoy this one.
Tracy XOXO
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Next Steps 🐾👣
Want to build your dog’s confidence—and your own?
Come join us inside The Fearless Framework—a 12-month online course and community designed to help you and your dog move beyond fear and frustration using trust, leadership, and calm connection.
Learn the tools to support your dog through their fear cycle—no treats, tricks, or timelines. Just real relationship-first progress.
✨ Learn more and enroll here:
👉 beyond-obedience.thrivecart.com/fearless
Special thanks to musician Shawn Trotter for this episode’s music.
🎶 Visit shawntrotter.com for more.
Hey Dog Lover 🐾
Ever have one of those weeks where everything feels a little too much—and you’re still trying to be everything your animals need?
In this unscripted, from-the-heart episode, I’m showing up real and raw to talk about the emotional side of living with animals. It wasn’t the episode I planned, but it’s the one that needed to be shared.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like you’re failing at this whole “dog mom” thing… this one’s for you.
Hope you enjoy this one.
Tracy XOXO
Next Steps 🐾👣
Want to build your dog’s confidence—and your own?
Consider joining us inside The Fearless Framework—my 12-month online course and community designed to help you move through the fear cycle with trust, communication, and calm connection.
This isn’t about obedience—it’s about understanding, leadership, and becoming someone your dog can truly trust.
✨ Learn more and enroll here:
👉 beyond-obedience.thrivecart.com/fearless
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Special thanks to musician Shawn Trotter
🎶 Visit shawntrotter.com for more.
🐾 Hey Dog Lover,
Let’s be honest — most of us were taught to talk at our dogs before we ever learned how to listen to them.
In this second step of our Untrain Your Dog to Build a Better Bond series, we’re flipping the script.
This episode is all about the magic that happens when you get quiet. Like, really quiet.
No obedience cues. No “Sit!” or “Stay!” Just presence, awareness, and curiosity.
We’ll explore:
→ The Be Quiet Game: what happens when you stop talking and start observing
→ How to “Ask the Dog” without commands — using movement, intention, and gentle gestures
→ Why your energy, posture, and presence already speak volumes
→ And the first big step to learning how to talk dog… is learning how to be still
It’s all rooted in one of my favourite Nelson-isms:
"If you want to learn to talk to your dog... shut your mouth."
Hope you enjoy this one.
– Tracy xoxo
👣🐾 Next Steps:
Join the Untrain Your Dog Challenge inside the Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group.
See the pinned post for details on how you can win a 30-minute free coaching call with me.
Want to take your relationship a step further?
Join the Fearless Framework — where you learn how to control yourself and influence the dog, not control the dog. (~N. Hodges)
🎶 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover,🐾
What if the behaviours you’ve been trying so hard to train… aren’t actually what you want?
In this episode, we’re kicking off Untraining Week with a powerful mindset shift. We’re diving into the heart of what “training” really means—and why letting go of task-based obedience can open the door to deeper connection with your dog.
You’ll hear me unpack:
Why traditional obedience cues might be missing the mark
What “heel,” “sit,” or “stay” are really about (spoiler: it’s usually not about the command itself)
How to spot the difference between compliance and communication
What it means when your dog checks out on a walk—and why that’s a how interesting moment, not a mistake
Ways to reconnect by observing, listening, and letting your dog be a dog
Whether you have one dog or five, this episode will help you start noticing the subtle ways your dog is already showing you what they need—you just may need to untrain your ears (and ego) to hear it. 😉
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox
NEXT STEPS 👣🐾
Now is your time to join The Fearless Framework, my 12-month online program designed to help you break the fear cycle, build trust, and raise a confident dog—without obedience drills or treat-dependency.
👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🎶 Music credit: Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover 🐾
If you caught Part 1 of my conversation with Nelson Hodges, you already know the kind of deep, perspective-shifting wisdom he brings to the table.
In this second half of our talk, we go even deeper into the emotional landscape of dogs—and how our being matters so much more than our doing. We unpack the question at the heart of it all:
What is a dog, really?
Not just behaviorally—but emotionally, relationally, instinctually.
Together, we explore:
Why most trainers are missing the point
How your internal state shapes your dog’s world
What leadership looks like when it’s rooted in calm, connection, and relevance
And why understanding your dog on a feeling level changes everything
If you’ve ever felt like your dog is misunderstood by mainstream training advice, this conversation will feel like coming home. You’ll walk away seeing your dog—and yourself—through a new, compassionate lens. And probably saying “How interesting!” more than once. 😉
✨ Special note: If you sign up for Nelson’s monthly class subscription before the end of the year, you’ll receive one month FREE! His teachings are a gift, and now’s a great time to dive in.
To learn more or sign up:
🌐 www.CHRInstitute.com
📘 Follow Nelson on Facebook: Nelson Hodges
I hope you enjoy this one.
Tracy xoxox
NEXT STEPS 🐾👣
Ready to deepen your relationship with your dog?
Join me inside the Fearless Framework—an online program and community designed to help you build trust, confidence, and a more connected relationship with your dog. This isn’t about obedience. It’s about understanding.
👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless
And come hang out with us in the Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group! It's a free, safe, and encouraging space for curious dog lovers like you.
👉 Join the group here
Hey Dog Lover,🐾
This episode is one for the books. I got to sit down with my mentor and dear friend, Nelson Hodges, for a conversation that honestly felt like cracking open the soul of our work with dogs.
We explored one foundational (and often misunderstood) question:
👉 What is a dog?
…and why getting that right changes everything else.
This is part one of a two-part conversation, and believe me, you’ll want to listen with a pen in hand and your curiosity dialled all the way up.
Because Nelson doesn’t just talk about dogs… he helps you see them. Really see them.
In this episode, we dive into:
Dogs can smell your thoughts ( I know this one hit me hard!)
How a dog’s survival instincts shape their behaviour — and how our responses often miss the mark
What it actually means to “know” a dog on their terms, not ours
And so much more!
Expect to be challenged. Expect to be inspired. And most of all… expect to say “How interesting!” more than once. 😉
Hope you enjoy!
Tracy xoxox
🐾 Show Notes & Resources
To learn more about Nelson Hodges and his work, check out:
🌐 www.chrinstitute.com
Facebook: Canine Human Relationship Institute
Let’s Keep the Conversation Going!
We’d love to hear your takeaways from this episode — whether it’s an aha moment or a “how interesting!” shift in perspective.
Come share inside our Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group and let’s continue the conversation together. 🐕
🐾 Hey there Dog Lover,
We’re diving into Part 6 of the Peace in the Pack series — and today’s episode is all about a sneaky dynamic that shows up in a lot of multi-dog homes (especially when you’re adding new dogs into the mix):
Us vs. Them.
Dogs are deeply wired for social structure. In their world, there’s with us… and there’s not with us. And when we humans unknowingly reinforce that division — through the way we set up our homes, introduce new dogs, or even talk about “my dog vs. your dog” — it creates unnecessary conflict and tension in the pack.
In this episode, we’re unpacking:
You’ll walk away from this episode with a clearer picture of how to structure your environment and mindset to support pro-social, pack-centered living — without accidentally drawing invisible battle lines.
I hope you enjoy this one.
See you next week for Part 7.
Tracy
xoxo
🐾👣 Next Steps:
If you’re ready to go beyond obedience and start living with your dog intentionally, it’s time to join me in The Fearless Framework.
We’ll help you understand your dog — and yourself — in ways that lead to more confidence, connection, and peace in your home.
🐾 Join today: www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless
I can’t wait to start this journey with you.
Music Credit 🎶 Shawn Trotter @ shawntrotter.com
🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,
We're back with Part 5 of the Peace in the Pack series — and today, we're getting into one of those deceptively simple questions that opens the door to a whole lot of deeper conversations:
Should your dog be allowed on the furniture?
My answer? Yes.
…And also maybe no. 😉
This episode isn’t about setting rules — it’s about understanding what levels mean to dogs. From who gets the couch to who sleeps on the bed, your dogs are constantly making choices based on strategy, safety, and social standing.
In this episode, we dig into:
Plus, I’ll share a behind-the-scenes look at Irie and the occasional “toothy whispers” she shares with the rest of the pack — and what that taught me about space, status, and fairness.
I hope you enjoy this one.
See you next week for Part 6.
Tracy
xoxo
👉 Next Steps:
If you really want to understand your dog — and decode the way they move through the world — it starts with learning how to read canine conversations.
That’s exactly what we do inside The Fearless Framework — together.
🎉 Join today: www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless
I can’t wait to start this journey with you.
Music Credit 🎶 Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com
🐾 Hey there, Dog Lover,
We’re continuing our Peace in the Pack series this week with a topic that hits close to home for so many multi-dog households: possession and resource conflict.
Ever said, “Ugh, my dog is so jealous!” when one dog pushes the other away for attention?
Yeah. Let’s talk about that.
In this episode, I’m diving into:
I’ll also share one of the biggest lightbulb moments I had comparing my house pack to my kennel pack — and what it taught me about my own role in the tension I was seeing.
If you've ever dealt with growling over toys, snippy moments between dogs, or tension when one dog comes in for love, this episode is for you.
I hope you enjoy this one.
See you in the next episode.
Tracy
xoxo
👣🐾Next Steps:
If you really want to understand dog behaviour, canine conversations, and how to create clarity and peace in your pack, you need to be inside The Fearless Framework.
This is where we walk the walk.
Together.
With heart, intention, and a healthy dose of dog nerdiness. 🐾
🎉 Join today: www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless
I can’t wait to start this journey with you.
Music credit: 🎶. Shawn Trotter www.shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover,
You’ve probably heard it before — or maybe even said it yourself:
“He’s just social!”
“She’s friendly!”
“They love other dogs!”
But here’s the thing: “social” isn’t always what you think it is.
And in a multi-dog home, it might actually be the source of your tension.
In this episode, we’re digging into the four types of canine sociality — asocial, antisocial, social, and pro-social — and how this spectrum plays out in real-life relationships between your dogs (and between you and your dogs, too).
We’ll talk about:
Why “friendly” often means boundaryless
Why some dogs bulldoze others while others withdraw
How you might be acting social instead of pro-social with your own dog
And what a truly pro-social pack actually looks like
This episode might change the way you see your dogs — and your role as a leader — for good.
Hope you enjoy this one. See you in the next episode!
Tracy xoxoxo
Next Steps:👣🐾
If this episode hit home — if you found yourself thinking “Oh no… my dog might not be pro-social” or “I’ve been labeling my dog ‘friendly’ when really… they’re just kind of rude,” — then here’s the truth:
You don’t just need more training tools. You need a new lens.
And that’s exactly what the Fearless Framework is here to give you.
It’s not a course about fixing your dog — it’s a 12-month coaching experience designed to help you:
Build trust-driven leadership that actually works in a multi-dog home
Understand your dogs at a deeper level — from personality to behavior to pack dynamics
Stop second-guessing yourself and start leading with calm, grounded confidence
Create a peaceful, connected life with your dogs — not just a well-managed one
Because you and your dogs deserve more than obedience.
You deserve understanding, connection, and confidence.
You deserve to live beyond obedience.
💻 Join me inside the Fearless Framework at beyondobedience.ca/fearless
Let’s build something beautiful together.
Hey Dog Lover,🐾
The truth is, a peaceful pack isn’t built by making your dogs follow the same training, the same rules, or the same boundaries.
Because every dog brings their own unique Dogonality™ to the table.
It’s easy to say “rules, boundaries, and expectations,”… but what we sometimes miss is that those rules might need to look different depending on the dog in front of us. And that’s not just okay — it’s essential.
In this episode, we’re talking about how to honour the individual dog — their play style, their processing style, their personality — while still guiding the whole crew under the shared umbrella of a pro-social pack.
This is where leadership meets relationship.
And it changes everything.
Hope you enjoy this one. See you in the next episode!
Tracy xoxoxo
Next Steps:👣🐾
🐾 Haven’t taken the Doggonality Quiz yet? Take it here — it’s the perfect first step toward clarity.
🧭 Ready to take this thing to the next level?
Want to deepen your leadership and confidence?
Join the Fearless Framework at beyondobedience.ca/fearless
🎶 Music by Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover,
We’re kicking off a brand-new podcast series today called Peace in the Pack — and if you’ve ever found yourself saying, “Ugh, this dog is driving me nuts,” then this one’s for you.
In today’s episode, I’m sharing a perspective shift that might just blow your mind (in the gentlest, most supportive way possible, of course 😉).
What if the dog that looks like the “problem child” — the one barking, pacing, reacting — isn’t actually the root of the issue? What if they’re just the messenger?
I’ll tell you the story of Jamie, her anxious dog Daisy, and her sweet new rescue Homer — and how what looked like a simple case of “fix Daisy” turned out to be a much deeper pack dynamic that was quietly playing out under the surface.
We’ll talk about:
How canine social pressure flies under the radar
What subtle behaviors to watch for (even from the “chill” dog)
Why reactivity is often a protest, not a personality
And how leadership means observing the whole pack, not just the loudest member
Because peace in your home starts with seeing what’s actually going on — not just what’s barking the loudest.
Hope you enjoy this one — see you in the next one! 🐾
NEXT STEPS🐾👣
If you’re ready to stop controlling your dog and instead start building real harmony and partnership with them, then you are ready for The Fearless Framework Online Program and Community
🦴 Use coupon code BOOTCAMP to save big on The Fearless Framework — and get bonus private coaching calls during our Bootcamp Special, on now through October 19th!
👉 beyondobedience.ca/special
Special music credit to Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover 🐾
It’s the Monday after Bootcamp… and Thanksgiving here in Canada. 🇨🇦
So I wanted to offer something simple, grounding, and honestly—really powerful.
Because training probably takes up, what? Maybe 5–10% of your day tops?
So what’s happening in the other 95%?
That’s where your dog is learning the most about who you are—
and where your bond is really being built.
In this episode, I’ll walk you through 3 simple things you can do today (no training required!) to strengthen connection, deepen trust, and help your dog feel safe in your everyday life.
🔹 Be Quiet
If you want to talk to your dog... shut your mouth. (Yep—Nelson said it first. 😉)
We spend so much time narrating, cueing, correcting—
that we forget to actually listen.
Try this: spend 5–15 minutes moving through your world with your dog in silence.
Observe. Notice. Let the quiet speak.
Because the quiet moments are where the real communication happens.
🔹 Notice How You Move Through Space
Your presence affects your dog—every time you move, shift, or reach.
Leadership starts with noticing, not controlling.
So today, just pay attention:
How does your dog respond when you walk into a room or step closer?
No fixing. No labeling. Just awareness.
🔹 Be Curious About What Matters to Your Dog
If your dog stops to explore something—go see what it is.
Not to redirect. Not to control. Just to witness it with them.
That tiny act of curiosity says, “What matters to you, matters to me.”
And that’s where mutual relevance—and trust—grow.
You don’t need to “do” more training to build a better bond.
You need:
✨ More silence
✨ More noticing
✨ More genuine curiosity
When you change how you show up in the everyday moments, your dog will feel it—
and your relationship will grow stronger.
So… which one can you try today?
Hope you enjoy this one!
Tracy xoxox
NEXT STEPS 👣🐾
🎉 Missed Bootcamp?
You can still catch the replays and learn what calm, confident leadership really looks like to your dog.
🦴 Watch or join at: Calm Down, Dog Bootcamp
👥 Join our free community!
Come hang out with us inside Living Beyond Obedience, my private Facebook group where we talk about leadership, trust, and what it really means to be your dog’s safe place.
👉 www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
🎵 Podcast music by Shawn Trotter → shawntrotter.com
Dear Dog Lover 🐾
Someone once asked me what good training looks like.
And I said — it looks like nothing at all.
Because when it’s good — when the relationship is solid — you don’t have to do much.
It’s quiet. It’s steady. It’s felt.
That’s not control.
That’s leadership.
In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on a word that’s tossed around a lot in the dog world — leadership — and looking at what it actually means to your dog.
Because here’s the thing…
Leadership doesn’t look like “being in charge.”
It looks like awareness.
It looks like calm in uncertainty.
It looks like trust you can feel.
You’ll hear stories about Gunther (of course 😉) and how real leadership isn’t loud, reactive, or over-commanding — it’s quiet consistency. It’s being the one who notices, who moves first, who says with energy alone, “I’ve got this. You don’t have to worry.”
“You don’t have to be louder than your dog.
You just have to be calmer than their fear.”
This episode is for you if:
You’ve been trying to lead but it feels like micromanaging
You’ve ever confused obedience with influence
You’re ready to show up in a way your dog actually feels safe following
Because leadership isn’t positional — it’s relational.
You don’t earn it through control.
You earn it through clarity, consistency, and calm.
Hope you enjoy!
Please be sure to share! Rate! and Comment!
Tracy xoxox
NEXT STEPS 👣🐾
🎉 If you’ve been part of the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp this week — this is the work.
You’re already practicing what leadership looks and feels like to your dog.
And if you’re just tuning in, it’s not too late.
You can still catch the replays, join the conversations, and start showing up in a way your dog truly feels.
🦴 Save your spot at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp
🎵 Podcast music by Shawn Trotter → shawntrotter.com
Dear Dog Lover 🐾
You’ve probably heard it before — “Your dog’s behavior problems are rooted in fear.”
And while that might be true, fear itself isn’t the problem.
Fear is normal. It’s necessary. It’s survival.
In this episode, we unpack what really happens when your dog feels fear — and how your response to it can either build trust or break connection.
You’ll hear stories about Gunther, my young pup, and how sitting quietly in a field turned fear into calm… and how standing tall during a siren helped him regulate through trust instead of redirection.
Because here’s the truth:
✨ Fear doesn’t need to be fixed. It needs to be felt, seen, and walked through — together.
If we rush to correct or distract, we risk missing the very thing our dogs need most: a partner in survival.
This episode is for you if:
You’ve ever tried to “train away” your dog’s fear
You’re curious about what real emotional safety looks like
You want to learn how to lead with calm confidence (instead of commands)
Hope you enjoy! Be sure to share, rate or comment!
Tracy xoxox
NEXT STEPS 👣🐾
🎉 Join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp — happening October 7–9!
Learn the skills to help your dog process fear, build confidence, and feel safe again — without obedience drills or overwhelm.
🦴 Save your seat here: beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp
🎵 Podcast music by Shawn Trotter → shawntrotter.com
Hey Dog Lover 🐾
In this special behind-the-scenes episode, you’ll be listening in on a powerful coaching moment from inside The Fearless Framework community.
This time, I’m working with Candice and her dog, Arlo, as we do a real-time video analysis of Arlo’s behaviour. It’s a super cool conversation where we get to slow things down, look closely at what’s really going on, and talk through what Candice can do next to help Arlo feel more confident and supported.
She walks away with tactical steps—and you might, too.
Hope you enjoy!
Please be sure to Follow, Share and/ or Leave a Review!
Tracy xoxo
NEXT STEPS 👣🐾
🎉 Want your own chance to get coaching like this—for free?
It’s not too late to join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp, happening live September 7th–9th.
We’ll dive deep into what actually helps fearful and reactive dogs feel safe—and on Day 3, I’ll be doing live coaching, just like this.
🦴 Save your seat at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp
Podcast music provided by shawntrotter.com