Every parent wants to be “fair,” but what if treating your kids the same is actually damaging communication, creating unnecessary conflict, and shutting down connection? In this episode, we break down the four core personality types we’ve seen across 30+ years of parenting, how they show up in your home, and the exact communication shifts that instantly change the atmosphere between you, your spouse, and your kids.Whether you’re raising a strong-willed/driven child, a social connector, a steady processor, or a deep thinker, this episode will help you understand your child’s wiring so you can communicate with clarity, reduce frustration, and build real connection.We share the mistakes we made, what we wish we knew years earlier, and the parenting frameworks that transformed our home.In this episode, we cover:• Why “treating kids equally” often backfires• The 4 personality styles every child falls into• How your communication style may be hurting connection• What driven/strong-willed kids actually need from you• Why social kids struggle with follow-through• How steady, sensitive kids process tension• How deep thinkers respond to rules, discipline, and conflict• The biggest parenting blind spot we didn’t see until adulthood• How to repair connection at ANY age (8, 18, 28, even 58)Grab Lance's Book "The Legacy Navigator" Here: https://a.co/d/dNLqB4MSteal Lance & Allison's discussion guide for getting on the same page every month: thelancewelch.com/firstfriday