Happy New Years from Blended Kingdom Families! In this New Year reflection episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale invite listeners to pause, reflect, and trust God’s timing after a year that may not have gone as planned. They talk openly about unmet expectations, waiting seasons, disappointment, and the human tendency to control outcomes instead of surrendering them to God. Through Scripture, personal testimony, and encouragement, Scott and Vanessa...

In this special Christmas episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and how families can experience joy and hope even during stressful seasons of life. They discuss how blended family dynamics, busy schedules, grief, and unresolved relationships can make the holidays challenging, yet remind listeners that the birth of Jesus brings good news of great joy for all people. Using scripture from Luke 2 and Romans 15, Scott...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa dive into one of the most requested and challenging topics in blended families: setting boundaries with extended family, adult children, and in laws, especially during the holiday season. Using real life coaching examples and personal stories, they explain why boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics, how boundaries without consequences lose their power, and why couples must first get on the same page befor...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk honestly about the gift of parenthood, the challenges and joys of raising children, and the powerful ways parenting reflects the heart of God and how He loves and leads us. They discuss how every stage of parenting brings lessons, growth, and opportunities to surrender control to the Lord. From toddlerhood to the teenage years to adult children, Scott and Vanessa unpack the beauty, struggle, refinement,...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco explain the clear differences between coaching and therapy and why blended families often need both at different stages of their journey. They discuss what coaching can accomplish, what therapy is required for, and why understanding the distinction is essential for couples, step-parents, and co-parents. Vanessa and Dan share real experiences from working with families who face step-parenting tensio...

In this Thanksgiving week episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale shares an encouraging message on the power of gratitude during the holiday season, especially important for blended families navigating holiday transitions, co-parenting challenges, grief, or unmet expectations. Through Scripture, practical examples, and personal reflection, Vanessa explains how gratitude shifts our perspective, softens our hearts, strengthens relationships, and invites the peace of ...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco discuss one of the most convicting topics for Christian parents, what happens when we unintentionally place our children above God. Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they explore how parents can idolize their kids through sports, academics, or even family schedules, and how this shift can slowly pull families away from faith and obedience to God. You will hear practical advice on how...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale explore what true leadership looks like, inside and outside your home. They discuss how godly leadership begins with integrity, humility, and consistency, and how being a servant leader means prioritizing the growth and well-being of others. From managing your home with grace to leading your family through example, this episode will inspire you to lead like Christ, with love, strength, and purpose. W...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle one of the most common struggles couples face: parenting differences. They discuss how to parent as a united team even when you disagree on discipline, routines, or expectations. With wisdom from counseling and coaching blended families, they share practical ways to find alignment, communicate effectively, and build a marriage rooted in God’s truth and grace. Learn how to effectively handle disagreements about d...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale discuss the sacred calling of raising godly sons in today’s world. They discuss the biblical role of fathers and mothers, including single moms, in shaping boys into godly men of strength, humility, and integrity. Discover how to instill discipline, accountability, and a love for God’s Word while creating a home that models truth and faith. Whether you’re a dad striving to lead your family well or a mom guid...

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa share biblical and practical ways husbands and wives can support one another emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Learn how to listen without judgment, show appreciation, prioritize quality time, and build deeper intimacy God’s way. Whether you’re newly married or blending a family, this episode will help you strengthen your relationship, honor your spouse, and create a marriage rooted in faith and love. We pray...

Is your marriage, family, or faith taking a back seat to your career or busy schedule? In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott & Vanessa Martindale share practical, faith-filled strategies to create healthy work-life balance. Discover how to: Set boundaries between work and family life Prioritize your spouse and children without guilt Say “no” to good things so you can say “yes” to God’s best Create intentional time for marriage, family, and...

The relationship between a stepparent and their stepchildren can be complicated and complex because there are so many factors at play. Sometimes, those dynamics can delay or derail step-parent/stepchild bonding. In this episode, How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Scott and Vanessa talk about the role step parents play in creating a solid bond with their stepchild; they also offer suggestions for nurturing and growing those relationships. We pray this podcast ...

As we continue to relive our top episodes of all time, this week we discuss co-parenting in episode titled, Parenting and Co-Parenting: Co-Parenting is a Team Sport. As co-parents, it is possible to experience peace and unity as we work together for the well-being of our children. This podcast is for you if you are seeking to improve your co-parenting relationship or trying to establish a healthy dynamic with your ex-spouse. This month's podcast series focuses on co-parenting and how the rela...

How do you and your blended family put the 'fun' in dysfunction? We know that blending can be difficult, but you and your family can find ways to overcome the trials of transitioning into blended family life. This podcast is for you if you are seeking strategies for finding fun in seasons of dysfunction or you want to overcome expectations for blending. This week's episode is all about expectations and dysfunction in blended families. We share ideas for fun activities to do as a family ...

In this week’s episode, Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: What is Your Parenting Perspective?, we discuss the effects that our attitudes have on the way we parent and co-parent, and the influence of comparison in our relationships with those around us. We will also share some practical strategies for overcoming a negative attitude and overcoming a spirit of comparison. We pray that this podcast blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Conn...

In this week’s episode we revisit an incredible episode full of Godly wisdom for your blended family; Blended & Redeemed: Your Home is Not Broken. In this episode we discuss the term “broken home” and the importance of removing the phrase from our vocabulary. When our families are built on the foundation of Jesus Christ, they cannot be broken. Whatever is in your past does not hinder you from experiencing the blessings that God has in store for your blended family. Whether you are ...

Do your children spell love the same way you do? For most kids, LOVE = T-I-M-E. In this episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast we revisit a top series - Blending Your Bunch, and unpack the powerful connection between time and love in parenting and step-parenting. Whether you’re looking for practical ways to spend more intentional time with your kids, or you’re a stepparent seeking strategies to strengthen bonds with your stepchildren, this conversation is for ...

Marriage works best when our priorities are in the right order: God first, spouse second, children third; but living that out isn’t always easy, especially in a blended family. In this first episode of our 4-part series from our book, Blended & Redeemed, Scott and Vanessa share biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you build (or rebuild) a God-centered marriage that thrives. Whether you’re: Engaged or newly married and ready to start strong Remarried and determined to do things God’...

Are you unknowingly living by a promise you made to protect yourself from past pain? In this powerful episode from our Blended & Redeemed book teaching series, Scott and Vanessa Martindale unpack the destructive impact of inner vows, those silent promises we make to ourselves that shape our actions, relationships, and faith. You'll learn: What inner vows are and how they form How they can go unnoticed for years Real-life examples of inner vows in marriage and family How to surrende...