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Brandon The Dom
Brandon The Dom
55 episodes
10 hours ago
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.
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Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.
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Episodes (20/55)
Brandon The Dom
Is a Free Use Kink Really Just Unlimited Sex?

Curious about free use kink? Discover what it is, how it works, why people enjoy it, and the rules of consent that make it both thrilling and safe. Learn how to explore free use kink responsibly in this guide.

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:09) - What is a Free Use Kink
  • (03:49) - Types of Free Use
  • (04:41) - Why Do People Enjoy Free Use?
  • (06:28) - How to Engage in Free Use
  • (09:58) - Free Use Scenarios to Try

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Free Use Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/free-use-kink
📖 Limits & Boundaries: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Public Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex
📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage

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10 hours ago
12 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Types of Doms: Which One Are You Meant to Be?

Curious about which Dom you are—or could become? Explore the different types of Doms in BDSM, from classic Masters to sensual Pleasure Doms, and learn how to find or craft a persona that fits your true desires.

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:15) - What is a Dom?
  • (02:36) - Types of Doms
  • (08:45) - How to Create Your Own Dominant Persona
  • (11:59) - Step 1: Understand Yourself
  • (12:22) - Understanding Your Desires
  • (15:56) - Understanding Your Personality
  • (17:50) - Understanding Your Values
  • (18:58) - Step 2: Decide What You Do
  • (19:15) - Choosing Activities
  • (20:23) - Choosing the Energy in Your Behavior
  • (21:39) - Choosing Your Tools & Toys
  • (23:21) - Step 3: Craft How You Look
  • (23:57) - Craft Your Wardrobe
  • (24:49) - Craft Your Environment

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Types of Doms Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/types-of-doms
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom
📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 Light Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage
📖 Orgasm Control: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control

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10 hours ago
26 minutes

Brandon The Dom
How to Set Boundaries and Limits in BDSM

What’s the difference between BDSM limits and boundaries—and why do they matter so much? Learn how to confidently set, communicate, and honor your BDSM limits and boundaries to create safer, hotter, and more connected power exchange dynamics.

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/sex-menu-template
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:16) - BDSM Limits vs. Boundaries
  • (02:41) - Why Have Limits and Boundaries in BDSM?
  • (05:07) - How to Discover Your BDSM Limits
  • (07:46) - How to Set Boundaries
  • (10:15) - Set Boundaries for What You Can Control

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Limits Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-limits
📖 Difficult Conversations: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Ethical Non-monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy

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10 hours ago
14 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Praise Kink: The Deeper Intimate Power Play You’re Not Talking About

What if praise could unravel you more than pain?  In this video, we explore the psychology behind the praise kink and how affirmation play can deepen intimacy in your D/s relationships. Discover the emotional intelligence involved in this BDSM dynamic and how it contributes to personal growth and healthy relationships.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:10) - What is a Praise Kink?
  • (01:13) - Praise Kink vs. Words of Affirmation
  • (02:15) - Why People Might Have a Praise Kink
  • (05:12) - Risks of a Praise Kink
  • (06:26) - Praise vs. Intimacy-Deepening Praise
  • (12:01) - How to Stop Seeking External Validation

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Praise Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/praise-kink
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink

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10 hours ago
16 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Why BDSM Play Is More Than Just Kinky Fun

What if BDSM play is more than just kink? Explore how BDSM play can become a powerful tool for psychological growth, shadow integration, and deeper self-awareness through role play.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:14) - What is BDSM Play?
  • (01:09) - Play as Cognitive Development
  • (03:27) - Play as Integrating the Shadow
  • (05:45) - Why Use BDSM Play to Explore Your Shadow
  • (08:50) - How to Engage in BDSM Play

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 BDSM Play Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-play
📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
📖 Pleasure Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Traits of a good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 Dominant Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset

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10 hours ago
15 minutes

Brandon The Dom
13 Ways to Engage in Public Play & Sex

Curious how to explore your kinks in public without getting caught? This guide to public play and public sex shows you how to stay discreet, ethical, and wildly turned on—anywhere.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:12) - What is Public Play?
  • (01:20) - Why do people enjoy orgasm control?
  • (03:21) - 16 Ways to Practice Orgasm Control
  • (08:41) - Important considerations for orgasm control

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Public Play Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/public-sex
📖 Bondage: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage
📖 Service Submission: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub
📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
📖 Degradation: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Munches: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-munch

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1 month ago
12 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Light Bondage for Beginners (Without Learning Rope!)

Curious about bondage but not ready for rope? Discover light bondage for beginners—safe, sexy ways to restrain your partner without needing knots. Learn fun, easy techniques using everyday items and build trust and intimacy in your BDSM play.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:18) - What is Bondage?
  • (02:38) - Why Do People Enjoy Bondage?
  • (04:35) - Risks & Safety
  • (08:14) - Ways to Perform Bondage
  • (09:53) - Types of Light Bondage for Beginners

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Bondage Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/light-bondage
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling

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1 month ago
19 minutes

Brandon The Dom
How To Train a Service Sub in BDSM

What if the most powerful kind of submission didn’t involve ropes, pain, or punishment—but quiet devotion? This deep dive into the world of the service sub explores the psychology, practices, and emotional intimacy behind acts of service in Dom/sub dynamics. Discover how small tasks become sacred rituals and why this underrated role holds transformative potential for both Dominants and submissives.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:27) - What is a Service Sub?
  • (02:30) - Why Might Someone Enjoy Being a Service Sub?
  • (05:26) - Why Might Someone Enjoy Being Served?
  • (07:12) - Creating Tasks for Service Subs
  • (10:52) - Addressing the Service Submissive’s Needs
  • (13:27) - Training a Service Sub
  • (14:44) - Correcting Mistakes
  • (15:58) - Aftercare for Service Submission
  • (16:48) - Principles for Being a Service Sub

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Service Sub Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub
📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
📖 Bratty Subs: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 Pleasure Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom
📖 Sex Homework: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-homework
📖 Punishments: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments

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1 month ago
21 minutes

Brandon The Dom
How to Have Difficult Conversations with Your Partner

Need to have a talk with a partner? This guide explores the art of navigating difficult conversations, with proven tools for improving communication skills, and creating deeper connections—whether in serious or casual relationships.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Dom Course: https://www.brandonthedom.com/developing-dominance
👉 D/s Dating: https://www.brandonthedom.com/dom-sub-dating
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:13) - Why are difficult conversations so hard?
  • (02:44) - How to Have Difficult Conversations
  • (03:36) - Step One: Prepare Yourself
  • (05:50) - Step Two: Setting the Stage
  • (11:23) - Step Three: Create a Container
  • (16:36) - Step Four: Having the Conversation
  • (24:16) - Bonus: Difficult Conversations in Situationships

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Conversation Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/difficult-conversations
📖 Ethical Non-Monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy
📖 Situationships: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/situationship
📖 Building Trust: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust

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1 month ago
27 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Degradation Kink: A Misunderstood Dark Art in BDSM

Do you actually want a Dom, a Top, or just rough sex? Many people use the word "Dominant" without defining their desires, leading to frustration and disappointment. Learn the differences between rough sex, kinky play with a skilled Top, and power exchange with a Dom—helping you clarify what you want and communicate it effectively.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:23) - What is Degradation
  • (01:40) - Degradation vs Humiliation vs Objectification
  • (03:53) - Why Might a Submissive Want to Engage in These Types of Play?
  • (06:46) - Why Might a Dom Want to Engage in These Types of Play?
  • (11:52) - Those Using Degradation to Cause Harm
  • (15:44) - How to Engage in Degradation
  • (17:49) - Ways to Engage in Degradation Play

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Degradation Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/degradation-kink
📖 Sexual Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 Primal Play: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
📖 Face Fucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking
📖 Dom Mindset: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset

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1 month ago
23 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Master the Dominant Mindset: 3 Keys to Authentic Power in the Bedroom

Want to step into a truly dominant mindset without feeling like you're just playing a role? Discover how embracing your authentic desires, removing shame, and learning to take control will transform your confidence and give your submissive exactly what she craves.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:16) - Three Keys
  • (01:01) - Key 1: Identifying Your Desires
  • (07:57) - Key 2: Removing Shame
  • (11:29) - Key 3: Ask For Your Desires
  • (15:15) - Learning to Take
  • (18:17) - Learning to Accept
  • (21:02) - Learning to Serve
  • (24:17) - Learning to Allow

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Dom Mindset Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-mindset
📖 Sexual Shame: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/shame
📖 Traits of a Good Dom: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
📖 Brat Tamer: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex

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1 month ago
27 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Primal Play: Learn to Have Sex Like an Animal

Ever felt the urge to growl, bite, or pin your partner down in a wild, uninhibited frenzy? Primal play is a raw and instinctual form of BDSM that strips away rules and protocol, letting your animalistic desires take over. Whether you're into rough sex, consensual non-consent (CNC), wrestling for dominance, or simply craving deep, carnal connection—this guide explores everything you need to unleash your wild side.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:28) - What is Primal Play?
  • (01:17) - Primal Play vs Pet Play vs Furries
  • (02:45) - Primal vs Rough Sex vs CNC
  • (04:47) - Primal Play vs Dominance and Submission
  • (05:46) - Primal Play vs Tantra
  • (06:29) - Psychology of Primal Play
  • (10:48) - Risks of Primal Play
  • (12:14) - Ways to engage in Primal Play

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Primal Play Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/primal-play
👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Sex Menu is the Best Communication Tool for Sex: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting
📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling
📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling
📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking
📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping
📖 Face Fucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking

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1 month ago
18 minutes

Brandon The Dom
16 Ways to Practice Orgasm Control

Curious about orgasm control? This video goes beyond a simple edging technique, exploring how dominance and submission can be heightened with techniques like forced orgasms and orgasm denial. Learn how to intensify pleasure with these bdsm practices.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
📩 Pleasure Maximization Scene Download: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/example-bdsm-scene
🔥 Orgasm Control Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/orgasm-control
📖 Subspace: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace
📖 Pleasure Doms: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/pleasure-dom
📖 Ethical Non Monogamy: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/ethical-non-monogamy

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1 month ago
12 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Do You Want a Dom, a Top, or Just Some Rough Sex?

Do you actually want a Dom, a Top, or just rough sex? Many people use the word "Dominant" without defining their desires, leading to frustration and disappointment. Learn the differences between rough sex, kinky play with a skilled Top, and power exchange with a Dom—helping you clarify what you want and communicate it effectively.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:23) - Common Mistake
  • (02:09) - Difference between Dom, Top, and rough sex
  • (02:17) - How to Be a Trustworthy Dom
  • (04:25) - Wanting Rough Sex
  • (05:04) - Wanting a Top
  • (06:00) - Wanting a Dom
  • (07:35) - What do you actually want?

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-vs-top-vs-rough-sex
📖 Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex
📖 Biting: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/biting
📖 Manhandling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/manhandling
📖 Hair Pulling: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/hair-pulling
📖 Choking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/choking
📖 Spanking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking
📖 Face Slapping: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-slapping
📖 Face Fucking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking

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2 months ago
10 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Secrets to Building Trust in D/s (And Any Relationship)!

Explore the two sides of trust in Dom/Sub dynamics. Understand how to be trustworthy and how to trust your partner, creating a fulfilling and secure D/s relationship.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:01) - What is trust?
  • (01:38) - Why Is Trust Important in D/s Relationships?
  • (02:17) - How to Be a Trustworthy Dom
  • (08:40) - How to Be a Trustworthy Submissive
  • (13:54) - How to Be Trusting
  • (18:22) - How to Start Trusting as a Submissive
  • (20:53) - How to Start Trusting as a Dom

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Trust Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/building-trust
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Sexual Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 10 Hidden Benefits of a Dom Sub Relationship (Beyond Just Hot Sex): https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dom-sub-relationship
📖 Your Greatest Fear In A Relationship: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/relationship-fear

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2 months ago
23 minutes

Brandon The Dom
How to Find a Good Sub (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)

Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including  @Andy_Wells , Mario, and myself, for Doms focusing on the search for a compatible sub. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:
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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ How to Find a Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/g_1Z1fivEi8
▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw
▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8

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2 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes

Brandon The Dom
5 Principles for BDSM Rewards for Submissives

Has your submissive been a good girl? Need a way to encourage and appreciate her for her efforts? Learn about BDSM rewards for submissives including the 5 principles of rewards, the different systems and levels of rewards, and different types of rewards with examples.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:17) - What are BDSM Rewards?
  • (01:33) - Why reward a submissive?
  • (03:06) - Principle 1: Internal vs. External Motivation
  • (05:11) - Principle 2: The Reward Must Be Something They Want
  • (06:06) - Principle 3: The Reward Must Be Given Enthusiastically
  • (06:55) - Principle 4: Let Your Submissive Know the Rewards in Advance
  • (07:20) - Principle 5: Explain Why They Are Being Rewarded
  • (08:08) - Timing of Rewards
  • (11:32) - Levels of Rewards
  • (13:51) - Examples of Rewards

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
📩 81 Ways to Punish Your Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/bdsm-punishment-ideas
🔥 Reward Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-rewards
📖 Punishment Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 Service Submission: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/service-sub

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2 months ago
19 minutes

Brandon The Dom
7 Principles for BDSM Punishments for Submissives

When a submissive breaks a rule, what is the best course of action? This video explores  BDSM punishments for submissives including the 7 principles of punishments, the different levels of punishment and how to choose the correct one, and different types of punishments with examples.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:17) - What are BDSM Punishments?
  • (01:06) - Why Punish a Submissive?
  • (02:16) - Principle 1: Check Yourself First
  • (03:33) - Principle 2: The Punishment Should Match the Crime
  • (04:05) - Principle 3: Let Your Submissive Know the Punishments in Advance
  • (04:58) - Principle 4: Be Prompt in Administering Punishments
  • (05:56) - Principle 5: Be Firm Yet Understanding
  • (06:37) - Principle 6: Explain Why They Are Being Punished
  • (07:41) - Principle 7: Punish from a Place of Love
  • (08:26) - Levels of Punishment
  • (12:43) - Types of Punishments

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
📩 81 Ways to Punish Your Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/resources/bdsm-punishment-ideas
🔥 Punishment Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/bdsm-punishments
📖 Brat Taming: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/brat-tamer
📖 Spanking Guide: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/spanking

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3 months ago
16 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Why Cockwarming Might Be Your New Favorite Thing!

Explore the world of BDSM and discover how subtle acts can be incredibly fulfilling. This video delves into the concept of cockwarming, emphasizing that not every act needs to be high dominance or aggressive. Learn how to incorporate this simple act into your dynamic.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:15) - What is cockwarming?
  • (01:10) - Why do people enjoy cockwarming?
  • (03:03) - How to engage in cockwarming
  • (04:19) - Tips & techniques for cockwarming

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
🔥 Cockwarming Article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/cockwarming
▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex
▶️ Face f*cking: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/face-fucking

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3 months ago
8 minutes

Brandon The Dom
How to Find a Good Dom (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms)

Advice from 3 experienced Doms, including  @Andy_Wells, Mario, and myself, for submissives focusing on the search for a compatible Dom. Learn key elements of dominance and submission, ensuring a safe and fulfilling dynamic.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching
👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/
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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:41) - Green flags in Doms
  • (04:21) - Starting slow
  • (08:03) - Discussing play beforehand
  • (16:14) - Meeting the submissive at their level
  • (22:19) - Having humility as a Dom
  • (33:03) - Understanding the intention behind desires
  • (43:20) - Feeling safe with the Dom
  • (47:58) - Asserting yourself as a submissive
  • (52:30) - Handling trauma triggers
  • (56:22) - Separating kink and sex
  • (01:05:38) - Aftercare
  • (01:10:07) - The Overconfident Dom

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FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ
▶️ Consent, Trauma, & Healing in BDSM: https://youtu.be/h4plNnW82vw
▶️ What Happens When Kindness Meets Power? (Advice from a Pro Domme): https://youtu.be/5x-7xxPipf8

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3 months ago
1 hour 21 minutes

Brandon The Dom
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.