A year and a half ago, I had a thought to start a podcast about heartbreak. Days later, that thought became an actual reality... minus all the law of attraction/high vibe/manifesting bullshit.
In this final episode of Brokenhearted, I reflect on what heartbreak really means, how I'll navigate heartbreak moving on and the #1 reason why I decided to call time on this podcast.
I'm so grateful to every person I had a conversation with in producing Brokenhearted. I'm even more grateful to the legion of you who tuned in every week to face your own heartbreak.
I may be back with something to say. Till then, reclaim yourself, feel your feelings, wash your hands and wear a bloody mask.
Oh yeah - don't be racist. Don't be a racist. Don't like being called racist? Then don't be racist.
Mark LeBusque believes that whilst every human is unique, every team is unique and every organization is unique, we have an overarching commonality at each of these levels. Twenty-five years of career and fifty plus years of life experience has resulted in a whole range of stories and learnings that he loves to share with other humans.
In this next-to-last episode of Brokenhearted, Mark & I break down relationships at work - specifically how a system exists to monitor and control how human beings connect to other human beings in a corporate environment and why 'no bonking' policies don't always work.
Learn more about Mark's work here. Connect with Mark on LinkedIn.
James-Olivia Chu Hillman (they/them) facilitates and mediates uncomfortable, necessary, life-changing conversations with people who want more joy and connection and less suffering in their most important relationships—with themselves, their loved ones, their organizations, and the world.
In this episode, James-Olivia breaks down what "right relationship" means. As someone who's ever-evolving, learning and growing, I found this conversation to be incredibly fascinating. Our world is more divisive than ever; this conversation is a reminder that individualism is bollocks since we're all connected to one another.
Learn more about James-Olivia's work here. Follow them on Instagram: @inquisitive_human
Caelin Aerin is a writer, editor, coach and non-binary ex-copywriter with story in their blood & astrological chart. Caelin knows that writing isn't easy for everyone and when your basic necessities of life depend on it, it's that much harder to do.
In this episode, Caelin breaks down why (air quotes) finding your voice can be difficult if you're a marginalized member of society, why most bro/boss babe tactics don't work and how owning your own business is so much more than getting a website up or making a logo.
Learn more about Caelin's work here.
The final episodes of Brokenhearted start on Monday, December 7!
Rosa Moniz has been single for more than a decade. Does that mean she's not a great catch? Categorically not. She's decided to embrace being single to the fullest by creating an amazing life for herself.
In this episode, Rosa & I get real about what it means to be single - how societal beliefs shape our perceptions; how culture can influence your experience and most of all, the importance of finding a relationship that actually adds value to your life.
Learn more about Rosa here.
Heartbreak happens when you follow the so-called dating rules and you still don't end up with the #relationshipgoals you desire.
These rules, just like most societal constructs out there today, aren’t designed for women to win. They’re rooted in patriarchal beliefs so that women don’t rise too high beyond their station.
Dating advice is usually about how not to scare off the man somehow: double-texting will overwhelm him. Don’t make yourself too available for him so that he’ll desire you more. Be smart but not smarter than him. Be successful but not more successful than him because he’ll be intimidated and won’t see you as desirable. So either men are walking pieces of milquetoast or women are to be kept down.
In this episode, I break down 3 reasons why I believe dating is a bunch of bollocks and what 1 key thing we can replace it with.
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On the path to reclaiming yourself, you have to break up with old versions of yourself - not just the versions that no longer serve you but the versions that can't be controlled or influenced by dominant patriarchal culture.
Christy Towns helps millennial women quit their boring AF jobs, create their passion and finally pursue dream careers.
In this episode, Christy & I discover that we're both in the process of discarding old versions of our identities in favour of ones that'll carry us to where we want to go in the future. It's not an easy task but we realize we've already been doing it our entire lives... and so have you.
Learn more about Christy's work here. Follow Christy on Instagram: @christyltowns
To my peeps south of the border: VOTE. Your life literally depends on it.
Halloween is the perfect time to talk about ghosting... all those spirits lurking in the shadows... those of us who have become full-time ghost chasers in order to find out what REALLY happened...
... not anymore.
In this episode, I get real about ghosting. Yes, you should ghost if there is an imminent threat to your personal safety. Otherwise, no. Just no.
Ghosting is a choice. You'll learn the #1 reason why people ghost, what people who ghost are actually saying to you and my rather salty message for ghosts everywhere (insert expletive gesture here).
Have you ever been ghosted? Leave me a voicemail message below this episode.
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At some point in your life, you come to a crossroads where you start to question everything. It doesn't matter what stage of life you're at; what matters is that you take the time to not only pose the question but seek out truth.
In this episode, I break down what it means to unlearn things you previously believed to be true but no longer serve you in the here & now. Does it REALLY matter if you double-text a love interest? For the record, if it does and that person is put off by it, then leave them be.
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Oana York first experienced heartbreak at 4 years of age. She didn't know it then but that event sparked a lifelong journey of self-discovery.
In this episode, Oana & I break down how heartbreak at an early age can shape your experience and how it relates to the relationship you ultimately have with yourself.
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." - Rumi
Follow Oana on Instagram: @oanayork
Letitia Elizabeth is an entrepreneur, business accountability coach, and the secret weapon you need to turn your idea into freedom. As a writer, creative director, event producer and motivational thought leader, she is best known for influential print publications, mobile tech products, syndicated columns, and lifestyle niche brands. She specializes in product development, media development and marketing.
About a year ago, Letitia wrote a social media post asking about diversity in the spiritual space. She wanted to know where were the women of colour in the spiritual space... since this space is largely dominated by cishet able-bodied American white women. I was so intrigued by this post that I had to reach out to her for a conversation.
In this episode, Letitia shares her motivation for writing this post and reflects on her own spiritual journey.
Learn more about Letitia's work here. Follow Letitia on Instagram: @letitiaelizabeth
A long time ago a bunch of people got scared about their slaves. They thought they were gonna (air quotes) get them. So they decided to keep them in check. They decided that they were less than human; abnormal; inferior. Hundreds of years later this core belief rooted in fear has become a normal part of our society.
In this episode, I break down how we as a collective have normalized dysfunction as part of the human experience.
Let me know your thoughts by leaving me a voice message below this episode.
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What's the most radical act you can think of? Protesting? Writing letters to politicians? Boycotts?
While these are valid ways to protest social injustice, there's something else you can do to give the finger (or two depending where you are in the world) to the man - you can begin to reclaim yourself.
Centuries of colonialism, imperialism & systemic racism have made one culture and/or race dominant and all others are supposed to pale in comparison. It's a complex system designed to oppress, repress and suppress every aspect of your existence...
... until now.
In this episode, learn how to reclaim yourself. It's the most radical act you can do.
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Social injustice isn't just a trending hashtag. For centuries, millions of people around the planet have been oppressed, repressed and suppressed by colonialism, imperialism & systemic racism.
So what happens when these systems that seek to smother all that you are affect how you conduct yourself in interpersonal relationships? How do you begin to navigate your emotions when experiencing an emotion was always met with consequence?
Season 2 of Brokenhearted is all about real, raw & honest conversations about heartbreak in all its forms.
Tune in for the season premiere of Brokenhearted on Monday, September 21 at 9am EDT.
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Here it is - the season finale of Brokenhearted's inaugural season. In the 50th episode, I break down what I've learned over the last year about heartbreak. I also share details of Season 2 which drops on September 21, 2020.
Brokenhearted will now be on hiatus until the Season 2 trailer drops in early September. I'm so grateful for all of you tuning in to Brokenhearted as you have since last September. Season 2 will be something to behold - I can't wait for you to check it out!
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Endings. We face them every day. Sometimes we mourn when we get to the end of that bingeworthy TV series. Or the movie's ending wasn't like we thought so we'll just write off the entire series (I'm looking at you, Star Wars fans).
Seema Sodha and I break down endings... specifically what happens when a phase and/or chapter of our lives comes to an end. We've got no problems with the seasons coming and going but let's see how much we lose our collective minds when we lose a job, a partner or a dream.
Learn more about Seema at www.seemasodha.com. Follow Seema on Instagram: @seema_sodha
Brokenhearted has a new home on Instagram! @brokenhearted.podcast
Katie Kozlowski is a master energy coach and spiritual trainer dedicated to helping awaken the inner strength, wisdom and creative power for women who are ready to wake up, heal and transform.
She adeptly mixes her own stories and experiences with ancient wisdom and sacred teachings and techniques to create powerful energetic, emotional and spiritual shifts, and is known for her simple, relatable methods and tools.
With studies in energetic healing, neuroplasticity, neuro-linguistic programming, the quantum field, mind-body connection, and guided meditation and visualization, Katie brings together an eclectic mix of high-level training to create multidimensional transformation.
She has trained with some of the greatest minds on the planet including Dr. Jean Houston, Transformational therapist Derek O'Neill and Master Healer Brook Still and has created a unique system of transformational healing called ShaktiBOMB!
Katie shares her experiences with her soul mates (you read that right) and shares how important it is to let go of a soul mate connection once it's run its course.
Join Katie's free Facebook community called Women Waking Up. Follow Katie on Instagram: @iamkatiekozlowski
*TRIGGER WARNING - This episode contains discussions about abuse.*
Arien Smith is a survivor of 15 years of abuse, passionate entrepreneur and activist hoping to change the world for marginalized individuals. After having built a life he loves after his trauma, he founded The Prosperity Path Program - a course that helps fellow survivors find joy in an inclusive and validating way. He also blogs every week to reach survivors around the world. He's also a watercolor artist, LGBTQ+ activist and dog-lover. Arien currently lives with his fiancée and pup in New York!
Arien & I break down what happens after you leave an abusive situation. Arien shares his story and offers some incredible insights after he had to ask himself the question "and then what?".
Learn more about Arien's work at uncoveryourjoy.com. Take the Prosperity Path Quiz here.
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Laura Buckley is a registered dietitian and emotional eating coach. She is passionate about helping coaches and healers improve their energy and prioritize their own well-being so they can end their weight and food struggles once and for all! She utilizes a mind/body/spirit approach that creates results that last!
Laura shares her journey through secondary infertility (the inability to become pregnant or carry a baby to term after previously giving birth to a baby). Hidden pain was something Laura had to face head-on as she learned of her inability to have a second child.
Learn more about Laura here. Get her free ebook called 3 Simple Exercises to End Emotional Eating
Follow Laura on Instagram: @laurabuckleycoaching
Steph Miramontes takes fitness coaching to another level by inspiring deep change that goes beyond the diet.
With a passion for helping emotional eaters and yo-yo dieters lose weight for good, she coaches women to radically transform body, mind & soul using a non-diet and pleasure-centered approach.
When she's not whipping your brain and body into shape, Steph loves to spend time watching the sunset, tending to her farm animals, and getting lost in books.
Steph & I break down buffering. Buffering that's not when you've got a slow Internet connection & you're waiting for a video to load - but what buffering does when you're experiencing heartbreak.
Learn how to identify emotional eating patterns and how to change those patterns with Steph's Ready For Change Workbook - download a copy here.
Follow Steph on Instagram: @soulcenteredfitness.co