What if the way we’ve done Christmas for years has actually pushed Jesus to the margins?
In Episode 82 of Brotherhood Forged, Joey, Paul, and Caleb talk honestly about how easy it is for men to get swept up in shopping, travel, kids’ schedules, and family drama—and completely miss the heart of Christmas: Jesus Himself.
They share real stories from their childhoods, current family traditions, and even a heated moment at a sandwich shop to unpack what it looks like to keep Christ at the center of Christmas… not just in theory, but in how we actually live, lead, and love.
In this episode, we talk about:
Growing up with Christmas gifts but very little Jesus—and what changes when Christ becomes the center.
Why slowing down might be the most spiritual thing you do this Christmas.
How to turn Christmas carols from “just songs” into worship with meaning.
Practical, Christ-centered traditions for your family:
Reading the Christmas story (Luke 2, Matthew 1–2) together.
Using a nativity set and “finding Jesus” before opening gifts.
Teaching kids to give, not just receive (donating toys, adopting families, serving others).
Inviting people who might be alone for the holidays into your home.
How stories like A Christmas Carol and The Grinch actually reflect biblical themes of heart change, generosity, and joy.
Paul’s real-life story of being disrespected at a restaurant—and choosing a Christlike response instead of blowing up.
The hard truth: your kids and your family learn more from how you respond under pressure than from any Christmas devotion you read.
The big question:
Do people get drawn closer to God because of the way you live this season…
or pushed away because you say you’re a Christian but don’t act like it?
Scripture & Resources Mentioned
Luke 2:10–11 – “Good news of great joy” and the Savior born in the city of David.
The Christmas story in Luke 2 and Matthew 1–2.
“Don’t Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table” by Louie Giglio – recognizing whose voice you’re following in stressful moments.
Themes from A Christmas Carol (Charles Dickens) and The Grinch as pictures of transformation, generosity, and true Christmas joy.
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