We're the most educated generation of women in history. We're choosing ourselves in ways our mothers couldn't. And we're being punished for it. If you're feeling anxious, confused, or like you're being pushed back into a box you fought to get out of, you're not imagining it. There's a pattern. A system. And once you can see it, you can navigate it differently. Anna Malaika Tubbs (PhD, 2x NYT bestselling author of The Three Mothers and Erased) breaks down what we're actually up against and, more importantly, how to survive it while choosing yourself anyway. This is about recognition, strategy, and hope despite knowing the cost. You can find more of Dr. Tubbs' work here: The Three Mothers: How the Mothers of Martin Luther King, Jr., Malcolm X, and James Baldwin Shaped a Nation  Erased: What American Patriarchy Has Hidden from Us  How Moms Shape The World | Anna Malaika Tubbs | TED Learn more about Anna here.  ----more---- Tools and stories to help you choose yourself in a world that socializes you not to. The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack Newsletter: Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

There's a genre of journalism that's exploded over the last decade. On the surface, it seems reasonable, even necessary. Articles about boys falling behind in school. Men struggling with loneliness. The crisis of modern masculinity. But here's the question nobody's asking: Who benefits when we frame it this way? Today, we're pulling apart the machine. Looking at what these articles do, not just what they say. And once you see it, you can't unsee it. ----more---- Tools and stories to help you choose yourself in a world that socializes you not to. The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack Newsletter: Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

What does it take to choose passion every single time, even when it's uncomfortable? In this episode, we sit down with Kara, a woman who has spent her life following one unwavering voice: the one that tells her when something isn't alive enough, passionate enough, worth it enough. She's left Google. She's left the presidency of Starface. She's moved her family to Italy. Not because things were falling apart, but because they weren't lit up enough. This is a conversation about living for the feeling. About refusing to settle for work, environments, or choices that don't serve you. About the discomfort of pivoting away from what looks good on paper toward what actually makes you feel alive. And about what it costs to live this way, and why it's worth it. Kara doesn't just talk about passion as a nice idea. She builds her life around it. She protects it. She keeps choosing it, over and over again, even when everything else is pulling her toward safety and stability. For anyone who's learning to trust that voice, the one that says "this isn't it, but that is," this conversation will remind you why it matters to keep listening. -------------------------------------------------------- Where to Find Kara Brothers -Instagram: @karabrothers -YouTube Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@sayit.outloud -Say It Out Loud; available audio only on all platforms as well -Community: For The Play Collective or 1:1 Coaching Opportunities - Shoot her a note at kara@playcollective.co -Newsletter sign-up: https://substack.com/@sayitoutloudnow ------------------------------------------------------- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? - **The Shop:** Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop - **Substack Newsletter:** Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. - https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ - **Website:** Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ - **The Podcast:** Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. - https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ - **Take the Free Assessment:** Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. - https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. --------------------------------------------------------------- **Follow for Daily Inspiration:** - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox **Take Action Now: ** Hit **subscribe** if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived. Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? - **The Shop:** Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop - **Substack Newsletter:** Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. - https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ - **Website:** Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ - **The Podcast:** Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. - https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ - **Take the Free Assessment:** Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. - https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundati

Have you ever felt like your family's voice is so loud, you can't hear your own? In this episode, we're diving into one of the most challenging but necessary journeys of adulthood: learning to prioritize your own voice over family expectations. This isn't about abandoning the people who raised you—it's about creating the space you need to discover who you actually are beneath the layers of inherited beliefs, expectations, and advice that may not align with the life you truly want to live. Whether your family is warm and supportive or domineering and rigid, this episode offers practical tools for anyone who's ever struggled to separate their own desires from what they were taught to want. You'll discover: Why distance (physical, mental, or spiritual) is a tool for growth, not a punishment Five practical strategies for stepping back and protecting your energy How to finally hear your own voice after years of listening to everyone else The role your body plays in recognizing what's truly aligned for you Why "clearing the field" is essential before you can grow into who you're meant to be This episode is for the woman who's ready to stop living by someone else's blueprint and start honoring her own truth—without guilt, without apology, and with full permission to be beautifully selfish. If you've ever needed validation that it's okay to choose yourself, this is it. ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? - **The Shop:** Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power.    - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop- **Substack Newsletter:** Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems.    - https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/- **Website:** Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place.    - https://www.charliestoolbox.com/- **The Podcast:** Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits.    - https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/- **Take the Free Assessment:** Learn where you are on your decentering men journey.    - https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. --- **Follow for Daily Inspiration:** - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox **Take Action Now:** Hit **subscribe** if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

What if the very beliefs meant to guide you are actually keeping you stuck? In this episode, we explore a hidden pattern that traps millions in cycles of repeated mistakes, unclear direction, and unresolved problems. You'll discover why certain phrases you've relied on your entire life might be stopping you from thinking, and what to do about it. By the end, you'll have a framework to recognize when you're giving away your power and practical steps to reclaim it. Warning: This conversation will challenge what you've always been told. ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack Newsletter: Read deep dives and stories about women choosing themselves, money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

What if the voice in your head didn't have to be your worst enemy? In this episode, we explore the exhausting cycle of perfectionism, why we replay our failures on loop, and what it takes to finally make peace with the messy, complicated parts of ourselves. Through the lens of one beloved TV character's journey from self-destruction to self-acceptance, we uncover what it really means to be worthy of love, flaws and all. If you've ever felt like you need to fix yourself before you deserve compassion, this conversation is for you. ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack: Read deep dives on money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The KIT Newsletter: Get bite-sized tools to put sovereignty into action every week. https://charliestoolbox.kit.com/cad3ba22c6 The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

What if everything you were taught about career success was designed to keep you working harder while staying trapped? In this episode, we're dismantling the traditional career playbook and rebuilding it around one goal: your freedom. This is pillar five of choosing yourself: Career Architecture. We're getting strategic about money, security, and designing work that actually serves your life. We're talking about how to navigate systems that weren't built for you, why single women especially need to be ruthless about income, and the truth about what freedom actually costs. Should you climb the corporate ladder? Build multiple income streams? Work remote? Hire help? We're breaking down exactly what career architecture means when the goal isn't just success, it's sovereignty. If you've ever felt like you're working hard but not building toward freedom, this episode will change how you think about your career. ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack: Read deep dives on money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The KIT Newsletter: Get bite-sized tools to put sovereignty into action every week. https://charliestoolbox.kit.com/cad3ba22c6 The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

What if the reason you can't seem to stick to choosing yourself has nothing to do with willpower? In this episode, we dive into the two pillars that determine whether all your other self-improvement efforts actually last. I share a conversation that completely shifted how I think about relationships, plus the family dynamics that tried to keep me small (and how I broke free). We're talking about the systems that either support your sovereignty or undermine it at every turn. This is Part 2 of our series on the five pillars of choosing yourself. If you missed Part 1 on financial autonomy and body freedom, catch up first, then come back for the foundation that makes it all possible. Ready to stop letting other people's comfort zones determine your life choices? Let's get into it. Subscribe for more episodes on choosing yourself unapologetically. ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack: Read deep dives on money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our methodology, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The KIT Newsletter: Get bite-sized tools to put sovereignty into action every week. https://charliestoolbox.kit.com/cad3ba22c6 The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

Beyond the buzzwords and Instagram quotes lies a practical framework for reclaiming your power in five critical areas of life. This isn't about self-care Sunday or positive affirmations; it's about the concrete choices that determine whether you're living on your own terms or someone else's. In this episode, we dive deep into the real-world strategies that transform abstract concepts like "self-love" into actionable steps. Through powerful personal stories and sociological insights, discover why certain life decisions can be the difference between freedom and dependence, between thriving and merely surviving. If you've ever wondered how to move beyond theoretical empowerment to actual autonomy, this conversation will give you the roadmap. Some truths might be uncomfortable, but they're the ones that change everything. Ready to stop living someone else's version of your life? ----more---- Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? The Shop: Discover exclusive tools, curated workshops, and guides for the radical woman ready to step fully into her power. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/shop Substack: Read deep dives on money, self-trust, and building power outside of old systems. https://charliestoolbox.substack.com/ Website: Find more resources, learn about our brand, and explore all our offerings in one place. https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ The Newsletter: Get bite-sized tools to put sovereignty into action every week. https://charliestoolbox.kit.com/cad3ba22c6 The Podcast: Listen to real conversations with women who've built lives beyond approval, expectation, and limits. https://charliestoolbox.podbean.com/ Take the Free Assessment: Learn where you are on your decentering men journey. https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f Your sovereignty is your foundation. My role is to help you use it as a launchpad. Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

Have you ever wondered what happens when romantic love just... doesn't happen? In a world obsessed with finding 'the one,' we rarely talk openly about what it's like to navigate life without ever experiencing a romantic relationship and the complex emotions that come with it. In this episode, we explore the deeper questions many are afraid to ask: Is it personal? Is it fixable? And how do you find peace when society tells you something essential is missing from your life? This isn't about dating tips or promises that love is just around the corner. Instead, we dive into a different perspective entirely, one that might challenge everything you've been told about love, worth, and what makes a life complete. Join me for an honest conversation about yearning, societal expectations, and finding a way forward that doesn't require you to change who you are or wait for someone else to validate your existence. If you're ready for a different kind of conversation about love and life, this episode is for you. ----more---- Resources & Community Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? Join 275+ women who are mastering their post-decentering journey and building lives they actually love: 🎯 START HERE - Take Our Free Assessment: Discover exactly where you are in your transformation journey: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f ✨ Join Our Free Community: Get instant access to tools, support, and women who understand your journey: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/join?invitation_token=f79e9405cd735a96423b087a9c932c1e0054c74b-f1510450-66b8-4f36-ad05-11b36f00ddb1 💎 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Our Exclusive Private Community: For women serious about transformation with personalized guidance and intimate support: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/community 📧 Weekly Growth Tools: Get practical strategies for self-culture, aestheticized healing, and centering yourself delivered to your inbox: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

What happens when the roles that once defined you begin to shift? In this deeply personal conversation, Kay Davenport opens up about the profound journey of navigating evolving identity as a woman, mother, and entrepreneur. This episode is for any woman who has ever felt the ground shift beneath her feet as she stepped into new roles or wondered how to stay true to herself while everything around her was changing. Whether you're navigating new motherhood, a career shift, or simply feeling like your current identity no longer fits, this episode offers both practical wisdom and profound permission to embrace the woman you're becoming. Key Themes Explored The profound identity shifts that come with motherhood and entrepreneurship How to integrate new roles without losing essential parts of yourself Navigating seasons when identity feels like "shifting sand" The power of viewing identity as continuous evolution ----more---- About Kay Davenport Kay Davenport is a beauty and fashion creator, school administrator, and mom who explores how personal style can be a form of rebellion, confidence, and self-reclamation, especially for women navigating motherhood, identity shifts, and the pressure to “have it all together.” Through honest storytelling and intentional style, Kay uses her platform to explore what it means to choose yourself still, even when life gets loud. Connect with Charlie's ToolboxNewsletter: charliestoolbox.comSocial: Instagram | TikTok | LinkedIn Join Our Community: Take Our Decentering Men AssessmentJoin Our Starter ToolkitJoin Our Exclusive Community

What if the thing you think is broken about you is actually proof of something extraordinary? There's a hidden filter that's been distorting how you see yourself, your mistakes, and your struggles. It's keeping you from recognizing the incredible strength that's been there all along, disguised as your deepest shame. In this episode, we dive into why shame doesn't just make you feel bad but literally changes what you're able to see. We explore how the stories you tell yourself about your "failures" might be missing the most important part: the extraordinary resilience it took to survive them. From Elizabeth Gilbert's wisdom about finding people extraordinary in their brokenness, to Earl Sweatshirt's journey from ironic detachment to sincere living, we unpack why the most courageous thing you can do is stop trying to outwit being human. This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending your pain doesn't matter. It's about developing the artist's eye: the ability to find beauty in what feels broken, and to see the complex, magnificent story of survival that your life actually is. If you've ever felt like you're fundamentally flawed, if you've been waiting to become "worthy" before you can see yourself as extraordinary, this episode is for you. It's time to remove the filter that's been hiding your own magnificence from your sight. What You'll Discover: • Why shame creates blind spots that keep you from seeing your own resilience • The cultural lie about what "extraordinary" people look like • How to shift from binary thinking to seeing the beautiful complexity of human experience • A simple practice for catching shame-based thinking in real time • Why your messiest moments might be evidence of your greatest strength Resources & Community Ready to transform how you handle life's biggest challenges? Join 275+ women in our toolkit community who are mastering these excavation moments and building unshakeable resilience together: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/checkout/the-toolkit Get weekly tools for personal growth, mindset shifts, and navigating life transitions. Subscribe to our newsletter: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ Follow for Daily Growth Content: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ Threads: http://threads.net/@charliestoolbox?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestoolboxx Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop fearing life's excavation moments and start using them as breakthrough opportunities. New episodes drop weekly with practical tools for personal transformation and building the life you actually want.zz

What does it really take to discover your true calling? In this intimate conversation, I sit down with Oyin Edogi to explore the pivotal moments that shaped her journey of self-discovery. Oyin opens up about the uncertainty and exploration that defined her twenties - that crucial decade when societal expectations collide with personal truth. We dive deep into how she navigated the pressure to follow conventional paths while staying true to her evolving sense of self. This isn't just another career story. It's about the messy, beautiful process of becoming who you're meant to be. Oyin shares the mindset shifts, bold decisions, and quiet moments of clarity that led her to claim ownership of her life and pursue her authentic passion.   Whether you're in your twenties questioning everything or at any stage of life considering a pivot, this conversation offers honest insights about creating a life that truly belongs to you. Key Topics: Breaking free from external expectations The courage to explore in your twenties How to recognize your authentic calling Making the transition from uncertainty to clarity Taking ownership of your life's direction Connect with Oyin: https://www.youtube.com/sweetlikeoyin https://www.instagram.com/sweetlikeoyin/ https://www.tiktok.com/@sweetlikeoyin?lang=en https://www.linkedin.com/in/oyinbrakame-edogi Don't forget to subscribe for more conversations about building an authentic life on your own terms. ----more---- Resources & Community Ready to transform how you handle life's biggest challenges? Join 275+ women in our toolkit community who are mastering these excavation moments and building unshakeable resilience together: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/checkout/the-toolkit Get weekly tools for personal growth, mindset shifts, and navigating life transitions. Subscribe to our newsletter: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ **Follow for Daily Growth Content: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ Threads: http://threads.net/@charliestoolbox?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestoolboxx Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox   **Take Action Now:** Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop fearing life's excavation moments and start using them as breakthrough opportunities. New episodes drop weekly with practical tools for personal transformation and building the life you actually want.

What if everything falling apart in your life isn't random chaos but a deliberate excavation process designed to uncover something you can't see yet? When your job disappears, relationships crumble, and your entire world feels like it's collapsing, there's a secret process happening beneath the surface that most people completely miss. In this transformative episode, we reveal why life sometimes strips away everything familiar and how to stop seeing these devastating moments as punishment. You'll discover a powerful mindset shift that turns your darkest transitions into breakthrough moments, plus get practical tools to navigate life's inevitable excavations with wisdom instead of panic. Whether you're currently in the thick of major upheaval or want to be prepared for future challenges, this episode will fundamentally change how you view life's most crushing experiences. ----more---- Resources & Community Ready to transform how you handle life's biggest challenges? Join 275+ women in our toolkit community who are mastering these excavation moments and building unshakeable resilience together: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/checkout/the-toolkit Get weekly tools for personal growth, mindset shifts, and navigating life transitions. Subscribe to our newsletter: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ Follow for Daily Growth Content: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ Threads: http://threads.net/@charliestoolbox?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestoolboxx Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop fearing life's excavation moments and start using them as breakthrough opportunities. New episodes drop weekly with practical tools for personal transformation and building the life you actually want.        

Do you ever feel stuck in the "messy middle" that difficult space between where you were and where you want to be? This is what we call a liminal space, and it can be one of the toughest environments to navigate. But what if I told you that being in this in-between place is not a punishment, but an opportunity for immense growth? In this episode, we're diving deep into "liminal structures," a powerful concept inspired by an architect who built a home on an impenetrable quarry. ----more---- In this video, you will discover:-Why your instinct to rush out of the "in-between" might be holding you back.-The surprising reasons why suffering doesn't always lead to growth.-How to find joy and your truest self in unexpected places.-The simple steps you can take to not just survive, but thrive in any liminal space. This isn't about ignoring the pain; it's about seeing the possibilities and building a foundation for your truest self, right where you are. If you're a woman who shapes her life by design, this episode will give you the tools you've been searching for. By the end, you'll feel a sense of peace, and perhaps even surrender, to the beautiful journey of the in-between. ----more---- Resources & Community Ready to stop living life on autopilot and start designing it intentionally? Join 275+ women who are mastering their post-decentering journey and building lives they actually love: 🎯 START HERE - Take Our Free Assessment: Discover exactly where you are in your transformation journey: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/68b71e8eeb218c0015ec5c4f ✨ Join Our Free Community: Get instant access to tools, support, and women who understand your journey: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/join?invitation_token=f79e9405cd735a96423b087a9c932c1e0054c74b-f1510450-66b8-4f36-ad05-11b36f00ddb1 💎 Ready to Go Deeper? Join Our Exclusive Private Community: For women serious about transformation with personalized guidance and intimate support: https://charliestoolbox.circle.so/community 📧 Weekly Growth Tools: Get practical strategies for self-culture, aestheticized healing, and centering yourself delivered to your inbox: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ Follow for Daily Inspiration: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox I nstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Take Action Now: Hit subscribe if you're ready to stop waiting for permission and start choosing yourself. New episodes drop weekly with tools for building a life that's authentically felt and beautifully lived.

Are you living in the "in-between"? That space where you're building the thing, applying for the role, and figuring it out in real time, all within some frustrating constraints?   In this episode of Charlie's Toolbox, we're making a devotion to those limitations. We're dissecting the creative genius of fashion titan Glenn Martens—the visionary behind Y/Project, Diesel, and Maison Margiela. Martens is a master alchemist who transforms the constraints of iconic fashion houses into his most brilliant and expressive work.   We'll uncover the powerful lessons from his approach and show you how to apply them directly to your life. Discover how to stop fighting against your perceived limits and start using them as raw material to design a life that is truly your own. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to adopt Glenn Martens's mindset of turning constraints into opportunities to "impress yourself." Three actionable steps to practice "artful survival" in your everyday life. How to build a powerful habit of transforming obstacles into opportunities for self-expression and personal growth. This is where your wellness journey becomes a bespoke design practice. Ready to go deeper? We have a powerful, self-paced workshop waiting for you in our private community, designed to help you center yourself fearlessly. All the details are in the show notes below! ----more---- Resources & Community Let’s make it real. Join our community: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/communitytoolkit For more tools on centering yourself, subscribe to our newsletter at: https://www.charliestoolbox.com/ Connect With Us Follow us on social media for daily insights and inspiration: TikToK https://www.tiktok.com/@charliestoolbox Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliestoolbox/ Threads: http://threads.net/@charliestoolbox?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/charliestoolboxx Twitter: https://twitter.com/charliestoolbox LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/charliestoolbox Subscribe to our channel for more content on personal growth and building meaningful relationships.

In this special episode, Charlie shares a personal update with the Charlie's Toolbox community. To continue creating content from a place of genuine inspiration and abundance, I'm taking this summer to nourish myself and recharge. This means new public content and podcasts will be on pause until August. I'm so grateful for your understanding and support! Members and subscribers will still receive exclusive weekly content if you sign up for our newsletter and community at charliestoolbox.com. Listen now for all the details on this necessary break and what's to come when we're back, refreshed, in August!

Welcome to Charlie's Toolbox, the cultural studio and creative platform for visionary women, hosted by Charlie Taylor. In this episode, we tackle a powerful concept: the potential pitfalls of "over-owning your story." We explore how our past experiences, while shaping us, can sometimes become a limiting identity if we're not mindful. Drawing on insightful perspectives, this conversation delves into the fine line between acknowledging our journey and letting it define our entire being. Join Charlie as she discusses the importance of choosing how we engage with our personal narratives and the liberating power of reclaiming our present and future from the grip of the past. Call to Action for Our Community: This episode encourages us to reflect on how we relate to our own stories. We invite our incredible community of visionary women to share their thoughts and experiences with navigating their personal narratives. How do you ensure your past informs, but doesn't define, your present? What does reclaiming your story mean to you? How can we, as a community, support each other in building narratives of strength and possibility? Join the conversation in our private community forum at https://www.charliestoolbox.com/thetoolkit

Ready for the next level? Charlie's Toolbox isn't just healing anymore, we're creating! Tune in as we unveil our evolution into a full-blown cultural studio, where visionary women forge sovereignty and build radical futures. Discover what this means for you, and get a first look at The Radical Atelier, our exclusive digital sanctuary for creation and assembly. This is the blueprint for a new world.   Curious about where we are going? Check out the launch of our new website charliestoolbox.com

In this episode of Charlie’s Toolbox, I’m joined by Jannelle Johnson, a CPCAB-accredited Integrative Counsellor, Coach, and Mentor. We dive deep into trauma, inner child work, and what it takes to get unstuck in adulthood. From understanding how trauma shows up in our day-to-day lives to exploring how Black women can begin to reparent themselves and reclaim their power, we cover the healing work that creates lasting change. Whether you're navigating emotional wounds, breaking generational patterns, or learning to center yourself, this conversation will meet you where you are. ✨ Topics we cover: -Getting Unstuck -Your Value -Emotional Reactions and Responses 🔗 Learn more & join her community: [https://yellowtreewellness.co.uk/abou...] 📲 Follow her on Instagram: [  / iamjannellejohnson  ] 💌 Follow her on LinkedIn: [  / jannelle-johnson-4412a010a  ] 🎧 Listen to her work on YouTube: [   / @jannelle.johnson  ]