In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why so many men remain stuck in surface-level relationships and how these early patterns shape the tone of every connection that follows. He examines the Christian call to depth, the danger of staying shallow, and the ways small talk can quietly limit growth, witness, and masculine presence. This episode challenges men to consider how they are showing up in their relationships and what it means to reflect Christ throu...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why the health of a household so often follows the discipline of its man. He explains how fitness culture doesn’t start with group decisions but with the standard a man sets through his actions, his routine, and the environment he builds at home. This episode breaks down how men can lead the fitness charge without pressure or nagging, simply by living the lifestyle first. Tune in to learn how physical stewardship begins with...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke breaks down one of the most common and overlooked habits men struggle with: chewing their nails. Listeners will walk away with a simple, step-by-step plan to break the habit for good. This episode offers a realistic, actionable path for anyone ready to regain control of their attention and appearance in one of the smallest but most impactful ways. Send us a text Support the show Thank you for joining me on Chasing Masculinity. ...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke breaks down one of the most overlooked fundamentals of masculine respect: voice and presence. Men often believe respect comes from achievement or status, but in reality, other men judge each other first by tone, posture, and composure. This episode explains why controlled presence matters and how tone and posture communicate strength long before words do. Listeners will learn the practical essentials of carrying themselves with inten...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, Colton Wutzke explores digital discipline, not as a tech problem, but as an issue of attention and presence. Many men today are disconnected in their own homes, reaching for their phones the moment boredom hits. The result is fractured attention, weakened presence, and distance in relationships, especially with the people who matter most. This episode lays out a clear and practical weekly structure to rebuild digital discipline, protect presence, and r...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke confronts one of the most defining issues shaping young men today: fatherlessness. Not just the emotionally distant or passive father, but the literal absence of men in the home, leading to the collapse of stable families, commitment, and masculine leadership. This leads to a cultural vacuum that has led to the rise of digital father figures, the influencers and personalities who now shape male identity through algorithms rathe...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why certain jobs are perceived as more masculine than others. Not to tell men which careers to pursue, but to examine the underlying traits that cause society to associate masculinity with particular forms of work. Some roles demand physical strength, some require courage and risk, others carry the heavy burden of provision or leadership. The job itself isn’t what makes a man masculine, it’s the responsibility and character r...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why so many young men today are struggling, not only economically, but spiritually. From declining workforce participation and stagnant wages to a growing loss of purpose and faith, modern men are facing a quiet collapse that runs deeper than statistics. Financial instability and spiritual drift feed each other, leaving men directionless, isolated, and unsure of their identity. Tune in to learn to rebuild both foundations th...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores one of the hardest disciplines a man can master, the art of saying no. In a world that glorifies busyness and constant availability, men have lost the ability to protect their time, energy, and purpose. This episode reframes boundaries as acts of leadership and stewardship, not selfishness. Tune in to learn how to identify what truly matters, set clear non-negotiables, and say no with conviction. Send us a text Support...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the lost art of dressing like a man and what it means to present yourself with intention instead of apathy. This isn’t about fashion trends or vanity, it’s about discipline, self-respect, and the standard a man sets for himself every time he walks out the door. Tune in to learn how intentional dress reflects internal order and strength, why modern culture has blurred masculine presentation, and how to rebuild a wardrobe that...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the question: is owning a firearm a mark of masculinity, or is it simply a tool of responsibility? Drawing from history, culture, and Scripture, the conversation examines the role of protection in manhood, the practical case for gun ownership, and how firearms fit into the broader duty of stewardship and defense. The episode challenges men to consider whether they view firearms as a shortcut to masculinity or as a serious re...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why progressive masculinity often collapses into performance without substance. He unpacks how virtue signaling, trend chasing, and hollow approval-seeking have replaced conviction and responsibility in modern men. This conversation contrasts performative masculinity with true biblical manhood - one rooted in discipline, humility, and conviction. Listeners will be challenged to examine their own lives, identify areas of perf...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores what Scripture says about the foundation of biblical manhood. This conversation unpacks how strength, courage, discipline, and love are not cultural constructs but commands from God. The episode highlights how true masculinity is rooted in the Spirit, sharpened by brotherhood, and sustained by faith. Listeners are challenged to anchor their lives in Scripture, embrace responsibility with courage, and lead with strength cover...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the tension behind a pressing question: Does the moderate still exist, or has modern culture forced every man toward radicalization? From the collapse of nuanced conversation into “us vs. them” buckets to the way social media rewards outrage, Colton reflects on his own struggle to hold convictions without being swept into extremes. Through personal experience and scriptural reflection, he frames the question not as a call to ...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores whether raising children on a single income is truly possible in today’s financial climate. He unpacks the realities of income, housing costs, and childcare, while examining cultural trends of delaying children and the regret many couples feel from waiting too long. The conversation shifts from statistics to encouragement, showing that with sacrifice, intentional budgeting, and faith, single-income families can thrive. Liste...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why confidence isn’t something men should chase, but something they must build. Culture tells men to wait until they “feel” confident or to project an image of strength, but real confidence is forged through consistent discipline, action, and faith. Listeners will learn why chasing validation leads to fragility, how to build true confidence through small wins and daily discipline, and how Scripture and philosophy call men to...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores why every man needs a “hard thing” - a demanding pursuit that stretches him mentally, physically, and spiritually. Modern life is built for comfort, but true growth only comes through resistance. Learn how challenge forges character, why avoiding discomfort leads to stagnation, and how taking on difficult work produces earned confidence and resilience. This episode calls men to reject ease, embrace friction, and commit to at...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores another Masculine Essentials topic on why hobbies are essential for a man’s growth, discipline, and resilience. Far from being “just for fun,” the right hobbies sharpen your skills, keep your mind and body engaged, and help you lead with strength and purpose. Tune in to learn about how important hobbies are, from personal stories, practical examples, and the five categories of hobbies every man should cultivate. Whether you’...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the question: Is it time for men to be controversial? This isn’t a conclusion, it’s a challenge to examine whether living as a bold, convicted, masculine man requires countercultural courage in today’s world. The conversation breaks down personal experiences, cultural shifts, and biblical principles behind standing firm in truth, even when it stirs resistance. From masculine presentation and speech to reclaiming humor and id...

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, host Colton Wutzke explores the often overlooked but deeply powerful act of simply showing up. Whether it’s in marriage, fatherhood, friendship, or faith, presence is a man’s first act of leadership. This episode unpacks how physical presence builds trust, how absence compounds over time, and how showing up consistently, even when it’s hard, shapes your legacy. Tune in to learn how presence forms identity, why consistency matters more than perfection, ...