Episode 10 Part 1:   Cheaters' Lies when Confronted About Cheating. Cheaters lie about all aspects of cheating, not just about IF they are cheating. They lie about how many times, where they cheated, how they cheated and most of all WHY they cheated. They often even find a way to blame the cheated-on for their cheating. Emotions Experienced by Cheated-On Spouse. The cheated-on spouse often feels surprised by how much anger they feel toward the person their cheating spouse cheated with. They often feel more hurt than expected, are surprised at feeling relief at discovering they were right about their spouse cheating, and feel a roller coaster of emotions. Common Apps used for Cheating. There a lot of apps commonly used for cheating. Some of these are specifically designed for cheating, others are common apps whose functionality has been taken advantage of by cheaters. We discuss the most common ones that cheaters currently use and why.