Carlos Henry also known as Loso 2.O is a new author, personal development coach and motivational speaker who focuses his attention to motivating and empowering minority youth comes to Closed Door Conversations to have a conversation with Mil and share his story with the CDC fam.  Carlos story is more of a testimony, a motivating factor on how having the mindset of a winner and the determination to stay focused to be better will help you become better! He travels  the world giving speeches on how to improve yourself mentally, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually to be your better version of yourself and today he is here on Closed Door Conversations to share that with us!, tune is to part 1 and 2 as Carlos shares his very personal story or trial to triumph and why he is a walking testimony that winnerz win.   https://www.carlosjhenrywinz.com/?fbclid=PAAaYQVC0-jiI_f-zpFj8K82zt6kN6pGNh0iWM6ZCeE4ac-PvC9E5Ji71qCSghttps://instagram.com/loso2.0_?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=

Carlos Henry also known as Loso 2.O is a new author, personal development coach and motivational speaker who focuses his attention to motivating and empowering minority youth comes to Closed Door Conversations to have a conversation with Mil and share his story with the CDC fam.  Carlos story is more of a testimony, a motivating factor on how having the mindset of a winner and the determination to stay focused to be better will help you become better! He travels  the world giving speeches on how to improve yourself mentally, physically, financially, emotionally and spiritually to be your better version of yourself and today he is here on Closed Door Conversations to share that with us!, tune is to part 1 and 2 as Carlos shares his very personal story or trial to triumph and why he is a walking testimony that winnerz win!     of course his links are below.https://www.carlosjhenrywinz.com/?fbclid=PAAaYm4nqAYWQm0G_SVChkI3JUPwvTM6LGSHE2wllx7QkYp2NiaBu2NZ7F1eQ

You’re the one is a brief conversation turnt almost rant to quickly not in the mood to talk about it today. 😂😂 Headed in the direction to highlight the importance of loving yourself first.  How it  can show up in every area of your life including your relationship with others.  The fact that it is a lifestyle! Something personal to you, in which you and only you are in total control of, have to take responsibility for and prioritize on a daily! To be continued another day! 😂😂

An aphrodisiac is any substance or food that increases sexual desire, arousal, behavior, performance, or pleasure. There are a number of reasons why people may want to take an aphrodisiac to improve their sex lives. Some reasons may include increasing libido  or to improve sexual performance, but sometimes people may want to simply try to enjoy sex more.    Mil sits down to have a conversation with Amy Reiley, food aphrodisiac expert to get her thoughts on food, how it relates to the libido and how it can create more pleasurable sex.  Her whole career has been dedicated to getting people excited about making good food choices by showing them how food can get them excited - in the bedroom!  Amy Reiley is best known as an authority on aphrodisiac foods. But she is also a speaker, cookbook author and consultant as well as a freelance wine writer and wine competition judge. Whether you're just trying to figure out how to make Valentine's Day more memorable or you're ready to change the way you eat to improve your sex life, (or anything in between), Hopefully you can get some out of today’s conversation!!  https://www.eatsomethingsexy.com/

Living an unapologetic life doesn't mean you don't apologize when you're wrong. It doesn't mean you're rude or treat others poorly. It simply means never having to feel bad for the way you want to live. If you're not hurting anyone in the process, you should feel free to live your life exactly the way you see fit.

The problem I have with resolutions is their lack of specificity. This is why my focus goes to setting personal and professional goals, since the mindset and approach to achieving a goal differs from that of a resolution. Goals take longer to frame because they involve planning. But, this preparation provides you with a clear direction to follow to reach your desired outcome. By rephrasing your New Year’s resolutions to goals, you make them stronger and more likely to be achieved.

Most people are afraid of being transparent for several reasons.  Mil sits down with producer,artist,photographer & videographer  YoShayne to discuss why transparency is important.  The goal of this conversation is to bring light to the fact that being transparent is not a weakness!  Sharing ideas, feelings and information that you may have not particularly been compelled to share can actually strengthen you are the core of establishing business and personal relationships.  You will be  resolve conflict faster or even avoid conflict all together if you just learn to be open and honest. https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/yoshayne/go-big-girl?fbclid=PAAaZ36mkO6vCFNmzPQyU6kMTBuUDig1rZXZiqo7oRfOd-0DINC_NtGgAJBmI   https://instagram.com/iamyoshayne?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=

Most people are afraid of being transparent for several reasons.  Mil sits down with producer,artist,photographer & videographer  YoShayne to discuss why transparency is important.  The goal of this conversation is to bring light to the fact that being transparent is not a weakness!  Sharing ideas, feelings and information that you may have not particularly been compelled to share can actually strengthen you are the core of establishing business and personal relationships.  You will be  resolve conflict faster or even avoid conflict all together if you just learn to be open and honest.   https://instagram.com/iamyoshayne?igshid=NDk5N2NlZjQ=   https://youtube.com/@YoShayne

In part 1 and Part 2 of this episodes Mil sit down and have an awesome conversation with dynamic duo of Married Into Crazy. Podcasting is just one of the hats they share, they are also Arthurs, & life coaches focusing on couples but single or people looking can also “get the business also”. ( quoted per Lovey) The focus for them is just helping people to be C.R.A.Z.Y. ! 😂😂😂 I was going to leave y’all hanging and make y’all listen to the podcast to find out what that mean but I’m going to share.  C.R.A.Z.Y. Stands for Compassionate, Real,Accountable, Zealous, & Yielding!  I love it and we are discussing all this &  then some in the episodes! Of course their link is below!     https://linktr.ee/marriedintocrazy?fbclid=PAAaZrX3LUpfjyep8L3wn0LUqJbH82bZmdUyehpiJK-0ppI6aGXssicHE8gDk

In part 1 and Part 2 of this episodes Mil sit down and have an awesome conversation with dynamic duo of Married Into Crazy. Podcasting is just one of the hats they share, they are also Arthurs, & life coaches focusing on couples but single or people looking can also “get the business also”. ( quoted per Lovey) The focus for them is just helping people to be C.R.A.Z.Y. ! 😂😂😂 I was going to leave y’all hanging and make y’all listen to the podcast to find out what that mean but I’m going to share.  C.R.A.Z.Y. Stands for Compassionate, Real,Accountable, Zealous, & Yielding!  I love it and we are discussing all this &  then some in the episodes! Of course their link is below!     https://linktr.ee/marriedintocrazy?fbclid=PAAaYqFQZ6pfu4mrWPmvP4KsWPpIHeVETK8m0eOGnMOEQyvvs-sawX-ESYFBs

Back in the day, not even way back because some people still feel like being strong is a form of strength.  I may even agree to a certain degree BUT once it starts to affect who you are physically, emotionally, financially and spiritually you need to do something different!  When you know better you do better and we as a society now know that be strength looks different.  We now know that you can not our from an empty cup.  We now know that we are responsible for our own individual happiness and inner peace.  The biggest thing now that we know these things are what are we going to do about it? Are we strong enough to take the hard steps of putting our self first? Mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.  It is our responsibility!  Remember the conversation about self love? If you have not listened to it go back and listen! Self love is not selfish! Neither is protecting your peace! It’s a necessity in todays world! Let’s talk about it! 

In part 1 and part 2 of this episode our host Mil Ivory sits with fellow podcaster and host of Dear Poly podcast and have a conversation about his choice to live a polyamory lifestyle.  In this conversation Phillip helps to unravel some of the confusing (or what seems to be confusing to the “outside” world) terms and misconceptions of his lifestyle.  First thing that is established is that polyamory and polygamy is not the same thing.  Which is a common misconception about the lifestyle.  THEN we dive into some of the different terms why he choose this lifestyle or how this lifestyle choose him is probably more accurate and some of his experiences.  The goal of this conversation is to give you a better understanding of why someone will choose this lifestyle as well as to help clear up some of the misconceptions of what people assume this lifestyle is.    Make sure you tune into part one and part 2.  Although we covered a lot I feel like there is sooooo much more to be discussed so we may revisit at a later time.  

In part 1 and part 2 of this episode our host Mil Ivory sits with fellow podcaster and host of Dear Poly podcast and have a conversation about his choice to live a polyamory lifestyle.  In this conversation Phillip helps to unravel some of the confusing (or what seems to be confusing to the “outside” world) terms and misconceptions of his lifestyle.  First thing that is established is that polyamory and polygamy is not the same thing.  Which is a common misconception about the lifestyle.  THEN we dive into some of the different terms why he choose this lifestyle or how this lifestyle choose him is probably more accurate and some of his experiences.  The goal of this conversation is to give you a better understanding of why someone will choose this lifestyle as well as to help clear up some of the misconceptions of what people assume this lifestyle is.    Make sure you tune into part one and part 2.  Although we covered a lot I feel like there is sooooo much more to be discussed so we may revisit at a later time.  Feel free to Leave us your comments or email your questions and comments.  also make sure to check out Phillip on his platform at the Dear Poly Podcast.   Enjoy 

Our Host Mil Ivory sits with guest/Co Host and fellow podcasters of Not your Normal Discussion  Podcast in part 1 and 2 of this episode to discuss why we think people may not be comfortable with their sexuality and why they may nor be comfortable with sexual exploitation when they should be! Of course there were a lot of theories and opinions on the topic on hand.  So many that we are definitely doing a life chat about it soon so make sure to leave you comments and opinions down below or email us. Set your alerts so that you are tuned in for our live on our social media platforms.    Mil felt like it was important to have this conversation because so many people are first not comfortable it’s their sexuality, so there for they struggle in the sexual exploration category! Rather they are ashamed, have trust issues or just plain shy on the subject our hope is that people realize that sexuality and all that comes with it is a very personal decision.  It is also natural to want to explore and it is something that you should not be ashamed of.  Although often over looked as a major issue issues surrounding sexuality and unfulfilled sexual desires are a major problem.  Being confident in your sexuality and open to explore sexually place a major part of maintaining mental health for some.  So YES I definitely think it is safe to say no matter what anyone things you should not be ashamed of your sexuality and sexual preferences! It is not a once size fit all type of deal.  So do you, be you live laugh love lust ! Do it in a safe, confident, an unapologetic manner because sexual coordination and emotional stability complement each other!😉

Our Host Mil Ivory sits with guest/Co Host and fellow podcasters of Not your Normal Discussion  Podcast in part 1 and 2 of this episode to discuss why we think people may not be comfortable with their sexuality and why they may nor be comfortable with sexual exploitation when they should be! Of course there were a lot of theories and opinions on the topic on hand.  So many that we are definitely doing a life chat about it soon so make sure to leave you comments and opinions down below or email us. Set your alerts so that you are tuned in for our live on our social media platforms.    Mil felt like it was important to have this conversation because so many people are first not comfortable it’s their sexuality, so there for they struggle in the sexual exploration category! Rather they are ashamed, have trust issues or just plain shy on the subject our hope is that people realize that sexuality and all that comes with it is a very personal decision.  It is also natural to want to explore and it is something that you should not be ashamed of.  Although often over looked as a major issue issues surrounding sexuality and unfulfilled sexual desires are a major problem.  Being confident in your sexuality and open to explore sexually place a major part of maintaining mental health for some.  So YES I definitely think it is safe to say no matter what anyone things you should not be ashamed of your sexuality and sexual preferences! It is not a once size fit all type of deal.  So do you, be you live laugh love lust ! Do it in a safe, confident, an unapologetic manner because sexual coordination and emotional stability complement each other!😉

In this episode host Mil Ivory has a conversation with life coach and fellow podcaster Vernon T. Scott about TRUST.  Trust is one of the main components that gels society together.  It’s presence cements relationships, allowing people to live together, work together, grow and blossom various relationships together by allowing you to feel safe and have a feeling of comfort and belonging.  There are some key elements of trust ….Reliability, honesty, good will, competency, vulnerability  and good communication.  In this episode Mil and Vernon sit down to have a conversation about trust, it’s key elements AND what if it’s just not there.   This is Part 2  of the conversation so if you haven’t listened to Part 1 go back and listen!!!  To those who have…. Enjoy!!  Make sure you leave us your thoughts comments emails …..we want to know what you think!!  Enjoy    Vernon T Scott can be found on IG at:  https://instagram.com/urfavheauxst?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= make sure you like and follow him.

In this episode host Mil Ivory has a conversation with life coach and fellow podcaster Vernon T. Scott about TRUST.  Trust is one of the main components that gels society together.  It’s presence cements relationships, allowing people to live together, work together, grow and blossom various relationships together by allowing you to feel safe and have a feeling of comfort and belonging.  There are some key elements of trust ….Reliability, honesty, good will, competency, vulnerability  and good communication.  In this episode Mil and Vernon sit down to have a conversation about trust, it’s key elements AND what if it’s just not there.   This is a two part conversation….. Part 2 will be posted next week!   Make sure you leave us your thoughts comments emails …..we want to know what you think!!  Enjoy    Vernon T Scott can be found on IG at:  https://instagram.com/urfavheauxst?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= make sure you like and follow him.

The weight that we carry on a daily basis as a black woman in America is a unique kind of weight.   A weight that only a black women is able to describe.  Similar to the walk of the black man there are some things that women go through that will look completely different from the eyes of a black women.  In this episode an extension to the conversation from the eyes of a black man host Mil Ivory talks with three black women in different age ranges about their experiences as they navigate life as a black woman in todays society.  This is part 2. The conversation continues.  If you have not listened to part 1 STOP go back and listen!! 

The weight that we carry on a daily basis as a black woman in America is a unique kind of weight.   A weight that only a black women is able to describe.  Similar to the walk of the black man there are some things that women go through that will look completely different from the eyes of a black women.  In this episode an extension to the conversation from the eyes of a black man host Mil Ivory talks with three black women in different age ranges about their experiences as they navigate life as a black woman in todays society. 

If you missed part 1 of this conversation that posted last week go back and listen before you proceed.  Host Mil Ivory sits down with fellow podcasters Big Smash and Rashad Burton to have a well needed conversation about how things look through the lens of a black man.  The simple honest truth is a black man struggles will always look different than any other race.  Therefore the lens that they see the world through will look different from another other race regardless of social status and income bracket and in these two episodes we talk about it.   Guest Can be found on all your listening platforms. Big Smash Bet the House Podcast.  Also on YouTube. Radhad: Vibe with me Podcast    make sure to leave us your comments and opinions.  We want to hear them!