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Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Shai Boston

30 episodes

1 month ago

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. In this episode, I’m sharing the truth I had to swallow myself: when we make excuses for our problems, we keep those problems alive. Inspired by a line in Why Did I Get Married? and a recent conversation with friends, I take you through the moments that made me face my own excuses — from my health to my workload to the habits I’d been justifying instead of changing. I talk through how accountability really feels, how overworki...

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Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. In this episode, I’m sharing the truth I had to swallow myself: when we make excuses for our problems, we keep those problems alive. Inspired by a line in Why Did I Get Married? and a recent conversation with friends, I take you through the moments that made me face my own excuses — from my health to my workload to the habits I’d been justifying instead of changing. I talk through how accountability really feels, how overworki...

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Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

When You’re the One Holding You Back

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. In this episode, I’m sharing the truth I had to swallow myself: when we make excuses for our problems, we keep those problems alive. Inspired by a line in Why Did I Get Married? and a recent conversation with friends, I take you through the moments that made me face my own excuses — from my health to my workload to the habits I’d been justifying instead of changing. I talk through how accountability really feels, how overworki...

1 month ago

17 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Why Balance Is an Illusion (and What to Do Instead)

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. In this heartfelt episode of Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity, I open up about what balance really looks like — especially for women juggling life, work, and everything in between. Inspired by my own health journey and an interview with Broadway star Renée Elise Goldsberry, I unpack why “perfect balance” is an illusion and why it’s okay to shift, pause, and adjust as life changes. We talk about the emotional and physical toll of...

2 months ago

19 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

One Phone, Two Paths: When Distraction Changes Everything

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. In this episode, I share a moment that shook me and forced me to face how powerful (and risky) distraction can be. One call became a crossroads — a reminder that every moment, we’re choosing our direction. Presence or autopilot. Fear or awareness. Reaction or intention. If you’ve ever drifted, gotten caught up in the moment, or forgotten how precious life is — this one’s a reminder to breathe, pay attention, and choose the pat...

2 months ago

22 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Raw and Unfiltered: Embracing the Journey

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. In this candid podcast episode, I share my recent the emotional toll of facing disappointment in entrepreneurship. In it, I emphasize the importance of feeling emotions, having a back-up plan, and finding support systems to navigate setbacks. Through my raw and unfiltered approach, I will encourage you to embrace your feelings, seek solutions, and maintain hope amidst challenges. TL;DR I share my recent experiences with a prof...

2 months ago

15 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

When Life Hits Hard: Staying Calm When Everything Spins Out

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. Ever had life hit you out of nowhere — like, one minute you’re fine, and the next… boom, everything changes? Yeah, same. In this episode, I’m talking about impact — the kind that shakes you, tests you, and forces you to decide who you’re gonna be on the other side of it. I share what really happened after my car accident and how that moment taught me what it means to brace for impact, breathe through the chaos, and focus on re...

2 months ago

22 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Are You There, Y’all? It’s Me, Shai - Back with the Real Talk

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. Whew, y’all… it’s been a minute! After a little (okay, maybe longer than a little) hiatus, I’m back — and so ready to catch up. In this episode, I’m getting real about what’s been going on: burnout, mental health struggles, and the lessons I’ve learned about showing up for myself first. Life was life-ing and burnout had me all the way tapped out. I’m talking about what really happened, how I found my way back to myself, and ...

2 months ago

9 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Supporting Your Spouse: A Guide to Navigating Grief Together

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION This week on Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity, I'm sharing my personal journey of navigating grief as a partner. I'll discuss supporting my husband through multiple losses while managing my own emotions. We'll explore the importance of open communication, sharing memories, and allowing ourselves to feel our grief. I'll offer practical tips that helped us grow closer during this difficult time. If you're coping wit...

9 months ago

14 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Redefining Rest: Beyond Sleep and Vacations

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Let's get real. You know that feeling when you're running on fumes? Yeah, me too. On this week's episode, I'm ditching the fluff and diving into what rest really is and means. I'm sharing my own messy, real-life journey. We're talking about everything from that much-needed girls’ getaway that saved my sanity, to the daily grind of trying to find a moment of peace. So, grab your favorite drink (mine's curr...

10 months ago

13 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

How Not to Lead: Isaac Hayes III & the Fanbase App Debacle

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Ever feel like a social media meltdown is a masterclass in leadership? In this impactful episode, I'm breaking down the explosive clash between Isaac Hayes III and Franchesca Leigh (Ramsey). We're digging into the five major leadership lessons we can all learn from this, especially around handling feedback, communication, and avoiding those costly mistakes. Did Isaac's response reveal deeper issues? Absolutely. ...

10 months ago

9 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Women's Financial Protection Marriage, Divorce & Beyond w/ Nikki Tucker Part 2

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION How can women protect their financial assets before, during, and after marriage? This episode is a must-listen for any woman, whether you're single, married, or navigating a divorce. Join me and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Nikki Tucker as we dive into the essential steps you can take to protect your assets. We're talking everything from the power of insurance and prenups to the nitty-gritty of joi...

10 months ago

1 hour 17 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Financial Fundamentals for Women: Budgeting, Saving, and Managing Debt w/Nikki Tucker Part 1

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SPECIAL OFFER: Financial Support Pack - A resource to help women who are uncoupling or thinking about divorce SHOW DESCRIPTION How can women take control of their finances? On this episode, I talk with my guest Nikki Tucker about the importance of budgeting, creating emergency funds, and understanding productive vs unproductive debt. Emphasis is placed on starting from wherever you are financially and moving forward ...

10 months ago

46 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Navigating Betrayal in Business and Personal Relationships

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Have you ever felt blindsided by someone you trusted? In this episode of Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity, I share a deeply personal story of betrayal by a business associate that left me emotionally shattered and questioning my own judgment. From the initial excitement of a promising partnership to the devastating realization of being ghosted and taken advantage of, I recount my journey of recovery, resilience, a...

11 months ago

27 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Regrets and Forgiveness: An Unsettling Memory

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Regrets and Forgiveness: An Unsettling Memory Have you ever felt an unsettling regret that lingers for years? I share an emotional, personal story about a little girl who lived across the hall. As I contemplate my regret and quest for self-forgiveness, I also explore how we can turn regrets into relief. Join me with a drink, as we discuss how to heal and forgive ourselves, even for what we didn't know. &nb...

11 months ago

20 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Reframing Self-Judgement and Embracing Self-Love

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION One seemingly harmless word can actually be a major source of self-judgment, blame, and even shame. In this episode, we're looking at that word, how it impacts our mindset and self-perception – then reframing it. We’ll highlight strategies to reframe our thinking along with simple ways to cultivate self-love. Join me for a relaxed conversation about breaking free from one of the shackles that prevent us from ste...

11 months ago

10 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Don't Reward the Negative: Breaking Free from Self-Sabotaging Thoughts

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Have you ever noticed how mean you can be to yourself? In this episode, I'm looking at the impact of negative self-talk and why it's time to change our personal narratives. I'll share some of my own struggles, and you'll hear about a powerful conversation I had with an amazing author that totally shifted my perspective. We'll talk about the importance of rewarding positivity, appreciating the journey, and refram...

11 months ago

12 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Embracing Kintsugi: The Art of Turning 'Broken' into 'Whole' in Leadership and Life w/Damon Utsey

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION In this episode, I explore the concept of Kintsugi, an ancient Japanese art of mending broken pottery with gold, and how it parallels personal and professional growth. Special guest Coach Damon Utsey, a leadership coach, joins the conversation to discuss the significance of personal development in leadership, the importance of male allies and sponsors, and how to recognize and cultivate true leadership skills. W...

12 months ago

55 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Defining Yourself for Yourself: The Power of Words and Authenticity

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Tired of feeling boxed in by labels? In this episode, I'm diving deep into the power of words and how they shape our reality. I'll share some personal stories, including a job interview that completely changed my perspective, and how I finally learned to embrace my authentic self. We'll explore the impact of words on our lives and careers. Plus, I'll introduce you to the beautiful concept of "kints...

1 year ago

12 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Touring the Home Within: A Journey of Mental Health and Self-Love

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Feeling like you're crumbling inside, despite appearing perfectly fine on the outside? In this episode, I delve into my personal journey of navigating mental health challenges. After a wake-up call from dear friends, I embarked on a deep dive into my inner world to address the underlying issues. Join me as I discuss the importance of recognizing and overcoming mental health struggles, the power of building emoti...

1 year ago

20 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Embrace Your Power: Taking Up Space, Using Your Voice, and Gaining Visibility (Part 3)

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. SHOW DESCRIPTION Limited Time Special Offer: Name Your Own Price for Coaching and Accountability Partner Services How can you confidently have your voice heard, take up space, and command respect in every aspect of your life? This episode recaps the key takeaways from our three-part series owing our space, our voice, and our presence. We discuss the importance of using our voice, body language, and presence to command spa...

1 year ago

20 minutes

Coffee, Cocktails, and Clarity: Real Women, Real Talk for Personal and Professional Development

Embrace Your Power: Taking Up Space, Using Your Voice, and Gaining Visibility (Part 2)

Finished listening to this episode? Share your feedback with me. Limited Time Special Offer: Name Your Own Price for Coaching and Accountability Partner Services SHOW DESCRIPTION Picking up where Episode 9 left off, I delve into self-worth and managing perceptions in the workplace through personal experiences and insights. This episode focuses on the significance of voice, tone, body language, words, and presence in effectively communicating and asserting oneself. Through practical adv...

1 year ago

44 minutes