In this Man to Man episode of Coffee With Dan, Dan Meredith (@therealdanmeredith) sits down with Dan Highcock and Matt Hall for an unfiltered conversation about burnout, pressure, ambition and how high-performing men actually manage it all without snapping.
All three are deep in intense growth seasons — big workloads, big responsibilities and very little margin for error — and they get brutally honest about what burnout really looks like before it hits full collapse. From being constantly “on”, to short tempers, bad sleep, rising caffeine intake and losing patience with people, this episode pulls apart the warning signs most men ignore.
They talk about managing different seasons of life, why balance is a myth, how discipline can help or hurt depending on context, and why copying other people’s routines off the internet is often the fastest way to burn yourself out. There’s a deep dive into non-negotiables versus ideals, flexible routines, permission to rest, intentional sprints of extreme effort, and when it’s actually healthy to go all-in for a defined period of time.
The conversation also covers men’s mental health, the importance of having people you can talk to, why bottling things up makes everything worse, and how simple awareness can stop burnout before it takes you out. Expect real talk, dark humour, practical tools and plenty of laughs along the way.
If you’re ambitious, driven, tired and wondering whether you’re pushing hard enough or pushing too hard, this episode will hit home.
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00:00 – Welcome to Man to Man
01:30 – Growth seasons and running on empty
04:30 – Early signs of burnout people miss
08:00 – Saying yes, momentum and the cost of opportunity
12:00 – Discipline, routines and unrealistic expectations
16:30 – Non-negotiables vs ideal days
20:30 – Personality types and why routines don’t suit everyone
24:30 – Giving yourself permission to stop
28:00 – Hobbies, stillness and switching off
33:00 – Obsession, ambition and extreme effort phases
38:00 – Rest vs relentless drive
42:30 – The lag between effort and results
46:30 – Talking to someone and men’s mental health
51:30 – Warning signs you’re pushing too far
55:00 – Final takeaways and practical advice