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Conflict Skills

Simon Goode

85 episodes

2 weeks ago

In this episode, Simon Goode interviews his friend and former colleague, Meng, about their experiences teaching English in South Korea. The discussion touches on navigating cultural differences, and adapting to Korean workplace hierarchy. They discuss the challenges of managing diverse teams, handling conflict between foreign teachers and local management, and the lasting impact of these experiences on their personal and professional lives. The conversation is filled with reflections on leade...

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In this episode, Simon Goode interviews his friend and former colleague, Meng, about their experiences teaching English in South Korea. The discussion touches on navigating cultural differences, and adapting to Korean workplace hierarchy. They discuss the challenges of managing diverse teams, handling conflict between foreign teachers and local management, and the lasting impact of these experiences on their personal and professional lives. The conversation is filled with reflections on leade...

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Entrepreneurship,

Episodes (20/85)

Conflict Skills

Navigating Korean Work Culture: Lessons in Leadership, Conflict, and Community as Foreign Teachers

In this episode, Simon Goode interviews his friend and former colleague, Meng, about their experiences teaching English in South Korea. The discussion touches on navigating cultural differences, and adapting to Korean workplace hierarchy. They discuss the challenges of managing diverse teams, handling conflict between foreign teachers and local management, and the lasting impact of these experiences on their personal and professional lives. The conversation is filled with reflections on leade...

2 weeks ago

39 minutes

Conflict Skills

Accidental Mediator Toolbox: Six Key Skills for Navigating Workplace and Personal Conflicts

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode explores the essential skillset for anyone who finds themselves in the role of an "accidental mediator," such as managers or HR professionals dealing with workplace conflict. He breaks down six key areas: self-regulation, de-escalation, empathetic listening, coaching (using the GROW model), assertiveness and boundaries, and creating the conditions for success in conflict resolution. Throughout the episode, Simon shares practical...

3 weeks ago

1 hour 2 minutes

Conflict Skills

Managing Gen Z Staff As A Millenial (Gen Y)

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode explores the challenges millennials face when managing Gen Z staff, using a real-life case study to illustrate common issues like communication barriers, differing work norms, and heightened sensitivity to feedback. Simon shares practical conflict resolution strategies, emphasizing the importance of de-escalation, flexible expectations, and understanding generational "cultural differences." He encourages managers to foster colla...

1 month ago

42 minutes

Conflict Skills

Help, I've been Accused of Racism at Work: Conflict Tools and Strategies for Tough Conversations

In this episode, host Simon Goode discusses a real-life workplace scenario where someone was accused of racism after referring to a colleague by their skin color during a conversation. He breaks down the layers of workplace conflict, highlighting the roles of value and relationship conflicts, and offers practical advice for self-care and preparation when facing similar accusations. Simon also shares strategies for navigating difficult conversations and maintaining composure in stressful situa...

1 month ago

28 minutes

Conflict Skills

How to Avoid Unnecessary Conflict: Practical Skills for Everyday Interactions

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode explores the ways people can unintentionally invite unnecessary conflict into their lives, drawing on both personal experiences and the story of a neighbor’s altercation. Simon outlines three main strategies to avoid such conflicts: learning to pause and prioritize, recognizing it's not your job to correct others, and not taking others’ actions too personally. He also shares practical mindfulness techniques and encourages reflec...

2 months ago

17 minutes

Conflict Skills

Micro De-escalation Skills for Everyday Conflicts: Subtle Ways to De-Escalate Tension

In this episode, host Simon Goode introduces the concept of "micro-de-escalation," focusing on subtle gestures and communication techniques to reduce perceived threat and lower the energy in conflict situations. He discusses practical approaches such as using positive body language, appropriate tone of voice, and giving others a sense of autonomy and fairness. The episode offers actionable tips for everyday interactions, helping listeners create more positive and constructive exchanges, even ...

2 months ago

40 minutes

Conflict Skills

Relationship Repair - What to Do When Your Spouse and Best Friend Stop Speaking

Struggling with conflict between your partner and your best friend? In this episode, I break down a real-life scenario where a heated argument over parenting styles led to lasting tension. I share the five types of apologies, why "getting over it" isn't helpful, and how to focus on practical steps for repairing relationships. Plus, I reveal strategies to navigate value clashes and set healthy boundaries when you’re stuck in the middle. Tune in for practical, real-world conflict skills you can...

3 months ago

41 minutes

Conflict Skills

Five Types of Conflict Every Housemate Faces and How to Handle Them

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host and professional mediator Simon Goode explores the five types of conflict that can arise between housemates: relationship, data, interest, values, and structural conflicts. He explains each type with practical examples from shared living situations and offers suggestions for addressing them effectively. The episode aims to provide listeners with a helpful framework for understanding and resolving housemate tensions, drawing on both personal...

4 months ago

18 minutes

Conflict Skills

Team Members Not Pulling Their Weight in Projects

In this episode, Simon Goode explores how to handle situations where a team member isn’t contributing effectively, specifically when they rely too much on AI tools and submit superficial work. He analyzes the scenario using five types of conflict—relationship, data, interest, values, and structure—to help listeners clarify the underlying issues and choose the best approach. The episode offers practical strategies for assessing and addressing group conflict, encouraging listeners to use this f...

4 months ago

19 minutes

Conflict Skills

Conflict and Grief: Mistakes to Avoid and Tools To Manage Waves of Emotions

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, Simon Goode explores the relationship between grief and conflict, offering practical tools for supporting those experiencing loss and navigating challenging conversations. He discusses common mistakes people make when addressing grief, ways to de-escalate emotional situations, and strategies for maintaining boundaries with empathy and clarity. Simon also emphasizes the importance of self-care for anyone supporting others through grief, sharing h...

5 months ago

29 minutes

Conflict Skills

3 Levels of Active Listening: Step-by-Step Masterclass for Better Conversations

In this episode, Simon Goode breaks down active listening into three levels: building initial connection through body language and basic responses, using coregulation and summarizing to help others feel truly heard, and practicing genuine curiosity to foster reciprocal change in conversations. He shares practical tips, like using open and closed questions, mirroring, and mindful summaries, to improve everyday listening skills. Simon also emphasizes the power of approaching conversations with ...

6 months ago

22 minutes

Conflict Skills

Tools to Effectively Digest and Process Conflict

In this episode, Simon Goode explores how we can "digest" conflict experiences by using practical self-regulation techniques in the moment, immediately after, and over the long term. He shares tools like mindful breathing, multisensory walks, journaling, and gratitude exercises to help restore balance and process stressful encounters. Simon emphasizes that everyone's needs are different, encouraging listeners to experiment with various strategies to find what works best for them. ------------...

6 months ago

42 minutes

Conflict Skills

3 Steps To Rebuild Trust After Workplace Conflict

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode explores the challenge of rebuilding trust after a conflict, particularly in workplace settings. He outlines a three-phase approach: clarifying expectations, facilitating resolution through empathy and structured reflection, and maintaining positive momentum with ongoing feedback. Throughout, Simon shares practical tools and strategies for managers, team leaders, and colleagues to support trust-building and navigate post-conflic...

7 months ago

23 minutes

Conflict Skills

The Hubris Of Conflict Resolution Expertise

In episode 73 of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode discusses the challenges and complexities of being labeled a conflict resolution expert, sharing personal experiences of feeling overwhelmed by conflicts despite training when the situation was calling on resources that weren't available. Simon explores the unrealistic expectations we often place on ourselves and delves into how our brain's response to stress can complicate conflict management. Throughout the episode, Simon ...

7 months ago

30 minutes

Conflict Skills

Managing Conflict When You're Tired: Practical Strategies for Low Energy Challenges

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode shares five tips for managing conflict when you're tired. He discusses how tiredness affects our thoughts, emotions, and behavior, leading to a higher likelihood of conflict, and provides strategies like slowing down, strategically adjusting timing, and self-regulating frequently. Simon also touches on the importance of managing expectations for ourselves and with others when our energy levels are low. -------------------- 00:...

7 months ago

31 minutes

Conflict Skills

5 Tips To Overcome Conflict Avoidance and Improve Assertiveness

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, I provide 5 useful tools for individuals who are conflict avoidant, providing strategies to help them manage conflicts more effectively in various relationships. He emphasizes understanding the reasoning behind conflict avoidance, offers coaching tools for team leaders and managers, and highlights techniques like goal clarification and utilizing the six sources of influence. The episode is aimed at both conflict avoidant individuals and those su...

8 months ago

42 minutes

Conflict Skills

How to Manage Emotions in Performance Management Conversations

In today's episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast with host Simon Goode, we dive into the crucial topic of managing emotions during performance management meetings. Simon, a seasoned professional mediator, addresses the challenges often faced in these meetings, especially when conflict escalates. He explores various de-escalation strategies tailored for performance management conversations by focusing on five key aspects: certainty, relatedness, autonomy, status, and fairness. Simon also disc...

8 months ago

18 minutes

Conflict Skills

The 7 Hermetic Principles: Enhancing Relationship Dynamics Through Ancient Wisdom

In this episode, host Simon Goode explores the seven Hermetic principles derived from the teachings of Hermes and how they can be applied to conflict resolution in relationships. He delves into each principle, such as mentalism, correspondence, and vibration, discussing their relevance and offering insights on how these ancient concepts can help individuals understand and influence their interpersonal dynamics. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on how their perceptions and behaviors...

8 months ago

28 minutes

Conflict Skills

Five Strategies to Say No - Firmly and Respectfully

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host and professional mediator, Simon Goode, delves into the art of saying 'no' with confidence and kindness. Reflecting on personal experiences, including morning challenges with his son and client demands at work, Simon explores five practical strategies to effectively communicate a refusal without escalating tension. Whether it's using tactical phrasing like "this isn't the time" or suggesting constructive alternatives, the episode provides l...

9 months ago

22 minutes

Conflict Skills

Understanding Cumulative Stress: How It Fuels Workplace Conflict

In this episode of the Conflict Skills Podcast, host Simon Goode discusses the cumulative effects of stress on workplace conflict and the interconnection between work and personal life stressors. He highlights how stress can negatively impact our capacity to handle conflict and offers strategies for managing stress, including during and after conflicts, as well as over the long term. Goode also invites listeners to share their experiences and stay updated on his upcoming online course focused...

9 months ago

27 minutes