In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores the tefillah Tatzileinu Me’Malshinut—asking Hashem to protect us from informers, slander, false testimony, and baseless hatred. Whether it’s business disputes, legal challenges, rumors, or anonymous hostility, these threats often come through words rather than actions. This prayer trains us to recognize our vulnerability, acknowledge Hashem’s constant protection, and respond with emunah when challenges do arise—seeing them not as random attacks, but as purposeful tests designed for growth and elevation.
In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores the tefillah of “Me’Ayin Ha’ra, Me’Lashon Ha’ra”, uncovering how envy and negative speech stem from the spiritual misunderstanding and belief that someone else’s blessing diminishes our own. This class reframes jealousy, comparison, and gossip into opportunities for emunah—reminding us that no one can ever take what was meant for us, and that when we put out good, good comes back.
In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores "Pegah Ra" asking Hashem to save us from harm — not just the accidents we experience, but the countless disasters we never even knew were heading our way. The quiet miracles of daily life, the near-misses we never notice, the traps we step into unknowingly, and the ways Hashem pulls our feet out before we even sense the danger. This powerful tefillah teaches us to recognize Hashem’s constant protection, to feel gratitude for what didn’t happen, and to understand that every safe day is a gift.
In this class Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi discusses "Me’Shachen Ra", the tefillah asking Hashem to save us from a bad neighbor. A neighbor isn’t just someone who lives next door — they become part of your daily environment, your values, your lifestyle, and even your inner world. From Brooklyn driveway wars to spiritual influence, from social pressure to lifestyle creep — this episode uncovers how profoundly neighbors shape us, and why we pray daily for protection.
In this episode Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explore the tefillah “Tatzileinu Me’chaver Ra” — asking Hashem to save us from the wrong friendships, the relationships that quietly pull us down, limit our potential, or cloud our judgment. From Yaakov navigating life alone, to modern examples of friendships that cap our spiritual, emotional, or business growth — this class brings a powerful reminder: You don’t always see the danger when you’re close to it. So we ask Hashem for clarity, protection, and the courage to let go when needed.
In this episode Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi discusses that we often assume that beating the Yetzer Ha’ra is our job — our strength, our discipline, our willpower. But Chazal teaches the Yetzer Ha’ra grows stronger every day, and without Hashem’s help, we simply cannot defeat it. The moment we acknowledge, “Hashem, I can’t win this without You,” is the moment real strength begins.
In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores "adam ra and isha ra’ah " — people whose influence, intentions, or presence could harm us or pull us into situations not meant for us. Not every missed call, failed deal, or unanswered text is a setback — sometimes it’s protection. Hashem can block the wrong business partner, distance us from toxic personalities, and shield us from relationships that would damage our growth. And when we rely on Hashem, not people, He guides us toward what’s truly beneficial. A powerful reminder that divine protection often shows up as “nothing happened today.”
In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explains the tefillah asking Hashem to save us from azut panim—brazen, harsh, ego-charged interactions, whether coming toward us or rising within us. Some days, all it takes is one tense conversation to derail our inner world. We’re asking Hashem to protect us from being pulled into anger, arrogance, and emotional turbulence… and instead to help us tap into the positive kind of boldness: the inner strength to stand for truth, for Hashem’s will, and for our higher selves. A grounded reflection on navigating confrontation without losing your center.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explains Tatzileinu Hayom U’Bechol Yom Vayom - “Hashem, save us today and every day.” We often assume that because yesterday was smooth, today will be too — health will hold, money will be there, nothing major will shift. Why do we ask for protection today if nothing seems wrong… and then repeat every day as if the routine hasn’t already carried us safely? The tefillah realigns us that every day’s stability is a fresh gift from Hashem, not a continuation of our own merit. By recognizing that yesterday’s safety came from Hashem, we step into today with renewed gratitude, awareness, and reliance.
In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi reflects on how we spend so much energy worrying about how others see us — but what if we started asking how Hashem sees us? To make sure we act, speak, and respond in a way that reflects how Hashem would want us to. When we stop chasing approval from people and start focusing on our standing before God, we gain true grounding. Through a powerful teaching from Chazal, we’re reminded: if we can feel Hashem’s presence in the room as vividly as we feel another person’s, we’ll choose better, speak kinder, and live higher.
In this episode, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores the deeper meaning behind our request for ahava, chen, chesed, and rachamim — love, favor, kindness, and mercy — in the Vi’hi Ratzon prayer. These aren’t just abstract blessings; they are divine tools through which Hashem molds how others feel about us.
When we ask Hashem for these qualities, we’re not just hoping to be liked — we’re asking Him to influence the hearts of those around us, to plant compassion, warmth, and goodwill in their eyes toward us. Every act of kindness we receive, every opportunity that opens, every person who shows us favor — it’s not random. It’s Hashem orchestrating our relationships, guiding interactions, and softening hearts.
This awareness brings emotional security and spiritual clarity. We stop obsessing over how to win people over and start focusing on our connection with Hashem — the true source of all favor. When we trust that He is the One turning hearts in our direction, we gain peace, confidence, and a deeper sense of purpose in our relationships.
In this continuation of V’hi Ratzon, Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi reveals the deeper meaning behind our daily plea: “Hashem, don’t bring me to sin, temptation, or disgrace — and distance me from the Yetzer Hara.” This isn’t just about avoiding mistakes on our own. It’s about asking Hashem to protect us from ourselves — from our impulses, our distractions, and the inner voice that pulls us away from truth. When we turn to Him for help, He guides our steps, strengthens our discipline, and aligns our will with His.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi begins exploring the prayer Vi’hi Ratzon, asking Hashem to “make us accustomed to Your Torah and attached to Your mitzvot.” Real change isn’t about giant leaps, it’s about daily steps. Rabbi Farhi shares how this prayer asks Hashem to help us make Torah and mitzvot feel natural, effortless, and woven into our everyday rhythm. When learning and mitzvot become our second nature—part of our daily muscle memory—our spiritual life transforms from effort to instinct.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores the blessing Hamaavir Chevlei Sheina — “Hashem, You remove the bonds of sleep from my eyes.” Ever notice how you can see someone’s excitement in their eyes? This blessing is a request for Hashem to reignite our inner light, restore our energy, and help us see life with fresh eyes again. When your eyes shine, your soul is alive.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores the blessings Shelo Asani Isha and She’asani Kirtzono —Why do men thank Hashem for not being women—and women thank Hashem for being made “ as He willed”? Far from a statement of superiority or inequality, these berachot teach the power of acceptance: that Hashem places each person in their perfect role, with their own challenges, tools, and opportunities for growth. Hashem knew that men, left to their own devices, could easily become consumed by work, distraction, and ego—so He gave men structure: fixed times, clear routines, and daily mitzvot to pull us back to Him. Women, by contrast, were created with a natural spiritual sensitivity that keeps them connected without as much external framework. True peace comes when we stop comparing, stop wishing for someone else’s life, and embrace the divine wisdom in our own.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi discusses another idea on the beracha of Shelo Asani Aved. On the surface, we serve Hashem and follow rules. But this service isn’t slavery—it’s alignment. Just like a violin string only produces music when held in tension, our souls produce greatness when bound by divine structure. Hashem’s “restrictions” aren’t to limit us—they remove distractions, refine our focus, and unleash our true potential. Real freedom is found not in doing whatever we want, but in becoming who we’re meant to be.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi unpacks Shelo Asani Aved – “Thank You, Hashem, for not making me a slave.” While we may no longer know physical slavery, many still live bound by inner chains – addictions, anxieties, habits, or self-limiting beliefs. This beracha calls us to see Hashem as the One who can set us free from whatever owns us inside. True freedom isn’t about doing whatever we want – it’s about no longer being a slave to what we don’t want to be.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explores the powerful blessing Shelo Asani Goy. Far from arrogance, this beracha is a heartfelt expression of gratitude to Hashem for giving us a Jewish soul—a life anchored in truth, purpose, and divine connection. It’s a praise to God for making our portion different from that of a non-Jew, reminding us that even the most successful or admired non-Jewish life cannot compare to the eternal spiritual inheritance of a Jew. This blessing calls us not only to appreciate our unique role, but also to resist the temptation to chase after lifestyles or values that are not ours. Instead, we should embrace our divine mission with pride, integrity, and joy.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi reflects on Oter Yisrael B’Tifarah—“Hashem crowns Israel with glory”. This is a call to embrace our Jewish identity with confidence and dignity. True honor comes not from blending in, but from standing tall as part of Hashem’s chosen nation. When we carry ourselves with pride and integrity, we reflect the Divine beauty within us—and inspire respect in the world around us.
Rabbi Eliyahu Farhi explains Ozer Yisrael B’gevurah—“Hashem girds Israel with strength”. True strength, doesn’t come from control, but from trust—the calm confidence that Hashem has prepared our path, given us exactly what we need, and placed us precisely where we’re meant to be. From that awareness comes unshakable inner power.