At some point, the “be the bigger person” expires and that’s exactly where we’re starting this week. In this episode of Curated Chaos, we’re unpacking what it really means to question your return on emotional investment. From reciprocity and self-worth to the subtle ways we self-sabotage by not believing, it’s time to ask the hard question: what am I actually getting out of this?

Join me as I step into my “villain era” not from bitterness, but from boundaries. Because sometimes, choosing yourself after constantly being the giver is the most radical act of self-love. We’ll talk about the guilt that comes with being selfish, the discomfort of withholding your energy, and how to pour into your own cup when everyone around you is used to drinking from it.

This episode is for anyone who’s done being the “strong one” and ready to be the whole one.