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Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dat
pattymartinlifecoach
27 episodes
5 days ago
For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best. But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.
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For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best. But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.
Show more...
Self-Improvement
Education,
Religion & Spirituality,
Society & Culture,
Christianity,
Relationships
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20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dat
17 minutes
1 month ago
20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety
Today we're going to talk about that invisible companion that controls your life without anyone else noticing: anxiety If you wake up with a weight on your chest and don't know why, this is for you Key Points: Anxiety isn't "just stress"It's not cured by positive thinking or "getting over it"It's a prison you build yourself, brick by brickPhrase to repeat: "Anxiety convinces you that if you worry enough, you can prevent bad things" Description of how it feels: The constant knot in your stomachThe voice saying "something terrible is going to happen"Permanent hypervigilanceThe exhaustion of always being on guard Concrete examples: "You stop accepting invitations because 'what if...?'""You avoid difficult conversations because conflict terrifies you""You stay in relationships that don't nourish you because change scares you""You postpone your dreams because you never feel 'ready'" Transition:"And so, without realizing it, your life becomes smaller and smaller. You live in your comfort zone, but the truth is there's nothing comfortable about it." THE REAL COST OF ANXIETYFour areas anxiety destroys:1. It steals your present 2. It sabotages your relationships 3. It paralyzes your potential 4. It exhausts your body If you're seeing yourself reflected in this, I want you to know it's not your fault. But it is your responsibility to do something about it.In my personalized sessions, we identify exactly how anxiety is manifesting in YOUR specific life. We don't talk in generalities. We go straight to YOUR triggers, YOUR patterns, YOUR solutions. And this month I only have space for 5 new women because each session requires my complete attention. WHY YOU HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO OVERCOME IT What you've tried (and why it didn't work):Meditation apps Give temporary reliefDon't work on the root of the problemAnxiety comes back stronger Motivational phrases "Positive thinking""Just breathe deeply"Don't work because anxiety isn't logical Keeping it secret "I don't want to bother anyone""Others have worse problems"Isolation makes anxiety worse Waiting for it to pass on its own "Someday I'll feel better"Anxiety doesn't disappear without interventionIt becomes your new "normal" The hard truth:If you could get out of anxiety alone, you would have already done it. It's not lack of willpower. It's that anxiety creates deep neurological patterns that require specific intervention and expert guidance.Transformation story: Client who couldn't sleep without checking doors 10 timesOr woman with panic attacks in public placesOr the one who avoided everything out of fearHow they broke free with specific work I don't do generic therapy. I don't give you a list of exercises and 'good luck.' I create a specific plan for you. For your type of anxiety. For your circumstances. And I can only do this with a limited number of women because it requires real depth. WHAT FREEDOM LOOKS LIKE Close their eyes and imagine: "Waking up without that immediate weight on your chest""Making decisions based on what you want, not what you fear""Having a difficult conversation without your heart jumping out of your chest""Sleeping deeply, without 'what if...' scenarios""Being present with people you love, truly present""Pursuing your dreams without fear paralyzing you" YOUR MOMENT TO DECIDETwo paths:Path 1: Stay the same Wait for anxiety to disappear on its own somedayAnother month, another year with the same weightWatching your life become smallerLosing opportunities, relationships, peace Path 2: Commit to your freedom Make the bravest decision of your lifeDo the deep workRegain controlLive without that constant weight Don't wait for anxiety to get worse. Don't wait to hit rock bottom. Don't wait to 'be ready.' The perfect moment doesn't exist. The moment is now.If the idea of contacting me gives you anxiety, that's exactly the sign you need to do it. Anxiety doesn't want you to change. I do.Contact me today for your personalized session. Not tomorrow. Not next week. To
Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Online Dating, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dat
For years, I believed the story that love just was not in the cards for women like me, because I was divorced with 2 kids. I carried the weight of family patterns that whispered, ”Our women don’t get happily ever after.” I attracted toxic relationships because my inner voice was still wounded, still believing I deserve less than God’s best. But here’s what changed everything: Matthew 6:33 promises, ”But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, when I began to heal my past traumas and change my inner dialogue, everything shifted. The right person didn’t just show up – I was finally ready to recognize and receive him.