Send us a text For a lot of neurodivergent people, especially those living with ADHD, autism and trauma, ambiguity doesn’t land as “nothing is happening yet.” It lands in the body. As activation. As tension. As a quiet fear that something might change… and you may not be ready for it. In this episode of Dating on High Alert, I explore why unclear signals, emotional distance, inconsistency, or “not knowing where you stand” can feel so intense when your nervous system has been shaped by surviva...
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Send us a text For a lot of neurodivergent people, especially those living with ADHD, autism and trauma, ambiguity doesn’t land as “nothing is happening yet.” It lands in the body. As activation. As tension. As a quiet fear that something might change… and you may not be ready for it. In this episode of Dating on High Alert, I explore why unclear signals, emotional distance, inconsistency, or “not knowing where you stand” can feel so intense when your nervous system has been shaped by surviva...
Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong Ones (and How to Stop)
Dating on High Alert
1 hour 25 minutes
6 months ago
Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong Ones (and How to Stop)
You know that kind of relationship that feels like a rollercoaster? The butterflies, the intensity, the late-night spirals — we call it “chemistry,” but what if it’s actually chaos? In this episode, Ilja Abbattista unpacks why we keep falling for the wrong people — especially if you’re living with ADHD, trauma, or both. From trauma bonds and emotional addiction to the ADHD dopamine trap, this episode explores why calm can feel boring, why emotionally unavailable people feel addictive, and how...
Dating on High Alert
Send us a text For a lot of neurodivergent people, especially those living with ADHD, autism and trauma, ambiguity doesn’t land as “nothing is happening yet.” It lands in the body. As activation. As tension. As a quiet fear that something might change… and you may not be ready for it. In this episode of Dating on High Alert, I explore why unclear signals, emotional distance, inconsistency, or “not knowing where you stand” can feel so intense when your nervous system has been shaped by surviva...
