Dear Fopsy is where meaningful stories come to life — featuring people doing the brave work of living with intention. Hosted by Fope “Fopsy” Nkwocha, each episode offers intimate conversations with everyday people, thought leaders, and creative voices exploring love, resilience, faith, business, and the bold pivots that shape who we become.
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Dear Fopsy is where meaningful stories come to life — featuring people doing the brave work of living with intention. Hosted by Fope “Fopsy” Nkwocha, each episode offers intimate conversations with everyday people, thought leaders, and creative voices exploring love, resilience, faith, business, and the bold pivots that shape who we become.
From the deeply personal to the widely universal, Dear Fopsy is a space for practical wisdom to help you build a life (and business) you love.
✨ Come for the stories. Stay for the depth.
🎥 Watch full episodes at YouTube.com/@fopsyTheGreat
Money & Marriage: How to handle Money Matters Before and After 'I Do'?
Dear Fopsy
1 hour 9 minutes 44 seconds
2 years ago
Money & Marriage: How to handle Money Matters Before and After 'I Do'?
When it comes to money, most of us are figuring it out as we go. Do you know what else we're figuring out as we go? Marriage. So what's it like when you're figuring both out at the same time? Today, I'm joined by Fikayo Usman of @fixitfinance to talk about all things Money, Marriage and Mortality. It got so good, I already know Fikayo will be back to keep the conversation going. Listen for an honest conversation about paying off debt, learning about personal finance, book recommendations to get good with money, figuring out how to manage giving money to family- #blacktax, and so much more. And don't forget to share + leave a review when you're done :)
Fikayo’s book recommendations* for personal finance:
Budgeting for dummies - https://amzn.to/3pSpEwe
Total Money Make Over by Dave Ramsey- https://amzn.to/43bdL34
Clever Girl Finance: Learn How Investing Works, Grow Your Money by Bola Sokunbi https://amzn.to/42VMF08
Everyday Millionaires by Chris Hogan https://amzn.to/3Md4mRw
The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America's Wealthy https://amzn.to/3MCSpGe
*The provided links are affiliate links, which means I may earn a commission if you make a purchase through it. Thanks for your support.
Money marriage and mortality
0:00 Intro
1:35 Her journey with personal finance
2:57 Is finance knowledge easily accessible
12:05 How to be financially literate
13:44 Personal Finance books to read
14:45 Where to start figuring out money
21:18 When should couples talk about money in relationships
25:02 How to talk about money while dating
31:18 Is it wise for couples to merge their finances while engaged?
34:04 Why Money can cause issues in a marriage so
40:51 Should you get a prenup?
45:37 Giving money to extended family
52:44 Why is Life Insurance Important
1:01:11 What to do with your RRSP when you leave a job
1:03:46 Top issues millennials have
1:06:00 Connect with fix with finance
1:07:10 Fikayo’s money philosophy
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Dear Fopsy
Dear Fopsy is where meaningful stories come to life — featuring people doing the brave work of living with intention. Hosted by Fope “Fopsy” Nkwocha, each episode offers intimate conversations with everyday people, thought leaders, and creative voices exploring love, resilience, faith, business, and the bold pivots that shape who we become.
From the deeply personal to the widely universal, Dear Fopsy is a space for practical wisdom to help you build a life (and business) you love.
✨ Come for the stories. Stay for the depth.
🎥 Watch full episodes at YouTube.com/@fopsyTheGreat