If you’ve ever found yourself in a relationship that feels like a relationship—but somehow isn’t—you’re not alone. Grab my book here 👉 https://fopsy.ca/situationship-book. Situationships are everywhere, sold to us as "freedom." But what if real freedom is something completely different? Watch this before you settle for less.If this has resonated with you, trust me—you’ll want to get your hands on the full book! Situationship: How Not to Break Your Own Heart is packed with more insight and guidance. Get your copy here 👉 https://fopsy.ca/situationship-book.Thank you for the support! 💕
If you’ve ever felt confused in a situationship, it’s not just in your head—mixed signals create real heartbreak. In this video, I read Chapters 1-3 from my book Situationship: How Not to Break Your Own Heart. 💔 Listen in as we unpack why contradictory words and actions keep you stuck.🎧 Want the full story? Get my book here → https://fopsy.ca/situationship-bookSubscribe on YouTube to join the conversation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAjYhTGjvaU
I thought I was self-aware… until I found myself in back-to-back situationships. 😩 In this video, I share my story—how I kept falling into undefined relationships, why I finally woke up, and what led me to write Situationship: How Not to Break Your Own Heart. If you’ve ever felt confused about “what are we?” or been strung along by someone hiding behind spirituality, this is for you.
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One moment, life is chaotic, but going okay, you think. The next, your husband is asking for a divorce out of the blue. Discover how this experience shaped Natalie and propelled her toward seeking a well-rounded life, while helping other ambitious yet stressed women do the same. Dear Fopsy is back with new episodes! Make sure to subscribe here and follow on podcast platforms. If any part of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you in a comment. Get in touch with our guest Natalie Mullin Here’s her website https://www.nataliemullin.com/ Her Podcast: From a Full Cup https://from-a-full-cup.captivate.fm/ Find her on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nataliemullin/ 🤝🏽 Here's how to support & get in touch with me: ⭐ Follow the podcast here & please leave a review Subscribe on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@FopsyTheGreat 💗 Share episodes that resonate to your social story & with friends (tag me @fopsythegreat - https://www.instagram.com/fopsythegreat 📒 Buy My Book on ➡️ ➡️ https://fopsy.ca/store 📧 Email me for sponsorships dearfopsy@gmail.com Chapters: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:58 “How Are You” Should We be Honest in our Responses? 00:03:20 Meet Natalie 00:04:33 If You’re At Rock Bottom, Yoga Won’t Fix It 00:14:26 Is Wellness a Privileged Conversation? 00:20:15 Natalie’s Story: Accomplished but Almost Divorced 00:30:52 How to Create Balance and Build the Life YOU want 00:42:00 Social Media and Wellness 00:50:24 Wellness without the Family Support to Help 00:57:45 Hold your Well-being Just as High as You Hold Your Goals 01:00:07 Support Our Work
According to Tobi Oluwole, here's the #1 formula to remember:
And he knows what he's talking about. From a boss who didn't like that, he was doing so much on Linkedin to another company where his content accelerated his career - he got promoted because of his visibility, got to speak at events, and more to now being able to earn (a really good) full-time income from his content.
In this episode: How to accelerate your growth as a content creator, expert, or influencer. Tobi shares the early signs he saw, what he studied and replicated, and more to get to millions of impressions in the first six months and now over 100M impressions.
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Talked to Abisola Shof from @theshofs on this episode! We discussed Marriage 10 Years Later, spouses going bald 👀, Family Finances when one spouse pursues a high-risk high reward dream, dealing with the different seasons of marriage, and keeping it fun when life is life-ing 🤩
The Shofs are not just fun on Instagram, but also inspirational and transparent about their marriage on YouTube. Don't sleep on their other content! Follow them around the web.
00:00 Intro
1:05 Meet Abisola Shof
4:31 Marriage Models?
9:36 How the Shofs met
12:27 Has Marriage always been fun?
18:25 Exploring Personal Goals while Married
25:40 Going full-time with content creation
29:00 Enjoying Marriage with Kids
33:08 Body changes in marriage
39:58 Navigating Difficult seasons in marriage
46:03 Connect with the Shofs
47:22 Spicing Up Your Relationship
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David Ojeyinka has spoken to over 150 senior leaders of immigrant descent on his podcast about their journeys, but you haven't heard his story of resilience in moving from Nigeria to Canada. And what a story it is! I sat with my friend, an inspirational speaker and embodiment of resilience, to talk through the highs, lows, and lessons learned on his journey of building a fresh start in Canada. One of my favourite parts of this episode is where he credits his transformation from naivety to becoming wise and visionary to simply believing God. It sounds very ordinary but something about the child-like faith has stuck with me. There’s also the absolute doggedness it takes to keep going when no one else sees the vision of what you're building.
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Mrs. Busola Arimoro shares her story of life with Sickle Cell Disease - from her childhood and faith to living with chronic illness, finding love, and navigating marriage and childbearing with Sickle Cell Anaemia. I am honoured by Aunty Busola’s generosity in sharing her journey, and I know her story of resilience will inspire you. 00:00 Intro 1:30 Meet Aunty Busola 2:19 Early Life 11:13 Life with Sickle Cell Disease 19:54 The Financial Burden 💰of Sickle Cell Disease 25:22 Life Expectancy with Sickle Cell - turning 50 32:31 Believing God is a Healer - while living with a Chronic Illness 48:15 Dating with Sickle Cell 52:15 Marriage with Sickle Cell Disease 1:10:34 How Sickle Cell Affects You in School 1:13:12 Having Children when you have Sickle cell disease 1:28:55 Encouragement for when life is hard #DearFopsy #podcast #sicklecellanaemia
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My husband, Obi, and I have a candid chat about our cross-cultural Nigerian marriage, growing up, building confidence, and dealing with unexpected delays. He also dishes out advice to younger men and we share our favourite things about marriage. Don't miss out on this personal and entertaining conversation :) 0:00 Let’s Get into it 1:25 Meet Obi 3:08 He’s Igbo, I’m Yoruba 11:40 Growing Up 18:21 Building Confidence & An unexpected Delay 26:35 What makes some men mature and others stuck in childhood 47:10 What Brought you to Canada 🇨🇦 54:19 Advice to Younger Men 57:50 What’s the Best Part of Marriage
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How to deal with the agonizing loneliness of singleness as a Christian. This one’s for the days when you’re sick and tired of being single- feeling frustrated towards God and not sure life is worth living. Based on a real story from boundless.org & Candice Watters’ response.
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How do you love your wife like Christ loved the church? In this episode, we talk through the practical ways that men can show love to their wives. We also address the difficult question of what to do when your wife doesn't respect you.
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It feels weird to be taught how to love your husband because that's something that should come naturally, right? But, what if as a woman, your definition of love is so fundamentally different from what men want, that your acts of love aren't being translated accurately to him? This "How to Love Your Man" 2-part series is inspired by Pastor Godman Akinlabi's Mr & Mrs Better Half. I'm sharing his words (from his experience as a counsellor, pastor, and husband of 20 years) while reflecting on them as a millennial married woman. You'll get actionable, practical and biblical ways to learn to love your husband.
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How far is too far when you're dating? Sure you have boundaries, but are they working? Here's an alternative to the "how far is too far" question that challenges you to rethink why you're dating for so long that you need to dance around sex for years. Also, a moment of vulnerability about the #real struggles when saving sex for marriage. Body no be firewood 😭
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Re-connecting with family and friends during the holidays sometimes comes with awkward questions about your job, relationship status, weight, or plans for kids. It's best to be prepared. So you don't get caught off guard. Instead of choosing violence, here are some ways to navigate hard conversations with family and friends during your visits with family.
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Every time, you hear about relationship red flags 🚩 . How about Relationship green flags 💚? What are some early signs that you’ve met someone worth dating? Well, that’s what this episode is about. Listen, enjoy and share!
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