What if the way you’re using sex is actually keeping you from true intimacy? In this raw and revealing episode, Amanda explores how sexual energy can become a tool for avoidance: a way to numb, distract, or seek validation rather than deepen connection. Through her own embodied wisdom, she guides you to recognize when desire is rooted in avoidance and how to transmute it into authentic, heart-centered intimacy.
In this episode of The Deeper Intimacy Podcast, Amanda Biccum takes you into one of the most uncomfortable (and liberating) conversations around sexuality: how we unconsciously use sex to avoid deeper truth, vulnerability, and presence.
We live in a culture that glorifies desire but rarely teaches us how to meet it consciously. Amanda invites you to peel back the layers of your sexual patterns, to see where sex may have become an escape: from loneliness, emotional discomfort, or the ache of unmet needs.
You’ll explore:
How to tell the difference between sex as connection and sex as avoidance
The subtle ways we use pleasure to bypass pain
What your patterns in intimacy reveal about your relationship to your own truth
Why embodiment and awareness are the antidotes to unconscious sexual loops
How to transform physical desire into a gateway for authentic emotional intimacy
Amanda doesn’t shame the impulse for connection, she honors it. And she reminds us that true intimacy begins when we stop running from ourselves.
This episode is a powerful reflection for anyone ready to reclaim their sexual energy as sacred, integrated, and deeply human.
Tune in, drop into your body, and let this conversation guide you back to the heart beneath the desire.
Resources:
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🎙️ Podcast Description
In this episode, Amanda Biccum opens the door to a deeper understanding of intimacy, one that goes far beyond what happens in the bedroom. Together, we explore intimacy as a way of relating, a practice of truth, and a way of being that brings more connection, depth, and authenticity into every part of life.
You’ll hear about the subtle ways we build or block intimacy in daily interactions, how unspoken truths create distance in relationships, and what it takes to cultivate vulnerability that leads to real closeness. Amanda shares practices and reflections that invite you to soften, open, and meet yourself and others from a more embodied, heart-centered place.
Whether you’re single or in partnership, this conversation will help you reimagine intimacy not just as physical closeness, but as a pathway to greater love, freedom, and presence in all your relationships.
Resources:
IG Amanda: https://www.instagram.com/theamandabiccum/
IG Shiva: https://www.instagram.com/steve.shiva.official/
Truth Based Relating Program: https://amanda-biccum.mykajabi.com/shiva-and-amanda
The Temple of Radiance Membership: https://www.thetempleofradiance.com/temple-of-radiance-membership
The Initiatress Training: https://www.thetempleofradiance.com/events
After a soulful pause, Amanda Biccum returns to the mic with a powerful episode featuring sexuality and relationship coach Thorhildur — a woman who has navigated nearly two decades of marriage, motherhood, and the evolution into conscious polyamory.
In this intimate and eye-opening conversation, Thor shares her journey from postpartum disconnection and relationship struggle to personal sovereignty, erotic awakening, and creating deeply fulfilling partnerships — including her current dynamic with a husband and boyfriend.
🔹 Key Moments Inside:
– The turning point that led Thor to choose individual therapy over couples counseling
– How “State of the Union” meetings and personal hobbies rebuilt her marriage post-children
– Discovering open marriage, navigating fears, and embracing polyamory with heart
– Gender dynamics, emotional intimacy, and redefining what partnership means
– Real-life time management between partners, parenting, and purpose
– Powerful advice for anyone considering stepping into non-monogamy
Whether you’re curious about open relationships or longing for deeper intimacy within your current dynamic, this episode is a raw, practical, and soulful guide to what’s possible when you lead with truth, vision, and self-love.
💌 Tune in now, and don’t forget to send your questions for part two with Thor, happening later this season.
Check out Thorhildur's upcoming course on Polyamory:
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In the latest episode of 'Deeper Intimacy,' hosts Amanda and Steve Shiva delve into the profound theme of women's desire to be claimed in relationships, exploring how empowered women are increasingly seeking meaningful connections over casual encounters. The discussion examines the contrasting individualistic nature of men versus the communal tendencies of women, highlighting the intricate dynamics within tantra and yoga communities, where men face the challenge of asserting themselves respectfully. As they share personal experiences and the importance of clear communication, the hosts emphasize the role of masculine energy in providing safety, allowing women to embrace their femininity. The episode concludes with actionable advice for both women and men on nurturing their respective energies while inviting listeners to engage and provide feedback, fostering a deeper conversation around intimacy and relationships.
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Overview
In the latest episode of the "Deeper Intimacy Podcast," hosts Shiva and Amanda share a candid exploration of the concept of "mothering" within relationships, recorded in a relaxed bathtub setting. They differentiate between care and mothering, emphasizing its implications on relationship dynamics, particularly in heteronormative contexts. The discussion spans defining mothering, the responsibilities of both partners, and effective communication strategies to address concerns without falling into mothering behaviors. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences, consider how awareness and responsibility play vital roles in relationships, and are invited to engage with upcoming resources and courses aimed at fostering deeper intimacy. The episode concludes with actionable takeaways for listeners, including personal reflections and opportunities to engage further with the podcast community.
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In the latest episode hosts Shiva and Amanda delve into the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies, setting the stage with an introduction to their respective qualities and the significance of both in creating balance and life. The discussion progresses to explore how these energies influence relationships, highlighting the challenges faced when partners share the same energy and emphasizing the importance of polarity, trust, and communication in fostering healthy connections. The hosts also provide insights on achieving balance between masculine and feminine energies amid modern challenges, address common negative patterns in relationships, and stress the necessity of personal responsibility. To conclude, they recap the key points, recommend further engagement with their offerings, and invite listener feedback while encouraging participation in upcoming retreats.
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Join the waitlist for Truth Based Relating our program launching 2025 here.
In the latest episode of the podcast titled "TBR PERFECTLY IMPERFECT RELATIONSHIPS," the hosts delve into the complexities of relationships, emphasizing that they often bring to light deep-seated wounds and past pains. They discuss how painful relationships can serve as vital teachers in the journey toward self-love and the importance of recognizing personal responsibility for growth. Key signs indicating a relationship may be unhealthy, such as a lack of willingness from one partner to engage in improvement, are highlighted alongside the necessity of quality time, which is crucial for maintaining strong connections. The episode also addresses the impact of unresolved childhood issues on adult relationships, urging listeners to confront these challenges for healthier dynamics. Amanda Biccum is tasked with reflecting on her contributions to past relationships, while Shiva will focus on discussing ways to enhance quality time within relationships.
Connect with us online:
🪄 INSTA : @theamandabiccum
🪄 INSTA : @steve.shiva.notorioushearts
WEBSITE: www.amandabiccum.com
Join the waitlist for Truth Based Relating our program launching 2025 here.
In the podcast episode, your hosts Amanda and Joris explore the intricate relationship dynamics within group facilitation, emphasizing human potential and connection.
The discussion delves into effective facilitation techniques, the balance between structure and emergence, and the vital role of a facilitator’s emotional intelligence.
Key topics include; reading group dynamics, the importance of authenticity, and the challenges of co-facilitation.
Be sure to stay until the end as there is a golden nugget waiting for you with the final question asked.
Connect to Joris Van Doorslaer here @unleashingofpotential
In this deeply introspective episode, Amanda and Shiva share an honest conversation about the complexities of truth-based relating and the transformative power of authenticity in their relationship. Together, they navigate the profound impact of secrets—such as those surrounding erectile dysfunction—and how they can erode trust and connection.
🔍 Addressing Betrayal: Explore the ways hidden truths can challenge intimacy and trust.
🤝 Community Support: Learn why collective support is essential in overcoming relationship hurdles.
💬 Safe Spaces: Discover how creating environments for open dialogue fosters deeper understanding.
🌱 Growth Through Honesty: Witness the potential for personal and relational growth through radical transparency.
This episode invites you to reflect on your own relationships and consider how vulnerability, even in its most challenging moments, can pave the way for healing, intimacy, and true connection.
*the quality of this audio isn't our best as we were trying out new microphones - however the content of this initial conversation was so good that we felt it was important to share it as it is instead of trying to re-record.
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Hello Beautiful Humans and welcome to another episode!
It's been a while since our last episode, but we believe in honoring the natural rhythm of creation rather than sticking to strict schedules.
Today, we embark on a special journey inspired by Nadia Munla and Chris Bale podcast, diving into the realms of new paradigm relating and evolutionary connections.
Join me in this episode are two extraordinary guests, Ava Tamar and Michel Kasper, who have been pivotal in this evolutionary new paradigm relating journey. Together, we'll share our story, why we find ourselves in a tent in France, and how embracing this path has shaped our lives.
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During our conversation, Amanda and Nadia delve into the concept of embodiment and the advantages of intuitive movement. Additionally, they discuss the importance of understanding the five dimensions of embodiment: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and energetic.
Nadia explains that contemporary society imposes a flawed perspective on the ideal form and function of our bodies. Thus, it is crucial to tune into our inner selves and not rely solely on external influences. She also recommends slowing down our movements and taking deep breaths to allow our bodies to express their narratives and achieve genuine self-connection.
Nadia Munla
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Welcome to today's episode of our podcast where Amanda interviews a very special guest, Aubrey Aurora. They will be sharing their journey of sisterhood and how they inspired each other to explore the practice of ritual and devotion of sensuality and sexuality.
Segment 1: Sisterhood Journey
- Amanda and Aubrey share their story of how they met and developed their sisterhood.
- They discuss how they inspired each other to embrace their erotic nature and explore the practice of ritual and devotion of sensuality or sexuality.
Segment 2: Erotic Rituals
- Amanda and Aubrey dive deep into the different erotic rituals that can help you harness the outskirts of your sexual subconscious and the sensual energy of your erotic aliveness.
- They share some of the techniques and practices that they have personally found helpful in their own journey.
Segment 3: Magical Erotic Renaissance
- Amanda and Aubrey talk about the magical erotic renaissance and how we as humans can engage with our erotic nature by offering to the divine.
-They discuss the importance of embracing our own eroticism and the benefits that come with it.
Aubrey Aurora is an erotic ritualist and an event curator based in Vancouver, BC. She has spent the better half of a decade creating luxury erotic experiences for people from all walks of life with a gift of deep attention to ambience and atmosphere. Her work is often described as a portal to the depths of your most sensual fantasies.
To join the erotic renaissance with Aubrey, visit: https://aubreyaurora.com/
IG: @ aubreyyaurora
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In this episode, Amanda and Alex delve into the complexities of relationships and the interplay of masculine and feminine energies. They explore the gates of the masculine heart and the depth of feminine devotion, and discuss the importance of inner work in creating a fulfilling partnership. They also touch upon the two main masculine wounds and offer insights on how to cultivate an enlivening relationship, regardless of gender.
Alex Mischka is a conscious sex and relationship coach and a licensed erotic blueprints facilitator. With a background as a former experiential designer and DJ, Alex has developed a new life path focused on helping individuals and couples end their relationship struggles and embrace a life of incredible sex, harmony, vibrancy, and deep satisfaction. He is passionate about helping people figure out who they are as relational beings and has a deep fascination with intimacy in relationships.
For masculinity weekend workshops and coaching with Alex, visit: https://alexmischka.com/
IG: @ alex_mischka
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In this episode Amanda and Philippe dive deep into the landscape of attachment theory, self-regulation, self-care, sense making, and self-resourcing. They will also tackle the four stages of the journey to security which will help you reach a happy and fulfilling life.
Philippe is a relationship educator and founder of Exquisite Dark Love, a platform for supporting men and women in making informed choices about relationships through the practice of connection, trust, consent, intimacy, and love. He is also co-founder of ReMENber Brotherhood Journey and a coordinator with ISTA, the International School of Temple Arts. In addition, Philippe is a modern voice on critical thinking about morality and the integration of the Masculine, Feminine, Dark, Light, and Shadow.
He has also founded the Open Relationship Community, Attachment Community, and Consent Community to support new conversations on these important topics. As a loving father to an 11-year-old son, Philippe is constantly inspired to deepen his understanding and practice of surrendering to love and living life to the fullest.
For private sessions and coaching with Philippe, visit: https://www.exquisitedark.love/IG: @exquisite.dark.love FB: www.facebook.com/philippesimonlewis/
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Today Michael Rosen shares his personal journey of having Idiopathic Scoliosis and his fair share of high and lows. How he manages everything with the condition and still lives a positive outlook in life. Tune in and learn how Tantric Spirituality made an impact on his daily life. All these and more!
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Here's a link where you can read the full article written by Michael Rosen:
Adolescent Idiopathic Scoliosis: A New Approach
https://medium.com/@michaelrosen_94192/adolescent-idiopathic-scoliosis-a-new-approach-18a9ccb057f9
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Another beautiful episode with Amanda wherein she talks about conscious relating beyond the labels. Understanding how we get to love and expand into love. tune in for more!
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In today's episode, Amanda explains the in-depth difference between immature and mature feminine and of course how these two impact our everyday life. all these and more, so tune in!
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Today's episode, Amanda tackles the importance of the shadow side of our human sexuality that involves both men and women. Tune in for more in-depth meaning and more!
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In this episode, Amanda will be talking about sex magic and how this can enhance our ability to attract what we desire.
All these and more! Tune in now!
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