this episode discusses possible debunk of why we stay with someone who’s mean to us. maybe it’s not them we’re staying for? Maybe it’s our maternal love system staying for their scared inner child? how to separate this out and find safety within yourself.

this episode covers creating inner safety for your self and inner child in adulthood, and sorting out where lack of boundaries come from. When we no longe me subconsciously seek out fear, that may just appear as excitement, big feelings, or butterflies…..what that feels like, why it’s confusing, and where to go next. How to prioritize yourself, and recognize when you’re seeking a dopamine hit from triangulation or ring chosen.

This episode discusses the amygdala, gut feelings/ intuition, and how to handle feeling lied to with no proof. Nervous system symptoms around gas lighting in relationships also discussed.

this episode discusses body image, negative inner voice triggers, and how to pull yourself out of a dark space back into peace, balance, and tranquility. the universe takes care of you naturally when you begin to love yourself and choose yourself.

❤️ for dc

This episode discusses codependency and how it takes place in abusive relationships. What it means to struggle with self worth and how being needed by a partner gives false security. Advice on how to grow out of codependent behavior and relationships, and how to navigate a healthier relationship are also covered. Part 1 of 2.

For KD 💚

This episode covers how trauma bonds form psychologically and chemically in the brain. Explanation of why our abusers cannot be on a healing journey with us due to differing treatment needs and their psychological make up- discussion inspired by Dr. David Puter’s lecture on NPD. Inside your partners mind and yours, and ways to initiate breaking the bond are also covered.

This episode covers things we go through physically due to chronic stress and fatigue even when there is no physical abuse. Neuro chemistry and information on hormones and neurotransmitter dysregulation are discussed. How to take steps forward to help ourselves start feeling better physically and mentally. This is not medical advice.

This episode covers the topics and discussions that will be covered in season 6. Brief descriptions of why these relationships are addictive, brain chemistry, trauma bonding, gas lighting, no contact strategies, boundaries, and Stockholm syndrome are covered. How to cultivate hope to leave or stay gone, and how to help your support system better understand your needs at this time are also discussed. Hopefully this episode helps you feel like you can survive this, I got you! ❤️ Xo Nurse Jen