Dear Oscar - Episode One. This podcast was recorded in the early hours of the morning, coffee in hand, grief already awake, and featuring an extra special guest... The Early Mourning Coffee Club is a place for people who loved someone who left too soon. A place for quiet mornings, heavy hearts and doing the best we can with what's left. This first episode is a letter. To my son Oscar. About his Daddy. About love, loss, and learning how to exist in a life that looks nothing like the one ...