In this episode of Everything Is Onions, Koko peels back one of the most uncomfortable but necessary conversations: envy, self-abandonment, “pick me” culture, and the myth that the grass is greener somewhere else. From the viral TikTok Brenay, Tim, Akira, and Devon situation that sparked the discussion, to the psychology behind wanting what someone else has, to the difference between rules and boundaries, to the deeper truth about why some people fight to be chosen… This episode goes THERE. Koko breaks down: -Why envy makes you crave lives you’re not prepared to maintain -How “never-been-picked” energy leads to chaos -Why social media has people romanticizing highlight reels -The spiritual danger of stepping into someone else’s assignment -The real difference between boundaries vs rules -The heartbreak of self-abandonment -What rebuilding yourself actually looks like -How to stop settling and choosing validation over peace And the truth about why being chosen means NOTHING if you lose yourself in the process If you’ve ever questioned your worth, settled for less, or found yourself in situations you KNOW you deserved better than… this episode is for you. Like, comment, and subscribe — and let me know in the comments what part of today’s episode peeled YOUR layer back.