In this episode, Koko digs into the uncomfortable truth we all face at some point: sometimes the only thing standing between us and a better life… is what we don’t know yet. She unpacks how lack of knowledge, exposure, or guidance can stunt our growth — and why grace, not shame, should be the starting point when we look back at the choices we made before we understood the game.

From relationships to money, boundaries to belief systems, Koko breaks down how ignorance — both innocent and intentional — shapes our decisions. She explores how we’re often conditioned to do the best we can with the tools we were given, but also why it’s our responsibility to seek new information, evolve, and pivot once we do know better.

With her signature mix of humor and big-sister honesty, Koko reminds us that learning is lifelong, growth is layered, and accountability isn’t punishment — it’s freedom.

This episode is an invitation to reflect, release shame, and choose differently — one new layer at a time.