
In this episode, Koko peels back the seductive lie that “not knowing” keeps you safe. She breaks down how avoidance, denial, and selective blindness can feel like protection — especially when the truth is heavy, inconvenient, or forces you to change. But comfort built on pretending is temporary, and Koko gets into the real cost of choosing bliss over awareness.
From relationships we stay in because we don’t want answers, to red flags we ignore to keep the fantasy alive, to the societal systems that depend on people staying uninformed — this episode explores the many layers of why ignorance feels easier, even when it’s hurting us.
With honesty, humor, and her signature big-sister clarity, Koko unpacks how choosing knowledge — even when it stings — is the first step toward real growth, real power, and real freedom.
If you’ve ever looked back and realized you “didn’t want to know,” this conversation will hit home.