This episode peels back the layers of domestic violence in a way most people never do. We break down the psychology, the warning signs, the escalation patterns, and the harsh truth: leaving an abusive man is the most dangerous moment of a woman’s life. We talk about the tragic case in Tiffin, Ohio — a mother trying to leave, doing everything she was “supposed” to do, and the deadly retaliation that followed. We examine why abusive men treat separation as betrayal, not heartbreak, and why the violence often peaks when a woman finally decides to walk away. This conversation also dives into the ways Black women are uniquely unprotected: • Less believed when reporting abuse • More likely to be arrested for self-defense • Higher homicide risks • Greater exposure to firearm-related partner violence • Increased shame and cultural pressure to stay silent We also look at how cases like Duchess Dior, Ms. Pat’s story, and Reasonable Doubt Season 2 reflect a deeper reality: women learn to survive inside danger long before anyone else sees it. This is not an episode about “why she stayed.” It’s an episode about why leaving almost kills her. If you or someone you know is in danger, please use these resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Text: START to 88788 Chat available online Black-centered organizations: Ujima: The National Center on Violence Against Women in the Black Community The Safe Sisters Circle Sista Afya Community Care Black Women’s Health Imperative If this episode opened your eyes or touched you deeply, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe. This conversation saves lives.