In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Robert McKinney, a dedicated foster parent and fatherhood director, about his journey in fostering and adopting children. Robert shares his experiences, the challenges faced, and the joys of raising a large family that includes both biological and adopted children. He emphasizes the importance of unconditional love, support systems, and the transformative power of faith in navigating the complexities of foster care. The conversation highlights the need for more foster parents in the community and the impact of mentorship on both children and parents.Takeaways- Fostering is about more than just adopting a child; it's about adopting their history and experiences.- Children in foster care often carry trauma that requires understanding and unconditional love.- Support systems, such as friends and family, are crucial for foster parents.- Every child has a unique story that shapes their behavior and needs.- Fostering can lead to unexpected blessings and a larger family than initially planned.- The journey of fostering can reveal the harsh realities of the world.- It's important to balance the needs of biological children with those of foster children.- Fostering can be a rewarding but challenging experience that tests one's faith and patience.- Mentoring fathers who have lost custody of their children can be a fulfilling way to give back.- The love of a family can significantly change a child's life trajectory. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Foster Parenting Journey03:38 The Decision to Foster and Adopt05:18 Understanding the Challenges of Fostering07:36 Experiences with Fostered Children09:08 The Most Challenging Foster Experience14:27 Spiritual Growth and Transformation28:48 Overcoming Obstacles in Foster Care37:52 Motivation and Purpose in ParentingYou can reach Rob McKinney at email:fatherhood@prcclarkcounty.orgThe Fathering Strong podcast is a production of Urban Light Ministries. Your support helps us reach more fathers with free resources and workshops. You can give at www.urbanlight.org.
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Joe Scrutchen, the Fatherhood Coordinator for Franklin County, Ohio. Joe shares his personal experiences growing up with a strong father figure and how that shaped his approach to fatherhood. He discusses the importance of communication in co-parenting and the challenges many fathers face regarding child support. Joe emphasizes the need for supportive relationships and community outreach to help fathers navigate their responsibilities. He also reflects on his own family life, the joys and challenges of parenting, and his aspirations for the future of both his family and the fatherhood programs he oversees.Takeaways- Joe's parents maintained a positive co-parenting relationship after separation.- Preparation and emotional intelligence were key lessons from Joe's father.- Communication is essential for effective co-parenting.- Many fathers struggle to understand child support and its implications.- Joe's work focuses on building trust with fathers in the community.- The Franklin County Child Support Agency aims to support rather than punish fathers.- Joe emphasizes the importance of teamwork in his family.- Every child requires a unique approach to parenting.- Joe's goal is to see his children surpass his and his wife's achievements.- Collaboration with community partners is vital for effective fatherhood programs.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Personal Background05:32 The Impact of Parenting on Fatherhood06:54 Daily Life as a Fatherhood Coordinator09:38 Building Relationships with Fathers17:57 Common Questions from Fathers about Child Support22:08 Supporting Fathers with Arrearages25:31 Personal Insights on Fatherhood33:33 Future Aspirations for Family and WorkTo contact Joe for more information you may reach him at:Phone: 614-961-1864Email: joseph.scrutchena@jfs.ohio.govThe Fathering Strong podcast is a production of Urban Light Ministries. Your support to continue this podcast and the work of reaching more fathers is greatly appreciated. Go to urbanlight.org for more information and to donate.
The conversation explores the societal expectations placed on men regarding emotional expression and vulnerability, particularly in the context of therapy. Harrison Crawford discusses the challenges men face when asked to show emotions, be vulnerable, and relinquish control, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these difficulties in the therapeutic process.Takeaways- Things like don't cry, don't show your emotions, don't be vulnerable, always be in control, never ask for help.- We ask them to show emotions.- It's okay to cry.- We want them to be vulnerable.- Sometimes they have to relinquish a little control to the therapist.- Recognizing that that's a big ask for a lot of men.- I'm here to meet you wherever you're at in that process.- Acknowledging that it's hard for you.- Therapy requires emotional expression.- Societal norms impact men's mental health.Podcast Chapter Listing1. Introduction (00:28)• Eli Williams welcomes Harrison Crawford to the Fathering Strong podcast2. Growing Up with Dad (01:34)• Harrison reflects on his childhood and relationship with his father• Discusses his dad's career and family dynamics3. Becoming a Father (05:28)• Harrison's journey to fatherhood• Overcoming fears about parenting• Introduction to his two children4. Parenting a Son and Daughter (07:21)• Challenges of raising children• Being intentional about gender messages• Encouraging emotional openness and leadership5. Finding His Passion for Father Work (11:05)• Meeting Dan Griffin• Attending the "Engaging Fathers More Effectively" conference• Experiencing a professional epiphany6. Current Therapy Practice (13:31)• Virtual counseling approach• Referral processes• Being the "go-to guy" for fathers in therapy7. Why Men Don't Seek Help (15:56)• Exploring the "man rules"• Barriers preventing men from seeking therapy• Emotional vulnerability challenges8. Social Media's Double-Edged Sword (18:05)• Internet's impact on fatherhood• Positive and negative aspects of online communities• Masculine anger and echo chambers9. Supporting Fathers Facing System Barriers (21:11)• Validating fathers' experiences• Navigating resistance and emotional safety• Helping alienated fathers reconnect10. Creating Virtual Support for Dads (24:35)• Discussing potential platforms for father support• Importance of peer-to-peer connections11. The Amazing Dads Curriculum (31:37)• Overview of the passion project• Unique aspects of the curriculum• Trauma-informed approach to fatherhood12. Partnership with Dan Griffin (37:01)• How Harrison and Dan met• Developing a collaborative relationship• Shared vision for father support13. Upstream Work with Young Men (39:15)• Preparing the next generation of fathers• Addressing generational shifts in masculinity• Holistic approach to gender understanding14. Vision for the Future (42:58)• Dreams for Amazing Dads curriculum• Breaking cycles of trauma• Raising a more emotionally intelligent generation of fathersTo reach Harrison Crawford, contact him through email at:harrison@griffinrecoveryenterprises.comThe Fathering Strong Podcast is a production of Urban Light Ministries. To support the podcast, the Fathering Strong App, and the work to help more fathers, please go to www.urbanlight.org.
Sam Treadaway grew up with an alcoholic father and vowed to break the cycle. As a teacher, coach, and school administrator, he learned invaluable lessons about parenting that shaped how he raised his two sons. In this powerful conversation, Sam shares his philosophy on setting boundaries, the importance of parental unity, why consequences matter less than expectations, and how modeling behavior shapes children more than words ever could. He also offers his vision for the future of education, including year-round schooling and removing screens from classrooms. Whether you're a father, educator, or both, Sam's hard-won wisdom will challenge and inspire you to father with greater intentionality.Takeaways:- Breaking generational cycles starts with recognizing harmful patterns- The paradox of parenting: preparing children for when you're not around- Boundaries matter more than consequences in effective parenting- Parental unity and consistency are essential for raising responsible children- Modeling behavior shapes children more powerfully than words- Avoid helicopter and snowplow parenting styles- Teaching responsibility through chores and clear expectations- Education reform: year-round schooling and screen-free classroomsChapters:00:27 - Welcome to the Podcast - Introducing Sam and the Conversation 01:22 - Shadows of Childhood: Growing Up with an Alcoholic Father 03:55 - Breaking Generational Cycles of Addiction 08:59 - The Path to Intentional Fatherhood 09:38 - College, Teaching, and Personal Growth 11:27 - Two Sons, Two Unique Journeys: Tyler and Dave 18:17 - Navigating Different Parenting Challenges 22:19 - Setting Boundaries with Love and Wisdom 28:45 - The Art of Teaching Respect and Manners 31:20 - United Parenting: Consistency is Key 34:58 - Avoiding Common Parental Pitfalls 38:45 - Creating Supportive Educational Environments 45:16 - The Power of Authentic Student Care 50:03 - Reimagining Education for the Future 57:41 - Fathering as a Lifelong CommitmentThe Fathering Strong podcast is a production of Urban Light Ministries. Please consider supporting this podcast and the Fathering Strong programs. Learn more at Urbanlight.org and sign-up for the free FatheringStrong.com fatherhood app.
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Chris Lightfoot about his journey as a father and the impactful work he is doing at the Center for Christian Virtue. Chris shares his experiences growing up as a pastor's kid, the lessons he learned about responsibility and character from his father, and how these lessons shaped his approach to fatherhood. He discusses the challenges and joys of parenting, particularly with his three children, and reflects on the importance of patience and mentorship in raising the next generation. The conversation also delves into the Hope in the Future initiative, which aims to strengthen families and address the breakdown of marriage in communities. Chris emphasizes the need for churches to engage with fathers and provide support, highlighting the role of the Church Ambassador Network in equipping local churches to foster healthy relationships and families. The episode concludes with Chris sharing the accomplishments of the Center for Christian Virtue and his personal motivation for the work he does.Takeaways- Chris Lightfoot grew up as a pastor's kid, which shaped his values.- His father taught him important lessons about responsibility and character.- Chris faced challenges as a teenager but learned from his mistakes.- He emphasizes the importance of patience in parenting.- Baptizing his sons was a significant joy for Chris.- The Hope in the Future initiative aims to strengthen families.- Chris believes churches need to engage more with fathers.- The Center for Christian Virtue focuses on community impact through family values.- Chris's work helps him become a better father.- He sees his role as equipping pastors and churches for ministry.Chapters00:00 Chris Lightfoot's Early Life and Lessons from His Father09:01 Chris Lightfoot's Fatherhood Journey16:04 Chris Lightfoot's Work at the Center for Christian Virtue21:48 The Impact of Family Structure on Community Issues25:13 Addressing Fatherhood in the Church32:33 Achievements of the Center for Christian Virtue39:14 The Role of the Church in Community Transformation42:08 Personal Motivation Behind the WorkTo reach out to Chris and learn more about Church Ambassador network go to https://www.ccv.org. To learn more about the research focused on the impact of importance of marriage an strong families and get a copy of the 2025 Hope and Future Report go to https://hope.ccv.org/hope/.The Fathering Strong podcast is a production of Urban Light Ministries. To support Fathering Strong and help us continue to reach more fathers please go to https://givebutter.com/J8PuE8.If you are interested in becoming a corporate sponsor go to https://givebutter.com/0V6zEb.
Fatherhood Programs that Transform Lives with special guest Jeff KramerSummaryIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams and Jeff Kramer discuss the intricacies of fatherhood, co-parenting, and the challenges and rewards of working with fathers in various capacities. Jeff shares personal anecdotes about his upbringing, his relationship with his daughter, and his professional journey in fatherhood programs. The conversation delves into the challenges fathers face, the importance of community support, and the transformative power of education and awareness in parenting. Jeff emphasizes the significance of creating a supportive environment for fathers to learn and grow, and he shares his aspirations for the future of fatherhood work.Takeaways- Jeff's mother had an accident, prompting him to travel to Tucson.- Growing up, Jeff had a supportive father who was very involved in his life.- Jeff's sister was a talented athlete, which motivated him to improve.- Co-parenting with Kate's mother has been a positive experience for Jeff.- Kate is a bright and kind young woman, bringing joy to Jeff's life.- Jeff works for Action for Children, focusing on fatherhood programs.- The challenges of working with fathers often stem from their past experiences.- Father Up is a holistic program aimed at supporting fathers in various aspects of their lives.- Creating a supportive community among fathers is crucial for their growth.- Jeff hopes to continue evolving fatherhood programs to better serve families. Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Context01:55 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics05:55 Fatherhood Journey and Co-Parenting09:51 Work in the Fatherhood Space17:16 Challenges of Working with Fathers29:37 Rewards of Working with Fathers37:08 Future Aspirations in Fatherhood ProgramsYou can reach Jeff at jkramer@actionforchildren.org and learn more about the FatherUp program at www.fatherupohio.org.The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by Urban Light Ministries. For more information, go to www.FatheringStrong.com or www.urbanlight.org.
SummaryIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Joshua Krakow, who shares his journey from a challenging childhood and family dynamics to becoming a father and navigating the complexities of co-parenting and the family court system. Joshua discusses his advocacy work for single dads, the importance of community support, and his vision for creating networks that empower fathers. He emphasizes the importance of resilience and the impact of fatherhood on personal growth, offering encouragement to dads facing similar challenges.Takeaways- Joshua faced significant challenges in his childhood, including bullying and family dynamics.- His experiences with homelessness and a life-altering motorcycle accident shaped his perspective on fatherhood.- Joshua's journey into fatherhood was complicated by co-parenting challenges and the family court system.- He advocates for single dads and aims to create supportive communities for fathers.- Joshua emphasizes the importance of resilience and not giving up on relationships with children.- He highlights the need for reform in the family court system to better support fathers.- Joshua's nonprofit work focuses on providing resources and support for dads in need.- He aims to build networks that connect fathers and foster community engagement.- Joshua's motivation stems from a desire to create a better future for his daughter and other children.- He encourages fathers to always keep their hands out for their kids, even in difficult times.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Joshua Krakow02:28 Joshua's Childhood and Family Dynamics05:19 Life-Altering Experiences and Becoming a Father11:07 Challenges of Co-Parenting and Family Court System21:18 Advocacy and Support for Single Dads27:50 Building Community and Future Goals33:04 Motivation and Encouragement for Fathers44:50 Final Thoughts and Closing RemarksYou can learn more about Josh and Single Dads Outreach at https://singledadsoutreach.org/
Join host Eli Williams for a revised version of Episode 23, where he had an inspiring conversation with Peter Lawson Jones, attorney, actor, business consultant, and former Ohio legislator who created the groundbreaking Ohio Commission on Fatherhood. Peter shares his remarkable journey from being raised by exceptional parents in Cleveland to becoming a Harvard graduate, elected official, and champion for fathers across Ohio. In this episode, he opens up about the challenges and joys of fatherhood, the importance of being present for your children, and how one legislative initiative has transformed support for fathers statewide for over 25 years. Go to Episode 72 to listen to the second episode with Peter Lawson Jones. https://youtu.be/SZslm-kSWfs
Key Takeaways
Chapter List
00:00 - Introduction to Peter Lawson Jones
01:31 - Growing Up with Exceptional Role Models
06:03 - Lessons from Parents: Education and Athletics
08:39 - The Challenges of Fatherhood 11:00 - Balancing Career and Family
12:41 - The Greatest Joys of Being a Dad
17:12 - Break: Fathering Strong Resources
18:06 - Creating the Ohio Commission on Fatherhood
25:18 - The Importance of Supporting Fathers
29:25 - County-Level Fatherhood Initiatives
32:13 - Peter's Acting Career Journey
37:02 - Final Break
38:36 - Words of Encouragement for Struggli
Christian Parenting Advice That Works with Wally MartinsonIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams engages in a heartfelt conversation with Wally Martinson, exploring the profound impact of fatherhood, personal faith journeys, and the importance of mentorship. Wally shares his experiences growing up with a loving yet traditional father, his journey to faith through mentorship, and the challenges and joys of being a father himself. The discussion emphasizes the unique paths of parenting, the significance of spiritual guidance, and the role of community in nurturing faith. Wally also reflects on his ministry work, highlighting the importance of collaboration within the body of Christ.Takeaways:- Wally had a loving father but struggled with expressing affection.- There was no guidebook for fathers during Wally's upbringing.- Mentorship played a crucial role in Wally's faith journey.- Wally's spiritual father was a significant influence in his life.- Parenting requires wisdom and adaptability for each child.- The best way to teach children is through example.- Forgiveness is essential in the parent-child relationship.- Community support is vital for spiritual growth.- Wally's children are thriving in their respective fields.- The mission of serving the church is a lifelong commitment.Chapters00:00 Growing Up: Wally's Early Life and Family Dynamics05:21 Finding Faith: The Journey to Christianity10:26 Mentorship and Spiritual Fatherhood13:43 Transitioning to Mission Work and Family Life18:07 Returning Home: The Nehemiah Foundation21:26 Fatherhood: Challenges and Lessons Learned22:41 The Role of Faith in Parenting27:19 Understanding Individual Differences in Children30:39 The Joys and Challenges of Parenting33:34 Career Paths and Their Impact on Family36:38 Transitioning to New Ministry Opportunities42:23 Navigating Challenges in Family and CommunityReach Wally at www.missionincrease.org/central-ohioThe Fathering Strong podcast is produced by www.movementum.com.
In this episode of the Fatherhood Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams interviews Tom Edwards, who shares his profound journey from a challenging childhood marked by his father's mental health struggles to becoming a dedicated father himself. Tom discusses the impact of his upbringing on his parenting style, his reconciliation with his father, and his commitment to being a positive influence in his daughter's life. He also elaborates on his current work in community development, church leadership, and mentorship, emphasizing the importance of strong families and faith communities in society.Takeaways- Tom Edwards had a challenging childhood with a father who struggled with mental health issues.- He experienced a significant reconciliation with his father later in life.- Tom's commitment to being a better father stems from his own experiences.- He emphasizes the importance of strong family dynamics in society.- Tom is actively involved in community development and church leadership.- He believes in the power of mentorship and collaboration in his work.- Tom's journey reflects a deep spiritual commitment and personal growth.- He aims to equip others to reach their potential in Christ.- Tom's work focuses on transforming families and communities.- He draws inspiration from his daughter and his faith. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Tom Edwards01:09 Growing Up in the Edwards Household04:57 Struggles with Fatherhood and Mental Health08:22 Reconciliation and Healing with His Father12:53 Becoming a Father: A New Journey20:02 Current Work and Community Involvement36:54 Collaborative Efforts in Columbus40:50 Role as a Chaplain and Mentorship42:41 Motivation and InspirationsYou can reach Dr. Tom Edwards at 614-353-3718 or by email at : drtomedwards @Live.com. The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by the Movementum Group.https://www.movementum.com
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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Barbara Coloroso, a renowned author and educator, about the importance of nurturing parenting and nonviolent discipline. They discuss Barbara's personal journey in parenting, the significance of fathers in children's lives, and the differences between discipline and punishment. Barbara shares valuable insights on how to raise responsible and resilient children, emphasizing the importance of allowing children to make choices and learn from their mistakes. The conversation underscores the significance of effective communication, understanding, and empathy in parenting, as well as the ongoing process of learning and growth for both parents and children.
Takeaways- Fathers play a crucial role in children's lives.- It's never too late to improve parenting skills.- Discipline should focus on teaching, not punishment.- Children need to feel they can make a difference.- Allow children to make choices within safe boundaries.- Punishment can lead to fear and resentment in children.- Discipline should maintain a child's dignity.- Encourage children to own their mistakes and learn from them.- Parents can evolve and learn from their experiences.- Creating a nurturing environment is essential for child development.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Parenting00:53 Barbara's Fatherhood Story and Background05:49 Transitioning to Parenting and Teaching10:37 The Importance of Nurturing Parenting11:29 Nonviolent Discipline and Communication Strategies22:42 Alternatives to Punishment and Control27:00 Learning from Mistakes in Sports29:31 Understanding Intent and Consequences34:51 Discipline vs. Punishment38:44 The Impact of Socioeconomic Factors on Discipline42:15 Addressing Bullying and Mayhem47:31 Lessons Learned and Personal Growth53:08 New Insights from 'Mistakes, Mischief, and Mayhem'You can learn more about Barbara Coloroso's book and work at:https://kidsareworthit.com/
Josh Storts on Faith, Fatherhood, and Campus Revival
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams engages in a heartfelt conversation with Josh Storts, exploring the profound impact of fatherhood on personal growth and relationships. Josh shares his experiences growing up with a father who taught him valuable lessons about life, albeit not always in the way he desired. As a father himself, he reflects on the joys and challenges of raising daughters, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love and presence. The discussion also delves into Josh's work in college ministry, highlighting his commitment to discipleship and mentoring students, as well as his aspirations for the future of his ministry. Through personal anecdotes and insights, this episode offers a rich exploration of fatherhood, faith, and the transformative power of love and mentorship.
Takeaways
- Josh's upbringing shaped his understanding of fatherhood.
- He aims to provide a nurturing environment for his daughters.
- Unconditional love is a core principle in his parenting.
- Quality and quantity of time are both essential for children.
- His relationship with Christ influences his parenting style.
- Discipleship is a key focus in his ministry work.
- He emphasizes the importance of mentoring college students.- Josh's ministry aims to reproduce faith in others.
- He believes in the transformative power of love and grace.
- Future aspirations include expanding his ministry and discipleship efforts.
Chapters
00:00 Growing Up: A Father's Influence
04:59 Becoming a Father: Joys and Challenges
09:51 Navigating Parenting: Quantity vs. Quality Time
14:26 The Unconditional Love of a Father
18:34 College Ministry: A Calling and Journey
26:48 Discipleship: Building Relationships with Students
36:41 Future Aspirations: Expanding the Ministry
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams interviews Cameron Arnett, an accomplished actor, author, and speaker who shares his powerful journey from a fractured relationship with his own father to becoming a strong father figure and mentor. Arnett, originally from Haiti, discusses his early struggles with an absent father due to divorce, his own mistakes as a young father before finding Christ, and how his relationship with God transformed his approach to parenting his five children. He reveals his ministry work through "Childless Dads," which challenges the stereotype of deadbeat fathers by highlighting how the family court system often keeps loving fathers away from their children. Arnett also shares his remarkable acting career journey, from leaving Hollywood after refusing a role that compromised his Christian values to returning supernaturally to Christian filmmaking, where God provided him over 60 film roles without auditions over 11 years. His recent role as Joshua Moore in "The Forge" particularly resonates as it mirrors his real-life marriage and ministry approach. Throughout the interview, Arnett emphasizes how his relationship with God as Father enabled him to heal from past wounds, become a better parent, and now mentor others through his "Saving Destinies" ministry, demonstrating that true fatherhood transformation comes through spiritual growth and divine relationship.Chapter List00:00:00 - Introduction and Guest Welcome00:01:33 - Growing Up Without a Father00:05:29 - Reconciliation Attempts and Loss00:06:42 - Healing and Forgiveness00:07:30 - His Own Fatherhood Journey00:10:56 - The "Childless Dads" Ministry00:15:20 - "Saving Destinies" Ministry Origins00:19:10 - Book and Speaking Ministry00:25:03 - Acting Career Beginnings00:34:18 - Walking Away from Hollywood00:38:24 - Supernatural Return to Acting00:43:27 Christian Prominence and Anointing00:46:29 - Closing and Event Promotion
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In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams speaks with Geoff Walker about his journey as a father and the lessons learned from his own upbringing. Geoff shares insights into his father's influence, the challenges of parenting, and the importance of being a leader rather than just a friend to one's children. He reflects on transformative moments in his relationship with his father and how those experiences shaped his approach to fatherhood. The conversation also touches on Geoff's passion for music and how it has been a constant in his life, alongside his career in law. The episode concludes with reflections on the importance of humility, accountability, and the ongoing journey of parenting.
Takeaways
- Geoff's father learned to be more loving over time.
- Transformative moments can redefine father-son relationships.
- Parenting requires humility and accountability.
- Being a leader is essential in parenting.
- Friendship should not replace parental authority.
- Children need responsible role models.
- Prayer and faith can guide parenting decisions.
- Music has been a lifelong passion for Geoff.
- Career choices can impact family time.
- Parenting is a continuous journey of growth.
Chapters
00:00 Jeff's Unique Upbringing and Early Influences
05:49 The Evolution of Fatherhood: From Discipline to Love
09:41 Life-Changing Moments: A Father's Intuition
14:18 The Challenges and Joys of Fatherhood
19:21 Career Choices and Family Time
20:18 Prioritizing Family Over Self
25:53 The Role of Leadership in Parenting
27:12 The Parent-Friend Dilemma
32:36 The Journey of a Musician
38:55 Living a Purposeful Life Beyond Retirement
The Fathering Strong Podcast is produced by the Movementum Group and the music is by Harold Rayford.
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams welcomes back Peter Lawson Jones, an actor, philanthropist, and a key figure in the fatherhood movement. They discuss Peter's journey as a father and grandfather, his legacy in fatherhood initiatives, and his new film, 'The Last Shop on Walnut.' Peter shares insights on the importance of engaged parenting, staying active in life, and the motivation behind his continued relevance in the community. He offers heartfelt advice to young fathers about shaping their children's lives and building a lasting legacy.Takeaways- Peter Lawson Jones emphasizes the importance of engaged parenting.- He believes that fatherhood is the most significant role one can play.- Peter's legacy includes founding the Ohio Commission on Fatherhood.- He stresses the need for community involvement in parenting.- Peter's new film, 'The Last Shop on Walnut,' explores themes of family and community.- He shares his joy in becoming a grandfather and the values he hopes to pass on.- Peter encourages staying active and pursuing passions in later life.- He highlights the importance of relevance and legacy as one ages.- Peter's parents serve as his inspiration for overcoming challenges.- He advises young fathers to create opportunities for their children.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Peter Lawson Jones01:28 Peter's Fatherhood Journey04:14 Legacy of Fatherhood Initiatives06:03 The Importance of Engaged Parenting10:51 The Last Shop on Walnut: A New Film21:14 Becoming a Grandfather25:13 The Role of a Grandfather29:11 Staying Active and Engaged in Life34:17 Motivation and Relevance in Later Life43:18 Advice for Young FathersThe Fathering Strong podcast is produced by the Movementum Group.The music is provided by Harold Rayford.
SummaryIn this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams interviews Michael Cooper II, who shares his journey of fatherhood and the influence of his own father. Michael discusses the importance of strong family values, the challenges of balancing work and family life, and how he helps others identify their unique value to achieve financial stability. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mentorship and the need for fathers to be present in their children's lives while navigating the pressures of modern society.Takeaways-Michael's father was a significant influence in his life.-The importance of being present as a father.-Many fathers struggle with financial stability.-Identifying one's unique value can lead to better opportunities.-Education is key to changing mindsets about value.-Fathers can help each other through mentorship.-The market pays based on perceived value, not actual value.-Everyone has something unique to offer the world.-Fathers need to balance work and family responsibilities.-Helping fathers achieve financial freedom is crucial.Chapters00:00 Growing Up in the Cooper Household07:09 Navigating College and Sports Decisions10:50 The Journey into Fatherhood14:05 Creating Value and Income as a Father20:03 Unlocking Potential: The Call to Action21:55 Empowering Pastors: Beyond the Pulpit26:30 Identifying Unique Value: The Key to Success30:31 Financial Freedom for Fathers: Breaking the Cycle35:29 Understanding Value: The Market's Fairness38:39 Connecting with Purpose: The Path ForwardYou can contact Michael at ThePurposePastor.Comhttps://thepurposepastor.com/
In this powerful episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams sits down with Lorrenzo Anderson, known as "Gospel Man," for an incredible testimony of transformation. Lorrenzo shares his raw and honest journey from a troubled childhood marked by abuse to becoming a repeat offender who spent time in prison five different times.Everything changed in 2009 when Lorrenzo gave his life to Christ in a county jail visiting booth. During his final prison sentence, he underwent a complete transformation through faith, mental health treatment, drug rehabilitation, and the Nurturing Fathers for Life program. Now 14 years free from prison, Lorenzo has become a gospel rapper, entrepreneur, and devoted father who is breaking generational cycles.This episode covers Lorrenzo's childhood trauma, his struggles with mental health diagnoses including bipolar disorder and multiple personalities, his journey to forgiveness, and how he's now raising his children differently than he was raised. You'll also hear about his music ministry with Rev Nation and his calling to help others through his testimony.Part 2 of this interview coming soon!Takeaways:• Childhood trauma can create lasting patterns** - Lorrenzo's abusive childhood led to unforgiveness, bitterness, and a cycle of incarceration • Prison programs save lives** - Mental health treatment, drug rehabilitation, and the Nurturing Fathers for Life program were vital to Lorrenzo's transformation • Forgiveness is essential for healing** - A breakthrough moment in the fathering program helped Lorrenzo forgive his parents and begin true healing • Faith can speak to anyone** - Even while living in the streets, Lorenzo heard God's voice in church, planting seeds for future transformation • Breaking generational cycles is possible** - Lorrenzo consciously parents differently than he was raised, giving his children a voice and presence • Mental health awareness matters** - Lorrenzo learned to recognize and manage his bipolar disorder, multiple personalities, and PTSD through self-awareness and faith • God can use your pain for purpose** - Lorrenzo's experiences now help him minister to others and provide breakthrough moments • Consistency in parenting makes a difference** - Being present daily for his youngest children has created visible positive changes • Creative gifts can be used for ministry** - Lorrenzo's writing and music talents, developed even in prison, now serve his calling • Community support accelerates growth** - Participating in men's groups and fathering programs continues to strengthen Lorrenzo's journeyChapter Listing:00:00 - Introduction - Meet Lorrenzo "Gospel Man" Anderson01:00 - Childhood Trauma and Early Life06:00 - The Cycle of Incarceration09:00 - Mental Health Struggles12:00 - The Transformation Programs14:00 - The Breakthrough Moment17:00 - Becoming a Father20:00 - Hearing God's Voice24:00 - The Gift of Writing27:00 - Music Ministry and Rev Nation32:00 - Transformed Parenting35:00 - 14 Years of Freedom36:00 - Closing and Part 2 Preview
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Eli Williams interviews Howard Evans, a retired military officer and educator, who shares his journey of fatherhood, including his experiences as a single father and stepfather. Howard reflects on his childhood, his relationship with his father, and the lessons he learned about responsibility and education. He emphasizes the importance of being present in children's lives, the challenges of blending families, and offers valuable advice for young fathers navigating difficult circumstances.Takeaways- Howard Evans shares his journey of fatherhood and military service.- He emphasizes the importance of education and teaching.- Howard reflects on his relationship with his father and childhood experiences.- He discusses the challenges of being a single father.- Howard highlights the significance of being present in children's lives.- He shares insights on blending families and step-parenting.- Howard encourages fathers to take their children to church.- He stresses the importance of teaching children right from wrong.- Howard believes that children learn from their parents' actions.- He emphasizes the need for fathers to support their children's needs. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Howard Evans01:47 Military Service and Teaching Career04:14 Childhood and Relationship with Father10:18 Growing Up and Conversations with Dad12:57 Marriage and Becoming a Father15:30 Single Fatherhood Journey24:21 Blending Families and Step-Parenting Challenges36:31 Advice for Young Fathers42:55 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this powerful episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, host Bruce Stapleton sits down with Buddy Brown, a Springfield resident whose journey from childhood trauma to intentional fatherhood offers hope and inspiration to fathers everywhere. Buddy shares his raw and honest story of growing up with an abusive, alcoholic father who abandoned the family multiple times, leading to a suicide attempt at age 14. His life transformed when his family began attending church, where he witnessed healthy father-child relationships for the first time and was mentored by godly men who showed him a different way to live. Through his faith journey, Buddy learned to forgive his father and eventually led him to Christ before his death. Now a father of three daughters and grandfather, Buddy emphasizes the importance of understanding love languages, being intentional with children, and surrounding yourself with godly mentors to break generational cycles of dysfunction.Takeaways:- Understanding that wanting to be a good father is 90% of the battle - the other 10% is simply showing up and being present when your children need you.- Learning your children's love languages is crucial for connecting with them effectively and avoiding unintentionally making them feel unloved through mismatched communication.- Forgiveness is possible even in the most difficult father-child relationships when you learn to see your father through God's eyes rather than your own hurt perspective.- Surrounding yourself with godly mentors and role models is essential for acquiring the "tools" you need to become the father you want to be, especially if you didn't have a good example growing up.- Being available and making time for small moments with your children - like coloring for five minutes when asked - creates lasting memories and shows them they matter.- Sometimes children just need you to listen rather than immediately trying to fix their problems or offer unsolicited advice.- God can use your painful past to help others, and breaking generational cycles of dysfunction is possible through faith and intentional choices.- The importance of having godly men in the church who are willing to invest in younger fathers and provide organic mentorship opportunities.Chapters:0:00 - Introduction and Welcome 2:30 - Buddy's Early Childhood and Relationship with His Father 8:45 - Family Dysfunction and Trauma Begins 15:20 - The Suicide Attempt and Cry for Help 18:30 - Finding Church and Witnessing Healthy Fatherhood 22:15 - Mentorship from Godly Men in the Church 25:40 - Military Service and Becoming a Father 28:50 - Raising Three Daughters and Learning Love Languages 34:15 - Break 34:40 - The Journey to Forgive His Father 42:30 - Leading His Father to Christ Before Death 46:20 - Becoming a Grandfather and Current Ministry 48:45 - Advice for Fathers from Difficult Backgrounds 52:30 - The Importance of Church Fatherhood Programs 55:15 - Closing Thoughts and Future Plans
In this episode of the Fathering Strong podcast, Eli Williams speaks with Joseph Luisi about his experiences growing up, becoming a father, and the importance of being present in children’s lives. Joseph shares his journey as a single father and how he founded Our Father’s Hood, a community initiative aimed at supporting fathers through biblical teachings and mentorship. The conversation highlights the significance of collaboration in fatherhood work and the impact of community programs on families.
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00:00 Growing Up in the Luisi Household
03:50 Becoming a Father: Early Lessons
09:35 Building a Community for Fathers
25:19 Impacting Lives Through Our Father’s Hood
36:23 The Importance of Fatherhood
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