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Financially Ever After Widowhood
Stacy Francis
214 episodes
3 weeks ago
Widowhood is the state of being a widow or widower: a person whose spouse has passed away. This is a situation that no one wants to be in, but it is something that can happen, and that you and your family should be prepared for financially. When this kind of painful, life altering event occurs, it's important to have the structure in place for you and your family to be protected, and this year on Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis is going to be talking to a diverse lineup of experts, and individuals who have gone through it themselves, to give you the tools and information you need to be prepared. Prior to this year's series on Widowhood, Financially Ever After covered topics related to divorce. We invite you to check out these fantastic episodes if they are relevant to you.
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Widowhood is the state of being a widow or widower: a person whose spouse has passed away. This is a situation that no one wants to be in, but it is something that can happen, and that you and your family should be prepared for financially. When this kind of painful, life altering event occurs, it's important to have the structure in place for you and your family to be protected, and this year on Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis is going to be talking to a diverse lineup of experts, and individuals who have gone through it themselves, to give you the tools and information you need to be prepared. Prior to this year's series on Widowhood, Financially Ever After covered topics related to divorce. We invite you to check out these fantastic episodes if they are relevant to you.
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Financially Ever After Widowhood
[Replay] Honoring Traditions and Making New Ones This Holiday Season with Jordan Schwartz Hendin
Cognitive Behavioral and Grief Coach Jordan Schwartz Hendin joins host Stacy Francis to discuss navigating the holidays after losing a spouse. Jordan draws from her personal experiences with grief, having lost her own mother at a young age and supporting her widowed grandmother through multiple losses. Now a professional coach, she works with women struggling with grief and major life transitions. In this week’s show, Jordan and Stacy explore handling loss and loneliness, honoring traditions, and staying financially sound. The holidays can bring up complex emotions such as sadness, anger, and loneliness. This is normal after a major loss. Avoid unhealthy coping strategies like becoming an “isolator” or “doer.” Don’t overcommit to events or hide away alone. Reflect on your core values. Focus on traditions that align with what matters most, like family time. Make new memories and experiences, especially with children. Gift experiences rather than material items.  Have open conversations with family about your grief. Don’t pretend to be okay if you’re not. Manage your finances by focusing on your values, not material possessions. Stick to a budget for holiday gifts and activities. You don’t have to navigate the holidays alone. Seek support from family or a grief counselor during this difficult time. Resources Jordan Schwartz on Website | Instagram | Email | Phone: 917-947-6037   Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com FrancisFinancial.com Instantly get advice from our guide, Financial Help for Widows, a resource designed for supporting women who need to navigate finances after the loss of a partner. Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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3 weeks ago
38 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Surviving the Healthcare Maze with Anne McGuire
Ever feel like the threat of medical bills and confusing insurance rules hangs over every healthcare decision? In this episode, Stacy sits down with healthcare advocate Anne McGuire to bring real clarity to the choices women face after losing a spouse, going through divorce, or suddenly finding themselves uninsured. Together, they break down the systems that feel impossible to navigate and give listeners the confidence to make smart, informed decisions about their coverage and long-term protection. You'll hear them discuss: How losing a spouse, divorcing, or facing a sudden job loss can reshape insurance options overnight What COBRA actually offers, when it makes sense, and why the cost often shocks people The major differences between staying on COBRA and switching to marketplace insurance How Medicare fits into the picture for anyone 65+ experiencing an insurance transition and the deadlines that can’t be missed Why access to existing doctors can disappear with a plan change, and how to protect those relationships What long-term care really covers (and what it doesn’t), especially for women who may age alone How long-term care insurance pays out in real life and why it’s often misunderstood The financial reality of self-insuring long-term care needs versus buying coverage Resources Anne McGuire on the Healthcare Pathfinder | LinkedIn | Instagram | Facebook Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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1 month ago
39 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Legacy Planning Series: Episode 3 – Planning Ahead with Clarity
If the people you love most suddenly had to take over your bills, subscriptions, and everyday logistics — would they know where to begin? In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy and Natalie break down the most practical (and overlooked) section of the Because I Love You legacy planning guide - the checklist that makes sure nothing slips through the cracks. From credit cards to taxes, monthly bills to healthcare details, they cover how to organise your financial life so your family isn’t left guessing. You’ll hear them discuss: Why it’s essential to list every credit card, where it’s held, and what’s on auto-pay How keeping recent tax returns and your accountant’s info can make estate paperwork so much easier What the “DSUE” actually means and why couples need to pay attention to it How to document monthly expenses and subscriptions so nothing goes unpaid or unnoticed The importance of maintaining an up-to-date contact list for key professionals and family members How to start creating an aging plan that reflects your healthcare needs and wishes Why discussing end-of-life preferences now spares loved ones confusion and conflict later How completing the Because I Love You legacy checklist today can give your family peace of mind tomorrow Resources As you listen to this podcast, you can click here to view slides and follow along visually: ⁠Legacy Planning Webinar 3 ⁠⁠Because I Love You Planning Companion⁠⁠ Natalie Colley on⁠⁠ FrancisFinancial.com⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ Stacy Francis on ⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠ |⁠⁠X(Twitter)⁠⁠ | ⁠stacy@francisfinancial.com⁠⁠⁠stacy@francisfinancial.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠FrancisFinancial.com⁠⁠ ⁠⁠See All Podcasts
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1 month ago
24 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Legacy Planning Series: Episode 2 – Insurance and Asset Essentials
Ever think about what would happen if your family suddenly had to figure out your insurance, bills, or assets - without you there to explain it? It’s not fun to imagine, but it’s one of the most loving things you can prepare for. In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy and Natalie dive into the less-than-glamorous side of legacy planning: getting your insurance and financial details in order so no one’s left guessing in a crisis. Along the way, they share real-life stories, personal slip-ups (yes, including a lost engagement ring), and plenty of practical advice you can actually use. You’ll hear them discuss: - Why it’s not just about what happens after you’re gone, it’s also about being ready if you’re ever incapacitated - How to make sure your health, property, and long-term care insurance are documented and paid up - What COBRA really means when you leave a job or go through a divorce - How long-term care policies work, and what details families often forget to track - What your homeowners, auto, and umbrella insurance *really* cover (and what they don’t) - The simple, yearly habit that keeps your assets and account info easy for loved ones to find - A true story that shows exactly why all this planning matters Resources As you listen to this podcast, you can click here to view slides and follow along visually: Legacy Planning Webinar 2 ⁠Because I Love You Planning Companion⁠ Natalie Colley on⁠ FrancisFinancial.com⁠ | ⁠LinkedIn⁠ Stacy Francis on ⁠LinkedIn⁠ |⁠X(Twitter)⁠ | stacy@francisfinancial.com⁠stacy@francisfinancial.com⁠ ⁠FrancisFinancial.com⁠ ⁠See All Podcasts
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2 months ago
33 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Legacy Planning Series: Episode 1 – Because I Love You Guide
What would happen if your ex-spouse were still listed as the beneficiary on your 401(k)? Or if your loved ones couldn’t access your accounts after you’re gone? These are the kinds of oversights that can cause chaos, but they’re also completely preventable with the right planning. In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis and Natalie Colley break down the essentials of legacy planning - from passwords and beneficiaries to wills and the “Because I Love You” packet - all designed to make life easier for those you love most. It’s not just about money; it’s about leaving clarity, not confusion. You’ll hear them discuss: Resources Natalie Colley on on FrancisFinancial.com | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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2 months ago
31 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
The Truth About Trusts with Claire Steinman
Estate planning isn’t just for billionaires in New York penthouses or “trust fund babies” you’ve only seen in the movies. The truth is, whether you’re raising kids, caring for a loved one with special needs, or simply want to be sure your savings go exactly where you intend, estate planning touches almost everyone. In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, attorney Claire Steinman joins Stacy to take the mystery (and the drama) out of wills, trusts, and gifting strategies. Claire focuses her practice on estate and tax planning, estate administration, and the nonprofit sector, with experience ranging from simple wills and powers of attorney to sophisticated tax minimization strategies and contested probate cases. She also works closely with charitable beneficiaries and not-for-profit organizations on everything from testamentary trusts to federal tax exemptions. Spoiler: this conversation has a lot more peace of mind and a lot less Agatha Christie mayhem. You’ll hear them discuss: Why having even a simple will is essential for nearly everyone, not just the ultra-wealthy How trusts can help protect kids, support loved ones with special needs, and even shield assets from creditors or divorce The surprising flexibility you have in deciding when and how children inherit money Smart ways to gift assets during your lifetime, including the $19,000 annual exclusion and tuition or medical payments made directly How to choose the right trustee, from family members to professional institutions, and the pros and cons of each State-specific estate tax “gotchas” like New York’s infamous cliff tax and inheritance taxes in places like New Jersey and Pennsylvania Why blended families and second marriages absolutely need updated estate plans to avoid family fallout Resources Claire Steinman on the Web | LinkedIn | Email: csteinman@leechtishman.com | Phone: 212-453-1554 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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3 months ago
38 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
What Widows Really Need When They Experience Loss with Amy Woody
What do you say to someone who’s just lost the love of their life? Is it better to stay quiet for fear of saying the wrong thing, or is silence actually the most painful response of all? In this deeply moving episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis sits down with Amy Woody, Director of the Widows Program at Stand in the Gap - and a widow herself - to talk about what real support looks like. Amy opens up about her own journey of losing her husband suddenly at 36, raising her young daughter, and discovering her calling to help other widows. Together, they explore the words and actions that truly matter when someone’s world has been turned upside down. You’ll hear them discuss: Why saying something is always better than saying nothing, even if it’s simply “I’m so sorry” The harm of avoiding the “elephant in the room” and how acknowledging loss brings comfort Practical, concrete ways to help - from mowing the lawn to dropping off paper goods - that make a real difference The importance of building trust early so that widows feel safe enough to ask for support when they need it most How sharing memories and stories honors loved ones and helps keep their presence alive Amy’s life motto of using your hurt to help others and making beauty from ashes — and how it can change the way we face our own challenges Resources Amy Woody on the Stand In The Gap | Facebook | LinkedIn | Email: amyw@sitgm.org | Phone number: 405-476-0165 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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3 months ago
39 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Transforming from Financial Anxiety to Empowered Decision-Making After Loss with Emma Gray
What if the money that shows up after loss doesn’t feel like security, but like a cruel reminder of what you’ve lost? How do you turn something that feels heavy and unwanted into a source of hope, stability, and even love? In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy sits down with Emma Gray, a former probate attorney, military wife, widowed mother of two, and now grief coach and counselor. Emma shares her deeply personal story of navigating grief, identity, and finances after the loss of her husband, and how she ultimately reframed money not as a burden, but as his lasting legacy. You’ll hear them discuss: - How Emma, despite being a probate attorney, found herself completely unable to face the financial paperwork and money decisions in the months after her husband passed away - The emotional shock of grief and the surprising ways it shows up physically in the body, from exhaustion to the feeling of a “broken heart” - Emma’s identity crisis after leaving law, and the journey that led her from being a lawyer to building a new career as a counselor and grief coach - Why putting your own needs first is not selfish, but actually the only way to show up fully for your children, family, and everyone who depends on you - The powerful shift Emma experienced when she stopped seeing the insurance and pension payouts as a painful substitute for her husband, and instead began to view them as his legacy - The importance of creating both financial and emotional safety, and how ignoring one often makes it impossible to feel secure in the other Resources Emma Gray on the Web | LinkedIn | Instagram | Rainbow Hunting Facebook | Rainbow Hunting Community - Facebook Group I Email: emma@rainbowhunting.co.uk Free Sadmin Quiz - to assess how sorted your home/life admin is: https://rainbowhunting.kartra.com/survey/sadminquiz Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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4 months ago
43 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Don’t Pay That Debt: The Truth About Medical Bills After Death with Shana Siegel
Did you know that the number one reason for bankruptcy in the US isn’t overspending - it’s medical debt? And for many widows, the bills don’t stop after their spouse passes away. In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy sits down with Shana Siegel, a partner at Norris McLaughlin P.A and nationally recognized elder law attorney, who has spent her career helping families navigate the complicated world of long-term care, estate planning, and financial protection. Shana shares her expertise - and personal perspective as a mom and caregiver - on how to plan ahead, protect your assets, and make smart decisions when illness or loss strikes. You'll them discuss: Why getting educated early can make all the difference in protecting both care options and family finances The surprising reality of what Medicare, Medicaid, and private insurance will - and won’t - cover when it comes to long-term care How to protect your home, retirement accounts, and other key assets depending on your state’s laws What really happens with medical bills, credit cards, and student loans after a spouse passes away (and how to avoid being pressured into paying what you don’t owe) When it makes sense to negotiate with hospitals and creditors, and how much you can realistically reduce debt The common estate planning mistakes people make, and why an elder law attorney - not just a general estate planner - is essential Practical steps for handling mortgages, probate, and beneficiary designations so you and your family are financially secure Resources Shana Siegel on the web | LinkedIn | Facebook | Instagram | Aging Answers Podcast | Email | Phone 908-252-4253 Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: https://www.consumerfinance.gov/ AARP: https://www.aarp.org/  Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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4 months ago
39 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
From Grief to Growth: How Pam Baker Built a Community of Healing
What happens when a financial planner dies - and even his widow can’t find the key to the safe? In this raw and uplifting episode, Stacy sits down with Pam Baker, founder of Widows Who Wine, to unpack the emotional and financial mess that followed her husband’s death. Pam shares the hard truths she wishes every family knew, why estate planning is about way more than a will, and how she’s helping women across the country rediscover joy through connection, community… and yes, a little wine. You’ll hear them discuss: Why having a will is just the beginning - and what really needs to be in place How even financially savvy families can end up in chaos without an actual estate plan The unexpected moment that made Pam realize joy was missing from her life - and what she did next What “Widows Who Wine” really means (hint: it’s spelled W-I-N-E) The difference between surviving grief and actually living again Financial surprises after loss, from closed credit cards to frozen accounts Why estate planning isn’t just for the wealthy Pam’s simple mantra for hard days, and the one person who always makes her laugh Resources Pam Baker on the Web | Lasting Legacy Consulting | Widows Who Wine Facebook Group | 'Where's the Key to the Safe'' by Pam Baker | LinkedIn | Instagram Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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4 months ago
38 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Escaping the Grip of Financial Abuse with Victoria McCooey
When does financial support turn into financial control? Are you really in charge of your finances - or just being told you are? What if the person you love most is also the one slowly eroding your financial freedom? In this gripping episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy sits down with narcissist divorce coach and survivor Victoria McCooey to talk about something that happens far too often but is rarely talked about: financial abuse. From subtle control to outright manipulation, Victoria pulls back the curtain on what this form of abuse looks like, how it evolves, and why even the smartest, most capable women can find themselves stuck in it. With raw honesty and hard-won wisdom, she shares not just her story, but real strategies for reclaiming your power - and your paycheck. You'll hear them discuss: How financial abuse often starts with what seems like kindness or practicality Why smart, educated, successful women are still vulnerable to financial manipulation The common emotional traps that keep women stuck in abusive dynamics Telltale signs you're being excluded or controlled financially What to do if you're afraid of retaliation or escalating violence when trying to leave How Victoria “stole” her own paycheck to buy health insurance and what happened next The vital role of tax returns, credit reports, and hidden debts in uncovering the truth Why guilt and self-blame are so common - and completely undeserved How community and connection can help women feel less alone and more empowered Resources Victoria McCooey on Web | Facebook | LinkedIn | YouTube | Instagram | Tiktok | Email | Phone: 516-449-4311 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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5 months ago
40 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
The Social Security Survivor Benefit Secret with Mary Beth Franklin
Think you know everything about Social Security? Think again. What if the difference between a spousal benefit and a survivor benefit could mean thousands of dollars more in your pocket, but no one tells you? In this eye-opening episode, Stacey Francis sits down with Mary Beth Franklin, a nationally recognized expert on Social Security, to unravel the complex web of rules and opportunities surrounding Social Security for widows and divorced women. With over 2,700 rules in the system, most people make costly mistakes without even knowing it. Mary Beth breaks it all down in clear, practical terms and shares the strategies that can maximize lifetime benefits. You'll hear us discuss: How Social Security retirement, spousal, and survivor benefits are actually separate “pots of money” What divorced women need to know about eligibility for spousal and survivor benefits - even if their ex has remarried How the length of your marriage (and whether you remarried after age 60) can impact what you’re entitled to Why claiming benefits early could lead to permanent reductions, and what full retirement age really means The surprising rule that allows widows to claim one benefit now and switch to a higher one later How earnings limits can affect your benefit if you’re still working Why children under 18 (and their caregiving parent) may be eligible for survivor benefits after a parent dies Real-life scenarios that show how proper strategy can increase benefits by tens of thousands of dollars How to claim retroactive benefits and what to do if Social Security gave you the wrong advice Where to find the most reliable information and professional help, including Mary Beth’s own resources Resources Mary Beth Franklin on Web | X (Twitter) | Email: MBFretirepro@outlook.com | Phone number: 703-609-4764 | Maximizing Social Security Benefits Other resources - Social Security Advisors - help with claiming backpay | Social Security Administration - government website with information on Social Security Benefits Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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5 months ago
48 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
What Do You Do If Your Spouse Dies Before the Divorce Is Finalized with Lisa Zeiderman and Amy Holzman
What happens if your spouse dies before the divorce is finalized - are you a widow… or still just the spouse they were trying to leave? In this eye-opening episode, Stacy is joined by matrimonial attorney Lisa Zeiderman and estate planning attorney Amy Holzman to unpack a legal gray zone that most couples never anticipate. Whether you're in the middle of separating, contemplating divorce, or supporting someone through it, this episode reveals the hidden consequences of dying mid-divorce - and how to protect your financial and legal interests before it’s too late. You'll hear them discuss: Why divorce proceedings legally stop (abate) if one spouse dies before the final judgment is issued The critical difference between being “separated” and “legally separated” What happens to wills, inheritance rights, and spousal elections if no divorce agreement has been signed How a prenup or postnup can override default spousal inheritance laws Whether someone is considered divorced or widowed in the eyes of the law - and why that distinction matters for taxes and Social Security The role of survivorship benefits in pensions and retirement accounts after death What happens when a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) hasn’t been processed yet Why failing to update beneficiary designations (and documents like power of attorney or healthcare proxy) can backfire dramatically Practical ways to protect your assets and loved ones - especially if you're over 50 and facing a “gray divorce” How estate planning and divorce law must work hand-in-hand to prevent future litigation and financial chaos Resources Lisa Zeiderman on the Web | Miller Zeiderman LLP | LinkedIn Amy Holzman on Law Offices of Amy Holzman | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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6 months ago
43 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
What Every Widow Needs to Know About Life Insurance with Avani Ramnani
Should you buy a life insurance policy for yourself, and if so, what type? And if you’ve received a life insurance payout, how do you use that money wisely without letting grief cloud your judgment? In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis sits down with financial planner and longtime colleague Avani Ramnani to break down the most important financial decisions widows face around life insurance, income planning, and long-term security. Whether you're navigating your own life insurance needs, managing a recent payout, or trying to make your finances sustainable on a single income, this episode gives you the tools and knowledge to make informed decisions with confidence. You'll hear them discuss: How to decide whether you still need life insurance as a widow, and why having dependents (like young children or a disabled adult) plays a key role in that decision What to do with a life insurance payout - including why doing nothing at first may be the wisest move until your emotions settle and clearer planning is possible The difference between term and permanent life insurance, and why term insurance is usually the most affordable and effective option for most families Why tracking your spending - at least for a year - is essential, and how to do it without getting overwhelmed or obsessing over minor purchases How widows’ income often drops significantly after their spouse dies, even though expenses may stay the same, and what that means for sustainable financial planning Why it's critical to prioritize your own long-term financial health before helping adult children or family members, and how to handle emotional pressure around money The two options for handling a late spouse’s IRA or retirement account, and how to choose between rolling it into your own IRA or keeping it as an inherited IRA Resources Avani Ramnani on LinkedIn Resources mentioned Savvy Ladies - Free Financial Education and Helpline for Women You Need a Budget Stacy Francis on LinkedIn |vX(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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6 months ago
48 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Getting Financially Organized in Life’s Toughest Moments with Jacob and Peter Gordon
What happens when you’re suddenly the one in charge of all the paperwork, passwords, and decisions, but you’re not sure where to begin? In this heartfelt and practical episode, father-and-son duo Peter and Jacob Gordon share how daily money management can be a lifeline for people navigating everything from grief and memory loss to major life changes like retirement, divorce, or moving across the country. They didn’t set out to become financial organizers—but life led them here through personal family experiences, and now they’re helping others find order and peace during some of life’s most overwhelming moments. You’ll hear them discuss: • How their family’s own challenges with elder care inspired them to create a service that supports others in managing the emotional and practical sides of personal finance. • The unexpected transitions that often lead people to seek help—like a partner’s death, a dementia diagnosis, or simply realizing the bills haven’t been opened in months. • What it means to be a daily money manager, and how their work goes far beyond bill pay to include safeguarding personal data, organizing financial records, and helping clients feel less isolated. • Why solo agers—those without family support nearby—often rely on them as trusted fiduciaries to serve as power of attorney, healthcare proxy, or executor when no one else can. • The ways loneliness, memory loss, and vulnerability intersect—and how just having someone to check in weekly can dramatically improve a person’s wellbeing and confidence. • How they collaborate with financial advisers, attorneys, and care professionals to create a wraparound team that protects clients from falling through the cracks. • Their top piece of advice for anyone suddenly managing money on their own: start by finding out exactly where everything is, before trying to make sense of it. ResourcesJacob and Peter Gordon on the Web | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedIn | Email: info@nyfo.nyc Jacob Gordon on Email: jacob@nyfo.nyc I Phone number: 917-945-0912 Peter Gordon on LinkedIn | Email: peter@nyfo.nyc | Phone number: 917-279-3972 Other resources mentioned: Article on How to Freeze Credit Card Quicken - Manage Your Finances in One Place You Need a Budget Personal Capital / Empower Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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7 months ago
38 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Rebuilding Money Confidence After Loss with Financial Therapist Erika Wasserman
What if your financial struggles aren’t really about money—but about emotions you’ve never even considered? In this powerful and refreshingly honest episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacey Francis is joined by Erika Wasserman, one of only 100 certified financial therapists in the U.S. Together, they dive into how fear, overwhelm, shame and even childhood memories can keep you stuck in place financially. Whether you’re recently widowed, divorced, or simply navigating money matters on your own for the first time, this conversation offers hope, practical tools, and a whole new way of thinking about your relationship with money. You’ll hear them discuss: How 90% of our financial decisions are driven by emotion, and why understanding this can help you make better choices moving forward Why your money mindset is shaped by your background, culture, and past experiences—often without you even realising it What financial paralysis looks like, and how to gently move forward with manageable, confidence-building steps How feelings of fear, overwhelm and loneliness can stop you from taking action, and what to do when that happens Why making financial mistakes is completely normal—and how to reframe them as part of your learning journey How Erika’s simple highlighter method can help you understand your spending habits and make joyful, intentional choices What a “sunshine fund” is, and how having one can create space for spontaneous joy and generosity When it might be the right time to work with a financial therapist, especially if you feel emotionally stuck or ashamed about money Resources Erika Wasserman on the Web | Email | Instagram | LinkedIn Pre-order ''Conversations with Your Financial Therapist'' on Amazon Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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7 months ago
36 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
[Replay] Taking Control of Your Finances After Widowhood
In honor of Financial Literacy Month, we’re revisiting one of our most powerful episodes of Financially Ever After: Widowhood, a conversation that underscores why financial knowledge is essential, especially during life’s most difficult transitions.   You’ll hear from Kathy Gleason, a widow, author, and host of the podcast As I Live and Grieve. Kathy shares her deeply personal journey of navigating grief and the overwhelming financial aftermath that followed the loss of her husband.   This episode is a powerful call for women to not just be emotionally prepared, but financially informed. Are you struggling to cope with the loss of a spouse and the financial challenges that come with it? In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, host Stacy Francis speaks with Kathy Gleason, an author and grief support expert with a deep understanding of the struggles that come with losing a spouse. Kathy is also co-host of the As I Live and Grieve podcast. Kathy details her personal journey of loss, including the challenges of managing the paperwork and red tape that come with it. She also shares valuable insights and practical advice on how to navigate the financial challenges of widowhood. Losing a spouse is a complex and devastating loss that brings many unique challenges, including the loss of future plans and the added responsibility of managing all the paperwork and red tape that come with it. It's important to surround yourself with supportive people who understand what you're going through and can offer emotional and practical support. If you are not the partner who manages the finances, it's important to make yourself aware of what accounts and assets you have in case you need to take over in the future. It's common for married couples to not make long-term financial decisions together, but this can leave one partner at a disadvantage if they need to take over after a spouse's passing. Prioritizing tasks and taking care of practical matters can help you begin to work on yourself and heal after a loss. Resources Kathy Gleason Facebook | Instagram Email: info@asiliveandgrieve.com  As I Live and Grieve Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | Twitter Email: stacy@francisfinancial.com FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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8 months ago
33 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Emotional Resilience in a Volatile Market with Matt Haertzen
What if doing absolutely nothing during a market downturn was actually the best financial move you could make? In this episode of Financially Ever After, Stacy Francis sits down with Matt Haertzen - Chief Investment Officer at Francis Financial - to dive deep into how to handle market volatility without letting fear drive your decisions. When markets dip, it's easy to panic, but Matt and Stacy highlight how staying calm and sticking to your investment plan can help you not just weather the storm, but come out ahead. They explore the importance of staying invested through the ups and downs, how to avoid making emotional mistakes, and why focusing on the long-term can ultimately be more rewarding. In a world full of uncertainty, it’s more important than ever to know how to make smart decisions that will benefit your future, even if the road to get there feels a little bumpy. You’ll hear them discuss: Why reacting emotionally during a market drop could cost you more in the long run and why staying calm is key Why markets have historically bounced back and why it's essential to focus on the bigger picture, especially when things feel uneasy The importance of staying invested for the long haul and how volatility can be an opportunity if you’re prepared How strategies like tax-loss harvesting and Roth conversions can actually work in your favor when markets are down The psychological impact of market swings and how to manage your emotions to avoid costly mistakes Simple yet effective steps to manage your finances during uncertain times without sacrificing your goals Why diversification is crucial and how expecting every part of your portfolio to perform perfectly all the time is unrealistic Real-life insights into why reacting to market drops, like during the 2008 financial crisis, can leave you worse off in the long run Resources Matt Haertzen on the Web | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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8 months ago
35 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Surviving the IRS: Innocent Spouse Relief and Other Solutions with Megan Brackney
Is skimping on employment taxes worth the risk? Think again! The IRS is watching, and the consequences could be severe. From personal liability to potential criminal charges, tax attorney Megan Brackney breaks down what you must know about payroll tax compliance—and what happens if you get it wrong. Think an IRS notice is something you can ignore? Not so fast. Failing to respond could mean escalating penalties, wage garnishments, or even asset seizures. Failing to pay your taxes—or even unknowingly making mistakes—can lead to serious consequences. In this episode of Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis sits down with Megan Brackney, a leading tax controversy attorney, to unpack the dangers of employment tax issues, IRS audits, and how to handle tax troubles before they spiral out of control. Whether you’re a business owner, someone dealing with tax issues from a former spouse, or just trying to stay on the right side of the IRS, this episode is packed with invaluable insights and actionable advice. You'll hear them discuss: Why employment tax fraud is taken more seriously than personal tax evasion – When you withhold payroll taxes, you’re holding money in trust for your employees and the government. Failure to pay is viewed as theft, making it one of the IRS’ top enforcement priorities. The IRS’ six-year (or even unlimited!) statute of limitations on tax fraud cases – Just because you haven’t been caught yet doesn’t mean you’re in the clear. The IRS has years to investigate, and in cases of fraud, there’s no time limit at all for them to come after you. How unpaid payroll taxes can personally impact business owners, CFOs, and controllers – The IRS can go after individuals within a business under the responsible person penalty, making them personally liable for unpaid taxes. If you’re in a leadership role, you must ensure payroll taxes are properly handled. The real-life regrets of those who got caught—and why it never pays off – Megan shares stories from 20+ years in tax law, revealing how every client who thought they could outsmart the IRS deeply regretted it once they faced penalties, legal fees, and sleepless nights. Innocent Spouse Relief—what it is and how it can protect you from a former spouse’s tax mistakes – If you’re facing tax liabilities from an ex-spouse’s wrongdoing, you may not have to pay. Learn what qualifies for Innocent Spouse Relief and how to apply. Practical steps to take if you receive an IRS notice (hint: open it, don’t panic!) – Ignoring IRS letters only makes things worse. Megan explains how to read your notice, understand what’s being asked, and take action before penalties escalate. How to communicate with the IRS to avoid aggressive collection tactics – Many people fear bank levies and wage garnishments, but staying in contact with the IRS and showing good faith can often prevent the harshest consequences. Taxpayer rights you didn’t know you had – The U.S. has strong taxpayer protections, but many people don’t realize what they’re entitled to. Megan covers important rights, including appeal options, installment agreements, and offers in compromise. Why procrastination makes tax problems exponentially worse – The longer you wait, the more interest and penalties pile up. Megan shares key steps to take immediately if you suspect a tax issue, even if you can’t afford to pay the full amount. How tax issues can impact your financial future, credit, and even your passport – Owing the IRS isn’t just a money problem—it can affect your ability to get business loans, travel, and plan for retirement. Learn how to mitigate long-term consequences. Resources Megan Brackney on the Web | LinkedIn Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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9 months ago
53 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Navigating Mental Health Law: Supporting Families Through Crisis with Lisa Herman
How do you navigate the overwhelming challenges of supporting a loved one dealing with mental illness or substance abuse when the systems meant to help are failing? And how can you be sure you’re making the right choices when it feels like everything is stacked against you? In this powerful episode of Financially Ever After, Stacy Francis sits down with Lisa Herman, a seasoned mental health attorney who guides families through some of life’s most difficult situations—mental health crises, substance abuse struggles, and complex family dynamics. Lisa shares her personal journey and professional insight, revealing the emotional and legal challenges that families often face. Together, they discuss the crucial resources and strategies that can make a difference when dealing with a loved one’s mental health or addiction issues. Lisa’s experience gives a unique perspective on how to act quickly, thoughtfully, and with care in times of crisis. You’ll hear them discuss: The challenges of navigating mental health and substance abuse systems, and why it often feels like families are flying blind without proper guidance. Lisa’s personal journey of losing her husband to cancer and how it shaped her understanding of crisis and family support. The importance of acting quickly and seriously when a loved one expresses harmful intentions, and how to identify when immediate intervention is needed. The legal mechanisms available to families, including guardianship, Kendra’s Law, and the assisted outpatient treatment law to help manage loved ones with severe mental illness. How to avoid enabling destructive behavior while still showing love and support for a family member going through a crisis. The delicate balance between helping someone get the treatment they need while preserving family relationships and communication. Practical advice for reaching out to the right resources, including psychiatric case managers, security personnel, and legal professionals who can step in during critical moments. Resources Lisa Herman on LinkedIn | Email I Phone: 914-607-7010 Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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9 months ago
37 minutes

Financially Ever After Widowhood
Widowhood is the state of being a widow or widower: a person whose spouse has passed away. This is a situation that no one wants to be in, but it is something that can happen, and that you and your family should be prepared for financially. When this kind of painful, life altering event occurs, it's important to have the structure in place for you and your family to be protected, and this year on Financially Ever After Widowhood, Stacy Francis is going to be talking to a diverse lineup of experts, and individuals who have gone through it themselves, to give you the tools and information you need to be prepared. Prior to this year's series on Widowhood, Financially Ever After covered topics related to divorce. We invite you to check out these fantastic episodes if they are relevant to you.