In this episode of First Round’s On Me, Joey and Hannah pull back the curtain on why FROME evolved from a dating app into a social app — and what problem it’s actually trying to solve.They unpack the tension between technology and genuine human connection, the confusion users have felt around too many features, and why the simplest explanation is often the most powerful. From explaining the app in a single sentence to breaking down how drink credits, partner venues, and real-life meetups actually work, this episode is both a philosophy lesson and a practical reset.The conversation expands into Gen Z’s rejection of screen addiction, the growing “analog” movement, and why even the people who built social media won’t let their kids use it. At its core, this episode is about getting people off their phones and back in front of each other — using technology as a bridge, not a replacement, for real connection.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by group chats, endless scrolling, or plans that never actually happen, this episode explains why FROME exists — and why real connection still matters.💬 In the comments: Do you feel the shift toward more “analog” experiences happening already?00:00 – Technology vs genuine human connection 01:00 – Why FROME evolved from dating app to social app03:00 – The problem: too many features, unclear core message05:00 – Explaining FROME in one simple sentence06:30 – Turning group chats into real plans08:00 – Incentivizing real-life connection10:00 – Social media’s shift from “we” to “me”12:00 – The return to analog experiences14:00 – Gen Z, screen addiction & social media bans16:00 – Why tech founders don’t let their kids use screens18:00 – How FROME actually works (plans, credits, venues)21:00 – Why plans must involve other people23:00 – Capturing moments vs curating perfection25:00 – Why FROME isn’t Instagram or a dating app27:00 – Community feedback & simplifying the experience29:00 – Final thoughts: get off your phone, meet people29:40 – Outro & gratitude
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we sit down with Jenny Gorelick — comedian, writer, and two-time Emmy-nominated producer — for a conversation that blends comedy, dating, fear, and emotional honesty in a way only a comic can.Jenny opens up about what’s actually changed for women in comedy (and what hasn’t), how she creates a sense of belonging in New York rooms, and why comedy is one of the hardest art forms in the world to get right. The conversation moves fluidly from stand-up and writing, to magic on stage, to pop culture, celebrity relationships, and the strange emotional logic of modern dating.We also dig deep into ghosting vs. honesty, fear of rejection, emotional intelligence, and why so many people avoid direct communication — even when they care. From “soft ghosting” debates to the truth behind “if he wanted to, he would,” this episode is sharp, funny, and uncomfortably relatable.💬 In the comments: Is soft ghosting ever okay — or is honesty always worth the discomfort?00:00 – Jenny Gorelick joins the show 02:00 – Creating belonging in New York comedy rooms04:00 – Emmy nominations, pride & creative identity06:30 – Comedy as a business vs. pure art08:30 – Why stand-up is one of the hardest jobs11:30 – What makes comedy actually work14:00 – Writing, timing & making effort feel effortless16:30 – Magic, performance & audience trust18:30 – Pop culture, celebrity breakups & public behavior21:00 – Dating confusion & miscommunication23:00 – Soft ghosting vs. emotional responsibility26:00 – Fear of rejection & avoiding honesty29:00 – “If he wanted to, he would” — not always true32:00 – Insecurity, courage & choosing discomfort35:00 – Dating advice for men in NYC38:00 – Final thoughts & outro
In this special holiday episode of First Round’s On Me, Joey and Hannah talk about the side of the holidays that rarely makes it into movies or Instagram posts — the heaviness, the distance, the awkward questions, and the quiet loneliness so many people feel this time of year.They open up about fractured family dynamics, spending Christmas alone, navigating intrusive questions about marriage and children, and the grief that comes not from loss — but from disconnection. This conversation is for anyone who doesn’t feel at home during the holidays, anyone returning to complicated family environments, and anyone trying to protect their peace while still craving connection.The episode explores how to set boundaries without blowing things up, why lowering expectations can save your mental health, and how chosen family can be just as meaningful as the family you’re born into. They also talk about creating new traditions, being vulnerable enough to ask for connection, and finding ways to make the holidays meaningful — even if they don’t look “perfect.”If the season feels heavy, this episode is here to remind you: you’re not broken, you’re not alone, and you’re allowed to do the holidays your own way.💬 In the comments: How do the holidays really feel for you this year?00:00 – Holiday pressure & intrusive family questions01:00 – Why the holidays are hard for so many people 03:00 – Different relationships with family & Christmas05:30 – Growing up with big family traditions07:00 – Spending Christmas alone & creating new traditions09:00 – Reframing loneliness during the holidays11:00 – Going home to difficult family dynamics13:00 – Boundaries vs. keeping the peace15:00 – Lowering expectations to protect your mental health17:00 – Chosen family & adult connection19:00 – Being vulnerable & asking for connection21:00 – Using FROME to meet friends, not just dates23:00 – Small gestures that create meaningful memories25:00 – Being present with parents & grandparents27:00 – Creating new traditions with your own family28:00 – Final reflections & holiday message
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, Hannah sits down with Lily Stewart — creator, style muse, “walking Pinterest board,” and one half of the internet’s most wholesome roommate duo.From NYC nightlife to the Soft Girl era, performative vulnerability, modern dating dynamics, and the chaos of Gen Alpha memes, this conversation is funny, warm, and surprisingly introspective. Lily opens up about friendship loyalty (including that dartboard incident), leaving the 9–5 world, building community, chasing creative freedom, and why confidence in dating is disappearing.The episode also dives deep into the “soft era of men,” performative therapy culture, emotional intelligence, parasocial relationships, and why—despite everything—real connection still matters more than ever.💬 In the comments: Are men really in their “soft era,” or is it just social-media performance?00:00 – Meet Lily Stewart & NYC creative life01:00 – Music taste, nostalgia & personality03:30 – Dating red flags & the dartboard story07:00 – Career pivots: leaving 9–5 for creativity10:00 – Entrepreneurship vs corporate life12:00 – Freedom, fulfillment & taking risks14:30 – Building community & true support17:00 – Social media: connection vs burnout20:00 – Parasocial dynamics & craving IRL community23:00 – Modern dating struggles & overthinking25:30 – Men’s “soft era” & performative vulnerability28:00 – Approaching people in public: why confidence is disappearing31:00 – Emotional intelligence, therapy culture & accountability34:00 – What women actually want: honesty, strength & maturity37:00 – Ending situationships respectfully40:00 – Lily’s next chapter & Freeform Studio42:00 – Outro
In this deeply honest episode of First Round’s On Me, Joey and Hannah unpack something almost every couple experiences — but very few talk about out loud: the six stages of marriage.From the fantasy phase to the frustration phase, from questioning everything to choosing each other again, this conversation is raw, vulnerable, and full of real-life moments that every long-term couple will recognize.They dive into postpartum identity shifts, sleep deprivation, resentment, rebuilding intimacy, rediscovering attraction, the danger of complacency, and what it means to truly choose your partner every single day.It’s an episode about love that evolves, grows, breaks, heals, and strengthens — not the fairytale version, but the real one.💬 In the comments: Which stage do you think most couples get stuck in?00:00 – “Will we ever be attracted to each other again?” 00:14 – The six stages of marriage01:16 – Sick babies, sleep regression & surviving together02:25 – “Is this normal?” — the moments every couple questions03:24 – Stage 1: The fantasy / honeymoon phase05:56 – Stage 2: The reality check07:48 – Moving in, masks off & unfiltered truth09:50 – Stage 3: Frustration — “Did I choose the right person?”12:45 – How long this stage lasts (and why many couples break here)14:18 – Missing your old life vs wanting the life you have16:26 – Repetition, resentment & learning not to spiral17:47 – Rediscovering yourself + rebuilding attraction18:49 – Stage 4: The growth phase19:31 – Choosing each other and choosing yourself20:36 – Postpartum bodies, confidence & honesty21:54 – “Are we still attracted to each other?”22:13 – Complacency kills everything23:13 – Stage 5: True love — bonded through storms24:35 – Seeing each other at your worst & still choosing to stay26:39 – Stage 6: The legacy phase — love that inspires27:46 – Marriage, family & the future you’re building29:24 – What people forget about growing old alone30:16 – What legacy do you want to leave?31:29 – Final thoughts & outro
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, Hannah sits down one-on-one with Tracy Sokat — dancer, content creator, founding trainer at Housework, and co-host of Fit Happens — for a deep, vulnerable conversation about fitness, confidence, body image, GLP-1 culture, and what it actually means to feel good in your skin.Tracy opens up about her journey from dance to teaching, the power of movement as community, and why fitness is just as much mental as it is physical. They explore GLP-1s and the new body conversation, transparency in a social-media-driven world, the psychology of comparison, and how to build confidence from the inside out.This episode is full of honesty, softness, humor, and wisdom — the kind of conversation that leaves you thinking long after it ends.💬 In the comments: What makes you feel the most confident?00:00 – Meet Tracy Sokat: dancer, creator & Housework trainer00:42 – The question everyone should answer truthfully03:12 – Tracy’s journey: dance, fitness & content creation05:20 – The mental side of movement07:29 – Community workouts vs. solo workouts08:12 – What is Housework?09:06 – How great instructors build loyalty10:00 – The Fit Happens podcast11:00 – Balance, lifestyle & realistic fitness12:12 – Intimidation in fitness & all-or-nothing culture14:26 – GLP-1s & the new body conversation18:40 – Body image, disordered eating & transparency20:00 – Being “seen” vs. being “healthy”22:04 – Should GLP-1 users be open about it?24:16 – Look good / feel good: what does it mean?26:14 – Comparison, confidence & grounding28:06 – Women, presentation & the male gaze30:14 – Self-discovery & peeling back layers33:59 – The mirror exercise: why you can’t lie to yourself35:10 – Connection rapid-fire: family, differences & purpose37:45 – “This is my sequel” — Tracy’s next chapter38:38 – Where to find Tracy + outro
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we sit down with Chloé Hurst — actress, writer, and global creative whose story moves between continents and cultures.From growing up in Australia to working in New York, Chloé opens up about the beauty and heartbreak of living between two worlds — what it means to belong everywhere and nowhere at once. We talk about love, curiosity, connection, and how creativity and courage shape who we become.She shares her thoughts on Tall Poppy Syndrome, finding community far from home, and the role curiosity plays in love, ambition, and success. The conversation touches on acting, rejection, AI in the film industry, and why human instinct and emotion will always outweigh the algorithm.It’s soulful, reflective, and deeply inspiring — a love letter to curiosity, creativity, and the power of saying yes to life.💬 In the comments: What does home mean to you?00:00 – What a dream: shooting in New York00:42 – The expat life: living between worlds03:00 – What is love? Curiosity as connection05:01 – Long-term paths & defining real love06:05 – Tall Poppy Syndrome & confidence07:07 – Being loud in New York vs modest in Australia09:04 – Home everywhere and nowhere10:34 – Community, FOMO & belonging12:15 – Torn between lives, grateful for curiosity14:11 – Perspective: gratitude for global life15:03 – A love affair with the world16:32 – Openness, perspective & raising future kids17:19 – Curiosity as the key to growth18:31 – Ambition, instinct & human drive20:17 – Guilt, distance & family ties21:03 – Redefining success through relationships22:24 – Building community as an expat in New York24:10 – Feel the fear and do it anyway25:07 – Acting, rejection & persistence28:06 – Working with Amy Schumer in I Feel Pretty30:24 – The chaos of shooting in NYC32:01 – Celebrity culture & perspective on fame37:13 – AI, body scans & protecting creativity39:34 – Humanity vs. technology41:13 – The meaning of success & autonomy42:39 – Outro & gratitude
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we sit down with Christina Harris — creator, coach, and host of Gin and Toxic. With over a million followers across platforms, Christina gets real about growing up online, finding purpose beyond social media, and why she walked away from being “the casual sex girl.”We dive deep into burnout, boundaries, self-worth, and what it means to rebuild identity after living your life in the public eye. Christina shares how becoming a life coach changed her perspective on relationships, perfectionism, and emotional maturity — and why communication is the cornerstone of every kind of love.It’s honest, funny, and beautifully human — a conversation about healing, identity, and giving yourself permission to change your mind.💬 In the comments: Have you ever outgrown a version of yourself?00:00 – Christina Harris joins the show01:00 – The pressure of being seen vs. being known03:00 – From content creator to certified life coach05:00 – Burnout, identity crisis & rediscovering purpose07:00 – Therapy vs. life coaching09:00 – Communication & attachment styles11:00 – Why people struggle to say what they feel13:00 – The double-edged sword of social media15:00 – Starting YouTube at 12 years old17:00 – Parents, privacy & early internet days19:00 – Social media’s impact on confidence & anxiety21:00 – Oversharing, regret & emotional growth24:00 – Dating, boundaries & vulnerability26:00 – Gin and Toxic: her raunchy, real podcast28:00 – The evolving definition of attraction31:00 – Emotional maturity in modern dating33:00 – Dating mindset: single but open34:00 – Why she stopped casual sex37:00 – You’re allowed to change your mind39:00 – Biggest cheerleaders & girl dad energy40:00 – Closing thoughts & where to find Christina
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, Joey and Hannah get real about the grind, ambition, and the balance between love and obsession while building a company and a family.From viral motivational reels to the darkest days of entrepreneurship, they explore what it means to sacrifice comfort for purpose — and why most people quit right before their breakthrough. This episode dives into how social media can both inspire and destroy, what “protect your peace” really means, and why behind every “self-made” success is a community that made it possible.It’s an unfiltered, passionate reminder that excellence is a process — not an event.💬 In the comments: Do you believe happiness and ambition can coexist?00:00 – Intro00:34 – Memes, reels & modern love languages02:37 – Communication styles: men vs. women04:23 – The double-edged sword of social media06:04 – Entrepreneurs, balance & obsession07:26 – FROME’s evolution: from dating app to social app09:13 – Motivation, doubt & partnership10:08 – Happiness vs. ambition12:01 – Maximizing potential & finding meaning14:12 – Impact vs. contentment16:06 – Misery, motivation & the drive to build17:02 – Reels that fuel the fire18:00 – Lessons from unsolicited advice19:10 – Be teachable & stay curious20:12 – Boredom = the birthplace of success21:32 – The quiet grind of building23:16 – Pressure, partnership & purpose24:48 – Nobody builds alone26:00 – Leadership, humility & belief28:25 – Entrepreneurship myths & burnout29:14 – Imagination, risk & staying driven30:28 – Surround yourself with believers32:19 – Behind every founder is one who almost quit33:09 – Outro
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we sit down with Tyler Jackowski — better known online as Fishing for Clout — a Boston-bred teacher turned viral storyteller who’s built one of the most positive corners of the internet.Tyler opens up about his journey from classroom chaos to content creation, what teaching taught him about empathy, and how he’s redefining what it means to connect online. We talk about the Boston vs LA mindset, the illusion of influence, education reform, and his mission to give teachers the recognition (and paychecks) they deserve through America’s Heroes.This one’s equal parts hilarious and heartfelt — from kids roasting their teacher on Zoom to tackling the future of connection in an AI-driven world.💬 In the comments: Which teacher had the biggest impact on your life?00:00 – Tyler Jackowski joins the show00:45 – Boston vs LA accents & social culture03:15 – Life as a teacher turned creator05:20 – Going viral with student stories07:05 – Kids, humor & classroom chaos09:45 – From teaching to TikTok fame12:00 – Moving from Boston → LA → NY14:10 – The LA social scene & authenticity17:00 – Building real connections online19:20 – Creating community through content22:00 – Teaching during Covid24:00 – How Fishing for Clout began26:30 – Mental health, empathy & influence30:00 – The birth of America’s Heroes33:10 – Fixing education through opportunity36:00 – The power of good teachers38:00 – Incentives that change classrooms40:20 – Rewarding teachers globally43:00 – Tech, AI & human connection47:00 – The meaning of imperfection51:00 – Outro & future collabs
In this unfiltered episode of First Round’s On Me, we sit down with Morgan Cohen — model, storyteller, and unapologetically real voice for a generation learning to love out loud.From heartbreak to healing, Morgan opens up about moving to New York after a devastating breakup, rebuilding her identity, and finding community in vulnerability. We talk about depression, self-discovery, the double-edged sword of social media, cancel culture, and why being honest online is both her power and her pressure.This conversation dives deep into love, loss, and what it means to be seen — truly seen — in a world obsessed with the highlight reel.💬 Drop a comment: Do you think being real online helps or hurts creators today?00:00 – Morgan Cohen joins the show00:17 – Vulnerability, heartbreak & starting over02:17 – Moving to New York after breakup05:04 – Finding home & healing through friends07:05 – Hitting rock bottom and rebuilding08:26 – Loneliness, love & self-discovery09:22 – The real Morgan behind social media10:22 – Storytelling, honesty & influence12:52 – The power of stillness & transparency13:53 – Boundaries and public pressure15:22 – Fame, humanity & cancel culture18:16 – Being “normal” with a platform20:06 – Expectations vs. reality online21:06 – The Ozempic controversy23:44 – Owning your truth & beauty transparency25:55 – Handling hate & negativity28:31 – Why she stopped her podcast30:16 – Love, loss & creative drive34:42 – Moving on & finding purpose37:36 – FROME Café collab & chai latte story40:05 – ChatGPT coffee prediction42:08 – Closing thoughts & outro
In this raw and unfiltered episode of First Round’s On Me, we turn the mic inward. No guests. No filters. Just the team — Our CMO Vicki and Marketing Intern Scott ask the questions, a brutally honest look at what it’s really like to run a business with your spouse while raising a family and chasing a vision bigger than both of you.From late-night fundraise stress to blurred boundaries between marriage and entrepreneurship, this conversation dives deep into communication, leadership, and what it takes to build something that lasts — together.We talk about the psychotic drive founders need to survive, why empathy matters more than intelligence, the chaos of startup life, and the reality that nobody builds anything great alone.💬 In the comments: What’s the hardest part of blending your personal and professional life?00:00 – Running a business with your spouse00:34 – Love, leadership & burnout02:38 – Communication & late-night chaos05:12 – Learning to lead together08:07 – Becoming co-founders10:12 – Opposites that balance13:11 – Finding respect & equality15:19 – Pressure, purpose & persistence17:01 – The founder rollercoaster19:20 – The truth about success21:23 – Entrepreneur mindset23:00 – Building for impact24:17 – Traits every founder needs26:16 – Building the right team28:33 – Company culture & chaos30:08 – FROME’s evolution32:13 – Connection beyond dating34:25 – Outro
In this intimate episode of First Round’s On Me, we get personal about the “fourth trimester” — the whirlwind weeks after becoming parents. From postpartum identity shifts and relationship dynamics to raising a son in today’s cultural climate, this conversation is honest, emotional, and raw.We unpack the unspoken truths of childbirth, the unexpected slow burn of bonding, shifting gender roles, and the vulnerability of new parenthood. We also dive into what it means to raise a good man in a world that often vilifies masculinity, exploring the fears, hopes, and responsibilities that come with that role.Whether you're expecting, a new parent, or simply curious about modern love and family, this episode invites you into a real conversation — not the Instagram highlight reel.💬 In the comments, tell us: What surprised you most about early parenthood or supporting a partner through it?00:00 – Slow burn of bonding vs. instant euphoria00:17 – Welcome to the new studio + life after birth00:47 – What no one tells you about the fourth trimester02:11 – What felt easier vs. harder than expected03:10 – Anxiety vs. optimism in parenting styles04:00 – Gender roles and postpartum adjustments05:07 – How becoming parents changes how you see your partner06:32 – Respect, attraction, and new layers of love07:44 – Birth: strength, vulnerability, and shared moments08:42 – Labor stories & the epidural debate10:38 – Mansplaining pregnancy 😅11:10 – The “taboo” moment after birth: where’s the instant bond?12:18 – The science of attachment and slow-burn love13:09 – How parenting reshapes how we view our own parents15:03 – Shifting family dynamics and generational compassion17:03 – Raising a son in a “man-hating” culture19:20 – Talking puberty, consent, and respect21:18 – Raising emotionally intelligent boys22:12 – Debating social media & parenting boundaries23:41 – Learning from past generations24:12 – Masculinity, vulnerability, and emotional intelligence25:52 – Advice for new parents & postpartum partners27:10 – Highest highs and lowest lows of new motherhood28:02 – Finding your identity after baby29:03 – Outro & subscribe
In this episode of First Round’s On Me, we unpack the lost art of making and keeping friendships in adulthood. From the three people everyone needs in their life — the Anchor, the Expander, and the Mirror — to why adult friendships feel harder than dating, we explore how connection has shifted in the age of social media.We talk about connection fatigue vs. connection famine, why the disappearance of “third spaces” (cafes, bars, community hubs) has made us lonelier, and how friendships mirror the same awkward first hangs and overthinking that come with dating.If you’ve ever wondered why your social life feels stagnant, or you’re craving deeper connections, this episode is your reminder: quality beats quantity.💬 Let us know in the comments: Which role do you need most in your life right now — an Anchor, an Expander, or a Mirror?00:00 – Where do your friendships actually live?00:19 – The three people you need in your life01:22 – Defining the Anchor, Expander, and Mirror03:17 – Which role would you play for others?03:27 – Quality vs. quantity in friendships04:05 – Social media “friends” vs. real friends05:24 – Viral validation vs. real connection06:16 – Treating friendship like dating07:07 – Why friendships require intention07:29 – Experiencing life beyond your partner08:33 – Is making friends harder than dating?09:49 – Why older adults resist new friendships11:04 – Connection fatigue vs. connection famine12:08 – Shifts in social priorities over time13:35 – Finding balance in social interactions14:25 – Third spaces as hubs of connection15:14 – Why younger generations avoid clubbing16:38 – Nostalgia for “home away from home” spaces17:48 – Do your friendships live online?18:09 – Finding the Anchor, Expander, and Mirror19:05 – Final reminder: seek quality connection19:37 – Outro & subscribe
In this episode we open up about the reality of love, marriage, and friendship while raising a newborn and running companies. From the myth of balance to why you should never stop dating your partner, we dive into love languages, conflict, attraction, and the importance of intentional friendships.
We get raw about postpartum struggles, resentment, and how the smallest moments can build intimacy. Plus, we explore why dating your friends can be just as important as dating your partner.
💬 Join the conversation in the comments — how do you keep connection alive when life gets busy?
00:00 – The myth of 50/50 balance in marriage00:18 – Welcome back + life with newborn Leo01:13 – Why dating doesn’t stop after marriage02:22 – Shifts from excitement to building in long-term relationships03:47 – Comfort vs. complacency in love04:47 – Attraction and seeing your partner anew06:08 – Postpartum struggles + self-compassion07:58 – The role of resentment and imbalance10:13 – Full-throttle life vs. balance13:03 – Reassurance and going “100/100”14:13 – Love languages: speaking what your partner understands15:41 – Dating yourself vs. dating your partner17:21 – Acts of service vs. words of affirmation18:09 – Applying love languages to friendships19:29 – Building intentional friendships as adults20:05 – Why friends offer perspectives partners can’t22:15 – Avoiding surface-level connections23:09 – Treating friendship like dating23:51 – Outro & reminder to subscribe
Welcome back to another episode of First Round’s on Me, a First Round’s On Media Production. Today we’re shaking things up and diving into the wild world of dating theories, because let’s be real, modern dating sometimes feels like it needs a user manual. And who better to helps us decode it all than Sydney Meister, associate lifestyle editor of PureWow and cohost of Cupid’s Corner, where she turns hours of research into digestible TikTok-worthy wisdom. We’re talking Box Theory, are you dateable or just a situationship placeholder, Cartier vs. Knockoff: are you the real deal or giving discount energy, and the 80/20 rule. Plus, we unpack why Gen Z is ditching dating apps for Instagram DMs and whether “soonicorns,” AKA guys with potential, are worth the investment or just a bad stock pick.If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s on Me! ✨For detailed show notes, navigate using the timestamps below:2:25 Does Writing Affect Dating?6:28 Banter13:36 Ideal First Date?16:42 Is Box Theory Real?25:35 Cartier or Knockoff?31:33 Biological Clock39:19 Are “Soonacorns” Worth It?49:20 Be DelusionalDownload FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah : https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Sydney: https://www.purewow.com/author/sydney-meister
In this episode of First Rounds On Me, we welcome back the incredible Erica Ettin—dating coach, founder of A Little Nudge, and the ultimate myth-buster of modern love. Known for her fearless takedowns of bad dating advice and no-nonsense approach to finding connection, Erica joins us to answer the internet’s burning questions about dating apps, confidence, first impressions, and communication.From the biggest mistakes people make on dating apps, to the truth about “if he wanted to, he would,” to profile photo do’s and don’ts, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and game-changing advice.Whether you’re single, dating, or just love hearing stories about modern romance, this is the dating advice you actually want to hear.👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop your biggest dating app question in the comments!00:00 – Opening banter00:18 – Introduction: Erica Ettin, the no-nonsense dating coach01:11 – Returning guest & the evolution of dating challenges01:47 – The #1 problem clients face with dating apps03:07 – Dating mindset: Job search vs. relationship search04:03 – Learning from every date (building your “resume”)04:49 – Taking ownership: the lunch date story06:08 – Overthinking & communication pitfalls07:53 – Ghosting, double texting & why it doesn’t matter09:17 – Bad dating advice: “If he wanted to, he would…”11:12 – Behind the scenes of running clients’ dating apps13:34 – Pressure, expectations & telling friends about first dates16:20 – Why short app conversations work best17:55 – Dating app algorithms & client expectations21:11 – Confidence, self-love & the struggle in modern dating25:29 – How self-perception impacts attraction29:23 – The dating industry & app complaints31:12 – How to improve dating apps & dating habits32:08 – Video intros, voice notes & FaceTime debates33:15 – Redefining a “successful” date34:33 – Fake Fact Fridays & bad profile bios35:48 – The right photos for your dating profile38:06 – Text or Next: Opening line game43:22 – Pun-ishment or flirt alert: Pickup line showdown45:44 – Closing thoughts & where to find Erica Ettin
Today’s episode is one you won’t want to miss, as we are joined by the renowned Dr. Sophie Keller, PhD—psychologist, author, and expert in positive psychology. With over two decades of experience helping individuals and organizations cultivate happiness and well-being, Dr. Keller has dedicated her career to unlocking the keys to a happier, healthier life.In this episode, we’ll explore the fascinating intersection of modern dating, relationship dynamics, and the psychology behind human connection. From understanding the impact of dating apps to navigating rejection and building resilience, Dr. Keller will share practical tools and insights that will help you find and sustain meaningful connections. Plus, we’ll dive into fun segments like Red Flag or Green Light? and Dating Myth Busters, where Dr. Keller will weigh in on your burning questions about love, dating, and everything in between.If you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s On Me! ✨Content of this video00:00 - Intro 01:50 Happiness Journey06:04 Bullying & Tall Poppy Syndrome11:33 Behaviors Conducive to Love14:23 Swipe Fatigue 21:24 Are Some People Bad at Dating?26:34 Meet-cute32:43 Opening the Circle of Love35:50 Dating Mythbusters44:22 Red Flag or Green LightDownload FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: / firstroundsonjoe Hannah: / hannah_glasby Dr. Keller:https://www.swiperightloveadvice.com/ https://drsophiekeller.com/
Are we finding love or just finding the ick? 👀In this episode of First Rounds On Me (a First Round’s On Me production), we dive into the dating myths and modern theories that are shaking up today’s relationships. From emotional “exit ramps” to the rise of the “wife drought,” we ask the hard questions:Why do people chase the ick instead of leaning into connection?Are women’s expanding options redefining what partnership means?Is being “too available” actually a red flag—or just a sign of maturity?We share real stories, challenge old gender roles, and unpack why healthy love sometimes feels so uncomfortable in a world obsessed with playing games.💬 Drop your biggest “ick” in the comments—we might feature it in a future episode!👉 If you’ve ever blocked someone for saying “yummy”, panicked at a quick text back, or questioned what “wife material” really means in 2025, this one’s for you.🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more unfiltered takes on modern dating.Chapters00:00 – Intro & setting the stage00:25 – The “ick” and emotional exit ramps02:20 – Digital vs. physical icks in dating04:00 – Why we look for reasons to check out05:20 – Personal stories of unexpected icks06:20 – Can an ick turn into something endearing?07:20 – The “green flag ick” (when healthy love feels weird)08:40 – Too available or just emotionally mature?11:45 – Playing games vs. genuine connection12:45 – The “wife drought” theory explained14:20 – Are men scared that women have more options?15:25 – Shifting gender roles & rising standards17:00 – The dating age gap: challenges for men & women21:15 – Redefining partnership in modern relationships22:40 – Why men must rise emotionally as women rise financially23:35 – Wrap-up & next episode teaserDownload FROM: https://firstroundsonme.coInstagram: / firstroundsonmeTikTok: / firstroundsonmeappJoe:https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Hannah :https://www.instagram.com/hannah_glasby/Exclusive Offer - Transform Your Dating Life Today!Say goodbye to swiping left and hello to real connections! First Round’s On Me helps you skip the awkward stages and find meaningful matches. Get a FREE month of FROM’s premium subscription—all you have to do is use our code DATING!
Welcome back to First Round’s On Me! Today, we’re thrilled to welcome a true queen of dating advice, the incredible Ali Jackson! As the co-host of the wildly popular podcast Finding Mr. Height, Ali has been guiding listeners through the ups and downs of modern dating, offering advice that’s equal parts insightful, honest, and empowering.Today, we’ll be diving into Ali’s best first date tips, how to prepare for a date, and what to do after the date to keep things on the right track. Plus, we’ll talk successful relationship advice, navigating dating apps, and of course, play a few fun games that’ll put her expert knowledge to the test.Exclusive Offer - Unlock Your Best Dating Adventure! ❤️✨Tired of the same old dating struggles? FROM is here to help you find genuine connections that last! Use the code DATING or a FREE month of FROM’s premium subscription—available to every listener.Promo Code - DATINGLink - https://from.onelink.me/LQvW/fromIf you’re loving the conversation, hit that like button, drop a comment with your thoughts, and hit subscribe for more unfiltered dating talk on First Round’s On Me! ✨Download FROM: https://firstroundsonme.co Instagram: / firstroundsonme TikTok: / firstroundsonmeapp Joe: / firstroundsonjoe Hannah : / hannah_glasby