My conversation with Bill Hulseman dives into the heart of his memoir-in-essays, Six to Carry the Casket and One to Say the Mass â a powerful exploration of family, faith, queerness, and the complicated legacies we carry.
Bill talks about what it means to grow up in a world that both shapes you and wounds you, and how loss, love, and truth-telling helped him rebuild his sense of self.
If youâve ever wrestled with identity, belonging, or the weight of family storylines you didnât choose, this episode will meet you right where you are.
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In this episode of For Love of Memoir, we meet Jeanne Krieg, author of Seeing Red: A Misfitâs Unapologetic Search to Be Used by Godâa raw memoir of spiritual restlessness, unexpected break-through, and a misfitâs search for purpose.
Jeanneâs story begins with a prayer in the middle of a moment she couldnât handleâand leads into audacious healing, strange hauntings, and the deep clarity that comes when you realize your calling was waiting on the other side of the pain.
We talk about:
⢠Growing up feeling like you didnât belong in faith spaces
⢠The moment a desperate prayer brought an unexpected wave of peace
⢠How bizarre experiences forced her to rewrite the narrative she was living
⢠The cost and freedom of being a misfit called by God
⢠Why healing sometimes looks like being broken and rebuilt
If youâve ever wrestled with faith, identity, or the truth that youâre not built to fit someone elseâs moldâthis conversation will speak straight to you.
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In this episode of For Love of Memoir, I sit down with psychologist and memoirist Diane Pomerantz, author of Lost in the Reflecting Pool.
We talk about what happens when the fairytale you thought you were living slowly unravels into gaslighting, confusion, and emotional danger.
Diane opens up about loving a man who slowly chipped away at her sense of self â and the long road back to clarity, courage, and freedom.
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⢠How narcissistic abuse begins quietly
⢠The moment Diane realized she was disappearing
⢠What it takes to break free from psychological control
⢠How writing her memoir helped her reclaim her voice
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In this episode of For Love of Memoir, I sit down with Anne Beaudoin, author of The Truth of Chasing Rainbows, to talk about what happens when you leave everything behind to start over in a new country and in a new life.
Anneâs story begins with a bold leap of faith: buying a rainbow trout farm in Costa Rica. But what unfolds is far more than an adventure. Itâs a story about reinvention, resilience, and the courage it takes to listen when life whispers, âThereâs more for you.â
Together, we talk about chasing dreams, facing the unknown, and finding yourself in the most unexpected places.
If youâve ever dreamed of starting over, this conversation will remind you that sometimes, the greatest risks lead to the most beautiful rewards.
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In this episode, I talk with author Frances Rowley Beaumont about A Life Without Hands, the remarkable story of John Oliver â a man born without hands who defied every expectation placed on him.
Frances shares her deeply personal journey through love, identity, caregiving, and the lessons John taught her about resilience, independence, and grace.
đ§ Highlights:
⢠Falling in love with someone the world underestimates
⢠Building a life around creativity and dignity
⢠The emotional cost â and gift â of loving someone extraordinary
⢠What writing this memoir taught her about healing
A powerful, moving conversation about love in its rawest form.
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2) Signed copy from the author (UK site)Order at: www.francesbeaumont.co.ukPrice: ÂŁ19.99 + p&pIncludes an author-signed copy and a striking bookmark of John Oliver with his cat.Christmas offer (2025, November only)Solve your gift list in one go.Message me via the Contact page on my website with your friendsâ details, and Iâll send them a book with your personal message on a Christmas bookmark at no extra cost.Please allow 2â3 weeks for delivery outside the UK.Digital editionsePub (from my website): ÂŁ7.99Kindle (and paperback) on Amazon: ÂŁ7.99 (Kindle) / ÂŁ19.99 (paperback)Link reference: www.Amazon/ Beaumont,JohnoliverbookWatch a short introductionYouTube: youtube.com/user/frabo888Share your thoughtsI welcome your feedback and reviews.Email: frabauthor3@gmail.comOr use the contact form at www.francesbeaumont.co.uk
Singer-songwriter and memoirist Kelita Haverland joins me to talk about her life behind the microphone â and the secrets she carried long before she ever stepped onto a stage.
Kelitaâs story is one of survival, loss, and the way art becomes a lifeline when your world breaks open.
đŹ In this episode we explore:
⢠Her childhood trauma and the silence surrounding it
⢠How music became her refuge
⢠What forgiveness looks like after unthinkable pain
⢠The power of reclaiming your voice
Raw, honest, and unforgettable.
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In this episode of For Love of Memoir, I talk with Erika C. Lowenkopf about her memoir, Missing the Boat. Erikaâs book is told in three acts and takes us through the lasting wounds of childhood bullying, the grief of infertility, and the surprising adventure that helped her rediscover joy.
With honesty, vulnerability, and humor, Erika shares what it means to live through pain and still find light along the way.
đď¸ In our conversation, we explore:
How childhood bullying shaped her sense of selfâand how she reclaimed her voice
Breaking the silence around infertility and childlessness
Why laughter became one of her most important survival tools
The unexpected journey that brought hope and belonging back into her life
This is a conversation about resilience, courage, and the power of writing to transform our hardest stories into connection.
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In this conversation with Inga Aksamit, we explore what it means to grow up between cultures, between parents, and between versions of yourself.
Her memoir, We Walk Faster When Weâre Alone, reveals a family history shaped by displacement, trauma, and hard-won freedom.
đŹ Topics include:
⢠Navigating identity in complicated family systems
⢠The emotional weight of survival stories
⢠Carrying both privilege and pain
⢠Writing your way toward belonging
A deep, thoughtful episode for anyone whoâs ever felt in-between.
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Step into the world of Larry Formatoâwhere the line between survival and ruin is razor-thin.
In Dangerous Ways, Larry takes us deep into his past, revealing a life shaped by high-stakes decisions, calculated moves, and the constant hum of risk. From the streets where trust was earned the hard way to moments where everything could change in an instant, his story is raw, unflinching, and unforgettable.This conversation isnât just about looking backâitâs about the lessons learned in the heat of danger, the cost of living on the edge, and the resilience it takes to start over.Watch the documentary Dangerous Ways here:   â˘Â Dangerous Ways "Official" Documentary of L...  Purchase the book Dangerous Ways here:   â˘Â Dangerous Ways "Official" Documentary of L...  Follow For Love of Memoir everywhere we go: https://linktr.ee/4LoveofMemoir
When Jim Mazziotti's teenage son entered a youth challenge program, it felt like a last-hope moveâa lifeline for a family struggling to find something, anything, that might break through. But what happened next wasnât just transformative for his sonâit reshaped Jimâs life, too.
In this episode of For Love of Memoir, Jim shares the story behind his book The Challenge: How 144 Letters Changed My Life, the Life of My Son, and Will Change Your Life Too.
What began as a commitment to write one letter every day turned into a powerful practice of vulnerability, healing, and connection between a father and his son.
If youâre a parent searching for hope, or someone whoâs ever questioned how to show up when life gets hardâthis conversation is for you.
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What happens when your childhood is shaped by two worldsâone Native, one assimilatedâand neither quite fits?
In this episode, I sit down with Deborah Jackson Taffa, Quechan and Laguna Pueblo author of the powerful memoir Whiskey Tender.
Part coming-of-age story, part cultural excavation, Deborahâs book is a lyrical and unflinching look at growing up in 1980s New Mexico, navigating family secrets, displacement, and the long shadow of U.S. policy on Native identity.
We talk about the dualities that shaped her storyâthe rebel and the student, the silence and the truthâand how writing her memoir became an act of reclamation. Deborah also shares insights into how her upbringing, her ancestors, and her children all helped shape the story she tells on the page.
Whether youâre a memoir writer, a lover of untold history, or simply someone trying to make peace with where you come from, this one's for you!
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In this episode of For Love of Memoir, I sit down with Christine Reed, author of Alone in Wonderland, to talk about hiking solo, navigating grief, and learning to trust yourself when the path ahead is unclear.
Christine shares her story of leaving behind a life that no longer fit, walking into the wilderness with a heavy pack and an open heart. We talk about what it means to rewrite the stories weâve inherited, how nature can be a mirror, and why solitude can be the most honest company.
Whether youâve ever dreamed of thru-hiking or youâre on your own journey of reinventionâthis conversation is one to carry with you.
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Hospice nurse and TikTok storyteller Penny Hawkins Smith joins me to talk about her memoir, Influencing Death: Reframing Dying for Better Living.In this powerful conversation, Penny shares what it's like to sit at the bedside of the dyingâand how witnessing death has helped her live more fully. We talk about her journey from addiction to caregiving, her viral presence on TikTok, and how telling the truth about death can transform how we show up in life.
This episode is raw, hopeful, and filled with hard-won wisdom.
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Author Jane Wong joins me to talk about her lyrical and rebellious memoir, Meet Me Tonight in Atlantic City. Born to a Chinese immigrant family and raised in a working-class neighborhood, Jane explores hunger in its many formsâemotional, cultural, and physicalâand how writing became an act of survival, resistance, and joy.
We talk about abandonment, family, poetic storytelling, and what it means to reclaim your voice across generations.
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â ď¸ Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussions of childhood abuse, emotional manipulation, and domestic violence. Please take care while listening.
What happens when the person whoâs supposed to protect you becomes the one you have to escape?
In this episode, I talk with David Crow, author of *The Pale-Faced Lie*, a gripping memoir about growing up under the shadow of a violent and manipulative father. Raised on lies and trained in deceit, Davidâs early life was shaped by fear, secrecy, and survival.
We discuss what it takes to break free from a legacy of control, how he found the courage to tell his story, and why speaking the truthâespecially about familyâis both painful and freeing.
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In this episode of For Love of Memoir, I sit down with Mark Porro, author of A Cup of Tea on the Commode, to talk about the hilarity and heartbreak of caregiving, the power of storytelling, and what it means to show up when it matters most. Mark brings wit, warmth, and hard-earned wisdom to the conversationâyou wonât want to miss it.đ Donât forget to like, subscribe, and share!đ Find Markâs links and more in the description below.
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