Episode 442 of Friends Talking Nerdy marks the beginning of a brand-new monthly theme: Renewal. To kick things off, The Reverend Tracy joins Tim The Nerd for a thoughtful and grounded conversation about Personal Ritual Renewal—the habits, routines, and small rituals we use to anchor ourselves in daily life.
In this episode, they explore why rituals can be deeply calming and stabilizing, especially during times of stress or uncertainty. From morning routines and end-of-day wind-downs to personal traditions that give life structure and meaning, The Reverend Tracy and Tim The Nerd unpack how these repeated actions can support mental and emotional well-being. But they also tackle the less-talked-about side of rituals: what happens when something that once helped us starts to hold us back.
The discussion examines how life changes—new responsibilities, shifting priorities, aging, burnout, or mental health needs—can make old rituals feel stale, burdensome, or even harmful. The Reverend Tracy and Tim The Nerd talk about recognizing when it’s time to let a ritual evolve, how to intentionally refresh or replace routines, and why changing a ritual isn’t a failure, but a sign of growth and self-awareness.
With a blend of introspection, humor, and practical insight, this episode sets the tone for the Renewal theme by reminding listeners that renewal doesn’t always mean starting over—it often means adjusting what already exists so it continues to serve who you are now.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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Episode 441 brings the Friends Talking Nerdy holiday theme to its final, glitter-covered conclusion as Professor Aubrey and Tim The Nerd take on the ever-hopeful, often-stressful tradition of New Year’s Resolutions. They dig into why people make resolutions with the best intentions—and why those same resolutions so frequently spiral into guilt, anxiety, and abandoned gym memberships by mid-February. The conversation turns nerdy in the best way as they explore how the brain itself can work against long-term change, making resolutions feel harder than they need to be. From there, they break down healthier, more sustainable ways to approach personal goals without turning self-improvement into self-punishment.
In the second half of the episode, the mood shifts as Professor Aubrey and Tim The Nerd share their immediate reactions to the tragic news they had heard regarding Rob and Michelle Reiner's tragic passing. Recorded only a day later, the discussion captures their raw, unfiltered thoughts as they reflect on Rob Reiner’s immense body of work and cultural legacy. The conversation naturally circles back to The Princess Bride, tying into the special Friends Talking Nerdy episode No Chance In Hell, and examining why Reiner’s films continue to resonate across generations.
The Songs of the Week are “Purple Hat” by Sofi Tukker and “Theme From Superman (Teaser Trailer Version)” by John Murphy—because even existential reflection deserves an epic soundtrack.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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Episode 440 of Friends Talking Nerdy keeps the holiday theme rolling, but this time Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd unwrap one of the most emotionally complicated traditions of the season: gift giving. On the surface, it’s boxes and bows. Underneath, it’s psychology, social pressure, joy, guilt, and the low-grade panic of asking yourself, “Is this… enough?”
Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dig into the mental health side of giving gifts, starting with the dopamine hit that comes from nailing it. Few things feel better than watching someone light up because you got them. That moment of connection, thoughtfulness, and shared joy is powerful and genuinely good for the brain. Then comes the other side of the wrapping paper: the stress spiral. The pressure to find the “perfect gift,” the fear of disappointing someone, the comparison game, and the financial strain that sneaks in wearing a Santa hat.
The conversation also takes a thoughtful turn toward people who don’t celebrate holidays at all, particularly those whose religious beliefs mean they opt out of traditional holiday activities. Professor Aubrey and Tim The Nerd explore how things like Secret Santa at work or school—often framed as “just for fun”—can unintentionally alienate people who don’t participate. They talk about inclusion, assumptions, and how well-meaning traditions can sometimes leave folks feeling awkward, excluded, or pressured to explain themselves.
As always, the episode balances empathy with humor, reminding listeners that gift giving isn’t really about stuff—it’s about relationships, expectations, and navigating social norms without losing your mind. Whether you love shopping, hate shopping, or quietly wish everyone would just agree to exchange snacks and call it a day, this episode has something for you.
The Songs of the Week bring big energy and big nostalgia: “Christmas in Hollis” by Run-D.M.C., because holiday hip-hop is undefeated, and “The Rockafeller Skank” by Fatboy Slim, a reminder that sometimes the best gift is a beat that makes you forget your to-do list.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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In episode 439 of Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd continue their holiday-themed month by diving headfirst into the warm, weird, and wildly nerdy world of holiday entertainment. This week, they break down the movies, TV shows, music, and games that make the season feel complete, whether that means heartfelt tradition, chaotic comedy, or something that absolutely does not feel like it should be a Christmas classic but somehow is.
The conversation spans iconic holiday television episodes from South Park and The Simpsons, exploring how satire, irreverence, and animation have become just as essential to the season as twinkly lights and leftovers. They debate the enduring cultural argument over Die Hard as a Christmas movie, revisit timeless classics like It’s a Wonderful Life, and celebrate modern favorites such as Scrooged and A Muppet Christmas Carol, praising how each reinvents familiar holiday themes in very different ways.
Music also gets its moment under the mistletoe, from unavoidable holiday earworms to artists who have become inseparable from the season—yes, including the unstoppable force that is Mariah Carey. Professor Aubrey and Tim discuss why certain songs and albums hit harder during the holidays and how nostalgia, repetition, and shared cultural memory turn entertainment into ritual.
Rounding things out, they touch on board games and other forms of seasonal entertainment that bring people together, for better or worse, during long winter nights. The episode is a thoughtful, funny, and relatable exploration of why holiday entertainment matters, how it shapes our traditions, and why we keep returning to the same stories year after year.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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In this week’s episode of Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd continue their month-long celebration of the holiday season by exploring the remarkable artistry of Joni Mitchell. Few songwriters have shaped modern music the way Mitchell has, and this conversation dives into the emotional, poetic, and deeply human qualities that define her work.
They begin with “River,” the modern holiday classic that captures the bittersweet tone often missing from traditional seasonal music. From there, they step into the wide landscape of Mitchell’s catalog, discussing the shifting perspectives of “Both Sides Now,” the bright optimism of “Chelsea Morning,” and the poignant reflections found in “The Circle Game.”
Tim the Nerd and Professor Aubrey also examine the understated storytelling of “For Free,” the environmental urgency of “Big Yellow Taxi,” and the raw intimacy woven through “A Case of You.” Rounding out the conversation are deeper looks at the wanderlust of “California,” the rhythmic warmth of “Carey,” and the generational anthem “Woodstock.”
Whether listeners know Mitchell’s music by heart or are encountering her work with fresh ears, this episode offers a thoughtful, engaging look at why her songs endure—especially during a season built on reflection, memory, and meaning.
Check out the Joni Mitchell Playlist on YouTube.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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Episode 437 of Friends Talking Nerdy brings Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd back to the mic for their month-long dive into all things Holiday, and this week they’re tackling a topic that hits everyone right in the eggnog: Holiday Relationships.
In this episode, the duo explores the emotional gymnastics we all perform when navigating family during the season—whether that family is the one we were born into or the one we lovingly assembled like a geeky, mismatched Avengers lineup. They dig into the pressure cooker of expectations, traditions, and old dynamics that magically reappear the moment you walk through the door. From managing long-standing tension to dealing with those relatives who treat political debates like a competitive sport, the conversation stays honest, warm, and grounded.
Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd break down practical strategies for keeping interactions healthy and humane—things like setting boundaries without lighting the Yule log on fire, checking in with your own stress levels, finding small ways to recharge, and making space for empathy even when the room is already too crowded. They also discuss how chosen family can provide stability, joy, and sanity when the holidays feel overwhelming.
To wrap things up, they share their Songs of the Week. Professor Aubrey brings “The Water” by Johnny Flynn, a reflective and beautifully layered piece that mirrors the emotional ebb and flow of the season. Tim counters with Warren Zevon’s “A Certain Girl,” a punchy, playful classic that adds a little spark to the playlist.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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In this week’s episode of Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd kick off their extended Holiday Theme, running from now through the end of December. They begin the season by diving fork-first into the world of Thanksgiving food—celebrating the dishes that make the holiday shine and debating the ones that maybe deserve early retirement.
From the classics like turkey, mashed potatoes, and stuffing, to the controversial entries like canned cranberry sauce and green bean casserole, they explore what makes Thanksgiving food so uniquely comforting. The conversation also expands into the emotional landscape that surrounds the holiday: the shifting family dynamics, the rituals that evolve over time, and the moments of connection (and chaos) that make this season unforgettable.
They also highlight the YouTube channel Tasting History with Max Miller, pointing listeners toward a fun deep-dive into the origins of beloved holiday dishes.
This week’s Songs of the Week are “Dance Yourself Clean” by LCD Soundsystem and “Bitch School” by Spinal Tap.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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In this introspective but delightfully nerdy episode, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive deep into the world of attachment styles—how they form, how they play out in relationships, and how they show up in the stories we love. They kick things off by examining their own tendencies, exploring how their personal attachment patterns shape the way they connect with others.
From there, the conversation launches into a character-driven breakdown of famous fictional relationships. They analyze the anxious-avoidant chaos swirling around Anakin and Padmé in Star Wars, the stop-and-start emotional boomerang that defines Ross and Rachel on Friends, and the surprisingly secure, gloriously spooky devotion between Gomez and Morticia Addams. Along the way, they highlight how attachment theory helps make sense of why these couples resonate—or unravel.
The duo then shifts gears into their Songs of the Week and introduces a brand-new YouTube Music playlist they’ve curated for listeners. Professor Aubrey discusses New York Groove from KISS/Ace Frehley, while Tim brings the heat with Nobody Speak by DJ Shadow. Tim also shares a link to an Ace Frehley Tribute Playlist he’s crafted on YouTube for anyone wanting to dive deeper into Frehley’s work.
It’s an episode filled with emotional insight, pop-culture fun, music recommendations, and the trademark warmth and wit that define Friends Talking Nerdy. A perfect listen for fans who love a little psychology sprinkled into their fandoms.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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This week on Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dust off the record player and go head-to-head once again in The Musicwed Game — the game where friendship meets finely tuned musical instincts. Each picks five songs they believe the other will love, and whoever racks up the most correct guesses earns bragging rights as the reigning music whisperer.
The playlist this round is as eclectic as ever — a sonic road trip through dusty border towns, cosmic dance floors, and smoky backroom stages. You’ll hear talk of the swaggering “Canción del Mariachi” from Antonio Banderas and Los Lobos, the bittersweet twang of Glen Campbell’s “Galveston,” and the glitter-soaked groove of Ace Frehley’s “New York Groove.” From the haunting “This Mess We’re In” (PJ Harvey featuring Thom Yorke) to the gospel fire of Sister Rosetta Tharpe’s “Strange Things Happening Every Day,” every track sparks stories, laughter, and passionate debate.
Rounding out the mix are Orville Peck’s outlaw spin on “Born This Way (The Country Road Version),” the late-90s alt-pop gem “F.N.T.” by Semisonic, the heartfelt lift of Patty Griffin’s “Top of the World,” the fiery “Malagueña Salerosa” by CHINGÓN, and the introspective “Just By Myself” from Greg Brown.
Whether you’re a die-hard music nerd or just love hearing two friends geek out with gusto, this episode hits all the right notes — nostalgia, discovery, and a few good-natured arguments about what makes a song perfectly Tim or undeniably Aubrey.
🎧 Tune in, sing along, and find out who wins The Musicwed Game: Round Two!
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Episode 433 of Friends Talking Nerdy brings a heartfelt tribute to the legendary Robert Redford. Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive deep into the cinematic legacy of the late actor, director, and icon, exploring how his work shaped both Hollywood storytelling and 20th-century American culture. From the buddy brilliance of Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid and The Sting to the political intrigue of All the President’s Men and The Candidate, the duo traces Redford’s uncanny ability to capture the restless spirit of his time. They also tackle his turns in Jeremiah Johnson, Three Days of the Condor, The Natural, Out of Africa, Indecent Proposal, and even his surprising Marvel role in Captain America: The Winter Soldier. Equal parts nostalgia and cultural dissection, this episode reminds us why Robert Redford wasn’t just a movie star—he was an American art form in motion.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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This week on Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd swing from ‘60s pop brilliance to modern digital chaos with their signature mix of heart, humor, and deep nerdery.
First up, the duo dives headfirst into their 12 favorite songs from The Monkees — a band that began as a TV creation and evolved into something genuinely magical. Expect stories, laughter, and a surprising amount of reverence for an underrated catalog that includes classics like Last Train to Clarksville, I’m A Believer, (I’m Not Your) Steppin’ Stone, Daydream Believer, and deeper cuts like Porpoise Song and Me and Magdalena. The Professor and Tim wax nostalgic about the band’s legacy, the genius of Michael Nesmith, and how The Monkees managed to sneak counterculture weirdness into bubblegum pop.
Next, they drift across the pond to talk about their new favorite binge: the BBC series Ghosts. It’s witty, heartfelt, and absolutely packed with charm — much like this very podcast. The pair trade laughs over their favorite spectral roommates, discuss the show’s mix of history and humor, and lament that American remakes rarely capture that British balance of clever and cozy chaos.
Finally, Tim the Nerd takes aim at YouTube’s newest headache: the platform’s “Restricted Mode” being switched on by default. He argues that while keeping kids safe is essential, burying creators’ content behind algorithmic walls isn’t the way to do it. There’s a lively discussion about digital gatekeeping, the illusion of choice online, and how creators who use a few choice swear words shouldn’t be punished like they’re smuggling contraband.
From Pleasant Valley Sunday to online policy outrage, Friends Talking Nerdy Episode 432 is a mix of pop nostalgia, media critique, and unabashed enthusiasm for all things weird and wonderful.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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In this week’s episode of Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey returns from the dusty chaos of Burning Man 2025, where she traded her usual academic robes for goggles and glitter. She shares her first-hand tales from the playa — the surreal art installations, the radical self-expression, and the mysterious stranger who may or may not have tried to sell her a “quantum-enhanced grilled cheese.” Tim the Nerd listens with equal parts fascination and skepticism, asking the tough question: “Was it enlightenment or just really expensive camping?”
After the desert dust settles, the duo dives back into the internet’s favorite moral battleground — Reddit’s Am I The Asshole (AITA). Professor Aubrey and Tim dissect fresh stories of social awkwardness, entitlement, and questionable ethics with their signature mix of humor and empathy. From petty roommate feuds to baffling wedding-day ultimatums, no AITA post escapes their critical (and comedic) eye.
Meanwhile, Tim brings everyone up to speed on the backstage blow-up between independent wrestlers Sycho Stu and Raja Jackson — an incident that unfolded while the Professor was off-grid at Burning Man. With the flair of a true wrestling fan and the insight of someone who’s seen plenty of locker room politics, Tim breaks down what happened, what it says about indie wrestling culture, and how the fallout is rippling through the scene.
By the end, listeners get a little bit of everything — desert philosophy, internet ethics, and wrestling mayhem — wrapped in the warm, witty banter that makes Friends Talking Nerdy a weekly highlight.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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This week on Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd crank up the distortion and pay tribute to one of rock’s most unstoppable forces — Joan freakin’ Jett. From her trailblazing work with The Runaways to her solo anthems that defined rebellion for generations, the duo dives deep into the riffs, the attitude, and the pure rock heart that make Jett a legend.
Professor Aubrey breaks down what makes Jett’s guitar tone so distinct — that raw, unapologetic crunch that says “I don’t need your approval.” Tim the Nerd, meanwhile, waxes poetic (and a little nostalgic) about the cultural punch of “Bad Reputation” and how “I Love Rock and Roll” became the rallying cry for every outsider with a beat-up leather jacket.
The songs on the turntable this week include:
“I Love Rock and Roll,” “Bad Reputation,” “Crimson and Clover,” “Do You Wanna Touch Me (Oh Yeah),” “Make Believe,” “Light of Day,” “Fake Friends,” and a trip back to her Runaways days with “Cherry Bomb,” “You Drive Me Wild,” “I Love Playing with Fire,” and “School Days.”
Expect sharp insights, a few laughs, and a lot of love for the woman who turned raw energy into timeless empowerment. Whether you’ve been blasting Jett since the ‘70s or you’re just discovering her now, this episode is pure, high-voltage rock and roll.
Because as Joan herself proved — you don’t have to give a damn about your bad reputation… you just have to turn it up.
Listen to the songs on our YouTube Playlist.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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This week on Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive headfirst into a trio of wildly different but equally juicy topics.
First, the dynamic duo ventures into the chaotic emotional jungle of Reddit’s Am I Overreacting? subreddit. They read and react to stories of everyday drama, wild overreactions, and moments of total self-awareness—or complete lack thereof. As always, they bring their own lived experiences, wit, and empathy to the table, offering grounded advice with a nerdy twist.
Next, Tim puts on his wrestling historian hat to tackle the big news shaking up the sports entertainment world: WWE’s exclusive new deal with ESPN. With Premium Live Events moving to ESPN’s pricey new app, Tim breaks down what this means for fans’ wallets and for WWE’s future audience engagement. Expect a mix of passion, insight, and a few wrestling puns that would make The Rock raise an eyebrow.
Finally, before heading off to Burning Man 2025, Professor Aubrey shares her excitement about the upcoming adventure. She opens up about what she’s looking forward to most—the art, the music, the community, and the delightful unpredictability of the desert.
It’s a conversation that blends empathy, pop culture critique, and unfiltered enthusiasm for life’s strange corners—exactly what you’ve come to expect from Friends Talking Nerdy.
🎧 Tune in, laugh along, and maybe question if you’re overreacting too.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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Episode 428 of Friends Talking Nerdy is a celebration of women who didn’t just rock the stage but bent the rules of the game, reshaped culture, and left scorch marks on the history of music. Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive into their favorite women rock and roll stars, not just rattling off names but unpacking what made these artists lightning rods for change.
The conversation moves track by track like a lovingly curated mixtape, which they made availble on YouTube. They start with Pat Benatar’s anthemic “We Belong,” discussing how Benatar combined powerhouse vocals with a sense of vulnerability that made her a radio staple without softening her edge. From there, they barrel into the raw energy of Janis Joplin’s “Move Over,” talking about how Joplin embodied a feral, unapologetic energy that made her voice feel like a declaration of war. Kathleen Hanna and Le Tigre’s “Much Finer” prompts Aubrey to bring in the riot grrrl movement, with Tim marveling at how Hanna’s blend of activism and art feels more vital now than ever.
When Jefferson Airplane’s “Somebody to Love” comes up, they highlight Grace Slick’s psychedelic snarl and how she stood toe-to-toe with the male counterculture icons of her era. Joan Jett’s “Bad Reputation” naturally gets both of them fired up—Tim noting how Jett weaponized punk’s simplicity, while Aubrey points out that her career longevity is proof she wasn’t just a “bad girl” novelty. They lean into Stevie Nicks’ “Edge of Seventeen,” marveling at her voice’s mythic qualities and the way she carved out her own witchy rock persona that still resonates across generations.
From The Pretenders’ “Back on the Chain Gang” to Blondie’s “One Way or Another,” the hosts highlight the unique blend of grit and sophistication Chrissie Hynde and Debbie Harry brought to the table. Tina Turner’s “Private Dancer” inspires a passionate sidebar on resilience, survival, and the way Turner reinvented herself against impossible odds. And Hole’s “Celebrity Skin” brings the discussion full circle, with Aubrey making the case that Courtney Love’s voice—half sneer, half scream—was a necessary counterweight to the sanitized pop machine of the late ‘90s.
After the amps cool down, the duo pivot to television, giving their first impressions of South Park’s Season 27 debut. They note how the new season takes aim at the current American political landscape with a sharpness and weird clarity the show hasn’t always nailed in recent years. Tim points out that the difference between South Park’s take on the first Trump Administration years and now is like night and day—back then, the writers seemed shell-shocked, unsure how to lampoon chaos that already felt like satire. Professor Aubrey adds that the new season feels more like the show’s golden years, where cultural absurdity is filtered through the bizarre but laser-focused worldview of four Colorado kids. Together, they agree that this season might mark a creative resurgence for the long-running series.
The episode balances music history and cultural commentary with the usual Friends Talking Nerdy flavor—part nerdy scholarship, part passionate fan energy. By the end, listeners get both a playlist of iconic women who changed the sound of rock forever and a thoughtful dive into how South Park still finds a way to speak to the strange moment we’re all living through.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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Episode 427 of Friends Talking Nerdy takes listeners into the world of love, relationships, and all the beautiful chaos that comes with polyamory. Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive into stories pulled from the Polyamory Relationship Advice subreddit, bringing their own lived experiences to the table with warmth, humor, and honesty.
The episode kicks off with the duo acknowledging just how tricky navigating multiple relationships can be—not because polyamory itself is inherently complicated, but because humans are. Emotions, expectations, communication styles… it’s all a tangle, and Reddit provides a perfect cross-section of the challenges people face when trying to make non-monogamous love work.
As they read through posts from people struggling with jealousy, time management, mismatched expectations, or even just figuring out how to come out as poly to friends and family, Aubrey and Tim approach each story with empathy and grounded advice. They don’t claim to be experts or therapists, but they speak candidly about what’s worked in their own lives—whether it’s hard-learned lessons about setting boundaries, the importance of radical honesty, or how to avoid slipping into toxic dynamics disguised as “freedom.”
The conversation moves easily between serious and lighthearted. Aubrey offers thoughtful breakdowns of emotional nuance, while Tim injects humor and grounded practicality to keep things from getting too heavy. Together, they model what supportive poly communication can look like: acknowledging fears without shame, validating desires without judgment, and reminding listeners that it’s okay to stumble along the way.
The episode feels like a mix of a late-night heart-to-heart with friends and a pragmatic guidebook for anyone curious about—or already living—polyamory. By the end, it’s clear that Aubrey and Tim’s goal isn’t to hand down “one true way” of doing relationships, but to remind listeners that love is expansive, flexible, and deeply personal.
Episode 427 is a blend of education, storytelling, and vulnerability that gives polyamorous folks and allies alike a lot to chew on, and it adds another thoughtful entry to the Friends Talking Nerdy library of conversations that don’t shy away from the messy, human stuff.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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On this week’s episode of Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd turn their ears toward one of the most expressive instruments in music history: the saxophone. From Bob Seger’s hauntingly beautiful “Turn The Page” to the iconic smoothness of Wham’s “Careless Whisper,” the duo digs into the way the saxophone can transform a song into something timeless. They groove through the Rolling Stones’ laid-back “Waiting On A Friend,” dance with Bowie’s “Modern Love,” feel the epic storytelling in Springsteen’s “Jungleland,” and toast with the classic party anthem “Tequila” by The Champs. The journey continues with Aretha Franklin’s powerhouse hit “Respect,” the soulful yearning of INXS’ “Never Tear Us Apart,” the rock ‘n’ roll roots of Bill Haley’s “Shake, Rattle, and Roll,” and another Bowie gem, “Young Americans.”
Check out the playlist on YouTube Music.
In the second half of the show, Tim the Nerd reflects on the passing of professional wrestling icon Hulk Hogan. While acknowledging Hogan as the spark that first drew him into the world of wrestling, Tim candidly explores the complicated legacy Hogan leaves behind—both as a larger-than-life performer and as a deeply flawed man. He emphasizes the importance of being honest about public figures’ lives, for better and worse, while also calling out the extremes of online criticism that turned into harassment of Hogan’s loved ones.
It’s a thoughtful, music-filled episode blending appreciation for the power of the saxophone with a nuanced conversation about legacy, fandom, and the messy ways we talk about the people who shaped pop culture.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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Episode 425 of Friends Talking Nerdy brings a mix of personal stories, pop culture news, and some nerdy life lessons, as Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive into a surprisingly wide range of topics.
The episode opens on a more serious and personal note as Professor Aubrey shares her recent experience discovering she has osteoarthritis. She walks listeners through how she first realized something was wrong, the symptoms she noticed, and the red flags others might want to watch out for if they’re dealing with similar aches and pains. Their discussion ties into an article from Psychology Today—“Arthritis: The Secret Pain of Gen X Women Today” by Dr. Deborah Carr—framing the conversation not just around Aubrey’s health, but also around the larger, often under-discussed challenges many Gen X women are facing with arthritis.
From there, Tim the Nerd reacts to the passing of actor Malcolm-Jamal Warner. His candid response captures the shock and sadness of losing a performer who was such a fixture of pop culture.
Shifting gears, Tim the Nerd then dives into the surprising news that CBS is pulling the plug on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert and opting not to renew Colbert’s contract. He offers his perspective on what this decision means for late-night TV as a whole, and how the changing media landscape might reshape the format entirely.
Professor Aubrey lightens things up by recounting Tim’s latest run-ins with one of the show’s feline mascots, Annie. The banter captures the joy and occasional chaos that comes with living alongside strong-willed cats.
Finally, Tim takes a closer look at the Rachel Zegler controversy from earlier in the year, comparing it to the Gina Carano situation at Disney that the podcast covered previously. He explains why he agrees with parts of what Zegler said, but not the way she expressed her opinions, stressing the importance of speaking up on issues while also being thoughtful about how those opinions are delivered.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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On this episode of Friends Talking Nerdy, join Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd as they delve into an eclectic mix of topics, seamlessly weaving personal experiences and societal observations into a vibrant tapestry of conversation.
Pain Relief & Capitalism: Professor Aubrey opens up about her newfound solace in a TENS unit, sparking an unexpected discussion on the intricacies of pain relief, healthcare, and the pervasive influence of capitalism. The conversation takes an emotional turn, exploring the collective trauma endured during the pandemic and its impact on society's approach to wellness.
Teacher Strikes and Hollywood Resolutions: In a segment of contrasting news, Professor Aubrey delves into the challenges faced by teachers amidst the Portland, Oregon teacher’s strike, while Tim the Nerd sheds light on the resolution of the SAG/AFTRA strike in Hollywood, showcasing the power dynamics at play in different labor disputes.
Superfan: The Story of Vladimir: Tim the Nerd takes the spotlight to dissect the intriguing new WWE Documentary, "Superfan: The Story of Vladimir," exploring the intersections of wrestling, storytelling, and the fans who enjoy it.
Off-term Elections and Democratic Gains: The duo analyzes the recent off-term elections, where despite adverse polling numbers for President Biden, the Democratic Party secured significant gains. They dive into the underlying reasons behind the outcomes and what they might indicate for future political landscapes.
Parasocial Relationships & Fandoms: Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd delve into the complexities of parasocial relationships by sharing personal anecdotes about their fervent fandoms, particularly The Beatles. The conversation culminates in an in-depth discussion about the last-ever Beatles song, "Now and Then," unravelling its significance and resonance within the world of music and nostalgia.
Episode 332 stands as a testament to the diversity of topics and the depth of analysis offered by Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd, blending humor, intellect, and personal reflections into a captivating and thought-provoking conversation.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
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On episode 423 of Friends Talking Nerdy, Professor Aubrey and Tim the Nerd dive into the sonic world of keyboards — not the clacky kind you’re typing on, but the kind that can make a rock anthem soar or turn a groove into pure magic. Each host shares their personal top five tracks that showcase the power of keys.
Professor Aubrey’s picks span from Billy Preston’s legendary turn on The Beatles’ “Get Back”, to Stevie Wonder’s funk-defining “Superstition”, the haunting post-punk of Joy Division’s “Love Will Tear Us Apart”, MGMT’s psychedelic anthem “Kids”, and the shimmering dance beat of Arcade Fire’s “Sprawl II.”
Tim the Nerd counters with his own heavy-hitting lineup: The Who’s stadium-shaking “Baba O’Riley”, Van Halen’s synth-laden “I’ll Wait”, Ray Charles’ groundbreaking “What’d I Say”, Queen’s operatic masterpiece “Bohemian Rhapsody”, and The Doors’ moody classic “Riders On The Storm.”
Listeners can head over to the Friends Talking Nerdy website and cast their vote for whose playlist reigns supreme.
But the episode doesn’t stop there. Professor Aubrey shares her firsthand impressions of the 2025 Oregon Country Fair, bringing listeners along for the sights, sounds, and eccentricities of Oregon’s most beloved countercultural gathering.
Then, buckle up, because Tim the Nerd closes the show with a spoiler-packed deep dive into James Gunn’s new film Superman — his take on the story, characters, surprises, and what it means for the future of DC films.
From keyboards to country fairs to Krypton’s last son, this episode covers it all with the trademark mix of nerdy passion and playful banter that makes Friends Talking Nerdy a must-listen.
As always, we wish to thank Christopher Lazarek for his wonderful theme song. Head to his website for information on how to purchase his EP, Here's To You, which is available on all digital platforms.
Head to Friends Talking Nerdy's website for more information on where to find us online.