Everyone has to start somewhere in the lifestyle, but is it also ok to not want to bang people that are brand new to the space? We discuss this after Brenna gets an interesting proposition from a newbie couple. Plus, we look back on newbie mistakes we made when it all started seven and a half years ago!  Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get your new year off on the right foot with a peptide protocol! https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get bonus content and support the show at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

Since we're all just mammals at the end of the day, it makes perfect sense that the biological urges seen in nature can also be seen in the lifestyle, right? This time around, we discuss how male on male competition, biologically referred to as "sperm competition," can both help and hurt in a lifestyle dynamic. Plus, "Pubes Guy" fumbles the ball, just as Brenna was getting ready to go out with him.... Join us for an upcoming event, including our Wifey sponsored AVN event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get a free consultation to start looking and feeling your best in the new year! https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Shivers gummies and get 15% off your first order with code FPS at https://shivers.store Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

A post on a swingers' forum had us scratching our heads about the state of "old school swinging," and led to in-depth conversations about consent, alcohol consumption, and where we fit into all of it as sober lifestylers. Plus, we chat about learning how to pick and choose our battles in the space.  Join us on Patreon for big news that won't be disclosed anywhere else at this time... https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Schedule your free consultation call with us at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get a FREE month of Kasidie access! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

A message from a single man looking to enter the lifestyle spurs a conversation on the balance between being honest and being kind... We also talk about how single men hold other single men accountable at our events, and our thoughts on why that doesn't happen more often. Plus, big life changes are teased.... To enter the Shivers holiday giveaway, comment under the Shivers post on our Instagram, https://instagram.com/fpspodmedia or our X, https://x.com/fpswingers. Winner will be chosen next Monday, January 22nd at 8 pm PST! Get started on your peptide or GLP-1 journey by scheduling a consultation with us at https://revitaglowmeds.com To hear more about Brenna's new professional world, join our Patreon community at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get a FREE month of Kasidie access! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Join us for an upcoming event, including our Wifey.com sponsored AVN party: https://members.frontporchswingers.com  

A trip down memory lane reminds us of the things that felt very taboo and naughty before getting into the lifestyle. And how truly vanilla they seem now. We talk sex shops, strip clubs and more! Plus, what MOVES us to continue in the world of ethical non-monogamy? Check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com for all your peptide and weight loss med needs.  See our upcoming events: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Join our Patreon community for weekly bonus episodes! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

A jam packed and very vulnerable episode about Brenna's imposter syndrome in the lifestyle, fears for our future as a hotwife couple, and some very honest epiphanies from recent weeks. Plus... the return of Worst of the Week TIMES TWO! Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get on the Peptide train! Schedule your free consultation at https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Shivers gummies at 15% off with code FPS at https://shivers.store Join our Patreon community to get bonus episodes on video! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get a FREE month of Kasidie access when you click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

As two proud members of the LGBTQ community, we have some very strong opinions about inclusivity in the lifestyle. Nowhere is this more important that at lifestyle events and clubs. We discuss sexuality representation, as well as some new discoveries in our own world with regards to sexual orientation.  Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Schedule your free consultation with Brian for peptides, weight loss meds, and TRT at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get a free month of Kasidie access! Just click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get bonus content weekly when you support the show on Patreon! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

We spent a weekend in Detroit to host the Real Hotwives of Detroit at Hidden Agenda. And the experience has spurred MANY conversations between us about club quality and the standard lifestylers should demand from club owners and event organizers. Plus, a little bit on the naughtiness Brian got up to.... Get on the peptide train! https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes and more by joining our Patreon community! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get 15% off your first Shivers order with code FPS at https://shivers.store  

A message on our kink profile has had our heads spinning.... And asking questions like, "Is it really just a numbers game in the lifestyle?" Plus, Brenna had a procedure done that apparently is pissing off some of our followers.... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com for your free peptide, TRT, or medical weight loss consultation. Get TONS of bonus content by joining us at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Just click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple play in the future. Plus, this foursome might have Brenna considering a brand new type of play... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get a free TRT, peptide, or weight loss consultation today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% off your first Shivers order with code FPS at https://shivers.store  

Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of that programming just go out the window when we get into the lifestyle? We think not... Allow us to explain on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast! For weight loss meds, peptides, and TRT, check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get weekly bonus videos of the podcast from our living room by joining us at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he is as a lifestyler, and why he is as cautious as he is. Plus, we discuss how this has impacted our relationship over its 8 years.  For more conversations like this, join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get 10% off your first order when you mention the podcast at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% off our favorite pleasure-enhancing gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is physical attraction the most important thing in the lifestyle? And maybe more importantly, should it be? As usual, buckle up for an unfiltered ride... Visit us at RevitaGlow Meds for peptides, HRT, TRT, and medical weight loss products: https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes and other exclusive content at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

Everyone knows a person who is a cheater, who has been cheated on, or they themselves are the victim of cheating. Is that the reason infidelity seems more socially acceptable than ethical non-monogamy? We provide our opinions and anecdotal evidence on the topic.  Ready to look and feel your best? Schedule a free consultation with Brian at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Shivers pleasure-enhancing gummies at a discount with code FPS at https://shivers.store Get bonus content and more when you join us on Patreon! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

Whether it's financials, looks, frequency of play, or relationship dynamics, it's almost impossible to not compare yourself to other lifestylers and the way they are "lifestyling." But when does it become a problem? Plus, have we finally met a couple we might want to swap with?? Ready to up your health and fitness game NATURALLY?? Set up a free consultation with Brian today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes of FPS and more by joining us at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

A controversial take on married or otherwise partnered men in the lifestyle.... We discuss some of the ire we have received over the years for our views on how men behave, especially when they are trying to swap with their lady counterparts. We warn you now, this one might offend you. But it is our hope that it also might make you think just a little differently about the topic.... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Check us out for all things peptides and weight loss meds: https://revitaglowmeds.com Support the show and receive bonus content at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get a free month of Kasidie access by clicking on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

As we approach the 5th year anniversary of our largest event of the year, we have some important questions for each other: What do we want for the other person, and what do we want for us as a couple? The answers might just surprise you... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Check out our bonus content and support the show: https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get on the Peptide train! Schedule a free consultation with Brian at https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Shivers gummies! Get 10% off your first order with code FPS at https://shivers.store  

A very interesting pool party experience has us questioning if we're ready to jump back into couple for couple play... Plus, we discuss the overall health of our sex lives, and how we see our future shaping up in the lifestyle as a result!  Check out our amazing Pod Bash Sponsors! An amazing speak-easy club experience in the Detroit area, Hidden Agenda: https://ahiddenagenda.com/ Our favorite bedroom wellness products: https://promescent.com/fps The gummies that will send shivers all over your body: https://shivers.store Our go-to for lifestyle sexual health services: https://shamelesscare.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Curious about peptides or weight loss meds? Schedule a consultation with Brian at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us on Patreon, support the show, and get tons of bonus content! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers  

Our personal perceptions on ourselves, and on the world around us, have such an interesting impact on the lifestyle. From who we are attracted to, to what drives us, to what makes us want to get naked with someone. We discuss this from our personal viewpoints. Plus, Brenna forgot all about a play date.... What does that mean? Join us on Patreon for even more FPS! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Book your free consultation with Brian to discuss peptides and other health products: https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 10% off Shivers gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com  

After helping to facilitate a kink event over the weekend, we were reminded of how different the space can be from the lifestyle... Plus, Brenna gets VERY vulnerable about her weight loss after receiving a jarring message on social media.  Support the show and get bonus content every week: https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get your health and fitness fixes here: https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com