On today’s episode I talk about how to best support our neighbors, ourselves, and our country. I clear up whether I believe that Jesus expects us to march and why we would and why we may choose not to march. I give options on how to be a part of the uprising against this regime in a way that is uniquely right for you and honors your relationship with the God of your understanding.

On today’s episode i talk about heaviness in our souls, body, and minds as we navigate physical pain, emotional pain, and the state of things in our world.  I offer ways that I am choosing to navigate my own heaviness of heart and how I have chosen to start new things, return to things that bring me comfort, and incorporate ways to bring my heart joy.

On today’s episode we decompress a bit from this past year and get geared up to join 2026 with gusto and purpose. Join us to be a part of the positive path forward and owning who we choose to be in the new year.

On today’s episode I talk about going home to family for the Holidays that may not be affirming or open. I also give some ideas on alternative ways to celebrate and take care of your heart if you have been banned from attending the Holidays with you birth family.

On today’s episode I focus on abundance.  What does that mean to you?  Are you really fulfilled or is there something missing?  What is most alluring to you? Money? Fame? A bunch of corgis? What will sustains us in the bad times and what will really enrich our lives? Tune in and let’s find our abundance!

On today’s episode I focus on our ”Wonderful Counselor” whom Isaiah called our Messiah.  How do we access our counselor during this Advent season?  How might we learn to be still and listen for our counselor’s nudges?

On today’s episode I talk about what we may feel during silence in a social setting. Why do we need to fill the silence? What may we be afraid of in the silence. How did Jesus fill in the moments when he was confronted and put on the spot? What can we learn that can help us during challenging Holiday gatherings?

On today’s episode I reference an amazing sermon by The Reverend Erika Takacs from St.. Paul’s Episcopal church in Winston-Salem. We talk about staying connected to our beloved communities for support and for strength.  What we often forget is that the beloved community we are connected to is larger than we consciously consider.

On today’s episode I talk about the thoughts we think and the words we say.  How does that resonate with us being the hands, feet, and mouth of Jesus?  Tensions are high, everyone is on edge, and our brothers and sisters are in trouble.  Our first step to being a light is to listen to what the God of our understanding hears from us.

On today’s episode I talk about how to handle the upcoming Holidays with your family, or not.  The Holidays can be difficult no matter who you love and in our LGBTQIA+ community it can get even dicier!  Take a moment to reflect on what will work for you this Holiday and how to make your authentically heart sing.

On today’s episode I use the All Saint’s Day theme of honoring those people and fur babies who have died in our lifetime and what they left me and how that exchange can enhance our lives now.

On today’s episode I go down ”memoir lane” as I celebrate with you the  2nd year anniversary of my memoir, GAY with GOD, Reclaiming My Faith, Honoring My Story. It is my story of struggles, fears, and a journey of hope, love, and self acceptance as I reclaimed my own faith that I feel was stolen from me.  Come, celebrate with me and yourself as we walk this journey together!

On today’s episode I talk about how our words indicate what is in our hearts.  Being followers of Christ is the way of love.  When we hold that love in our hearts, our words & behaviors will match, if they don’t, it is time for reflection.

On today’s episode I talk about how deep the love of the God of understanding goes.  In these times of anger, hate, fear, and reactivity...I offer a quick and free way to connect to that loving energy.  I truly believe that love wins.....let’s go deeper and connect to that love.

On today’s episode I talk about The Middle Way, and how we Episcopalians use the 3 legged stool, (Scripture, Tradition, Reason) to navigate through our lives with each other and with the God of our understanding.

On today’s episode I talk about how difficult it was to admit we are gay and how the religious trauma is alive and well, due in part, to the current administration.  I emphasize that the God of our understanding is with us and loves us just as God created us to be.

On today’s episode I talk about how events like the death of a person who has promoted harm to our marginalized brothers and sisters can trigger old wounds and trauma for all of us. The good news is... we are never done growing on this side of the ground and the God of our understanding is still supporting and loving us through it all.

On today’s episode I talk about something that happened this morning in my neighborhood. It brought up feelings of uncertainty, safety, and how this current time in our lives may be creating an unease at crossing the road in our neighborhoods, in our lives, and our nation. It is so important for us to check out how the times we live in may be creating a withdrawal from how we really want to lead our lives.

Today I talk with Bill Hulseman, writer, ritual designer, and former educator, to honor his coming out/faith journey story. We explore an important discussion about chosen families and the urgency we feel during these times to be in community and support each other. A delightful, stimulating, and heartfelt episode.

On today’s episode I explore whether we can be so polarized in our thoughts and beliefs to 100% think that we can determine what is good and evil.  What if.... those we vehemently disagree with are just as broken as we feel?  What if the perceived evil is just a cover for their own pain, despair, and fear? How would that change our soul and how we respond?