I recently was reading about how winter is when depression hits the largest number of people, and this is the first time in most of our lifetimes that we have been dealing with something like the pandemic over that normally gloomy winter period.  So, some people out there are hurting more than normal due to everything that is going on out there, and some of those folks might be you, or someone you care about.  So today I want to talk about this issue from a slightly different viewpoint.  I want to talk about the idea of quitting under adversity.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Respect.  Genuine respect.  Today I want to talk about how key, how crucial, paying respect is to success in your process of meeting and connecting with great women.  I mean showing respect to the lady.  I mean showing respect to her family and friends.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Handling Conflict.  Conflicts, disagreements and disputes are part of life, and always will be, no matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you situation is in life.  How to best handle conflict, anger, and disagreement using key principles from the book is what we dig into in this week’s episode.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Three Wins Per Day!  What 3 things did you do today to advance your goals in life, to improve yourself?Women, and everyone, loves to see someone who is continuously improving, who is on a trajectory to good things in life.  Women love it!!! Becoming the best man you can be doesn’t happen overnight.  Just reading my book doesn’t get the job done.  The book lays out a roadmap and gives you a ton of tools to help you along the path.   So, how do you get there?   What does work?  We’ll get into that in this episode.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Men: Should you or should you not get married?  Is someone trying to pressure you into marriage now?  I talk a lot about a man’s various responsibilities in life in the book and on this podcast because a major part of my thesis is that is vital to success in many areas, including success with women.  But where does marriage fit into that philosophy?  We will take a thorough look at this crucial subject, something that you are very likely to encounter at some point in your life, in this week’s episode. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

In this episode I want to talk about dating safety - specifically for men.  There is plenty of information and advice available online and elsewhere about safety concerns for women, and rightfully so.    Guys need to be careful out there as well.  Men can be robbed, or cheated, or harmed.  We’ll cover all of the basics, plus some other things that aren’t so well known that can cause you real problems.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community?  No, right?  If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no.  In this episode we are going to dig into what is unfortunately a very common problem, toxic online behavior by some men directed toward women on dating websites and in dating apps.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Monogamy.  Or not?  Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not?   Is it ok to cheat, or is it not?  We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

How do you ask for sex?  Whether you are just dating someone, or its a lady friend that you are interested in, or you are in a relationship but not getting enough sex, how do you ask for it?  How do gentlemen bring the subject of sex up in a nice way, one that isn’t rude, a turn off,  or a way that makes you look bad. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

From men jumping at the first pretty face to dealing with women who want to be in your wife's or girlfriend's place in your life, we have you covered in this week's episode about dealing with various common Traps and Pitfalls of dating success. If you are continuously improving yourself like we call for and describe in the book, if you are always improving as a man every day, win after win, small step after small step, one goal achieved after another, then a lot of positive things start happening more often and on a more consistent basis for you.  You have better relationships at work, in business, in your personal life, and of course, with women. Interviews start going our way.  Job promotions start happening more often.  You are closing more sales.  You're getting more customers and clients.  There is prosperity and success all around!That’s all great, right?  Buying the book and listening to all of these podcasts is paying off!  But there are some potential traps I need to tell you about.  Ones that I need to warn you about as you head down that path.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/  

Let your confidence soar whether you are naked or clothed! In this episode we talk about men’s grooming secrets. Some things may be obvious and second nature to you, and some may be quite unfamiliar. But all of them will help you walk around with the right amount of confidence as you are out there meeting ladies, and otherwise going about your daily life. We’ll go over everything as per usual, to be as thorough as possible. If you think you are too fat, too short, too bald, too whatever, we are going to talk about how to think about all of that as well.This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/    

In this episode we talk about the pool of available relationship candidates through a lens or perspective called "10-80-10" that I am borrowing from an entirely unrelated discipline - police work and law enforcement. That comparison might sounds nuts, but hear me out. I think looking at the dating and relationship problem domain through different lenses can be helpful and informative. It can help you make any needed adjustments to your attitude and approach to meeting someone special. And it can help you think about what you have observed in your own experience with dating, and what is available out there. This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.  Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Is your lady in need a bit of feedback in some sensitive areas, but it is just too awkward of a topic to bring up? Your hero has you covered.   This is another episode in our self-improvement series that we have in support of this channel and podcast. Personal excellence is vital to our whole approach to being the best man that you can be. This is something you work on every day. You keep improving yourself as part of your efforts to be the best possible asset for those you care about. As you improve every day, your confidence will increase. As your confidence increases, others will see that improvement in you and be drawn to you, including ladies.In this episode, I want to specifically drill into another difficult problem many guys have - and that is handling various common problems that come up in relationships, especially ones that are difficult or awkward to discuss. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Struggling to stay informed because of disinformation, clickbait, fake news and liars? Your hero hears you. I've got you covered in this week's video and podcast.   This is the first in a self-improvement series that we will do as part of this podcast (and Youtube channel). Excellence, in every sense of the term, is part of the foundation of our whole approach to being the best man that you can be, in order to be - among many other things - as attractive and appealing to women as possible. You work on your personal excellence every day, and one of the several outcomes that flow from that is increased confidence, that increased confidence is something you automatically project in how you walk, how you talk, how you conduct yourself — your “swagger”. You’ll see that will draw people to you as you keep improving day by day, and year by year. They’ll feel your ever-increasing positive energy, they’ll feel drawn in, and want to be a part of your world.   In this episode, we drill into a rather difficult problem - effective ways people can stay informed as a citizen. Being informed and smart is cool and part of your continuous improvement and drive toward excellence.   BACKGROUND: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/ Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.   Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Are you trapped in the "friend zone" and looking for options? In this episode we take a look at the whole friend zone concept using the framework and perspectives of the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting book.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/).   Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast. Join the conversation at these links, or comment below! Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides 

Wasting people’s time.  We are all on this planet for a finite amount of time.  You don’t want to get to the end of your time here with regrets.   You also don’t want to waste the limited time you have, nor allow others to waste it for you.  In this week’s episode, I want to talk about making effective use of time, and in some cases, being protective of your time.    Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

The Hero Instinct.  What is it?  Where did the idea come from?  And it is something useful for you?Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Integrity.  We all have an intuitive sense of what the word integrity means, but we might not agree on precisely what it is.  I think it will be illuminating to do so, so today we will dig into the topic of integrity.Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Friendship 101.  Are you a good friend?  Are you good friend material?  Do you have the number of friends you want, or no friends at all, or too many friends   If you want to be a better friend, then this is the episode for you. Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB  

Today I want to talk about knowing where to look.  Knowing where to look.  And I don’t mean physically where do you find women in general, that’s mostly everywhere in the planet.  I mean where do you look at a person to see the real them.   Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/ Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB