In this episode, Vee and Elle answer listener questions from the @girlsgonedeeppod instagram. Chapters How Do You Find a Unicorn or a 3rd? (See Episode 81 for more tips) (00:00 ) What Was Your First Girl on Girl Experience? Was It a Friend or Random? What’s the Largest Orgy You’ve Been In? Defining Two Types of Orgies (31:00 ) Condoms in Mouths and Ureaplasma (37:06) What Do You Do To Make Your ENM Partnership Work? (43:45) Why Do This Lifestyle And How You Know ...

In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their Joy Family holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! This is a revisit from January 2025, and still holds up as one of the naughtiest most exploratory parties they've been at together. Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23) Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22) Rope 101...

This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway. Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are stranded in a spooky AirBnB. (1:37) Pain/Pleasure Cycling: Vee has five orgasms during a BD...

In this Guys Gone Deep episode, Elle and Vee chat with Magnum of Naughty Disco to talk about being a parent in the lifestyle, navigating non-monogamy, and finding genuine community in sex-positive spaces. This convo meanders from the vibe of Naughty Disco, to the truth about sex party etiquette, how to approach people without being creepy to handling rejection with maturity, and what men and women really need to know about each other in the lifestyle. Getting into non-monogamy: divorce, Feeld...

This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Misseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journal, which invites readers into deeper erotic self-reflection through writing. They also wander in...

Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season. We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs! Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain. Our fave toys - why are we doing this? (Answer: because we helpful, good girls :) (5:55) Best Couple Toy: Sex Swing....

This week, Elle and Vee play time Fuck-Marry-Kill version of the card game WHOREible Life with Athena. This episode is pure chaotic pleasure — the kind where nostalgia, food, kink, and butt-stuff all swirl into one ridiculous open conversation. We go from childhood games to double-ended vegetables, from grooming disasters to pegging wins, from lingerie-in-public confessions to pee-play experimentation, from CNC fantasies to explicit photo close calls. Strap in (or strap on)… this one ge...

This week, it’s Guys Gone Deep! Elle and Vee are joined by Ricky — their resident anal expert — for an honest, hilarious, and educational chat about what it really takes to feel comfortable exploring the backdoor. From understanding how to prepare your body, to learning the right tools, techniques, and hygiene tips, this episode dives into the practical side of exploration — and the mindset that makes it enjoyable. We cover topics like body awareness, relaxation, communication, common myths, ...

What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire? This week,Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess. We talk about: How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit itThe power of communication, curiosity, and skin-to-skin contact in rekindling intimacyThe tru...

This week Elle and Vee chat about rough oral play: aka face fucking. What is face fucking? What is the difference between fellatio and erumatio? (00:34) Do you like rough oral sex? How our relationship with it has evolved. (4:11) Running mascara as marks. (11:04) CNC. (12:24) Roman showers: throat sex to the point of throwing up. (14:25) Things to think about for the giver/top. (17:52) Tricks and tips for the receiver/bottom. How to deal with gag reflex. (21:30) The best positio...

This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the power of women’s spaces that feel safe and sexy. From overcoming mean-girl energy to feeling fully...

This week, Vee and Elle unpack everything couples should talk about before stepping into a shared play space—from emotional boundaries to desires, jealousy, and how to reconnect afterward, using a conversation framework they learned on an ISTA retreat. From collars and rituals to new relationship energy (NRE), aka limerence, and the messy middle between fantasy and reality—Vee goes deep on her experience. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, playing with a new partner, or redefining you...

This week, Vee and Elle sit down with journalist and sexual freedom philosopher Nicolle Double L to explore the intersection of BDSM, psychedelics, and sexuality as tools for self-discovery and healing. The conversation dives into cervical orgasms, DMT release, altered states, and how sex can mirror a psychedelic journey, especially when paired with presence and aftercare. The discussion delves into the neurochemistry of orgasms, the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, and the significance of set an...

In this episode, Vee and Elle play only the NSFW cards from Esther Perel’s card game Where Should We Begin. Where Should We Begin: Esther Perel’s card game. “A text message you fantasize about recieving…”: domming your husband from afar, cock cages, and naughty sexts. (6:06) “A sexual experience I’d pay for…” From sex workers in Amsterdam to strippers to dominatrixes. (10:30) Somatica visualization/fantasy: Vee guides Elle to figure out what she would want in a fantasy situation. (14:...

In this episode, Vee shares her transformational ISTA experience— what is ISTA like (International School of Temple Arts)? What can you expect going to an ISTA retreat? The ladies dive into how Vee FINALLY found the tools to get out of her head and into her body, how to communicate boundaries lovingly, and awakening eros AKA life force. Get ready to hear about emotional release, using tantric exercises to let go of an ex, and the conversation to have before hooking up with a new person. ...

In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a good Dom, what subs and tops truly get out of play, and why negotiation is key. Seasons of l...

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This week, the girls catch up on whats been going on for them, from threesomes to new partners. Vee reveals something big going on in her life: a change in her relationship dynamic, and how it seems to be affecting her ability to orgasm. Elle shares updates on how her pregnancy is affecting her dreams. “Cumming and running”: Elle sets boundaries during play weekends. (00:47) The orgasm happens in the brain: not being able to cum when you’re going through something stress...

This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare i...

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine energies, doing inner child work, and using thoughtful questions to open communication around ho...