Grace-believers are constantly accused of wanting permission to sin — but it’s a claim we’ve never taught, believed, or practiced. In this episode, we expose how high-control church leaders knowingly misrepresent grace in order to maintain fear, obedience, and power. We walk through Scripture to dismantle the false claims that assurance leads to laziness, works prove salvation, and leaving abusive systems means rejecting Christ. If you’ve been shamed, mischaracterized, or pressured for trusting Jesus alone, this episode is for you.
What then? Are we to sin because we are not under law but under grace? By no means! - Romans 6:15 ESV
Last Week:
Identity Illusion: The Apostolic Claim of Oneness Pentecostalism — EP116
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Taylor Fish - “live however you wanna live”
Nathan Holmes - “there are responsibilities!”
Brandon Stroud - “grand license to sin”
Nathaniel Urshan - “using grace as a cloak”
Raymond Woodward - “false freedom”
Joel Urshan - “Jesus paid the price, you must also”
Raymond Woodward - “I have responsibilities!”
Brandon Puller - “belief alone will not save you”
David K Bernard - “grace doesn’t just sit”
Raymond Woodward - “live any ol’ way they want”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a voicemail or text us! (484) 424-7223
📨 Send us an email! hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
This time we break down the ever-changing culture of Holiness Pentecostalism and what those constant shifts reveal about the true source of these rules. They show how pastors claim “we haven’t changed,” even while standards move from church to church, decade to decade, and sometimes week to week. Through clips, Scripture, and personal experience, we expose how double standards and pastoral-made rules create deep spiritual confusion—especially for lifelong members who were taught these rules were salvific. We also highlight how hypocrisy within the system shapes your view of God, your identity, and your confidence in your own relationship with Him. And through it all, we remind you that God’s Word doesn’t change, Jesus doesn’t change, the gospel doesn’t change, and your salvation was never tied to a moving target.
You leave the commandment of God and hold to the tradition of men. - Mark 7:8 ESV
Last Week:
Double Standards: The Confusion of Ever-Changing Holiness Rules – EP115
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Recovering Your Identity After Leaving Pentecostalism - S01E30
Nathaniel Urshan - “take our rightful place”
Lee Stoneking - “no one else like us”
Josh Herring - “you’ll get run over”
Matthew Ball - “love this apostolic doctrine”
David K Bernard - “we aren’t legalists”
Garry Streeval Grandson - “my inheritance = apostolic identity”
Johnny Godair - “part of the original church”
Mark Morgan - “apostolic pride”
Wade Bass - “growing in apostolic doctrine”
Tony Stoddart - “apostolic or not?”
Matthew Tuttle - “psychology of darkness”
Jack Cunningham - “in people’s face about it”
Joel Buxton - “we are apostolic”
James Parker - “a tongue-talking people”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a voicemail or text us! (484) 424-7223
📨 Send us an email! hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
In this week’s episode, we break down the top five fallacies and straw-man arguments used throughout Oneness Pentecostalism and high-control church systems. We examine how these unsubstantiated assertions show up in sermons, conferences, and private pastoral conversations, and why they’re theologically unsound. From Acts 2:38 as a universal salvation formula, to tithing as a salvation requirement, these claims have shaped the beliefs of millions. Using Scripture, history, and logic, we show why these teachings crumble under biblical examination. If you’re beginning to question what you’ve been taught, this episode will bring clarity, freedom, and reassurance that your salvation is found in Christ alone….not in man-made rules.
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery. - Galatians 5:1 ESV
Last Week:
Mind Games: The Psychological Damage of Hyper-Fundamental Upbringings – EP113
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Resurrection Replaced: Why Acts 2:38 Isn’t The Gospel - EP86
Speaking In Tongues: Seeking Biblical Answers with Steve Forkin - S01E38
Modern Moses: Do You Need “The Pastor” to Get to Heaven? - EP67
David K Bernard - “ask a trinitarian”
David K Bernard - “tongues wasn’t OUR idea”
Jerry Jones - “you’re not going to heaven”
Lee Stoneking - “w/o the book of Acts”
Nathaniel Urshan - “A238: only saving msg”
Jack Cunningham - “the Bible doesn’t say”
Nathaniel Urshan - “one God and only one”
Nathaniel Urshan - “initial evidence”
Chad Erickson - “tongues = evidence”
Caleb Gleason - “tongues = evidence 2”
Jack Cunningham - “ratty-tat-tattin’”
Matthew Tuttle - “tongues & doin’ Walmart”
Doug White - “the unicorn spirit”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a voicemail or text us! (484) 424-7223
📨 Send us an email! hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Spending years in a hyper-fundamental Pentecostal system leaves far more than spiritual experiences. It shapes the mind, wiring people for fear, perfectionism, suppression, and dependence. In this episode, we break down five major psychological damages commonly seen amongst those within high-control church environments. We’ll explain how these patterns form, what they look like in everyday life, and why they follow so many, even long after leaving. Most importantly, we explore the healing, growth, and freedom found in Jesus Christ, who restores identity, rewires thinking, and gently leads His people into peace. If you’ve ever wondered why you think, feel, or react the way you do after escaping fundamentalism, this conversation will finally give you clarity, language, and hope. Hope in Jesus.
And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. -Philippians 4:7 ESV
Last Week:
From Shepherd to Superstar | Exposing the Celebrity Pastor Culture – EP112
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Being Demoralized By A Pentecostal Church - EP59
Pentecostal Elitism: How the UPCI Misuses Truth to Control and Isolate - EP80
Matthew Woodard - “it’s your fault”
Wade Bass - “you better be careful”
Matthew Tuttle - “strapped to the altar”
Josh Herring - “not praying enough”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a voicemail or text us! (484) 424-7223
📨 Send us an email! hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
October may be Pastor Appreciation Month, but on this episode, we’re exposing the dangerous rise of the Celebrity Pastor Industrial Complex and Pentecostal Cult of Personality. From “my pulpit” to “double honor,” we unpack how Scripture has been twisted to justify fame, entitlement, and idolatry in the name of “honor.” You’ll hear shocking clips from real sermons that prove many pastors now function more like CEOs and influencers than humble shepherds. We’ll also explore what a true biblical leader looks like, and how Jesus, the Good Shepherd, tore the veil so you could walk freely into the presence of God.
He must increase, but I must decrease. - John 3:30 ESV
Last Week:
Pastor or Master | The Abusive Demands of the Pentecostal MOG – EP111
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Modern Moses: Do You Need “The Pastor” to Get to Heaven? - EP67
Caleb Herring - “more famous than God”
Noah Currie - “without my pastor”
Matthew Tuttle - “bishopin’ all over my church”
Eli Lopez - “Pastor Haney’s pulpit”
Stan Gleason - “spiritual authority“
Raymond Woodward - “help the pastor pastor”
R.L. Williams - “wish we had room for everyone”
Josh Herring - “we aren’t equals or peers”
Nathaniel Urshan - “stealing MY pulpit”
Wesley Jackson - “more important than mom or dad”
Mark Morgan - “celebrity prayer”
Johnny King - “get your head on straight”
Nathan Thornton - “I’m adopted. I’m in.”
Mark Brown - “high-profile family”
Wesley Jackson - “because of the MOG”
Josh Herring - “superiors as superior”
Raymond Woodward - “fading glory”
Doug White - “Jesus will need permission”
Raymond Woodward - “we’re all saints”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Send a voice message or text us! (484) 424-7223
Email us at hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
This week we’re asking a hard question: Has your pastor become your master? From overbearing MOGs (“men of God”) who demand obedience and loyalty, to pulpits filled with control, threats, and manipulation, we’re exposing the dark side of Pentecostal leadership culture. Using real sermon clips, we reveal how these pastors twist shepherding into servitude, while calling it “spiritual authority.” Then, we open Scripture to show what biblical leadership actually looks like: humble, servant-hearted, and accountable. Listen in if you know what it’s like to be controlled, silenced, or spiritually suffocated. This episode will remind you that Christ called you to freedom, not slavery.
For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ. - Galatians 1:10 ESV
Last Week:
Grace Replaced | The Gospel According to the UPCI – General Conference 2025 Breakdown – EP110
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Uncovering The Church Pyramid: Pastor and Congregants - EP31
Taylor Fish - “threw me on the altar”
Jason Varnum - “follow MY example”
Robert Tisdale - “don’t do that to me again”
Audley Castro - “drive a stake in your heart”
SpiritualAbuse.org FB Post RE: Audley Castro and sexual misconduct allegations
Josh Herring - “I am your pastor”
Taylor Sullivan - “not on the same level as your pastor”
Jack Cunningham - “your opinion doesn’t matter”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Text us or call to leave a message (484) 424-7223
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DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Eighty years of “truth,” and still no gospel.
In this week’s episode, we expose how the 2025 UPCI General Conference wasn’t a celebration of grace — it was a recentering of loyalty around a man-made system.
From David K. Bernard’s “grace that changes your wardrobe” to Jerry Jones’ “tongues or you’re not saved,” this episode pulls back the curtain on a works-based gospel disguised as holiness. We highlight the control and the endless circling of the wagons that keeps this institution standing. Join us as we point to the simple truth that Jesus is enough — salvation really is by grace through faith alone.
And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent. - Colossians 1:18 ESV
Last Week:
Mammon or Manipulation | Who Really Has the Money Problem? – EP109
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Ryan Brister - “apostolic message”
David K Bernard - “grace = works”
Todd Nichols - “methods, programs, structure”
Jerry Jones - “invest in the UPCI message”
Josh Carson - “entitled people”
Jack Leaman - “kids = untapped army”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Have you ever been told you had a “money problem” because you hesitated to give sacrificially in a service? In this episode, we turn the accusation around and ask: is it really the saints who have a problem with mammon, or is it the preachers who can’t stop talking about money? We’ll debunk the misuse of Ananias and Sapphira, the false idea that giving unlocks authority, and the manipulative claim that hesitation in giving is disobedience to God. With sermon clips and clear biblical rebuttals, we expose how Pentecostal pulpits twist Scripture to shame people into giving. Most importantly, we encourage those who have felt condemned—you are free in Christ, and your worth isn’t measured by your wallet.
And in their greed they will exploit you with false words. -2 Peter 2:3 ESV
Last Week:
No More Knots | Disentangling After Leaving a Pentecostal Church – EP108
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Anthony Cox - “All About Authority”
Myles Young - “offering plate passing”
Jack Leaman - “kingdom economy”
Mark Morgan - “key to revival”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Leaving a high-control church is only the first step. The harder work is disentangling from the fear, shame, and control that linger. In this episode, we walk through a “Checklist of Knots” that former Pentecostals often carry even after they leave. From performance-based worth to suppressed thinking, we expose the false teachings and show how Scripture leads us into freedom. Along the way, we share clips of preachers to illustrate these entanglements, and then guide listeners toward untangling. Because every knot you untie is a step closer to resting in Christ’s finished work.
You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. - John 8:32 ESV
Last Week:
Confronted by Truth | Deconstruction vs. Destruction - EP107
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Nathan Cox - “deconstructing faith”
Nathan Cox - “we are not the same”
Aaron Bounds - “Please! Don’t leave!”
Cornelius Williams - “time is running out”
Raymond Woodward - “rapture panic”
Kenneth Carpenter - “please come!”
Eli Lopez - “heaven is cheap at any price”
Jeff Arnold - “grace has conditions”
Boston Young - “holding your pastor’s hand”
Mike Easter - “address him as pastor”
Jack Cunningham - “worldly entertainment”
Nathan Cox - “Holy Ghost & Hollwood”
Wesley Jackson - “ballgame idolatry”
Nathaniel Wilson - “only dead things need paint”
Nathaniel Haney - “you got too smart”
Nathaniel Haney - “intellect will deter you”
Colton Carrol - “questioning everything”
Cody Marks - “don’t trust your reasoning”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
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Pastors love to warn that “deconstruction” is dangerous, claiming that when you practice it, you will inevitably lose your faith. But the truth is, to deconstruct, is way more about examining what you’ve been taught and finding what’s real. So, in this episode, we break down the difference between deconstruction and destruction, and why misusing them matters. We share how Scripture actually encourages healthy questioning, and why God is never upset when His children seek truth. You’ll hear us discuss how fear has been dispatched to keep people from thinking critically, and how deconstruction can be the beginning of an authentic, grace-filled walk with Christ. Join us as we give an encouragement to embrace questions, embrace truth, and embrace freedom.
Built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone. - Ephesians 2:20 ESV
Last Week:
Love Weaponized: When Pentecostal Image Matters More Than People - EP106
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Spiritual Gag Orders: How Abusive Leaders Keep You Quiet - EP84
Raymond Woodward - “we don’t care!”
Nathan Cox - “when your friends deconstruct”
Jack Leaman - “we need the line!”
Andrew Cox - “I love questions!”
Morgan Ellis - “destruction = deconstruction”
Jordan Copeland - “online deconstruct-ers”
Raymond Woodward - “spouting deconstruction”
Raymond Woodward - “you are simple”
Raymond Woodward - “built on the revelation of our elders”
Kevin Bradford - “wanna be some great theologian?”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
In this episode, we expose how Pentecostal churches often preach about love while practicing something different. Using Joel Holmes’ sermon from FPCNLR as our example, we break down how “love” is redefined as nepotism, performance, numbers, hype, holiness, and even fear. We contrast each of these distortions with the true love described in 1 Corinthians 13. Love that is patient, kind, humble, truthful, and most importantly, sacrificial, like Jesus. Many who enter Pentecostal churches searching for God’s love instead encounter conditional, performative, or weaponized versions that wound instead of heal. Join us as we reveal the difference between counterfeit love and the genuine love of Christ, which sets us free.
If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. - 1 Corinthians 13:1 ESV
Last Week:
Unforgivable Sin?! | Fear, Blasphemy & Questioning The “Truth” - EP105
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
Recognizing Nepotism’s Negative Effect In Churches - S01E56
Empty Promises: Is Pentecostalism Authentic Or Just Hype? - EP71
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Have you ever been told, “Be careful… you’re getting dangerously close to blaspheming the Holy Spirit”, just for questioning something like tongues, or emotionalism, or unforgiveness?? In this episode, we expose how Oneness Pentecostal leaders weaponize the “unpardonable sin” as a fear tactic to silence dissent and control believers. Together, we’ll look at what Jesus actually meant in Matthew 12, and why questioning church practices is not blasphemy, but biblical discernment. We’ll respond directly to comments accusing us of being “blasphemers” and show how the Bible calls us to test the spirits, not blindly obey man-made systems. Most importantly, we’ll reassure you that in Christ you are secure, loved, and free. Nothing can snatch you from His hand.
Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? - Romans 8:35 ESV
Last Week:
Salvation Gatekeepers | Do You Even Have the Holy Ghost? – EP104
Playlists:
Full Podcast Playlist - Youtube
Show Links:
NAYC 2025 Breakdown - Hype, Tongues, and a False Gospel? - EP100
Jack Cunningham - “can’t be forgiven”
David K Bernard - “revelation and deception”
Matthew Tuttle - “you question every little thing”
Kerry Jones - “you better be careful”
Jason Varnum - “be careful who you listen to”
Matthew Tuttle - “because of what I teach”
David K Bernard - “blasphemy of the Holy Ghost”
Kenneth Carpenter - “God doesn’t write us off”
David Smith - “that’s a bunch hocus-pocus”
Matthew Tuttle - “you’ll go to hell over it?”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
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Have you ever been told you “don’t have the Holy Ghost” because you left a Pentecostal church or because you don’t speak in tongues anymore? In today’s episode, we expose the cult-like gatekeeping that ties salvation to a man-made experience rather than the gospel. We’ll unpack common accusations, confront elitist claims from Oneness Pentecostal leaders, and present a clear biblical rebuttal to the idea that Christians can “lose” the Spirit. Most importantly, we’ll walk through five genuine evidences from Scripture that prove you have the Holy Spirit. Not because of tongues, but because of God’s promise. If you’ve ever questioned your salvation after leaving a high-control church, this episode will remind you that you are sealed, secure, and free in Christ.
The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God. -Romans 8:16 ESV
Last Week:
Chasing A Feeling | Pentecostal Highs Vs. Holy Spirit Truth - EP103
Playlists:
Show Links:
NAYC 2025 Breakdown - Hype, Tongues, and a False Gospel? - EP100
Jason Varnum - “go to a bar & get drunk”
Matthew Tuttle - “debate tongues and go to hell”
Raymond Woodward - “you are among the elite”
Matthew Tuttle - “isn’t some gibberish”
Joel Buxton - “you have a different HG”
Ryan Brister - “get in the HG right now”
Raymond Woodward - “doctrinal and biblical nonsense”
Jonathan Shoemake - “it’ll make you want to obey!”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
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DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
In this episode, we take on the common Pentecostal claim: “But I felt something.” From goosebumps to shouts of “fire shut up in my bones,” many defend experiences as proof of the Holy Spirit. But Scripture shows us that emotions, while real, are not the foundation of our faith. We’ll expose how Pentecostals misuse Jeremiah’s words, how “electricity in your body” mirrors New Age practices, and why chasing hype leads to doubt and counterfeit spirituality. Most importantly, we’ll encourage you with this biblical truth: the Holy Spirit doesn’t point us to our feelings, He points us to Christ. And He always produces good, beneficial and lasting fruit in believers.
If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. - Galatians 5:25 ESV
Last Week:
The Jericho Walls Fallacy: When Emotionalism Replaces Faith – EP102
Playlists:
Show Links:
Resurrection Replaced: Why Acts 2:38 Isn’t The Gospel - EP86
Matthew Woodward - “feeling something so powerful”
Rob McKee - “I just feel the HG”
Nathaniel Pritt - “tired of just feeling something”
Matthew Tuttle - “GOD, where are you??”
Chris Green - “someone giving us a hug”
Matthew Woodward - “deliverance is in this room”
James Wilson - “why can't I feel anything?!”
CLC - “positive energy & good vibes”
Benny Hinn - “electricity all over”
Landmark 2023 - “Fire, Shut Up In My Bones”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Did your Jericho walls fall down when you gave a SHOUT?! In this episode, we address a recent comment defending the “Jericho shout” at the UPCI’s massive youth conference, NAYC 2025 — and we take it back to Scripture. We’ll look at why inserting ourselves into Old Testament stories leads to bad theology, and how the Jericho account is descriptive history, not prescriptive worship instruction. Along the way, we break down why Pentecostal “value of a shout” culture is more about emotional conformity than genuine faith. We’ll also explore Hebrews 11:30, what it actually teaches about trusting God, and how New Testament faith looks nothing like performance-based formulas. By the end, you’ll see why you don’t need a Jericho shout — you just need Jesus.
By prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. - Philippians 4:6 ESV
Last Week:
Mocked From The Pulpit | When Spiritual Abuse Gets Rebranded as “Church Hurt” - EP101
Playlists:
Show Links:
NAYC 2025 Breakdown - Hype, Tongues, and a False Gospel? - EP100
No, This Bible Story Isn’t About You! - EP41
A Manufactured Move of God: Are Pentecostal Services Actually Spirit-Led? - EP83
Cody Marks - “a shout still brings Jericho walls down”
Mark Crowder - “shout the Jericho walls down”
Raymond Woodward - “when the walls fall”
Cody Marks - “open your mouth, let your voice out”
Tony Spell - “you shout to get ‘em down”
Ben Copeland - “value of a shout”
Anthony Pizarro - “do new things, get new victories”
David Jennings - “give your biggest shout”
NAYC 2025 - FPCNLR’s “JERICHO”
Anthony Mangun - “just make one more lap”
Bryan Parkey - “stick to the plan”
Matthew Tuttle - “louder, louder, louder”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Is it really just “church hurt,” or are pastors hiding something deeper? In this episode, we break down the difference between church hurt and full-blown spiritual abuse—and how toxic leaders twist one to excuse the other. Using real-life sermon clips, we expose the gaslighting tactics, false theology, and shaming language used to silence wounded believers. We also offer a biblical pathway to healing for those who’ve been told to “get over it” or to “grow up and move on”. Because real healing doesn’t come from the pulpit, it comes from Jesus.
The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. - Psalm 34:18 ESV
Last Week:
NAYC 2025 Breakdown – Hype, Tongues, and a False Gospel? – EP100
Playlists:
Show Links:
Luke St. Clair – “write your little blog about us”
Tyler Walea – “Church Hurt definition”
Josh Herring – “get over what happened”
Matthew Tuttle – “wrong church, wrong pastor”
David K Bernard – “spiritually abusive church leaders”
Landon Gore – “get over the church hurt”
Matthew Tuttle – “ya’ll may have some church hurt, but…”
Responsible Faith – Spiritual Abuse: Grooming and Gaslighting in High Control Churches
Douglas White – “their claims are just pathetic excuses”
T’Neil Walea – “church hurt all the time”
Dillon Morgan – “I’ll save you from backsliding”
Bart Adkins – “get over it and serve God!”
Matthew Tuttle – “how long are you gonna pout?”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Call or text (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
You’ve probably seen the clips by now—thousands packed into a stadium, hands raised, music blasting, and teens being told to "speak in tongues" or miss their moment with God. But was it really revival… or just a well-produced performance?In this episode, we unpack the final night of NAYC 2025, the UPCI’s massive youth event at Lucas Oil Stadium, where 37,000 people gathered for what many called an outpouring of the Holy Ghost. But behind the lights, fog, and shouting was something far more dangerous: emotional coercion, tongues on demand, miracle claims with no accountability, and the glorification of a denomination rather than the gospel.We walk through what was said and what was subtly slipped in between the noise—and we show how this kind of engineered spirituality leaves young people with confusion, burnout, or false assurance.And most importantly, we point back to the gospel that doesn't require a stadium, a chant, or a crowd to be true.…and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it. - Matthew 16:18 ESV
Last Week:
The Blessing Myth: Debunking “Tithing Opens the Windows of Heaven” - EP99
Playlists:
Show Links:
NAYC 2025 - Friday Night Altar Call Chaos
Unmasking Man-made Conversions - S01E25
NAYC CONVERSATIONS 2025 - 'The Why"
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.orgB.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDFBook: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text us! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
When the offering-collector starts urging you for money, using guilt, shame and manipulation, the giving has turned into compulsion. This is not biblical giving and you might as well keep your money. For all of this and more, tune in to today’s episode to hear us breakdown each tactic of compulsion being utilized by the UPCI and many of their 2025 camp meeting leaders. Paul never pressured the early church, and neither should today’s preachers. If giving is happening under compulsion, it isn’t biblical. Period.
Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. - 2 Corinthians 9:7 ESV
Last Week:
Compelled to Give: When Church Giving Becomes Manipulation - EP98
Playlists:
Show Links:
Give to Get? The Hidden Prosperity Gospel in Pentecostalism – EP66
Is Mandated Tithing Biblical – EP27
Recognizing Nepotism’s Negative Effect In Churches – EP56
Aaron Bounds – “a little window above your head”
Mark Morgan – “I don’t care if you’re broke”
Joel Holmes – “fine cars and nice homes”
Joel Booker – “I thought God was goinna bless you”
Billy Hale – “I’m not rich, I’m just a giver”
Chad Erickson – “gold and jewelry”
Rod Parsley – “God wants to give it to you!”
James Varnum – “God’s portion”
Art Hodges – “greatest activator of God’s blessings”
Joel Holmes – “I make more money praying…”
Joel Urshan – “step into His glory”
Mark Morgan – “influence felt around the world”
Jack Cunningham – “why pay your tithes/offerings??”
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.orgB.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDFBook: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Leave a message or text! (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
When the offering-collector starts urging you for money, using guilt, shame and manipulation, the giving has turned into compulsion. This is not biblical giving and you might as well keep your money. For all of this and more, tune in to today’s episode to hear us breakdown each tactic of compulsion being utilized by the UPCI and many of their 2025 camp meeting leaders. Paul never pressured the early church, and neither should today’s preachers. If giving is happening under compulsion, it isn’t biblical. Period.
Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. - 2 Corinthians 9:7 ESV
Last Week:
Finding Freedom and Rest After Leaving the UPCI – EP97 - https://youtu.be/CEZykmTmnXo
Playlists:
Show Links:
Dan Smelser – “your next meal isn’t important”
LDCM 2025 Thurs Night Offering
Examining Greed In The Church – EP26
Is Mandated Tithing Biblical? – EP27
Give To Get? The Hidden Prosperity Gospel in Pentecostalism – EP66
Pay Up or Be Cursed: How Pentecostal Churches Weaponize Giving – EP75
LDCM 2025 Thurs Morning Offering
LDCM 2025 Fri Morning Offering
LDCM 2025 Wed Morning Offering
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Call or text (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | hello@graceescapepod.com
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.
Sometimes you just need a break. Especially from the screaming, narcissistic, and controlling pastors of the Oneness Pentecostal movement. That’s what today’s episode is. A break. And if you’d like to join us for a breather from the performance hamster wheel of systems like the UPCI, we’d love to have you! Come find out what true freedom in Christ is, how it transforms the daily life of a believer, and how we can rest in the finished work of Jesus Christ and what He did on the cross.
So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. - John 8:36
Last Week:
Inherited Guilt: How Pentecostals Preach Generational Curses – EP96
Playlists:
Show Links:
Slavery of the Faithful: When Church Ministry Becomes a Task Master – EP70
Questioning Your Church? 5 Signs It Could Be Unhealthy with Ralph Brickley – EP78
Escaping an Unhealthy Church System – Our Story & Some Next Steps – EP79
Spiritual Gag Orders: How Abusive Leaders Keep You Quiet – EP84
The Cost of Leaving Oneness Pentecostalism: What You Lose & What You Gain – EP85
Recovering Your Identity After Leaving – E30
Being Demoralized By A Pentecostal Church – EP59
Resources:
Spiritualabuse.org
B.I.T.E. Model Website
B.I.T.E. Model Free PDF
Book: Toxic Faith
Book: The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
Books: Pagan Christianity? Exploring the Roots of Our Church Practices
Book: Christianity without the Cross: A History of Salvation in Oneness Pentecostalism
Book: Free: From Legalism to Grace
Connect with us!
📱Call or text (484) 424-7223
graceescapepod.com | Send us an email!
DISCLAIMER :This podcast is for educational and commentary purposes only. The views expressed in this podcast are based on personal opinions, theological analysis, and publicly available information. Our intent is to critique doctrines, teachings, and practices within fundamentalist church systems from a biblical perspective. We do not make accusations of illegal activity, nor do we intend to defame any individual or organization. Viewers are encouraged to research and form their own conclusions.
Fair Use Notice: This video may contain copyrighted material used under the Fair Use Doctrine (17 U.S.C. § 107) for purposes such as criticism, commentary, education, and news reporting. All footage used falls within fair use guidelines and is presented with added context and analysis. If you are a rights holder and believe your material has been used unfairly, please contact us before taking any action.