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GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Let's Work This Sh*t Out
21 episodes
4 months ago
Grief is messy, confusing, and at times, downright overwhelming. But you don’t have to navigate it alone. Grief: Let’s Make Sense of This Sht* is a podcast series designed to guide you through the complexities of loss with compassion, honesty, and a little bit of humor.

Each main episode dives deep into specific aspects of grief, from navigating the emotional rollercoaster to finding healthy ways to cope. We share real-life stories, research-backed tools, and practical strategies that you can apply at your own pace.

Alongside the main episodes, our “5 Mins Out” bonus segments offer quick, actionable tips for when you need immediate relief. Whether you're grieving a loved one, the end of a relationship, or any significant loss, this podcast is here to remind you that it's okay to feel however you're feeling—and that healing is possible, one step at a time.



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Grief is messy, confusing, and at times, downright overwhelming. But you don’t have to navigate it alone. Grief: Let’s Make Sense of This Sht* is a podcast series designed to guide you through the complexities of loss with compassion, honesty, and a little bit of humor.

Each main episode dives deep into specific aspects of grief, from navigating the emotional rollercoaster to finding healthy ways to cope. We share real-life stories, research-backed tools, and practical strategies that you can apply at your own pace.

Alongside the main episodes, our “5 Mins Out” bonus segments offer quick, actionable tips for when you need immediate relief. Whether you're grieving a loved one, the end of a relationship, or any significant loss, this podcast is here to remind you that it's okay to feel however you're feeling—and that healing is possible, one step at a time.



💛 Join Our Supporters Club 💛

If this podcast has helped you, consider joining our Supporters Club. Your support allows us to continue creating these important conversations around grief and mental health — conversations that are often too hard to find in today's world.

Mental health services aren’t accessible for everyone, and we know how isolating that can feel. By joining, you’re helping us keep this space alive, providing comfort, tools, and real talk to those who need it most.

Together, we can make sure that no one has to navigate grief alone.

Click here to join our Supporters Club and help us help more people.

We’re in this together. 💛
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Episodes (20/21)
GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Grief: Processing Emotions Without Drowning - Tools That Actually Work
In this episode, Dylan guides you through the complex world of processing emotions in grief, sharing that there's no right way to feel your way through loss. Whether you're experiencing overwhelming anger, unexpected numbness, or contradictory emotions all at once, this conversation offers gentle validation and practical tools. Through real listener stories and research-backed insights, you'll discover that grief emotions are information to be honored, not problems to be solved. Dylan explores how our brains literally rewire themselves to hold both love and loss, and shares concrete techniques for moving through overwhelming feelings without being consumed by them.

Key Takeaways
  • There's no timeline or right way to process grief emotions
  • Grief activates the same brain pathways as physical pain
  • Maintaining bonds with deceased loved ones supports healthy adjustment
  • Emotions in grief carry important information about healing
  • Multiple contradictory feelings can coexist and are completely normal
What You'll Discover
  • How to create space for difficult emotions without drowning in them
  • The pause and breathe technique for emotional overwhelm
  • Why naming specific emotions reduces their power over you
  • How to use the wave visualization for intense grief feelings
  • Daily integration practices that honor grief while supporting life
Resources Mentioned
  • Dr. George Bonanno's research on resilient grief patterns at Columbia University
  • Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor's neuroscience studies on grief and brain rewiring
  • Dr. Nigel Field's continuing bonds research at University of Utah
  • The Harvard Study of Adult Development on grief and long-term wellbeing
  • Dr. Worden's tasks of mourning framework
Next Episode Preview Next week, we'll explore how to navigate the holidays when grief feels overwhelming, including practical strategies for family gatherings and creating new traditions that honor your loss.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.
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4 months ago
42 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Grief: Building Emotional Resilience After Loss - Your Path Forward
In this episode, Dylan explores building emotional resilience after loss in a focused "Five Mins Out" format. Discover why resilience isn't about bouncing back to who you were before, but about learning to bend without breaking. Learn the difference between resilience and resistance, and find practical ways to develop the capacity to hold both sorrow and joy. This isn't about getting over grief—it's about growing around the wound while honoring both your loss and your life.

Key Takeaways
  • Resilience in grief means learning to bend without breaking, not bouncing back
  • Building emotional strength honors your loss while supporting your capacity to keep living
  • Resilience isn't about hurting less but developing flexibility to hold multiple emotions
  • Trust develops through practice and small acts of courage in your healing journey
  • Your grief journey contributes to a larger story about human resilience and love
What You'll Discover
  • Why resistance to grief actually makes the journey harder than building resilience within it
  • How to work with your current energy levels rather than demanding superhuman strength
  • The difference between recovery and adaptation when processing profound loss
  • Why resilience looks different day by day and that's completely normal
  • How building your own grief toolkit supports long-term emotional sustainability
Resources Mentioned
  • Research on emotional flexibility and resilience after loss
  • Therapeutic approaches to grief adaptation vs. recovery models
  • Studies on the non-linear nature of grief and healing
Next Episode Preview Join us next time as we explore navigating grief triggers in everyday life. We'll discuss practical strategies for handling unexpected waves of emotion and building confidence in your ability to move through difficult moments.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.
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4 months ago
14 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Grief: Finding Hope After Loss - Stories of Healing Forward
In this episode, we explore the complex journey of finding hope after loss and rebuilding optimism when grief has fundamentally shifted your world. Dylan addresses the reality that hope after loss doesn't mean returning to who you were before, but rather learning to carry both grief and possibility simultaneously. Through research-backed insights and powerful real-life stories, we discover that hope isn't about forgetting or moving on, but about honoring your loss while remaining open to future meaning. You'll learn practical tools for nurturing hope when you're ready, understanding that hope and grief aren't opposites but companions that can coexist in your healing heart.

Key Takeaways
  • Hope after loss looks different for everyone and emerges in its own timeline
  • Grief and hope can coexist without betraying your loved one's memory
  • Small, daily practices can create space for hope to naturally emerge
  • Hope after loss is earned hope that understands darkness but chooses light
  • Community and shared experiences often become pathways to renewed hope
What You'll Discover
  • How to recognize hope when it appears in unexpected, subtle forms
  • The difference between toxic positivity and genuine hope rooted in loss
  • Research-backed approaches for nurturing hope without rushing your grief process
  • Why hope after loss is deeper and more authentic than pre-loss optimism
  • Practical tools like the five-minute practice and legacy creation for daily hope
Resources Mentioned
  • Dr. Edith Steffen's research on meaning-making after loss and continuing bonds
  • Dr. Dennis Klass's groundbreaking work on maintaining connections with deceased loved ones
  • Dr. Crystal Park's studies on meaning-making processes in grief recovery
  • Dr. Richard Tedeschi and Dr. Lawrence Calhoun's post-traumatic growth research
  • Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor's neuroscience research on grief and brain connectivity
Next Episode Preview Next week, we'll be exploring the often-overlooked topic of disenfranchised grief and how society's expectations can complicate our healing process. We'll discuss how to validate your own grief experience when others don't understand its depth or duration.

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4 months ago
37 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Grief: Sleep and Rest During Loss - Your Body's Healing Guide
In this episode, Dylan explores the complex relationship between grief and rest, addressing why sleep becomes so elusive during loss and how our bodies desperately need recovery time. He discusses the physical and emotional exhaustion that accompanies grief, the role of grief dreams in healing, and practical ways to honor your need for rest without guilt. Dylan shares personal stories and client experiences to illustrate how rest isn't weakness—it's essential for processing loss and moving through grief with more resilience and presence.

Key Takeaways
  • Grief exhaustion affects your body, mind, and nervous system simultaneously
  • Your body's hypervigilant state during grief requires extra rest and recovery time
  • Grief dreams are your brain's way of processing trauma and reorganizing reality
  • Resisting rest often leads to greater depletion and overwhelming emotions
  • Taking care of your sleep needs honors both yourself and your lost loved one
What You'll Discover
  • Why grief disrupts sleep patterns and creates vivid, intense dreams
  • How to distinguish between healthy rest and avoidance behaviors
  • The science behind why grief makes you feel physically exhausted
  • Practical approaches to honoring your rest needs without judgment
  • Why society's pressure to bounce back quickly is harmful to healing
Resources Mentioned
  • Sleep and grief recovery research from trauma psychology studies
  • Nervous system regulation techniques for grief processing
  • Client stories: Sarah's post-loss sleep struggles and Maria's guilt journey
Next Episode Preview Join Dylan next time as he explores navigating grief triggers in everyday life and how to build resilience when the world feels unpredictable. He'll share strategies for managing unexpected waves of emotion and finding stability in the midst of loss.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.
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4 months ago
14 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Grief: Finding Strength During Emotional Setbacks | Grief Podcast
In this episode, Dylan explores the profound reality that strength in grief looks nothing like what we've been taught. Rather than being about "getting over it" or maintaining composure, true grief strength emerges through vulnerability, presence, and the courage to feel deeply. Through personal stories and research-backed insights, this conversation reveals how emotional setbacks are actually love in disguise, how healing isn't linear, and why authentic grief work requires us to stay soft in a hard world.

Key Takeaways
  • Emotional setbacks in grief are normal and indicate love, not healing failure
  • True strength means staying present with pain rather than avoiding it
  • Grief doesn't follow a linear path and that's completely normal
  • Vulnerability and authenticity are forms of profound courage in loss
  • Small daily practices can help build resilience over time
What You'll Discover
  • How neuroscience research explains why grief changes our brain structure
  • The difference between "armored strength" and "embodied strength" in grief
  • Real stories from listeners finding their own paths through loss
  • Practical tools like the five-minute rule and grief inventory technique
  • Why post-traumatic growth can emerge from our darkest moments
Resources Mentioned
  • Dr. George Bonanno's research on resilient grief at Columbia University
  • Dr. Mary-Frances O'Connor's neuroscience work on grief and brain imaging
  • Post-traumatic growth research by Richard Tedeschi and Lawrence Calhoun
  • Dr. Crystal Park's studies on meaning-making in grief
  • Dr. Sheldon Cohen's social support research at Carnegie Mellon
Next Episode Preview Join us next time as we explore how to navigate the complex terrain of grief during holidays and anniversaries. We'll discuss practical strategies for honoring memory while creating new traditions that hold both joy and sorrow.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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4 months ago
37 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Daily Practices for Grief Recovery: Small Steps to Big Healing
In this episode, we dive into the heart of grief recovery through the gentle power of daily practices. Your host Dylan creates a calm, supportive space where small routines become lifelines, not just to survive, but to rediscover moments of hope, agency, and self-kindness. Through heartfelt stories and honest reflection, you’ll learn why the tiniest rituals matter and how showing up for yourself in simple ways can create lasting change, even in the darkest times.

Key Takeaways
• Small daily routines can provide stability and comfort during grief
• Grief recovery happens through tiny, consistent actions
• There’s no perfect or “right” daily practice for healing
• Rituals help reclaim agency and nurture self-kindness
• Every act of care, no matter how small, truly counts

What You’ll Discover
• Real stories of how daily habits support healing after loss
• The role of gentle routines in building resilience
• How to create your own meaningful daily ritual
• Why self-compassion is essential during grief
• Practical tips for starting a daily practice today

Resources Mentioned
• “The Year of Magical Thinking” by Joan Didion
• “Option B” by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
• “Healing After Loss” by Martha Whitmore Hickman
• “Tiny Habits” by BJ Fogg
• Article: “Rituals and Grief Recovery” (Psychology Today)

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’ll be talking about Finding Strength—practical ways to rediscover your resilience in the midst of loss. I hope you’ll join me for another honest, supportive conversation.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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4 months ago
12 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Accepting Change After Loss: Gentle Ways to Move Forward Through Grief
In this episode, we explore the difficult journey of accepting change after loss. Grief reshapes your world in ways that can feel overwhelming and unrecognizable. Together, we’ll unpack what acceptance really means—not as forgetting or moving on, but as learning to live with change while honoring what you’ve lost. Through stories, research-backed strategies, and compassionate insight, this episode offers practical tools and emotional support for anyone navigating grief’s unpredictable path.

Key Takeaways
• Acceptance is a process, not a destination
• Resistance to change is natural and valid
• Small, gentle steps invite acceptance
• Guilt and anger can block healing but are normal emotions
• Connection and community are essential supports

What You’ll Discover
• The true meaning of accepting change after loss
• Why grief disrupts identity and daily life
• Real-life stories illustrating acceptance in action
• Practical strategies like mindfulness and radical acceptance
• How to navigate setbacks and emotional barriers

Resources Mentioned
• Tara Brach’s teachings on radical acceptance
• Journaling and mindfulness practices
• Support groups and community resources

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’ll explore Daily Practices—simple routines to support your healing journey every day. Join us for more gentle guidance and tools.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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4 months ago
45 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Healing Affirmations for Grief: Positive Statements and Practical Comfort for Recovery
In this episode, we gently explore how affirmations—those simple, compassionate statements—can create a little light on the darkest days of grief. Whether you’re feeling numb, overwhelmed, or just searching for something to hold onto, this episode is a space to rest, reflect, and try something new. Dylan walks alongside you, sharing stories from real people, offering calming science-backed insights, and guiding you through an affirmation practice that’s made for real, messy, unpredictable grief—not perfection. You’ll discover how tiny shifts in self-talk can support your healing journey and why kindness to yourself is never wasted, even if you don’t believe the words at first. You’re invited to bring only yourself and an open mind—no need to have it all together. This conversation is here to meet you exactly where you are.

Key Takeaways
• Affirmations offer gentle self-compassion in grief
• You can use affirmations even when you don’t fully believe them
• Consistent self-kindness supports your brain’s healing process
• Affirmations can be simple, private, and personal
• No right way to practice; all feelings are welcome

What You’ll Discover
• The science behind affirmations and grief recovery
• How to find phrases that genuinely resonate with you
• Ways real people use affirmations after loss
• Practical tips for integrating affirmations daily
• Permission to rest in imperfection and keep going

Resources Mentioned
• “Option B” by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
• “Healing After Loss” by Martha Whitmore Hickman
• The Greater Good Science Center (Berkeley)
• “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk
• Mindfulness Apps: Insight Timer, Headspace

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’ll explore accepting change—finding stability and meaning as life continues to shift after loss. Join me for practical tools and heartfelt support on your ongoing journey.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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5 months ago
13 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Moving Forward After Loss: Practical Steps to Rebuild Your Life and Find Hope
In this episode, we gently explore what it truly means to move forward after loss—not by forgetting or moving on, but by rebuilding a life that honors both grief and hope. Dylan guides you through the realities of grief, dispelling myths about “getting over it,” and offers heartfelt stories alongside practical strategies to help you navigate this difficult journey. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just beginning to consider what comes next, this episode provides compassionate insights and tools to support you every step of the way.

Key Takeaways
• Moving forward is different from moving on and doesn’t erase love or loss
• Small daily acts can be powerful steps toward healing
• Guilt around joy and progress is normal but can be eased with self-compassion
• Building support and community is vital for navigating grief
• Meaning-making helps integrate memories into your evolving life

What You’ll Discover
• How to embrace grief and hope at the same time
• Practical routines and goals that gently rebuild your days
• Ways to find and cultivate support during difficult times
• The importance of self-kindness in your healing journey
• How to honor memories while opening to new possibilities

Resources Mentioned
• “On Grief and Grieving” by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross & David Kessler
• “Option B” by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
• The Grief Recovery Method (griefrecoverymethod.com)
• Mindfulness meditation apps like Insight Timer and Headspace
• Local and online grief support groups

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’ll explore “Affirmations for Healing,” sharing simple, nurturing phrases to carry you through tough moments. I hope you’ll join me.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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5 months ago
33 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Self-Care for Grief: Practical Tips to Support Your Healing Journey
In this episode, Dylan gently guides you through the real-life challenges of caring for yourself while grieving. Grief can make even basic self-care feel impossible, and the guilt or resistance that comes with prioritizing your needs is deeply human. This conversation offers both practical tips and compassionate reassurance—reminding you that taking care of yourself is not selfish, but essential. You’ll hear moving stories, learn simple exercises you can try right now, and discover why even the smallest acts of self-kindness can help you survive the hardest days.

Key Takeaways
• Self-care is essential for healing during grief
• Small acts of kindness toward yourself matter
• Guilt about self-care is a common experience
• Practical self-care looks different for everyone
• It’s okay to accept help from others

What You’ll Discover
• The impact of grief on your ability to care for yourself
• How to identify and meet your basic needs
• Gentle exercises for grounding and relief
• Why self-care is not a sign of weakness
• Tips for overcoming resistance to self-care

Resources Mentioned
• “The Wild Edge of Sorrow” by Francis Weller
• “Option B” by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
• National Alliance for Grieving Children (childrengrieve.org)
• “Self-Compassion” by Kristin Neff
• Grief.com articles and resources

Next Episode Preview
Join us next time as we talk about “Moving Forward After Loss”—gentle ways to step into the future, even when it feels daunting. We’ll explore how to honor your loved one while also reclaiming hope and meaning in your life.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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5 months ago
14 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
How to Grieve a Relationship: Navigating the Loss of Loved Ones and Healing Your Heart
In this episode, we explore the complex journey of grieving relationships—whether through death, distance, breakup, or estrangement. Losing someone you love is more than missing a person; it’s losing the routines, memories, and sense of self tied to that connection. We dive into the unique pain of relational grief, real-life stories of loss, and the science behind why heartbreak hurts so deeply. You’ll discover gentle, research-backed strategies for processing grief, honoring your feelings, and rebuilding your life with compassion. Whether you’re facing ambiguous loss or the finality of goodbye, this episode offers a heartfelt guide to navigating love and loss.

Key Takeaways
• Grief is complex and unique to every relationship
• Emotional pain can mimic physical pain in the brain
• Ambiguous loss can be especially confusing and isolating
• Rituals and storytelling help process grief
• Healing is non-linear and requires patience and self-compassion

What You’ll Discover
• How attachment shapes our grief reactions
• Stories of different types of relational loss
• Practical strategies to cope and heal
• The role of memory and triggers in daily life
• Ways to rebuild trust and form new connections

Resources Mentioned
• “On Grief and Grieving” by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler
• What’s Your Grief website (whatsyourgrief.com)
• Grief: Support for Young Adults app
• Local counseling and support groups

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’ll explore practical self-care tips for navigating grief. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed or stuck, these gentle tools will help you find calm and grounding.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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5 months ago
41 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Breathing Exercises for Grief: Five-Minute Calm for Mind and Body
In this episode, Dylan invites you to take a short, restorative break with “Breathing Exercises for Grief: Calm Your Mind in Five Minutes.” Whether your heart feels raw or numb, this gentle 5 Mins Out episode is here to hold space for your pain, confusion, and healing. Dylan speaks directly to the real, messy challenges of grieving, guiding you through simple yet powerful breathing exercises that can help soften the sharp edges of loss—even if just for a few moments. You’ll learn why grief makes breathing difficult, how intentional breaths can ease both mind and body, and practical ways to anchor yourself in the present when life feels overwhelming. There’s no pressure to “fix” anything—just a warm, steady presence to remind you that you’re not alone, and that a little comfort is possible, one breath at a time. This is grief support in its most human, compassionate form.

Key Takeaways
• Breathing is a grounding tool for overwhelming grief
• Small, intentional breaths can bring comfort and stability
• There is no “wrong way” to practice mindful breathing
• Self-kindness is essential on the hardest days
• Grief healing happens in small, repeatable moments

What You’ll Discover
• Why grief disrupts your natural breathing patterns
• The science behind breath and the nervous system
• Techniques to anchor yourself during emotional waves
• Real stories of grief and the power of a simple pause
• How to create personal breathing rituals in daily life

Resources Mentioned
• “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk
• “Permission to Mourn” by Tom Zuba
• Headspace app – Mindful breathing exercises
• Grief.com – Breathing and grounding resources

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’re exploring “Grieving Relationships”—how loss changes the bonds we hold and how to find your footing when connection feels broken. Join us for another honest conversation.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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5 months ago
12 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Overcoming Grief Triggers: Practical Steps to Move Forward and Find Peace
In this episode, we explore the unexpected and often overwhelming moments called grief triggers. Whether it’s a scent, a song, or an anniversary, triggers can ambush us and make the pain of loss feel fresh all over again. Join Dylan as he gently unpacks what triggers are, why they happen, and how they affect both body and mind. Through authentic stories, science-backed insights, and practical strategies, you’ll discover ways to recognize, anticipate, and respond to triggers with kindness and self-compassion. This episode offers hope and tools to help you carry your grief without being overwhelmed by it.

Key Takeaways
• Understand what grief triggers are and why they happen
• Learn common types of triggers and how they affect you
• Discover practical steps to anticipate and cope with triggers
• Explore the science behind grief and emotional memory
• Find hope in post-traumatic growth and long-term healing

What You’ll Discover
• How grief shows up in unexpected moments
• Why your body reacts before your mind can catch up
• Gentle ways to build awareness around triggers
• Techniques to calm yourself during triggering moments
• How to cultivate self-compassion on your grief journey

Resources Mentioned
• On Grief and Grieving by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler
• Insight Timer app for guided meditations
• Support groups and therapy options for grief support

Next Episode Preview
Next time, we’ll dive into simple breathing exercises designed to help calm your nervous system and bring peace in moments of distress. Don’t miss it.

📩 Have questions or want to share your story? Reach out at grief@senseofthisshit.com.

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5 months ago
43 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Mindfulness for Grief: Simple Practices to Find Calm After Loss
In this episode, we explore how mindfulness can become a gentle lifeline in the midst of grief. Dylan guides you through simple, accessible ways to ground yourself when pain feels overwhelming, and shares how even small moments of mindful presence can carve out space for healing. If your thoughts have been scattered or the world feels too loud, this conversation offers both practical tools and deep reassurance. Whether you’re brand new to mindfulness or just struggling to show up for yourself, you’ll find permission here to grieve as you are.

Key Takeaways
• Mindfulness can offer comfort even in the worst moments
• Presence is possible even when your mind is scattered
• Small mindful pauses can shift your relationship with pain
• Mindfulness is for everyone, not just “wellness” people
• No one grieves or practices mindfulness perfectly

What You’ll Discover
• How to gently practice mindfulness while grieving
• Grounding exercises for difficult days and nights
• Ways to anchor yourself when emotions feel too big
• The truth about resistance and “failing” at mindfulness
• Why tiny mindful moments can change your grief journey

Resources Mentioned
• “The Mindful Path Through Grief” by Sameet Kumar
• “Wherever You Go, There You Are” by Jon Kabat-Zinn
• Headspace app for guided mindfulness
• “Grief Works” by Julia Samuel

Next Episode Preview
Next episode, we’ll dive into overcoming triggers—how to recognize what sets off waves of grief and find ways to move through them with care. Hope you’ll join us.

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5 months ago
14 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Healing Through Community: How Connection Supports Grief Recovery
In this episode, we dive deep into how real, imperfect connection becomes one of the most powerful tools in healing from grief. Dylan explores what it truly means to find support—whether through family, friends, strangers, or unexpected moments—and how community helps us survive loss even when reaching out feels impossible. Through honest stories, research, and practical steps, this conversation gently invites you to notice, rebuild, or rediscover your own patchwork of support. Whether you’re feeling isolated or already surrounded by caring people, this episode will help you see why connection is never wasted and how small acts of community can start to shift your world.

Key Takeaways
• Grief often isolates, but connection is essential for healing
• Community can be found in unexpected places and small gestures
• Sharing your story can reduce shame and loneliness
• Supporting others can heal both you and them
• Every act of reaching out—however small—matters

What You’ll Discover
• Why our brains and bodies crave connection during grief
• Real stories of finding or struggling with support
• Practical ways to build community, even from scratch
• How to handle setbacks and awkward moments
• The science behind why being witnessed helps

Resources Mentioned
• “The Other Side of Sadness” by George A. Bonanno
• “Option B” by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
• The Dinner Party (thedinnerparty.org)
• Modern Loss (modernloss.com)
• Journal of Loss and Trauma, selected research

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Next time, we’ll explore how mindfulness can become a steady anchor during the storms of grief. Tune in as we uncover gentle, realistic practices for everyday healing.

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5 months ago
36 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Finding Grief Support: Building a Strong Support Network When You Need It Most
In this episode, Dylan sits beside you for a gentle, honest exploration of what it really means to find grief support when you need it most. If your loss has left you feeling isolated, disappointed by friends, or simply overwhelmed by the idea of asking for help, you’re in good company. Dylan shares personal stories, small but powerful exercises, and evidence-backed tips to help you notice, nurture, and invite support—without pressure, without pretense. If you’ve wondered how to build a network you can actually lean on, or you’ve struggled with asking for what you need, this episode offers real hope, simple encouragement, and the reminder that you never have to grieve alone.

Key Takeaways
• Grief support is unique for everyone
• Small moments of connection matter deeply
• Boundaries are essential when accepting help
• Support can come from unexpected places
• Asking for help is an act of courage

What You’ll Discover
• How to spot authentic support in daily life
• Simple ways to reach out even when it’s hard
• Tips for building a reliable network over time
• The value of online and peer support groups
• Practical exercises to connect without overwhelm

Resources Mentioned
• Option B by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant
• The Art of Comforting by Val Walker
• Modern Loss (modernloss.com)
• What’s Your Grief (whatsyourgrief.com)
• The Dougy Center (dougy.org)

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In our next full episode, we’ll explore how healing is possible when you find connection and meaning in community. Join us as we dig deeper into the bonds that help us rebuild after loss.

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5 months ago
14 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
The Five Stages of Grief: Understanding Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, and Acceptance
In this episode, Dylan gently guides listeners through the five stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—exploring how these experiences shape our healing journeys. With warmth, humor, and deep empathy, Dylan unpacks what these stages look and feel like in real life, drawing on heartfelt stories from listeners and his own lived experience. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re “doing grief right,” or if your feelings don’t seem to fit the script, this conversation is for you. You’ll discover why grief isn’t a linear checklist, why it loops and surprises us, and how to move through it with compassion and self-acceptance.

Key Takeaways
• The five stages of grief are not linear steps
• Denial protects us until we’re ready to face reality
• Anger and bargaining are natural responses to loss
• Depression is part of loving deeply, not a failure
• Acceptance means learning to live alongside your loss

What You’ll Discover
• How real people experience the stages of grief
• Ways to honor your grief without judgment
• Strategies for coping when you feel stuck
• Why it’s okay to revisit stages at any time
• Where to find support and additional resources

Resources Mentioned
• On Grief and Grieving by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler
• The Grieving Brain by Mary-Frances O’Connor
• Grief.com (support and resources)
• Therapy for Grief and Loss (psychologytoday.com)

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Next week, we’ll dive into practical and emotional grief support: what helps, what doesn’t, and how to ask for what you need. Join us as we explore the many ways to build a support system for yourself or someone you love.

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5 months ago
50 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Coping Mechanisms for Grief: Techniques to Help You Heal
Episode 4: Coping Mechanisms for Grief: Techniques to Help You Heal Description:

Welcome to “5 Mins Out,” a quick episode of "Grief: Let's Make Sense Of This Shit." Today, we’re talking about Coping Mechanisms—those little lifelines that help you get through the worst moments of grief. In just five minutes, we’ll break down what coping mechanisms are, how they can help you manage the chaos of grief, and we’ll share a quick, practical exercise you can try today. Whether it’s grounding yourself in the present or just taking a moment to breathe, these small steps can make a big difference. Grief isn’t something you can “fix,” but you can learn how to live with it, one step at a time.

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1 year ago
6 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Understanding Loss: What You Need to Know
Episode 3: Understanding Loss: What You Need to Know

In this episode of "Grief: Let's Make Sense Of This Shit," we take a deep dive into Understanding Loss—what it means, how it hits us, and the unpredictable, messy ways it can show up in our lives. Loss is more than just an event—it’s a transformation, and it changes you in ways you might not expect. We’ll talk about real-life stories of people navigating their losses, break down the emotional and physical toll of grief, and share research-backed tools and strategies to help you make sense of your own journey. Whether you’re dealing with the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job, or even a part of yourself, this episode is all about helping you find your way through. You’re not alone in this. Tune in to learn, relate, and most importantly, take one step forward in understanding your loss.

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Coping Mechanisms for Grief: Techniques to Help You Heal
Mental health services aren’t accessible for everyone, and we know how isolating that can feel. By joining, you’re helping us keep this space alive, providing comfort, tools, and real talk to those who need it most.

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1 year ago
43 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Quick Tips for Grief Relief: 5-Minute Stress Busters
Ep. 2: Quick Tips for Grief Relief: 5-Minute Stress Busters
Release Date: October 21, 2024

In this quick episode of "Grief: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t, we introduce you to 5 Mins Out, a short yet impactful segment focused on quick tips to help you navigate grief in just five minutes. Today's topic is Quick Grief Relief, where we explore the little things you can do to alleviate grief-related stress, even in the busiest of moments.

We’ll walk you through simple exercises and mindful strategies that you can try right now, offering a much-needed break from the emotional weight of grief. Tune in, try it out, and take one step closer to finding a little relief in your day.

Don’t forget to join us for the next full episode, where we’ll dive deep into Understanding Loss. See you then!


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1 year ago
5 minutes

GRIEF: Let's Make Sense of This Sh*t
Grief is messy, confusing, and at times, downright overwhelming. But you don’t have to navigate it alone. Grief: Let’s Make Sense of This Sht* is a podcast series designed to guide you through the complexities of loss with compassion, honesty, and a little bit of humor.

Each main episode dives deep into specific aspects of grief, from navigating the emotional rollercoaster to finding healthy ways to cope. We share real-life stories, research-backed tools, and practical strategies that you can apply at your own pace.

Alongside the main episodes, our “5 Mins Out” bonus segments offer quick, actionable tips for when you need immediate relief. Whether you're grieving a loved one, the end of a relationship, or any significant loss, this podcast is here to remind you that it's okay to feel however you're feeling—and that healing is possible, one step at a time.



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If this podcast has helped you, consider joining our Supporters Club. Your support allows us to continue creating these important conversations around grief and mental health — conversations that are often too hard to find in today's world.

Mental health services aren’t accessible for everyone, and we know how isolating that can feel. By joining, you’re helping us keep this space alive, providing comfort, tools, and real talk to those who need it most.

Together, we can make sure that no one has to navigate grief alone.

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