This Thanksgiving, I’m slowing down, taking a breath, and giving thanks for you. In this special solo episode, A Moment of Thanks: Celebrating You, the Podcast, and This Journey, I’m reflecting on the incredible community that has grown around Growth on the Rocks—every listener, every new subscriber, and every guest who has poured their heart, humor, and wisdom into this show.
I also share how gratitude journaling has become one of my most powerful manifestation practices. From shifting my energy on tough days to helping my clients step into the identity of the woman they’re becoming, daily gratitude is a tool that creates real transformation. In this episode, you’ll hear exactly how I use it, why it works, and how you can weave it into your own life—starting today.
Pour a drink, get cozy, and join me for a heartfelt moment of reflection and appreciation.
In this special episode, we take you inside the STIMULATE: Purpose to Pleasure conference — a space where sexual wellness, empowerment, and personal expression collide. I walked the floor and asked innovators, educators, and brand leaders one powerful question: How do you define intimacy?
From sensual connection to emotional safety, from self-love to curiosity and exploration, you’ll hear raw, thoughtful, and diverse answers that challenge the way we think about intimacy — not just in relationships, but within ourselves. This isn’t just about pleasure toys and wellness brands; it’s about connection, vulnerability, body autonomy, and reclaiming what it means to feel empowered in our skin.
Whether you're on a personal journey, healing old narratives, or stepping boldly into your pleasure era, this episode invites you to explore intimacy as a lived experience — one rooted in presence, authenticity, and self-permission.
To learn more about STIMULATE, visit: https://stimulatetheshow.com
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This week I sit down with Makeiba Winclas — founder of the global luxury travel network Bougie Black Girls — to talk about visibility, access, and elevating the Black woman travel experience. Makeiba shares the story behind BBG and her mission to place Black women in spaces where we’ve historically been excluded, overlooked, or told we didn’t belong.
From private villas and yachts to Michelin-star dining and curated international adventures, Bougie Black Girls isn’t just about travel — it’s about expansion, liberation, and rewriting the narrative of who gets to experience luxury. We dive into the power of community, identity, and seeing women who look like us thriving across the globe. This is an invitation to dream bigger, elevate unapologetically, and take up space — passport in hand.
If you’re ready to enter rooms, countries, and levels you once thought were impossible, this conversation is your boarding pass.
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This week I sit down with Coach Lee — attorney turned time-audit queen, sleep-ritual fanatic and author who turned her calendar into a high-performance asset. In this episode, she walks through how she tracks every minute, categories tasks as true value-adds, and protects her most precious resource: her own hours. We explore her sleep system (yes, it’s that disciplined), how she aligns her energy with her goals, and how she built a life that fits her values—not the other way around.
Whether you’re launching a bold coaching empire, kicking inner-critics to the curb, or just ready to reclaim your clock, this session is your playbook. Tune in to learn how to stop squandering time and start investing it—so you can live with fire, purpose, and yes, a little wine-filled sassy self-celebration.
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This week I sit down with former boxer turned businessman and philanthropist Alan Santana steps into the ring with Growth on the Rocks to talk about how discipline, grit, and resilience shaped every chapter of his life.
From early mornings training in the gym to building businesses that give back, Alan shares how the lessons he learned from every punch—both literal and figurative—helped him create lasting success outside the ring. We dive into the mindset that separates champions from quitters, the importance of saving and investing young, and how failure can become your fiercest motivator if you let it.
Whether you’re fighting for your next big goal or learning to get back up after life knocks you down, this episode will remind you that your strength isn’t proven when you never fall—it’s revealed when you rise.
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In this powerful and raw episode of Growth on the Rocks, I sit down with Tatum Zoee: unapologetic mom, bold voice advocate, and champion for bold women. We dig into what it really means to be a Girls’ Girl. We talk about cultivating sisterhood over competition, creating environments where women feel safe to speak their truths, and lifting each other up rather than tearing each other down.
Tatum gets candid about being a young mom and navigating the judgment that comes with being outspoken — especially when you’re also a mom who isn’t afraid to wear her MILF badge with pride. She shares the lessons she’s learned about resilience, self-worth, and the power of showing up loud, messy, and real.
If you’ve ever felt silenced by expectations, criticized for speaking up, or conflicted about your place in women’s spaces — this episode is your reminder: your voice matters, your truth matters, and your support for other women changes everything.
To learn more about Tatum, follow her at: https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/
In this week’s episode of Growth on the Rocks, I sit down with Jenna Perkins, CRN and founder of Discover Her Health, to talk about one of the most vital yet overlooked aspects of women’s health: the pelvic floor. Jenna breaks down what the pelvic floor really is, why it’s often called the “seat of life,” and how it impacts everything from core strength to sexual wellness.
We dive into the journey women face as they move through pre-menopause, perimenopause, and menopause, with a special focus on the unique challenges Black women experience in these transitions. Jenna also shares empowering insights on how to be your own health advocate—because understanding your body is the first step to reclaiming your health and confidence.
Whether you’re navigating hormonal shifts, curious about pelvic health, or ready to take control of your wellness, this conversation is a must-listen.
To work with Jenna and her team, visit her website at: https://discovherhealth.com/
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In this episode of Growth on the Rocks, I sit down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, to explore how a brand built on innovation and empathy is reshaping the world of sexual wellness. Jeff opens up about the powerful legacy of Promescent’s founder and how a tragic loss became the driving force behind his commitment to continue the mission of helping people experience deeper intimacy and confidence in the bedroom.
Together, we discuss the evolving landscape of sexual health—how it’s shifting from a focus on products and quick fixes to whole-body arousal, emotional connection, and self-discovery. From breaking taboos to building trust, Jeff shares why he’s passionate about helping people not just perform better, but live better. This is a conversation about purpose, pleasure, and the future of intimacy.
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On this episode of Growth on the Rocks, I sit down with personal development coach Max Stephens, who has dedicated his career to helping high-performing professionals and athletes unlock their full potential. Together, we dive into the often-overlooked struggles of high achievers—imposter syndrome, relentless self-criticism, and the constant push for “more.” Max shares his unique perspective on what truly defines a high performer, why success on paper doesn’t always equal fulfillment, and how shifting your worldview can be the catalyst for long-lasting growth.
Whether you’re chasing career milestones, competing at the highest level, or simply trying to balance achievement with self-acceptance, this conversation will challenge you to rethink your definition of success. Grab a drink, pull up a chair, and join us as we explore the path from self-doubt to self-mastery.
To learn more about Max and his various coaching programs, visit his website at: https://maxstephenscoaching.com
On this episode of GROWTH ON THE ROCKS, I sit down with psychotherapist and actress Hannah Kwon to talk about what it really means to own your story.
Hannah shares how her background in psychotherapy shapes her perspective as an actress, helping her navigate the highs and lows of auditions, rejection, and the courage it takes to keep showing up. We dive into the importance of representation as a Korean actress, and how telling authentic stories on screen creates space for others to feel seen and validated. Hannah also opens up about the emotional process of naming your feelings, facing fear head-on, and finding resilience when one door closes.
Whether you’re an artist, entrepreneur, or simply someone striving for more courage in your daily life, this episode will inspire you to lean into vulnerability, honor your truth, and embrace the power of emotional authenticity.
Follow Hannah on instagram at : https://www.instagram.com/hannahogkwon/
In this episode of Growth on the Rocks, I sit down with Courtney Young—friendship and connections coach and host of The Spritz Girl Mindset Podcast—to talk about what it really takes to reboot your friendships as an adult.
We explore why cultivating authentic relationships is vital for personal growth, how the right compliment can spark a new connection (yes, even in dating), and why your network truly does shape your next level. Courtney shares actionable tips for building confidence, showing up authentically, and keeping your circle strong—even when life gets busy.
If you’ve ever wondered how to find, nurture, or reignite adult friendships, this conversation will remind you: you don’t have to do life alone.
Be sure to follow Courtney at : https://www.instagram.com/spritzgirlmindset/
On this episode of GROWTH ON THE ROCKS, I’m joined by the brilliant and mystical Bianca Alba, sexual health journalist, trauma-informed coach, and all-around witchy goddess. We first connected at the STIMULATE Sexual Wellness Expo, and her vibe is magnetic!
Bianca opens up about her journey into sexual health journalism, what it means to explore intimacy with curiosity and compassion, and how she blends research with ritual. From tarot to astrology to human design, she brings tools that help us better understand ourselves—not just in the bedroom, but in life as a whole. She even gifted me a phenomenal birthday reading that had me rethinking how I show up in my work, relationships, and purpose.
If you’ve ever wondered how science, sex ed, and a little spell work can align to empower your story—this conversation is pure multidimensional magic.
To learn more about Bianca, visit her website at : https://www.biancaalbamph.com/
On this weeks episode, I sit down with Sabina Blowers Balch—a powerhouse realtor, mom, and entrepreneur who proves that age is no barrier to building a thriving career and family. Sabina shares how she stepped into real estate at a young age and quickly found her footing in a competitive market, all while navigating marriage and motherhood.
We dive into her top tips for first-time homebuyers, how she built confidence in the social media space, and the lessons she’s learned about balancing business with real life. Sabina’s story is one of resilience, vision, and heart—reminding us that with clarity and consistency, you can create the life you want even when the odds feel stacked.
To work with Sabina, follow her on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/sabinasellsunsets/
In this episode of Growth on the Rocks, I sit down with Gwen Walsh, a tarot reader, spiritual coach, and guide into the realms of the dark feminine, to explore the magnetic intersection of sexuality and spirituality.
Gwen opens up about her early experiences in the Catholic church and how that foundation ultimately led her toward a more pagan, goddess-centered path. We dive into her first steps with tarot, her perspective on how the erotic is deeply spiritual, and the transformative power of Lilith as a symbol of reclamation, liberation, and unapologetic feminine energy.
If you’ve ever felt the pull of the dark feminine, or wondered how your own sensuality can become a source of empowerment, this episode is your invitation to listen, learn, and step into your intimate power.
To work with Gwen, follow her on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/gwenwalsh/
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In this weeks episode of GROWTH ON THE ROCKS, I sit down with Nicole Hoffman — retail veteran, visionary storyteller, and the creative force behind the STIMULATE Sexual Wellness Expo. Nicole shares how her years in retail taught her the art of crafting experiences that go far beyond a transaction, blending buyer psychology with immersive storytelling.
We talk about her journey as a female entrepreneur, the power of consistency in building a brand, and why creating community is essential for innovation. Nicole also takes us behind the scenes of STIMULATE — a groundbreaking event that brings together leaders in the sexual wellness industry to showcase cutting-edge products, spark educational conversations, and break down stigmas. Having attended the expo myself, I can say it’s more than an event — it’s a movement. If you’re ready to be inspired by bold vision and fearless creativity, this conversation is for you.
To learn more about STIMULATE visit: https://stimulatetheshow.com/about-us/
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This week I'm joined by Jamie Bergman, founder of Crescent Living Co., a company that helps people declutter their homes, organize their lives, and find peace in transition.
From home organization and estate clearing to move management and content creation, Jamie has built a business centered around fresh starts. We dive into how her background in property management and her passion for systems led her to launch Crescent Living at the height of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Jamie opens up about what it really takes to walk into chaos and leave behind calm, how she built a brand rooted in compassion and structure, and why letting go—both physically and emotionally—is essential to moving forward.
To learn more about Jamie and Crescent Living Co., visit their website at : https://crescentliving.ca/
This week I sit down with Brooke Deanne—a former Jehovah’s Witness turned Rapid Transformational Therapist—to unpack her powerful journey from Watchtower to freedom.
Brooke shares what it was really like growing up inside a high-control religious group many don’t realize operates like a cult, and the emotional cost of walking away from everything she was taught to believe. From navigating complex PTSD to helping others heal from deep-rooted trauma, Brooke breaks down how she reclaimed her identity, voice, and inner peace.
This is a conversation about courage, deprogramming, and radical self-trust. If you’ve ever felt trapped by belief systems or struggled to rebuild after spiritual trauma, this one’s for you.
To learn more about Brooke, visit her website at : https://www.lifecoachinggoddess.com/
This week I sit down with personal development coach and self-help author Ant Austen for a raw and real conversation about why mindset coaching is the missing piece in many entrepreneurs' journeys. Ant shares how confronting the root of his own limiting beliefs led to a powerful transformation in both his personal life and business success. We dive into why founders and business owners often hit emotional walls, how mindset blocks show up in leadership and decision-making, and why personal healing fuels sustainable growth.
Ant also opens up about his new book, Who the Hell Are You?, a bold invitation to get radically honest with yourself. Whether you’re building a brand, scaling a business, or navigating burnout, this episode offers powerful tools to help you shift from stuck to unstoppable.
To learn more about Ant and to purchase his book visit : https://bethelimitlessyou.kit.com/breakthemold?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAafRQ3J9xGntD8epx8721PbGStzPK8fCUznJwPO6iL690z-o4tpvP2AVucWq3g_aem_XPtA4FDy6BFqyDA9k6Q7bQ
This week I sit down singer, dancer, fitness trainer, and powerhouse entertainer Shyra Sanchez. From her early days performing in front of family to lighting up stages and releasing her latest single "FIRE", Shyra opens up about the mindset, discipline, and hustle it takes to thrive in the entertainment industry.
She shares her journey as a multi-talented creative, how fitness fuels her confidence, and why she's passionate about inspiring independent artists to believe in their gifts. Whether you're an aspiring performer or just need a reminder that your dreams are valid, this episode will leave you fired up.
To learn more about Shyra and to hear her music, visit her website at: https://www.shyra.music/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAac9dY2syQBMkGm0qNr4PB2MkOPjy1zgllLdSoAQrkHSBYbTT8nbb8xeuJd7LQ_aem_vwFNdlr6FihgBc-JGsqlYA
This week I sit down with Andrew Araujo, founder and designer of Kurupt Images Clothing—a bold, raw, and emotionally charged urban sportswear brand.
Andrew opens up about launching his brand in Fort Bragg, the deep meaning behind his designs, and how each piece is made to inspire individuality, self-expression, and resilience. With a mission rooted in authenticity and hard work, Kurupt Images has quickly become a standout for creatives who want their clothing to reflect real stories and real emotion.
If you're an aspiring entrepreneur, fashion lover, or someone chasing purpose through creativity, this episode delivers mindset shifts, brand-building gems, and a whole lot of inspiration.
Check out Andrew's clothing line at : https://www.kuruptimages.com/