Over the past six months, this podcast has explored what truly supports a healthy partnership between horse and rider. In this season wrap-up episode, we reflect on the themes you’ve connected with the most: rider mindset, horse well-being, and simple dressage exercises that build strength, suppleness, and motivation. We talk about finding a middle way between extremes in today’s riding culture and why sustainable progress always starts with listening. This episode also looks ahead to 2026, inviting you to turn dreams into realistic plans by breaking big goals into small, achievable steps. The intention remains the same: to support happy riders and healthy horses, working together on the horse’s terms. You don’t need more pressure to move forward.You need clarity, patience, and a structure you can trust.Mindset shapes every aid you give.Small physical signals from the horse are information, not problems.Dressage works best when used as a tool, not a test.Progress happens when preparation comes before performance.Motivation grows when goals feel realistic and meaningful.Consistency comes from simplicity, not intensity. This week, choose one clear intention for your next ride.Keep it small and achievable.Before you mount, decide what “enough” looks like today.During the ride, focus on one exercise that helps your horse feel more balanced or supple.End the session when the horse offers even a small improvement. Notice whether your breathing stays slow and steady.Feel if the contact remains soft and even on both reins.Observe whether your horse feels more willing or relaxed in the last minutes than in the first. “Most horses love to work — when we listen and invite them into a fair conversation.” Try one or two small steps on your next ride and note what you felt.Questions or 1:1 coaching: DM on Facebook or [dyrlaegesarahthor@gmail.com]Join the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse community on Facebook.If this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star written review.  

Many dedicated dressage riders feel stuck even though they train consistently and care deeply about their horse. In this episode, we explore seven of the most common training and competition mistakes that quietly block progress. You’ll learn why chasing exercises instead of quality creates tension, how riding at too high a level too early affects balance and willingness, and why preparation and mental clarity matter more than correction. We also talk about riding at competitions with the same calm structure as at home. The focus throughout is welfare-first dressage, simple systems, and clear next steps you can use on your very next ride. • Quality always comes before shape and exercises• One or two clear focus points create calmer, more effective training• Advanced movements grow from simple, well-prepared basics• Variation in training supports strength, suppleness, and motivation• Preparation prevents problems better than late correction• Competitions are not the place for new solutions• Mental plans create calm and direction under pressure This week, focus on riding quality before exercises. Goal: Maintain rhythm, balance, and elastic connection before asking for more. At the start of your ride, choose one quality marker, such as rhythm or reaction to the leg. Ride simple transitions and easy figures while monitoring that quality. Before riding a more difficult exercise, prepare 3–5 strides in advance. If the quality drops, step back to a simpler movement and allow a short pause. Feel-check: Notice if the rhythm stays steady for several strides.Feel-check: Check that the contact feels elastic rather than heavy or empty.Feel-check: Observe whether your horse stays relaxed yet responsive. “Clarity and patience create progress — not control.” • Try 1–2 of these ideas on your next ride and notice what you feel.• Questions or 1:1 coaching: dyrlaegesarahthor@gmail.com• Join the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse community on Facebook.• If this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star written review. 7 common dressage training and competition mistakes — and simple, welfare-first fixes to improve balance, clarity, and consistency.

Setting goals should give you direction and motivation — not pressure or guilt. When life is busy, many riders lose focus and slowly drift away from their dreams with their horse. In this episode, we talk about how to set realistic dressage goals that fit real life and support both rider wellbeing and horse welfare. You’ll learn how to find a meaningful “why”, create a clear structure for your training, and track progress in a way that builds patience instead of frustration. Even short, focused rides can move you forward when your goals are kind, clear, and realistic. • Find a meaningful dream and a strong “why” you can feel, not just think• Decide your fundamental needs so you have energy and mental space to train• Break your big goal into four clear stepping stones with simple daily steps• Write your goals and progress down to make development visible and motivating This week, write down your main goal for 2026 and your personal “why”. Break it into four stepping stones and focus only on the first one. Choose one clear training focus for your next ride and keep the session short and intentional. “A clear goal doesn’t take time from your life — it gives direction to the time you already have.” Try one or two steps on your next ride and notice what changes. Share your goal and stepping stones in the Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook group, and I’ll send you my Weekly Riding Planner Workbook for free. Small steps, done consistently, really do add up. Set realistic dressage goals, stay motivated, and track progress with a simple plan that fits real life — for happy riders and healthy horses.   Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Maintaining balance and rhythm can feel easy on a straight line, yet the moment we turn onto a circle or add bending, everything can shift. In this episode, we explore why horses often lose tempo, swing, or self-carriage on curved lines and how small rider patterns can accidentally make the problem bigger. You’ll learn simple exercises that help your horse organise their body, breathe, and move more freely, including the Snail Circle, slow-tempo balance work, pole patterns, and essential body checks for both horse and rider. These tools support relaxation, natural bend, and a soft, honest connection — so your horse can carry themselves with confidence. • Slow the tempo to help the horse find coordination and self-balance.• Notice your own alignment and how it affects the horse’s rhythm.• Check saddle balance to prevent the horse from compensating.• Ride the Snail Circle for natural bend, rhythm, and self-carriage.• Use polework to create automatic tempo and core activation.• Get your horse physically checked to restore symmetry and comfort.• Explore Masterson and DORN methods for soft, effective bodywork.• Allow the horse time to breathe, organise, and offer true rhythm. This Week’s ExerciseGoal: Help your horse find natural rhythm and balance. Start on a 20 m circle in a quiet, steady tempo. Slowly spiral in, allowing the horse to adjust the rhythm on their own. Hold the smallest circle for a few strides, then gently spiral out again.Feel-checks: Feel the back swing softly under you for several strides. Notice if the horse breathes regularly as the circle changes. Check that the bend appears without pulling. “Give your horse room to find their balance, and they will always give you more than you expect.” — Sarah Resources / Links• Contact me to learn more about Masterson and DORN bodywork.• Join the HRHH Facebook community. Call to Action• Try one or two steps on your next ride and share what you felt.• Reach out with questions or for 1:1 help.• Join the HRHH Facebook community.• Leave a 5-star review if this episode supported your riding journey. SEO snippetSimple dressage exercises to improve balance, rhythm, bend, and self-carriage with welfare-first training.

Title: The Rider’s Mind–Body Connection: Why Your Thoughts Affect Your Horse’s Performance A busy mind creates tension in the body, and your horse feels it long before you do. In this episode, we explore how thoughts influence posture, breathing and micro-signals, and how these subtle changes shape your horse’s reactions. You’ll learn simple, practical tools to reset your nervous system, reconnect with your horse and create calm, clear communication before you even mount. These steps help you ride with more presence, softness and confidence — and help your horse feel safe, understood and ready to work with you. • How your thoughts influence your body — and your horse• Why presence changes your horse’s behaviour instantly• A simple “arrival ritual” to leave the day behind• The double-inhale breathing technique for quick resets• A grounding hand-on-the-neck exercise before mounting• How to create a success plan for each ride• When to choose Plan B without guilt Goal: Arrive mentally before you begin riding. Choose a point on your way to the stable where you decide to become present. Practise the double-inhale breath until your body softens. Stand next to your horse with a hand on his neck and breathe until he mirrors your calm.Feel-checks:• Notice when your shoulders drop and your breath deepens for 3–4 cycles.• Feel your horse’s neck soften or his head lower for a few seconds.• Check that your contact feels lighter and your rhythm more steady. “Your horse can only follow the version of you that shows up — so arrive fully.” • Join the Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook community.• DM for 1:1 online coaching worldwide or Masterson Method sessions in Denmark.• If this helped you, please leave a 5-star written review. Being mentally present can transform your horse’s relaxation, confidence and willingness in just minutes.

Episode 21: Fix Your Lateral Work: Improve Rhythm, Bend & Balance in Leg-Yield, Shoulder-In and Half-Pass This episode explores why lateral work often falls apart — from rhythm loss and over-bending to mixed signals that make the horse pop into canter. We break down leg-yield, shoulder-in and half-pass into simple, kind steps you can use on your very next ride. You’ll learn how to keep rhythm, maintain correct bend, and guide your horse without tension. The goal is clarity, softness and true cooperation, so both you and your horse feel more balanced, confident and connected. • How to set up leg-yield for rhythm, clarity and even contact• Why walk–trot transitions inside lateral work improve balance• Shoulder-in on three tracks: what to feel, what to avoid• How to slow down the tempo so the horse stays round and organised• Half-pass made simple through shoulder control, not pushing quarters• What to do when the quarters lead or the horse wants to canter• How to “melt” shoulder-in into half-pass for better self-carriage• The importance of simple, non-contradicting aids Goal: Ride one lateral exercise with clearer aids and steady rhythm.Steps: Choose one exercise: leg-yield, shoulder-in or half-pass. Focus on one aid at a time — inside flexion, then rhythm, then direction. Add a walk–trot transition only when the horse feels soft and balanced.Feel-checks:• Feel the rhythm stay identical before and after the sideways steps.• Feel the inside flexion stay soft without the neck collapsing.• Feel your own breathing stay calm through the entire line. “Simple aids create clear conversations — and clear conversations create better lateral work.” — Sarah • HRHH Facebook Community• 1:1 guidance or questions: [your email]• Dressage resources and free tools coming soon Try 1–2 steps on your next ride and tell us what you felt.Questions or 1:1 coaching: [your email]Join the HRHH community on Facebook.If this helped, please leave a 5-star written review. Lateral work explained in clear, simple steps to improve rhythm, bend and balance in leg-yield, shoulder-in and half-pass.

Episode 20: Masterson & DORN Method Explained: 4 Gentle Bodywork Steps to Understand Your Horse’s Tension In this episode, we explore how small changes in your horse’s behaviour, bend, rhythm, or reactions during grooming can reveal early signs of tension. You’ll learn how the Masterson Method and the DORN Method work together as gentle, non-invasive approaches to help the horse release muscular tightness and improve joint alignment. I walk you through four simple steps you can use from the ground to observe your horse more clearly, understand where tension may be hiding, and support your horse’s comfort before you ride. These techniques build awareness, prevent frustration, and deepen your partnership through calm, mindful observation. Key Takeaways• Notice subtle behaviour changes during grooming or saddling.• Understand how Masterson releases tension by engaging the nervous system.• Learn how DORN supports gentle joint alignment through movement.• Use a detailed ground-position test to spot where tension is held.• Check neck and shoulder symmetry with soft hands.• Re-test to observe even small shifts in stride, rhythm, and willingness.• Remember: you are observing patterns, not diagnosing or treating.• Small releases can create big changes in the way your horse moves. This Week’s ExerciseGoal: Improve your awareness of your horse’s comfort before riding.Steps: Perform the ground-position test in walk or trot and note where your horse hesitates. Run the soft topline check and pause at any tension points. Check neck and shoulder symmetry with both hands, then re-test the circle. Write down one or two changes you observed. Feel-checks:• Feel-check: Notice if the stride becomes softer or longer for 5–6 steps.• Feel-check: Observe if the breathing deepens or your horse blinks more when releasing.• Feel-check: Sense whether the bend improves slightly on the difficult rein. Quote“Every small release tells a story about where your horse is holding tension—and how you can help.” Resources / Links• Join the private HRHH Facebook community to connect with likeminded riders and to keep up with upcoming tips.• Contact for questions or 1:1 guidance: Send a DM or an email: dyrlaegesarahthor. Call to Action• Try 1–2 steps before your next ride and note what changed.• Share your observations with us in the HRHH Facebook community.• Reach out for personalised help if you feel stuck.• If this episode supported you, please leave a 5-star written review. Learn 4 gentle Masterson & DORN Method steps to spot tension early, improve your horse’s comfort, and deepen your partnership.

💬 Episode Overview Keeping your horse sound and happy isn’t just about luck — it’s about awareness, consistency, and understanding what truly keeps our horses healthy from the inside out. In this episode, Sarah dives into veterinarian-backed strategies for long-term soundness, shares science-based tips for everyday prevention, and opens up about her own journey with her horse — from dealing with a tendon sheath strain to finding the perfect connection through patience, technique, and trust. You’ll walk away with practical steps you can use immediately to support your horse’s physical and mental wellbeing — and to ride with more mindfulness, purpose, and joy. 🐴 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ The most common injuries vets see in sport horses — and what often causes them✅ Why soundness is a lifestyle, not a one-time fix✅ The science behind proper warm-up, cool-down, and recovery routines✅ How shorter, more focused training sessions (around 30 minutes total) can actually improve your horse’s health and happiness✅ The importance of hoof balance, cross-training, and bodywork✅ How early signs of unevenness or stiffness can reveal much deeper issues✅ Sarah’s personal stories: How her horse’s tendon sheath strain in the right front leg changed her approach to training and recovery The moment she discovered her horse’s “too-loose” contact wasn’t just about connection — but about hidden hip imbalance and mechanical lameness, and how DORN and Masterson Method treatments helped him return to full soundness and harmony 🧠 Science-Backed Insights 📚 Studies show that: 45% of performance horse lameness stems from soft tissue injuries (Equine Veterinary Journal, 2022) Early detection can reduce recovery time by up to 50% (Dyson, 2020) Warm-up and cool-down routines significantly improve tendon elasticity and reduce microstrain (Clayton & Hobbs, 2017) Regular turnout and mental relaxation lower stress hormones and help prevent lameness (Greene et al., 2019) This episode blends research with real-life horsemanship — giving you simple, science-based habits that make a real difference in your horse’s long-term wellbeing. 💡 Key Takeaways ✨ Check your horse’s movement daily — subtle changes tell powerful stories.✨ Prioritize warm-up and cool-down — tendons need time to prepare and recover.✨ Keep training sessions focused, not long — quality over quantity.✨ Maintain balance: in hoofs, muscles, and mind.✨ Small, consistent care routines lead to big long-term soundness wins. 💬 Let’s Connect “I know the equestrian world isn’t always one where we openly share and help each other — it can be quite individual and competitive. But I want to encourage you to dare to open up.Share your experiences, your worries, and your solutions with each other in our private Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Facebook community.Together, we can lift each other up and help our beloved horses stay healthy and happy for as long as possible — both physically and mentally.” — Sarah Martine 👉 Join the Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133 📧 Email Sarah: dyrlaegesarahthor@gmail.com 💫 Support the Podcast If this episode inspired you, please leave a 5-star review and share it with another rider who loves their horse as much as you do.Your reviews help this podcast reach more riders who want to create balance, connection, and longevity in their training. 🎧 Remember: Every ride is a chance to build trust, grow together, and move forward — one step at a time.

“Why Rest Days Matter: How to Plan Your Horse’s Week for Better Recovery, Strength, and Performance” Your horse doesn’t get stronger during the workout — real progress happens afterwards, during recovery. 🐴 In this episode of The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Podcast, we dive into the science of rest and recovery and why your horse’s muscles — and mind — need downtime to perform their best. You’ll learn how muscle fibers rebuild after training, why rest days help your horse absorb new lessons, and how to plan a balanced weekly training routine that supports long-term strength, soundness, and happiness. Discover the difference between active recovery and full rest, how to prevent overtraining, and how giving your horse a day off can actually make them more supple, focused, and willing in the next ride. 💪 Build strength through smart recovery🧠 Let your horse’s mind process learning🌿 Plan a week with balance, not burnout If you want a stronger, happier horse, this episode will help you train smarter — not harder. Connect with us in the private Facebook Group: "Happy Rider Healthy Horse", we love to hear from you! #HorseTraining #DressagePodcast #EquineWellness #RestDaysForHorses #HappyRiderHealthyHorse #HorseCareTips #DressageMindset #MastersonMethod

🎙️ The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Podcast Episode: From Training Level to Prix St. Georges – How to Progress Step by Step in Dressage Episode Summary Moving from Training Level to Prix St. Georges is one of the most exciting — and most challenging — transitions in a dressage rider’s journey. In this episode, we explore what it really takes to progress step by step through the levels, with patience, understanding, and harmony as the guiding principles. Your host shares her own personal story of bringing several horses successfully to Medium level, yet struggling to make that final leap to Prix St. Georges — and how, with time and reflection, she learned that the key wasn’t about pushing harder, but about slowing down and building stronger foundations. Together, we’ll unpack the mindset, physical preparation, and exercises that help you and your horse develop the strength, balance, and confidence to move up the levels without losing the joy and flow of your partnership. What You’ll Learn in This Episode 💡 1. Why patience is your most powerful training tool– How rushing to the next level can hold you back in the long run.– Why allowing time for muscle memory, balance, and understanding leads to lasting progress. 💡 2. The importance of aligning your ambitions with your horse’s learning curve– How to recognize when your horse is ready for more — and when they need consolidation.– Building a partnership based on trust and timing, not pressure and deadlines. 💡 3. Key exercises to strengthen your horse’s body and mind– Canter-walk transitions two meters off the wall to improve collection and engagement.– Counter-canter with leg-yield for developing straightness, suppleness, and balance before flying changes.– Square canter exercises and transitions within the gait to build toward half pirouettes. 💡 4. How to prepare for flying changes and pirouettes the right way– What to master before you even ask for a change.– How to build the “pirouette canter” step by step without tension or resistance. 💡 5. The mindset of steady, joyful progress– Shifting your focus from achieving movements to achieving harmony.– Celebrating the small moments of connection that make big goals possible. Key Quote from the Episode “True, sustainable progress can only happen at a pace the horse can mentally and physically keep up with. It’s not about lowering your expectations — it’s about giving both yourself and your horse the time needed for the learning to settle into strength, balance, and trust.” Your Homework for the Week Pick one canter exercise — for example: Canter–walk transitions, or Counter-canter with leg-yields. Work on making it smoother, more balanced, and more relaxed.Then reflect:📝 What improved?💭 What still needs work? That small, mindful awareness is what builds long-term progress and connection. If you loved this episode, please share it with a fellow rider or leave a review — it helps more riders find the podcast and build a happy, healthy partnership with their horses.

🎙 EP 16 // No 5/5 of the From Nerves to Flow series: Improving Horse Relaxation at Home: Training Exercises to Reduce Tension Before Competitions   In this final episode of the From Nerves to Flow series, we turn our focus to your horse’s relaxation — and how small, consistent exercises at home can lead to a calmer, more confident partner in the competition arena. You’ll learn simple, showground-friendly exercises to reduce tension and improve connection — both from the ground and from the saddle. We’ll also explore how using treats and positive reinforcement can help your horse relax, not just mentally but physiologically, by activating their parasympathetic nervous system (the “rest and digest” system). This episode ties everything together from the series — helping you and your horse find calm, confidence, and flow through mindful training habits that become second nature, even under competition pressure.   🐴 In This Episode, You’ll Discover: Why breathing (yes, again!) is your secret weapon for relaxation — and how we all tend to hold our breath when our horses get tense. Groundwork exercises to build trust and softness, like the Breathing & Stillness exercise and soft yield patterns. How to use clicker training and treats effectively to reward calm behavior and trigger natural relaxation through chewing and saliva production. Under-saddle relaxation tools, including the Mounting Stillness reward, Stretching Circle in Trot, and Smooth Transitions for softness and balance. How to bring these same tools to the showgrounds — to help your horse find familiarity and calm, even in new environments. Why practicing relaxation daily makes it easier to stay calm and connected when competition nerves or pressure start to build.   💡 Key Takeaways: Relaxation begins with you — your breath, your energy, and your presence. Treats can be powerful tools for relaxation — they not only reward calmness but also activate your horse’s natural relaxation response. Consistency is key: the more you practice calm, connection-based work at home, the more automatic it becomes under pressure. Flow isn’t about perfection or control — it’s about trust, patience, and presence between you and your horse.   🧩 From Nerves to Flow – Series Recap: Episode 1: Dealing with Competition Nerves – How to Stay Calm, Focused & Confident Episode 2: How to Prepare for Your Next Dressage Competition – Visualization & Pre-Show Routines Episode 3: The Power of Patience – How to Feel and Support Your Horse During Competitions Episode 4: How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Riders and Focus on Your Own Journey Episode 5: Improving Horse Relaxation at Home – Training Exercises to Reduce Tension Before Competitions Together, these five episodes guide you from anxiety to awareness, from control to connection — helping both you and your horse find true flow in training and competition.   🧘‍♀️ Episode Quote: “Flow doesn’t come from trying harder — it comes from being present, patient, and connected. Both you and your horse deserve to feel calm and confident, no matter where you ride.”   🐎 Resources & Mentions: Positive reinforcement and clicker training principles The Masterson Method (for physical relaxation support) Groundwork and breathing routines for daily calm Your previous From Nerves to Flow episodes   💬 Join the Conversation What’s one small thing you can do this week to help your horse — and yourself — feel more relaxed and connected?Share your thoughts with me on [Instagram/Facebook handle] or via [your website]. I’d love to hear what’s been working for you!

🎧 Episode 4/5 – From Nerves to Flow How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Riders and Focus on Your Own Dressage Journey Description:Do you ever feel discouraged watching other riders progress faster than you? Or maybe you’re heading to a show, and just seeing the start list makes your stomach twist with nerves? You’re not alone! In this episode, we’re diving deep into the comparison trap that so many dressage riders fall into — and how to shift your mindset back to calm, confidence, and connection with your horse. You’ll learn how to refocus your energy on what you can control, use mindfulness to stay present, and replace comparison with small, empowering actions that help you enjoy your own unique journey.   💡Key Takeaways: Comparison is natural, but it’s also a trap that drains your energy and joy. Shift focus from what you can’t control (other riders, scores, opinions) to what you can influence — your mindset, connection, and actions. Mindfulness brings you back to the partnership that truly matters: you and your horse. Before you compete, ground yourself with the mantra:“Just us. Just this moment. Calm confidence.”   📝 Try This: Download the free companion worksheet for this episode!Inside, you’ll find reflection prompts, a mindfulness script, and simple exercises to help you refocus on your own progress and celebrate small wins. 👉 Grab it inside our Facebook Group: The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Community   💬 Let’s Connect! If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a 5-star written review — it helps other riders find the podcast and join our positive, mindful dressage community. And I’d love to hear from you:What’s your number one challenge when it comes to mindset or competition nerves? Share it in the group or message me — it might even inspire a future episode! Link to the private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133    🎙️ Next Episode (5/5):We’ll wrap up the From Nerves to Flow series by exploring what it really means to ride in flow — calm, connected, and confident, no matter what’s happening around you. Until then, happy riding — and give your horse a pat from me! 🧡

🌿 Episode Overview When the competition atmosphere heats up, it’s tempting to push harder — but often, patience is what truly wins the day.In this episode, we’re diving into The Power of Patience — how slowing down, listening, and feeling your horse can reduce tension, build trust, and help you both perform your best in the show ring. This is the third episode in the From Nerves to Flow series. In episode one, we explored what happens when nerves take over and how to shift into a calm, confident mindset. In episode two, we discussed how planning and preparation create a sense of control and calm before entering the ring.And today, we take that next step — learning how patience transforms tension into trust and helps you truly support your horse when it matters most. 🐴 What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why pushing harder under pressure often backfires — and how patience builds real confidence and connection. How to recognize tension in both yourself and your horse and respond without adding pressure. A powerful mindset shift that allows you to ride the horse you have today — not the one you wish you had. Simple breathing and visualization exercises to help you stay grounded and present in warm-up and competition settings. How patience deepens trust, turning your preparation into true flow in the arena. 💬 My Story with Enzo I’ll share a story about my horse, Enzo, who had so much energy it felt like it was about to burst out of him in twenty vaults in a row.Even though he wasn’t afraid of much, he used every excuse to leap and play — especially at shows.For a while, I tried to manage him by tightening the reins, bending more, and pushing through. But the more I tried to control him, the more tense he became. One day, I tried something different: I loosened the reins, let him stop and look when something caught his attention, and waited until he was ready to move on.That patience changed everything. He began to trust me, and I began to trust him. Our rides became calmer, more connected, and full of flow. This experience taught me that patience isn’t passive — it’s one of the most powerful forms of leadership we can offer our horses. 🌬️ Key Exercises from This Episode 1️⃣ Mini Breathing ExercisePause, place your hand on your belly, and take three deep breaths — in through your nose, out through your mouth.Feel your body soften and your mind slow down. This is the energy of patience you want to bring to your horse. 2️⃣ Visualization PracticePicture yourself in the warm-up arena. Your horse tenses and looks around — instead of tightening, you smile softly, breathe, and give her space.See yourself riding with calm, quiet confidence as your horse relaxes beneath you. 💡 This Week’s Homework Your challenge this week is to practice patience intentionally in one of your rides. When your horse gets tense or distracted, take three slow breaths before giving another aid. Give her a moment on a long rein to settle before resuming work. Notice what changes — in her breathing, her stride, or her focus. 📝 After your ride, jot down a few reflections: What changed when I practiced patience? How did my horse respond? What do I want to remember for next time? Bonus:Before you dismount, close your eyes and silently thank your horse for what she gave you today. Gratitude is patience in action — and it deepens your connection every single time. 💭 Final Thought Patience isn’t weakness — it’s a quiet strength that builds trust and creates harmony, even in high-pressure environments.When you trust your preparation and respond with patience, you open the door to true flow — for both you and your horse. 🌟 Next Episode Join me next week for episode four in the From Nerves to Flow series, where we’ll talk about The Comparison Trap — how to stop measuring yourself against others and find joy and confidence in your unique progress. Until then, ride with patience, stay connected, and enjoy the partnership with

🎙️ Episode 13 — From Nerves to Flow Series (2/5) How to Prepare for Your Next Dressage Competition: Visualization Techniques, Pre-Show Routines & Confidence Strategies Welcome back to the From Nerves to Flow Series! 💛If you listened to Episode 12, you’ll remember we explored why competition nerves show up, how they affect both you and your horse, and a few simple ways to begin shifting from stressed to steady. Today, we’re taking the next step: visualization, pre-show routines, and confidence strategies. These are game-changing tools that help you feel calm, clear, and ready when competition day arrives. Because here’s the truth: when you’ve already rehearsed your ride in your mind, and when you know exactly what to do and when, the chaos of show day doesn’t throw you off. Your body feels like it’s been there before, your brain doesn’t panic, and your horse gets a steady, confident rider by their side.   🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode Part 1: The Power of Visualization Why mental rehearsal works for riders (and how it shapes muscle memory). How to visualize your entire show day—not just the test. Step-by-step tips for riding through your test in your mind with calm, clear focus. The secret to visualizing both the best-case scenario and a gentle backup plan. Anchoring confidence with your final salute. Part 2: Pre-Show Routines How to eliminate chaos and last-minute stress with simple prep. What to pack and organize the night before. Step-by-step flow for show morning (and how to delegate if you have help). How to use the drive, warm-up, and even small pauses as mental reset points. My favorite routine to keep you grounded right before entering the ring. Confidence Strategies woven throughout: Physical anchors to pull you back into calm (touch, breath, body awareness). Keeping perspective and celebrating small wins. Why your horse doesn’t care about ribbons—just your presence.   ✨ Rider’s Reflection This week, I challenge you to take just 10 minutes to visualize.👉 Walk through your whole competition day in your mind—from waking up, to loading the trailer, to the final salute.Notice the calm moments, notice the tricky spots, and practice your ride both when it goes beautifully and when it doesn’t go quite to plan. No test coming up soon? No problem. Choose a test at your level and practice mental rehearsal anyway—because visualization itself takes practice. The more you train your brain now, the easier it will be to slip into calm, focused flow when show day arrives.   🔮 Coming Up Next In Episode 14, we’ll dive into the power of patience—how to slow down, stay soft, and keep your horse feeling supported even when show pressure makes you want to rush.   💬 Join the Conversation What’s your biggest show-day stressor? Packing? Forgetting the test? Managing warm-up?Share your thoughts in the Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook Community so we can support each other on this journey.

🎙️ Episode 12 — From Nerves to Flow Series (1/5) Dealing with Competition Nerves: How Dressage Riders Can Stay Calm, Focused, and Confident Hey my horsies 🐴💛, welcome to the very first episode in my brand-new From Nerves to Flow Series! This is a 5-part journey where we’ll turn those pre-show butterflies into calm focus, steady confidence, and a stronger connection with your horse. And we’re kicking things off with a big one: competition nerves. If you’ve ever felt… a tight chest before entering the arena, sweaty hands holding the reins, your mind racing three steps ahead of your horse, or that awful cycle where your nerves feed your horse’s nerves (and vice versa)… …then this episode was made for you. The good news? Nerves aren’t weakness. They’re just energy—and when you learn to redirect them, they can actually help you ride with clarity, presence, and flow. 🌟 What you’ll learn in this episode: Why competition nerves happen (hint: it’s your body doing its job with adrenaline). How nerves impact your horse, and why they pick up on them so easily. The mindset reframe every rider needs: nerves mean you care. Five first steps to move from tense to calm: Reset your mindset → progress over perfection. Prepare at home → use visualization and routine to make show day feel familiar. Practice patience → slowing down helps both you and your horse breathe. Let go of comparison → focus on your dressage journey. Support your horse’s relaxation → calm horse = calm rider. ✨ Rider’s Reflection At the end of this episode, I’ll give you a simple challenge:👉 Pick just one of the five steps and try it this week. Notice how it changes your mindset, your ride, and even your horse’s energy. 🔮 What’s coming next in the series: Episode 13: Visualization techniques, pre-show routines & confidence boosters. Episode 14: The power of patience — how to ride soft and present under pressure. Episode 15: Breaking free from comparison — finding joy in your progress. Episode 16: Horse relaxation strategies — practical training to reduce tension. 💬 Join the Conversation What makes you most nervous on competition day?Is it forgetting the test, warming up around others, or worrying about your horse tensing up? Come share your story in the Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook Community — because your words might be the exact encouragement another rider needs

Episode 11: Stop Blocking Your Horse: How to Carry Yourself So Your Horse Can Move Freely Have you ever felt your horse heavy in your hands, stiff to one side, or just not moving as freely as you’d like?Before blaming your horse, it’s worth asking: Could it actually be me? In this episode of The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Podcast, we’re exploring the rider’s position — how the way you sit, breathe, and carry yourself in the saddle can either free your horse’s movement… or unintentionally block it. You’ll hear: Why your posture, balance, and breathing influence how your horse carries themselves. A simple at-home test to spot your own stiffness or asymmetry (and how it shows up in the saddle). Quick warm-up exercises you can do before riding to free your shoulders, open your chest, and create 30% more mobility. How to check your balance using bathroom scales (yes, really!). A fun in-hand exercise to reveal where your horse might be stiff — and how your own body position plays a role. Why “warming up the rider” can sometimes matter more than “warming up the horse.” When you ride with balance and softness in your own body, you create the space for your horse to lift through the shoulders and back, use their core, and carry you with ease. Small adjustments in your seat and posture can make a big difference in how your horse moves and feels under you. 🎧 Tune in now and discover how to stop blocking your horse — so you can both enjoy more freedom, balance, and connection. 🔑 Key Takeaways Your horse already carries 60% of their body weight on the forehand — don’t add more with your posture. A blocked rider creates a blocked horse. Small warm-up rituals for yourself = big improvements for your horse. Balance and alignment aren’t about being perfect, but about being aware and fair. 📌 Resources & Links Join the conversation in the Happy Rider Healthy Horse Facebook Group. Watch the videos of rider balance tests mentioned in this episode (posted in the group). Learn more about the Masterson Method for releasing tension in your horse’s body. Interested in body alignment? Look up a certified DORN therapist in your area. 🙌 Call to Action If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to: Leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ rating and a short written review. Share this episode in your Facebook story or send it to a friend who could use a reminder that position matters just as much as training. Let me know what happens when you try these little experiments with your horse — come share your wins (and challenges) in the Facebook group. You’re not alone on this journey. Until next time, ride with balance, ride with kindness, and stay connected with your horse. 🐴💛

Do you ever feel like there’s just not enough time in the day to ride? Between work, family, household chores, and life’s endless responsibilities, finding time to spend with your horse can feel impossible. In this episode of The Happy Rider Healthy Horse Podcast, we dive deep into how busy riders can actually create quality time with their horses, without feeling overwhelmed or guilty. We’ll explore: Why it’s often not really about time, but motivation, clarity, and decisiveness. Common excuses riders make and how to overcome them. How your mindset directly affects your riding and your horse’s comfort. Practical strategies to plan your week using the 5-Block Time Management System. How to identify your fundamental needs to make riding non-negotiable in your life. Simple steps to ride intentionally and make even short sessions meaningful. Whether you’re struggling to find motivation after a busy day, coming back from injury, or just want to make the most out of your weekly rides, this episode will give you tools and strategies to stop procrastinating and start riding with purpose. Take control of your time, improve your riding, and enjoy every moment with your horse. Key Takeaways: Time isn’t always the issue—motivation, clarity, and decisiveness matter just as much. Even 15–20 minutes of mindful riding can significantly impact your horse and your connection. The 5-Block Time Management System helps you organize your week and prioritize what matters most. Identifying and addressing your fundamental needs can free mental space for riding. Planning your session in advance—goal, focus, and success criteria—boosts motivation and improves performance. Resources & Links Mentioned in the Episode: Learn more about the 5-Block Time Management System by Chelsi Jo: https://open.spotify.com/show/4IPLLBMSkXwtacplRZonzc?si=7a61135965ad47ef  Connect with me and share your wins in our Facebook Community "Happy Rider Healthy Horse": https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133/  Listen If You: Want to ride more consistently, even with a busy schedule. Struggle to find motivation to ride after work or on hectic days. Want practical strategies to improve your riding and connection with your horse. Are ready to take control of your time and enjoy every session.

From Rhythm to Collection: How to Use the Training Scale in Your Daily Dressage Training Welcome back to the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Podcast! In this episode, we dive into one of the most important foundations for every dressage rider: the training scale. Don’t worry — this isn’t a lecture. We’ll explore the scale in a way that makes sense in the saddle, with real-life examples and practical exercises you can use tomorrow. We break the training scale into three phases: Phase 1 – Familiarisation:Your horse’s “elementary school” of dressage. Here we focus on: Rhythm: Every step, in every gait, should be even and steady. Try forest rides, pole work, or slow arena trots to really feel your horse’s back. Looseness: A relaxed horse is a happy horse. Learn to recognize swinging backs, soft breathing, and elastic contact. Contact / Acceptance of the bit: True contact is soft, elastic, and forward, not a pulled head. Practice low-tempo gaits and steady hands to build trust. Phase 2 – Developing Push / Thrust:Once rhythm, looseness, and contact are established, we focus on impulsion and straightness: Impulsion is energy traveling over the back into the reins — not rushing, but suspended power. Straightness helps your horse load both hind legs equally, setting the stage for carrying more weight behind. Phase 3 – Developing Collection:The “holy grail” of dressage. Collection is not about pulling the head in — it’s the result of all previous steps working together: rhythm, looseness, contact, impulsion, and straightness. When done correctly, it feels like your horse is dancing with you — light, balanced, and powerful. Practical Homework for This Week: Rhythm: Forest walks, straight-track trots, or riding over poles to find natural tempo. Try switching diagonals on a large circle to maintain even rhythm. Looseness: Ride four poles in a circle repeatedly to encourage correct bending and suppleness. Contact: Ride in low tempo, letting the horse stretch into your hand; try holding both reins in both hands briefly. Impulsion: Transitions between gaits and within gaits, including shoulder-in exercises on circles. Straightness: Ride slightly inside the arena track at slow walk to feel and correct drifting shoulders or hind legs. Collection: Walk transitions, sitting tall, engaging your core, and feeling your horse shift weight behind before softening and lengthening again. Whether you’re aiming for your next dressage test or just want a stronger connection with your horse, this episode gives you practical, step-by-step guidance to apply the training scale in everyday riding. 🔗 Resources & Links:👉 Join the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Facebook group for visuals of the exercises👉 Connect with me to hear more about 1:1 online coaching or if you are situated in DK you can order a Masterson session.👉 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode! 💡 Takeaway:Think of the training scale like building a house: you can’t start with the roof. Lay the foundation first, and when cracks appear, return to the basics. Step by step, your horse will become stronger, happier, and more balanced — and your riding will feel smoother and more connected.

🎧 Episode Summary:In this empowering episode, we explore the mindset shifts that can transform your riding experience—from taking ownership of your cues to creating moments of presence in even the busiest of days. If you're a time-crunched rider juggling life, work, and horses, this one's for you. You’ll learn how to reframe common thought patterns, deepen your connection with your horse, and build confidence by celebrating small, consistent steps forward.   🧠 Topics Covered: Why saying “he was good today” might be holding you back How to shift from horse-focused to team-focused language The impact of your presence in the saddle (and before you even mount) A simple 5-step presence ritual to use before or during any ride How to work with a busy mind, not against it Embracing growth through imperfection and small wins   🛠️ Try This Today: 5-Step Presence Exercise Take a deep, calming breath Notice your thoughts—and let them float by Open your mind, just a little - maybe you will discover new dreams Be fully in the moment with your horse Reflect on how lucky you are to ride this horse You can do this anywhere—no perfect setting required.   💡 Key Takeaway:Your horse’s performance is often a reflection of your clarity, energy, and focus. By taking responsibility, being present, and allowing yourself space to grow, you unlock not just better rides—but deeper joy in the partnership.   ✨ Final Words:You don’t need more time or fancier gear to be a better rider. You just need to be here—with your horse, your breath, and your intention. Progress happens in presence. So ride happy, ride healthy, and celebrate every small step forward. You’re doing better than you think.   📩 Want more?Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a fellow rider who could use a little mindset reset.

Episode 7: "The Secret to Keep Your Horse Injury-Free: Why Varied Training is a Game Changer" Most riders know the value of consistency, but did you know that too much repetition can actually harm your horse? One of the leading causes of lameness in horses is arthritis — often caused by overload and repetitive stress on the same joints. The good news? You can help prevent this with varied training. In this episode of the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Podcast, I share why mixing up your horse’s routine is a game changer for their health, fitness, and happiness. I’ll tell you the story of my childhood pony Toni, and how I learned (the hard way) what happens when training becomes circles after circles after circles. More importantly, I’ll give you practical ideas you can start using today to keep your horse sound, motivated, and engaged. Whether you’re a dressage rider, a pony parent, or just want to make your training sessions more enjoyable, this episode will inspire you to rethink your routine. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why varied training helps prevent arthritis and injuries in horses How repetitive routines create overload and resistance My personal story of Toni — the pony who taught me to listen more Simple cross-training ideas: hacks, hill work, poles, groundwork, and more How to spot the early signs your horse might be telling you they need a change The role of recovery, rest, and bodywork (like Masterson Method) in keeping horses healthy Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode: Join the Happy Rider, Healthy Horse Facebook Group for extra tips + the video tutorial on Masterson Method leg checks https://www.facebook.com/groups/4007067746246133  Want 1:1 online coaching to create a balanced, varied training plan for you and your horse? Send me a DM or email me dyrlaegesarahthor@gmail.com If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review — it helps other intentional riders find this podcast!   ✨ Remember: When we mix it up, listen to our horses, and give them the recovery they need, we don’t just protect their joints — we protect their joy. And that’s what creates a true partnership: a happy rider and a healthy horse, moving forward together.