We dove into a polyamory & kink FB group…and a 29-year-old’s DMs went off the rails fast. From “move to Missouri” in 5 texts to “get a dog” instead of companionship, we unpack dating red flags, double standards (MMF vs FFM), consent, perimenopause + kids, and what real communication looks like in open relationships.
If you’ve navigated poly dating, kink 101, or just modern app chaos—this one’s for you.
In this episode
Polyamory basics: roles, boundaries, and consent
Kink & communication (no, “sweetheart” isn’t a strategy)
MMF vs FFM dynamics—why the double standard?
Red flags in DMs: negging, flip-flops, and pressure tactics
Perimenopause, fertility, and setting non-negotiables
Why clarity > vibes when you’re building a roster or a relationship
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