Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Danielle Jackson - Christian Life & Relationship Coach
100 episodes
1 week ago
Do you deeply fear being alone?
Are you struggling with a lack of boundaries due to your people-pleasing tendencies?
Do you have a hard time trusting people?
Are you afraid of being stuck in a negative pattern of unhealthy relationships?
I am so honored that you’re here!
This podcast will help you heal from unhealthy relationship patterns, find confidence in Christ, and walk in the purpose God has created you for so you can be ready for a healthy, Godly marriage.
Hey, I’m Dani. A wife, Jesus lover, and recovering people pleaser. For 10 years, I was in a cycle of unhealthy, non-committed relationships.
I was trying to find my worth in men, worldly success, and self-help books that never gave me the fulfillment or answers I was looking for.
I finally realized that if I was ever going to stop the toxic relationship patterns, I needed to heal from my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center.
I found a method that healed those deep internal wounds and gained the confidence to love myself again. This truth-based roadmap allowed me to find the emotional freedom I was looking for. And I’m ready to share it with you!
If you are ready to follow a truth-based method so you can heal from toxic relationship patterns…
Overcome the fear of being alone…
Love yourself with confidence and bold boundaries
Look forward to healthy, loving relationships
Walk in your purpose with God - this podcast is for you!
Grab your favorite mocktail and come as you are, it’s time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together!
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Do you deeply fear being alone?
Are you struggling with a lack of boundaries due to your people-pleasing tendencies?
Do you have a hard time trusting people?
Are you afraid of being stuck in a negative pattern of unhealthy relationships?
I am so honored that you’re here!
This podcast will help you heal from unhealthy relationship patterns, find confidence in Christ, and walk in the purpose God has created you for so you can be ready for a healthy, Godly marriage.
Hey, I’m Dani. A wife, Jesus lover, and recovering people pleaser. For 10 years, I was in a cycle of unhealthy, non-committed relationships.
I was trying to find my worth in men, worldly success, and self-help books that never gave me the fulfillment or answers I was looking for.
I finally realized that if I was ever going to stop the toxic relationship patterns, I needed to heal from my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center.
I found a method that healed those deep internal wounds and gained the confidence to love myself again. This truth-based roadmap allowed me to find the emotional freedom I was looking for. And I’m ready to share it with you!
If you are ready to follow a truth-based method so you can heal from toxic relationship patterns…
Overcome the fear of being alone…
Love yourself with confidence and bold boundaries
Look forward to healthy, loving relationships
Walk in your purpose with God - this podcast is for you!
Grab your favorite mocktail and come as you are, it’s time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together!
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you’re holding yourself back? Like you know there’s more in you, but something keeps making you shrink, second-guess yourself, or settle for less?
If that’s you, today’s episode is going to open your eyes to the hidden reason you keep playing small and how to finally break free from it. I’m walking you through 3 major blocks that keep women stuck:
Not knowing your purpose
Seeing everyone else’s value but not your own
And living a counterfeit version of your life that God didn't design for you
We’ll talk about how each of these roots keeps you from walking confidently in your purpose, and how to start seeing yourself the way God sees you - chosen, equipped, and called for such a time as this.
If you’re ready to stop shrinking and start showing up as the woman God created you to be… this one’s for you.
Grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s get it!
Xo,Dani
HEALHER SISTERHOOD:
https://healher.thrivecart.com/sisterhood/
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Xo,Dani
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you been feeling stuck? Like no matter how hard you try to move forward, something keeps you back in the same cycles of disappointment, doubt, or toxic patterns? Maybe you’re realizing that what’s really keeping you stuck isn’t your circumstances… it’s unhealed pain from your past.
In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when you avoid healing and how it keeps you from walking in your God-given purpose. I’m sharing real stories from my own life and how unhealed wounds shaped the way I saw myself, God, and my worth.
You’ll learn how healing restores your mind, emotions, and spirit, and why it’s key to walking confidently in your purpose. We’ll talk about how to invite Jesus into your healing process, shift your perspective, and finally start living from a place of freedom instead of fear.
If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start walking in purpose, this episode is for YOU. Grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s get it!
Xo,Dani
NOV 9TH FREE MASTERCLASS:
https://healher.myflodesk.com/masterclass
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why does it feel like nothing’s working?” Maybe it feels like you’re doing all the right things but still not seeing the breakthrough you’ve been praying for. You start wondering if you missed it, if God forgot about you, or if you’re just not “there” yet...
But what if your “problem” isn’t actually a problem at all?
In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful message from a live training I hosted for the women inside my coaching community - and we’re talking about how your perspective shapes your peace, your confidence, and your purpose.
You’ll learn how to start seeing your situation from Heaven’s point of view, why hidden seasons are actually preparation, and how to shift from frustration to faith when life doesn’t look the way you thought it would.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, overlooked, or behind, this one’s going to breathe fresh hope into your spirit. Grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s get it!
Xo,Dani
NOV 9TH FREE MASTERCLASS:
https://healher.myflodesk.com/masterclass
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt inadequate... Like you’re not smart enough, not capable enough, or maybe just not as far along as you “should” be? Maybe you find yourself second-guessing everything you do, stuck in a loop of self-doubt, and sabotaging the very blessings you’ve been praying for.
If that all hits home, today’s episode is for you. I’m bringing you inside a powerful faith-based coaching session with one of my students who opened up about battling insecurity and struggling to see her identity in Christ.
In this session, we walk through what’s really happening when you believe lies about your worth and how to start breaking those spiritual agreements that keep you stuck. You’ll also hear the exact Christian confidence exercise I gave her (and now to you!) to help you start seeing yourself the way God sees you.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
NOV 9TH FREE MASTERCLASS:
https://healher.myflodesk.com/masterclass
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you’re just not seeing the growth or confidence you’ve been praying for? Maybe you're reading the Word, showing up, staying busy, but still wondering why things aren’t taking root in your life.
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the Parable of the Sower and how it reveals what’s really going on beneath the surface of our mindset, our faith, and our confidence. Spoiler: it’s not about doing more - it’s about cultivating the kind of soil in your life that can actually hold the seeds God is planting.
We’ll talk about how your mindset is the soil that determines your harvest, what the four types of “soul soil” are and how they show up in our everyday thoughts and habits, and why you might feel stuck even when you’re doing all the “right” things.
So grab your journal, get comfy, and let’s talk about how to become the kind of woman who doesn’t just hear the Word but lives it, roots it, and multiplies it.
See you on the inside!Xo,Dani
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healher.thrivecart.com/roadmap/
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever struggled to understand who God created you to be? Maybe you've been googling... "How do I feel confident in myself?" or "How do I find who I am?" or "How do I find my identity in Christ?"
If you’re in the middle of trying to discover your identity, this episode is for you! I'm sharing the one simple question I asked God that completely changed how I see myself - and how you can ask it too. We’re talking about what it actually means to stand as a daughter of the King, pick up your authority, and stop comparing yourself to who the world says you should be.
By the end of this episode, you’ll have a practical way to hear from God about who YOU are and start walking confidently in that truth.
So grab your journal, find a quiet space, and let’s invite Him in. He’s ready to remind you of exactly who He created you to be.
Xoxo,Dani
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healherministries.com/start
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
If you've ended things with your ex but still feel drawn to him, and you're trying to be strong enough not to go back...
Or if you've found yourself caught in a cycle with him, but deep down you want to be free... Here are the five steps to finally break free from him emotionally AND spiritually!
We're talking all things soul ties (from a biblical perspective), so you'll understand why you're so attached and how to detach—or really sever the tie in the spirit, because that's what it takes.
Grab your journal and let's dive in!
Xoxo,Dani
GOD-ROOTED CONFIDENCE ROADMAP: https://healherministries.com/start
COME SAY HI ON IG: https://instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships and for some reason you keep attracting the same type of man, just in a different body? Or maybe deep down, you know you deal with low self-esteem and low standards but you're unsure how to raise them? You find yourself confusing love and security with attention and familiarity.
Trust me, I definitely get it but that ends here. There's a reason they say you find yourself dating someone just like your parents. It's unfortunate that we aren't taught relationship skills or how to develop the skill of honest reflection so we can stop subconsciously attracting people that aren't good for us...
But this episode is going to teach you how to raise your standards, strengthen your communication and identify red flags quicker - Grab your journal and let’s dive in.
See you on the inside!
Xo,Dani
REGISTER FOR SEPT 28TH FREE MASTERCLASS: https://healherministries.com/masterclass
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Do you feel like you’re struggling with the fear of failure or the fear of success? Maybe you’re wondering which one it is so you know which to fight? Or maybe you’ve gotten used to the feeling of fear so you’ve learned how to live with it…
Either way, this live training that I’ve pulled from one of my group coaching sessions is going to teach you the difference between the fear of success and the fear of failure, the source (where it’s coming from), and most importantly how to fight it!
Ready to get free? Ready to leave fear in your past? Ready to step into the power and authority the Lord Jesus has already given you to cast this spirit out?
Grab your journal and let’s get to it!
REGISTER FOR SEPT 14TH MASTERCLASS: https://healherministries.com/masterclass
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Do you have a God-given vision but feel stuck, discouraged, or like you keep self-sabotaging right when things start to move? You’re not imagining it—the enemy targets your dream with very specific attacks so you never step fully into what God has for you.
In this live coaching episode we expose the three sneaky assassins that kill momentum—Delay (procrastination), Perfectionism, and Distraction—and I coach the group through practical strategies to fight back. You’ll learn how to choose obedience over overthinking, shorten your execution window, prioritize progress over perfection, and eliminate the distractions that steal your most valuable resources: time, energy, and attention.
Bring your journal - this one’s full of tactical next steps you can use today to protect your vision and start moving again.
See you on the inside!Xo,Dani
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever done all the right things... journaling, therapy, prayers, affirmations, church, and still feel stuck in the same old patterns? I get it. So many of us chase activity and awareness, thinking that’ll 'heal us', but there’s one step most people skip that actually unlocks freedom.
In this episode I’ll walk you through what that first step to healing looks like, how to identify hidden doors and generational strongholds, and a renunciation exercise you can do today to begin closing those doors for good. If you’ve been wrestling with recurring shame, doubt, or patterns that won’t quit, this is the hard, loving work that changes everything.
So grab your journal, and I'll see you on the inside!Xo,Dani
Grab Your God-Rooted Confidence Roadmap: https://healherministries.com/offer
Come say hi on IG! https://www.instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Renouncing + Declaring PDF: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ml0J9q_DYf4FYs0NbTcZJylS9_s0DzAz/view?usp=sharing
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Do you catch yourself tiptoeing around bosses or family, swallowing your voice just to keep the peace? Or maybe you fear stepping into your calling because you worry you’ll let everyone down (or yourself)? In this live coaching session, three students shared exactly where they’ve been “shrinking” and you'll see how I coach them through it:
Morgan realized she’s a peacemaker who’s let her boss and mom walk all over her and learned why planting seeds of awareness and setting just one clear boundary can reclaim her power.
Tiffany unpacked how past wounds and a fear of failure have sabotaged her confidence and and discovered that crafting a vivid future vision is the key to breaking free from her “never enough” mindset.
Vida confessed she blocks her own blessings when success looms and committed to training her “giving muscle” now, so she won’t freeze at the finish line later.
No fluff. Just raw breakthroughs and practical next steps you can use today to stop shrinking, start speaking up, and walk in the bold, God-rooted confidence you were made for.
Grab your journal and hit play!
Xo,Dani
JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Ever find yourself wondering why confidence feels so out of reach even when you know God has called you to boldness? Or maybe you’ve started a new project or season, and doubt keeps whispering that you’re not enough?
You’re not alone and confidence isn’t a destination you have to chase. It’s a daily practice rooted in faith, not in your own strength. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 3 simple hacks you can do in just 10 minutes each day to build unshakable confidence as a woman of faith.
Grab your journal and let’s turn those small daily habits into big confidence breakthroughs!
See you on the inside,Xo, Dani
JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/FOLLOW US ON IG: instagram.com/lovedanijackson
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever felt like your emotions are running the show? One minute you’re praising God, and the next you’re drowning in anxiety or anger you can’t shake. Or maybe your feelings take over, and you end up saying or doing things you later regret.
You’re not broken or alone, and you don’t have to live this way. You CAN experience emotional freedom, because God doesn’t call us to be tossed by every mood swing, emotional trigger, or harsh word.
In today’s episode, we unpack three gospel-rooted practices to conquer your emotional roller-coaster and stay anchored in Christ no matter what comes your way. We’ll tackle the root of the issue by learning to reflect on our triggers, confess the lies that fuel our highs and lows, and stand firm in who God says we are, so His peace rules our hearts, not our feelings.
So grab your journal and let’s dive in!
Xo,Dani
Hi beautiful! ♥️Have you ever found yourself stuck—overthinking every detail, delaying launch, or recycling drafts—simply because it didn’t feel “perfect enough”? You’re not alone. Perfectionism disguises itself as excellence, but really it’s fear wearing a fancy mask. In this week’s live coaching session, we tear off that mask once and for all.
We’ll redefine perfectionism as a coping mechanism (not a standard), compare it side-by-side with true excellence, and surface the “If I’m perfect, then I’m safe” belief that fuels your procrastination, burnout, and self-judgment. Then, we’ll walk through five clear signs you’re trapped in perfectionism—and exactly how to break free by choosing progress over outcome, growth over rigid rules, and courage over control.
So grab your journal and get ready to:
Spot those fear-driven thoughts that keep you frozen
Flip your mindset from “perfect or bust” to “done is enough”
Take immediate steps to replace shame-based self-talk with value-based action
Let’s break up with perfectionism tonight—so you can finally step forward in freedom, confidence, and joy.See you on the inside!Xo, Dani
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Ever thought “I’m ready to settle down” only to get married and realize it’s way more complicated than you ever imagined? Maybe your spouse suddenly reflects every insecurity you thought you’d left behind, or you find yourself re-choosing love on the hardest days. Perhaps you’ve felt lonely even when you’re lying next to the person you promised forever to.
Listen, I get it—marriage shines a spotlight on every part of you, and it can feel like stepping into uncharted territory. But here’s the thing: knowing what really happens behind the “happily ever after” doesn’t ruin your marriage—it equips you to build the deep, unshakeable love you crave. In today’s episode, we’re unpacking 7 truths nobody warns you about when choosing your life partner, so you can walk into forever with eyes wide open and a heart anchored in Christ.
So grab your journal and let’s dive in. We’re tackling the ROOT of what makes marriage thrive (and what trips us up), so you can step into the partnership God designed for you.
See you on the inside!Xo, DaniJOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://bit.ly/healtoxicrelationshipsgroup
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Ever find yourself comparing your beauty, your gifts, or even your marriage to other women and wondering if your husband secretly thinks she’s more attractive than you? Girl, you’re not alone. Comparison isn’t a sign you’re broken... It’s a leftover wound from past betrayals, and it shows up in our quiet moments when we feel most vulnerable.
In today’s episode, I’m getting real about the comparison trap I’ve been stuck in and how Saturdays (my rest days) became an emotional minefield, what my fiercely confident mom taught me about owning my value, and the simple truths that have helped me fight back. Plus, I’ll share the heart-to-heart convo every couple needs to keep comparison from stealing your relationship security.
Grab your journal and let’s break free from the “less than” lie so you can walk into any room completely secure in who God made you to be.
See you on the inside!
Xo, Dani
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Ever catch yourself looking at confident women and think, “They must never feel doubt—or I’ll never be that confident”? Newsflash: doubt isn’t the enemy of confidence—it’s the evidence you’re growing, stretching, and doing the hard things. In today’s episode, we’re busting the biggest myth about confidence: that it means “never doubting.”
I’ll pull back the curtain on why your inner critic fires up whenever you leave your comfort zone, teach you how to see self-doubt as undeniable proof of progress, and walk you through three powerful reframes for doubt—so you can build your confidence brick by brick.
So grab your journal and let’s go! See you on the inside,
xo, Dani
JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever found yourself caught in a cycle of worry, convinced that anxiety and fear are just “part of life”? Maybe you wake up with a pit in your stomach, spend your day second-guessing every move, and end your evening replaying worst-case scenarios on loop. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and this episode was made for you.
In today’s live coaching session, we’re tearing down the lie that fear and anxiety are normal—and showing you how to take authority over your mind. I’ll share why God never intended for you to live in constant worry, how an “orphan spirit” keeps you chained to those anxious thoughts, and the exact steps you can take to replace them with God’s promise of peace.
You’ll walk away knowing how to spot fear’s lies, speak truth to your heart, and anchor yourself in the Father’s love. Let's move from “just surviving” to standing firm in God’s strength—no more accepting anxiety as the status quo. You can be free.
See you on the inside!
Xo,
Dani
Hi beautiful! ♥️
Have you ever looked in the mirror and still felt like you weren’t enough—no matter how many affirmations you spoke or how many compliments you got? Same, sis. Growing up, I carried the weight of rejection, shame, and lies about my beauty and worth… and for a long time, I thought confidence was something I had to earn.
In today’s episode, I’m getting personal. We’re talking about what it means to rebuild your confidence when it’s been crushed by your past—and why real self-worth was never meant to come from you in the first place.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re not pretty enough, confident enough, or healed enough… this episode is for you. Get ready to breathe, reflect, and receive what God has been trying to show you all along: confidence isn’t built in the mirror. It’s built in Him.
Grab your journal, sis—let’s do this heart work together.
Xo,Dani
JOIN THE COMMUNITY: https://whop.com/thehealingcircle/
Heal from Toxic Relationships | Self-Confidence, Relationship Boundaries, Red Flags, Trust in God, Healing Trauma
Do you deeply fear being alone?
Are you struggling with a lack of boundaries due to your people-pleasing tendencies?
Do you have a hard time trusting people?
Are you afraid of being stuck in a negative pattern of unhealthy relationships?
I am so honored that you’re here!
This podcast will help you heal from unhealthy relationship patterns, find confidence in Christ, and walk in the purpose God has created you for so you can be ready for a healthy, Godly marriage.
Hey, I’m Dani. A wife, Jesus lover, and recovering people pleaser. For 10 years, I was in a cycle of unhealthy, non-committed relationships.
I was trying to find my worth in men, worldly success, and self-help books that never gave me the fulfillment or answers I was looking for.
I finally realized that if I was ever going to stop the toxic relationship patterns, I needed to heal from my past emotional wounds with Christ at the center.
I found a method that healed those deep internal wounds and gained the confidence to love myself again. This truth-based roadmap allowed me to find the emotional freedom I was looking for. And I’m ready to share it with you!
If you are ready to follow a truth-based method so you can heal from toxic relationship patterns…
Overcome the fear of being alone…
Love yourself with confidence and bold boundaries
Look forward to healthy, loving relationships
Walk in your purpose with God - this podcast is for you!
Grab your favorite mocktail and come as you are, it’s time to overshare and overcome these obstacles together!
