In this Healing Horizons conversation, host Pragya and guest Nikki Allen cut through the noise around the "perfect" healing journey that dominates YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn. Nikki calls out the myth that one meditation, one course or one practice can fix everything. She reframes healing as a slow, honest relationship with self, not a performance for social media. Together they unpack why self-love is the non-negotiable foundation for emotional healing, spiritual growth and intuitive decision making. They explore how to work with fear, how to listen to your "first mind" or intuition and how to face emotional shadows without collapsing into guilt. This episode is designed for listeners who are tired of quick fixes and want grounded, real talk about what it actually takes to rebuild their inner life and move forward with integrity About the Guest  : Nikki Allen is a healer, intuitive guide and author in progress who teaches what she has lived. Her work centers on self-love as the starting point for sustainable transformation. Nikki helps people break patterns of people-pleasing, quiet external noise and rebuild trust with their own intuition so they can make clear and aligned decisions in their work, relationships and spiritual path. Key Takeaways: Healing is not a timeline or a challenge. It is an ongoing process that cannot be rushed for social media or made to fit a neat before-and-after story for YouTube, Facebook, Instagram or LinkedIn. Self-love is the root system of all real change. Without it, you keep tolerating situations that betray your values and then wonder why you feel stuck. Intuition is your "first mind". Those quiet inner nudges are often more accurate than external advice. The more you love and trust yourself, the less you outsource decisions to other people or to online trends. Emotional shadows and "mirrors" show you where you still abandon yourself. When you meet them with curiosity instead of shame, they become data, not a life sentence. Guilt loses power when you are radically honest about what you want and why. If you own your choices, other people’s opinions stop dictating your direction. Fear is the gatekeeper. Everything you want sits on the other side. Start by naming your fears, asking where they came from and dismantling them one by one. Real healing is messy, non-linear and deeply human. Progress looks less like perfection and more like remembering who you were before the world taught you to forget yourself. How to Connect with the Guest  : Website (book and bio): https://nikkiallen.com/ Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life / Healthy Mind By Avik™   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM. Send a message on PodMatch: DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer   This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. About Healthy Mind By Avik™️   Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it has become a sanctuary for healing, growth and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor and wellness advocate, this channel shares powerful podcasts and soul-nurturing conversations on • Mental Health and Emotional Well-being• Mindfulness and Spiritual Growth• Holistic Healing and Conscious Living• Trauma Recovery and Self-Empowerment With over 4,400+ episodes and 168.4K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma and build a world where every story matters. Subscribe an