In this Healing Horizons with Saima episode, we go straight into why stillness feels so uncomfortable in a world obsessed with productivity, speed and constant notifications. Gabriela Popescu breaks down how an overstimulated nervous system, unresolved emotions and inherited beliefs like "I am only worthy if I produce" keep people stuck in fight or flight. She explains how nervous system regulation, boundaries with tech, grounding practices and simple breathwork can shift you from autopilot to intentional living. This conversation is built for listeners who are overwhelmed, burned out or afraid that slowing down will make them "fall behind". If you create content, lead a team or just scroll too much, this episode will give you practical ways to reclaim focus, presence and inner safety. Perfect for YouTube, Facebook, Instagram and LinkedIn audiences who want real talk on stillness, mental health and sustainable success.   About the Guest  : Gabriela Popescu is a guide and space holder who helps people navigate their inner world with honesty, clarity and grounded awareness. Drawing from her own journey of untangling productivity driven worth and ancestral conditioning, she supports clients in building self love, nervous system safety and healthier boundaries with work, tech and relationships. Her work sits at the intersection of stillness, emotional healing and everyday practical life.   Key Takeaways  : Stillness feels threatening for many people because society rewards constant availability, instant replies and visible productivity, so pausing can trigger anxiety and shame. An overstimulated nervous system that lives in fight or flight makes it hard to feel safe in your own body, which is why silence and slowing down can feel unbearable at first. Many core blocks trace back to limiting beliefs like "I am not worthy if I am not producing", which are reinforced by families, culture and corporate systems. Boundaries with devices and people are nervous system regulation tools, not selfish behavior, and they teach others how to win with you instead of drain you. Early signs of overwhelm include self isolation, loss of joy, disrupted sleep, relentless overthinking and shallow breathing or breath holding during stress. Stillness is not laziness, it is a performance strategy that opens space for creativity, intuition, better decision making and more strategic work output. Grounding through intention, connecting with your body, asking your pain what it needs and expressing emotions through journaling are accessible ways to come back to yourself. Simple practices like turning off devices 30–60 minutes before bed, doing a short gratitude check in and two to five minutes of breathwork can start to rewire your relationship with rest and stillness.   Connect with the Guest  : Listeners can connect with Gabriela and explore her Soul Path Framework and work with the four bodies through her website. Website: https://www.phoenixmedicine.me/ From there you can find her dedicated Soul Path page and her social media links and reach out directly to share your story or enquire about working together. Instagram | LinkedIn YouTube Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik   Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.   Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it has