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Download the free remember letter booklet -https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/rememberletters

I share one of my remember letters.

TBC

If you think you may be struggling with a porn addiction, take the compulsion test at https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecard

Many people who struggle with porn addiction eventually develop a tolerance to vanilla content.

We explain what is going on here.

#femdom #sissy #findomaddiction

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Urologist talks about changes in semen volume and quality when discussing No Nut November.

#pornaddiction #addictionrecovery #nonutnovember #nnn

Do wet dreams count as a relapse?

Can you avoid them?

What do they mean for your porn addiction recovery?

I share my experience of wet dreams and provide clarity on how to move on if you have one.

If you wish to stop watching porn and feel good about doing so, head over to www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com to see if we can help you.

Scandinavian Bob who runs the Dopamine Focused Warriors YouTube channel seems like a nice, direct guy who wants to help people.

No doubt there will be many who feel supported by him and that is great.

We are also confident his videos are created with the purpose of helping others.

However, the problem is that the content created uses information from other sources which are also ineffective for actually overcoming porn addiction.

Sources such as Dopamine Nation and Your Brain on Porn are cited. And as we have explained in other videos, such books are filled with helpless, disempowering language and provide no real solution. 

These are the kinds of books that regurgitated the same information and kept me (Tom) stuck in a porn addiction for 10 years.

Now that I am out of that mess, I want to share with the world what doesn’t work and provide those who wish for serious change  an alternative solution.

A solution built with Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy at its foundations.If you feel like you keep relapsing, even after learning more and more about porn addiction, we are here to share that it’s not your fault.

There is nothing wrong with you. You just haven’t been taught how to stop yet!

#pornaddiction #pornaddictionrecovery

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In this episode, we dive deep into the difference between avoiding compulsive desires and learning how to directly deal with them.

NoFap, self-improvement, and streaks often focus on behavior — but real transformation comes from building a consistent, repeatable skill: dealing with desire itself.

We talk about how to:

Stop relying on streaks as your measure of progress

Develop the inner skill of thinking through urges instead of fighting them

Create a non-changing, repeatable approach to working with compulsive desires

Understand why this practice is separate from “self-improvement” or external motivation

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Most people are stuck getting bullied by the addicted part of the mind.

I share how to identify this bullying so you can stop wasting time going round in circles trying to answer unanswerable questions. And instead, focus on what really matters - learning to deal with the addicted part of the mind correctly.

Learn more at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com

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I share my experience of living life without porn and without removing any triggers.Learn to deal with compulsive desires, and go enjoy your life.

Learn more about changing the way you think so you can overcome porn addiction at www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com

“Slipping up” when trying to stop watching porn has become the normalised language that people use.

I know because I used to minimise and fail to take responsibility by calling my choices to engage a “slip up” in the past too.

This kind of language needs to be called out if we are to have any chance of empowering  people to take back control from the addicted part of their mind.

If you think you may also have a problem with porn, take the compulsion test to get a score out of 100 - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecard

A lot of people have the misconception that they can overcome porn addiction through self-improvement. Dylan McKnight’s porn addiction is a great example of how this approach can go wrong.

We share some examples of what sort of thing the addicted part of the mind will say when someone is struggling with porn addiction.

Are you addicted to porn? Find out by getting a score out of 100 by taking the compulsion test - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecard

People think that going on a long streak is success… but is this true?

Well, do you actually feel in control of yourself?

Do you completely trust yourself?

Have you truly changed the way you think so that you feel empowered and can make rational choices, with regards to porn use, 100% of the time?

Are you able to talk openly about this problem as if it were a thing of the past?

Whilst doing NoFap is of course very different to having a Duolingo streak, I hope this video can illustrate my point of how ineffective NoFap streaks really are in changing the way we think and therefore feel.

Channel 4 recently shared a documentary on YouTube about Findom. 

The documentary glamourised the women involved and did not explore the darker side of how this behaviour is often intertwined with porn addiction.

If you are struggling with Findom and would like to learn to take back control, you can learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method at https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/bcacademy

2-Fact Rewiring - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/2fact-rewiring

This Halloween I feel more in control than ever and it is a great time to reflect on where I went wrong in previous years.

You can take the concepts I share here and apply to many other thought patterns which come from the addicted part of the mind (APOTM).

#pornaddiction

I underestimated porn addiction and I was incorrect about relapses.

We dissect where I went wrong.

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A lot of advice on porn addiction trivialises the issue and people wonder why they keep relapsing.

It is not that there is anything wrong with you. Absolutely not. But, the misinformation online may well be making your problem worse.

We share our take on Jak Piggott’s No Nut November advice.

If you would like to learn more about the Beyond Compulsion method, head over to www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com

Response to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68QN0EOfDiE&t=669s

Dr Trish Leigh is one of the most reputable people in the porn addiction recovery space.

But, through the lens of REBT, some of her perspectives could be holding people back.

We analyse whether stress is really causing people to “slip” back into their addiction.If you would like to learn a clear, concise method for dealing with addicted neural pathways as an isolated problem, we are here to help.

Read our blog to gain a better insight into how you can master your own mind through logic and reason. https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/blog

Response to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqT8PA1ilOo

Will lowering your gaze actually help you overcome your porn addiction?We analyse the advice provided in a video with over 100 thousand views.

We help people shift from helplessness into empowerment and take back control of their mind. If you would like to learn more about work, you can go to https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/

Take a look inside the Beyond Compulsion Academy at: https://www.skool.com/beyond-compulsion-academy

The Beyond Compulsion method expands on the work of Albert Ellis with a specific focus on compulsive desires.

I share what REBT is and why it is more effective for porn addiction than most strategies.

I was addicted to porn for so many years! Learn from my mistakes. Want to know if you are addicted to porn? Take the compulsion test - https://www.beyondcompulsionacademy.com/scorecard