Welcome to our REWOUND RE-RELEASE Bonus Series. These are our TOP episodes ever, so we're bringing them back as bonus video episodes.
In one of our most-downloaded conversations, we dive into the heart of what’s really going wrong in so many relationships: uneven emotional labour, avoidant communication, and partners who shut down instead of stepping up. We explore Reddit stories and real listener write-ins that expose the silent struggles so many couples face — including weaponised incompetence, gaming addictions, messy house resentment, and painful mother-in-law dynamics.
💥 Inside this episode:• The real reason your partner shuts down — and what to do about it• Why “I'll try harder” isn’t enough (and how to hold them accountable without blame)• How to start hard conversations that actually lead to change• Mental load, stepfamily tensions, and feeling invisible in your own home• Is gaming harmless... or is it costing your connection?
This one’s honest, raw, and potentially life-changing — whether you're the one carrying the load, or the one ready to grow.
🔁 If you're new here: this is a rewind episode from the Honey, We Need to Chat archives — and it's worth every second.
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