In this episode of the Horse Wise podcast, we explore one simple language tweak that can transform how you handle time pressure around your horse.
If you ever feel rushed, behind, or overwhelmed trying to “do it all” at the barn — this one's for you.
I share how swapping “but” for “and” in your internal dialogue can unlock creativity and reduce tension — both for you and your horse. You'll hear a real-life example from my own horse life, plus a surprising connection to Navy SEAL mindset.
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🎵 Music: acoustic-western-rock-background via Pixabay
Episode 116: Rachael Mullins on how to balance your horsemanship and competition goals. A 2023 episode from the vault of the older Horse Wise Scholars private study group.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 115: An interview with acclaimed author Natalie Keller Reinert about her work and the worlds she has created full of horses and the people who love them. Please check out her work at https://www.nataliekreinert.com/
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 114: I’m presenting at today’s online Art of the Horseman Fair — along with 50+ horsemanship experts. You can get a free ticket at https://www.becauseofthehorse.net/free-ticket =— but only if you can act by Feb 23, 2025. If you miss it, then please go here for more info: https://www.becauseofthehorse.net/video-lynn-reardon-ready-to-ride:-build-pre-ride-confidence-with-horse-yoga-&-ground-work-exercise-part-2-of-2
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 113: Amy Skinner discusses why the advice of “listening to your horse” isn’t always what you think it means. And how “listening” means REALLY understanding what the horse is saying. Please check out Amy’s terrific work at https://amyskinnerhorsemanship.com/
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 112: What if….it all goes right? A fresh take on how to flip the overthinking script in the saddle.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 111: The action-awareness loop: why knowledge without motion gets you nowhere. And how that can help you start the new year on the right foot.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 110: A highlight reel of my favorite clips from an earlier interview (Episode 75) with Dr. Steve Peters, author of Evidence-Based Horsemanship.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 109: It can be easy to accidentally act creepy when we’re trying to be soft with our horses. In this episode, I discuss the difference — and give some tips on spotting latent creepiness in our posture 🙃
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 108: Hold your horses — my favorite books, videos and photography sites to relax, unwind and get into the holiday spirit.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com
Episode 107: A Thanksgiving episode on common habits that might annoy or confuse your horse (like overthinking before a ride).
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
If you're sometimes confused on what to do first with your horse, check out my free video training (6-min) on how to start off on the right foot (literally) with your horse: https://horsewisecoach.com/rightfoot/
Episode 106: I share the somewhat embarrassing way that I learned that preparing for a ride was the MOST important part of the ride.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 105: How one trainer’s compliment helped me embrace my inner horse nerd.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 104: How a seemingly simple vintage motto from Ray Hunt actually has tons of science behind it.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 103: When faced with a wave of self-criticism, I have a simple, one word strategy. Don’t worry — I promise that it’s easy!
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, fun way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise® services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 102: My favorite horsemanship game. No horse needed — just two people and a single word.
At Horse Wise, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, straightforward way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 101: Amy Skinner and I discuss how to deal with the idea of “both” in horsemanship. When good things and bad things are simultaneously present in the same person or situation. Check out Amy’s wonderful and important work at amyskinnerhorsemanship.com
At Horse Wise, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, straightforward way). If you’d like more information on my Horse Wise Services, please visit our website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 100: The importance of learning like a kid — for both horse and rider.
At Horse Wise®, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, straightforward way).
If you’d like more information on mindset practices, audio coaching or general Horse Wise® Services, please visit our website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/
Episode 99: The episode where I discuss controversy without actually talking about it (at least not in the way you might expect).
Episode 98: A short podcast (with my raspy, head cold voice) on the importance of enjoying your horse and your rides together. In memory of Beth, a special person who inspired me from afar for many years.
At Horse Wise, I teach people tools so that they can learn how to coach themselves and their horses to progress together as a team. It’s a fun process that shows you how build a good partnership with your horse (in a practical, straightforward way).
If you’d like more information on my coaching and general Horse Wise Services, please visit my website for more information: http://horsewisecoach.com/