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How Are We 40?
Taylor Harris & Whitney Casser Harris
37 episodes
1 week ago

Welcome to How Are We 40?, the podcast where two sisters-in-law unpack the unhinged reality of being a millennial woman in the 2020s. Each week, Taylor and Whitney—one in the throes of mom life, the other spiraling out about her singledom—will share the brutal and hilarious realities about modern womanhood, when “having it all” just means feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and on the verge of a menty b. 


Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, body changes, work woes, and Google search histories that include "how to make friends at the dog park”. So, get ready to ride or die with two deeply flawed females who will overshare like it's going out of style and remind you that everyone is really just making it up as they go.


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Welcome to How Are We 40?, the podcast where two sisters-in-law unpack the unhinged reality of being a millennial woman in the 2020s. Each week, Taylor and Whitney—one in the throes of mom life, the other spiraling out about her singledom—will share the brutal and hilarious realities about modern womanhood, when “having it all” just means feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and on the verge of a menty b. 


Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, body changes, work woes, and Google search histories that include "how to make friends at the dog park”. So, get ready to ride or die with two deeply flawed females who will overshare like it's going out of style and remind you that everyone is really just making it up as they go.


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Episodes (20/37)
How Are We 40?
The Goddamn LaBubu

Tay + Whit are closing out 2025 the only way they know how: recapping the pop culture moments that had everyone talking. They also share their unfiltered thoughts on New Year’s Eve as a concept—and what they’re actually doing to ring in 2026. 


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1 week ago
48 minutes 41 seconds

How Are We 40?
Tay + Whit's Christmas Spectacular: Pt. 2 🎄🌟🎅

Because one episode was not enough, welcome to Part 2 of our Christmas Spectacular. Whit reveals the extreme measures required to conceal gifts from her kids (who miss nothing), Tay questions the entire concept of Christmas card culture, and together they expose the advent calendar as the original MLM. 


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2 weeks ago
41 minutes 24 seconds

How Are We 40?
Tay + Whit's Christmas Spectacular: Pt. 1 🎁❄️✨

Welcome to our Christmas Spectacular 🎄—a surprise bonus episode we absolutely did not plan. We had so much holiday chaos to unpack that this episode fully escalated into a two-parter. In Part 1: the hospice-state of Whit’s ornaments, the lasting trauma of childhood Christmas pageants, and the truly batshit plot points of our favorite Christmas movies. 🎁❄️🎅


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2 weeks ago
41 minutes 30 seconds

How Are We 40?
Confidence, Comfort, Creativity
If you’ve ever said “I have nothing to wear” while standing in front of a very full closet, this one’s for you. This week, Tay + Whit are joined by stylist Caleigh O’Donnell, who helps clients identify their patterns, preferences, and core motivations—rather than just buying more clothes. Drawing on her background in anthropology, consumer insights, and design strategy, Caleigh treats getting dressed as a human-behavior problem, not a fashion one. Plus: why most style rules don’t work, how patterns show up in our closets, and why getting dressed is more about self-knowledge than shopping.

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3 weeks ago
36 minutes 30 seconds

How Are We 40?
Are You Bringing A FreshDirect Bag To David Sedaris?

This week, Tay + Whit crack open the Fall/Winter Fail Files—and take a scenic tour through all the ways they’ve been seasonally victimized. They’re revisiting their peak pick-me eras (complete with the questionable hair choices), reliving the moment Whit’s Halloween décor literally blew to shreds, and unpacking the mystery of the faux tree that showed up at Tay’s Brooklyn apartment… uninvited, unpurchased, and inexplicably on her doorstep.


It’s unfiltered, unhinged, and deeply on-brand. Welcome to the holiday meltdown.


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4 weeks ago
1 hour 6 minutes 52 seconds

How Are We 40?
I Love A Sequin ✨
This week, Tay + Whit sit down with influencer Jackie Giardina to talk fashion fearlessness— from ignoring every “dress for your body type” rule we were fed in the 2000s to embracing full-tilt holiday sparkle. Consider this your permission slip to wear the thing, try the trend, and stop asking if it’s “flattering.”

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1 month ago
42 minutes 16 seconds

How Are We 40?
I Don't Wanna Fist A Turkey 🦃✨
It’s the Thanksgiving episode! 🦃🌽💫 And Tay + Whit are talking all things gobble-gobble. From the unhinged fever dream that is the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade to the culinary phenomenon known as Bread Sauce. Also on the docket: mystery smells in Whit’s house and a deep dive discussion on why men read like they’re preparing to lead Union troops at dawn.

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1 month ago
44 minutes 49 seconds

How Are We 40?
Millennial Menopause

Mood swings? Random anxiety? Waking up in sweat-soaked sheets? Same. Cool-cool-cool. 


In this episode, we talk to Lauren A. Tetenbaum, LCSW JD PMH-C — author of Millennial Menopause — about hormonal changes, anxiety, identity shifts, and all the things women were never told about perimenopause and menopause. If your body has been acting weird lately… same, girl. Let’s figure it out together.


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1 month ago
40 minutes 7 seconds

How Are We 40?
It's DERMANGELO! 🩺💫
In this episode, Tay + Whit sit down with the patron saint of skincare: the one-and-only Dr. Angelo Landriscina (better known as his handle @dermangelo). We talk TikTok trends, his best anti-aging advice, the products he swears by and what inspired him to create his brand SOUL-A. Consider this the gospel according to Dermangelo. 

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1 month ago
59 minutes 19 seconds

How Are We 40?
Spoiler Alert
This week, we are officially Cool Moms™ (though one of us is still childless and deeply committed to sleeping in). Whit recaps her chaotic murder mystery party that went totally off-script, Tay spirals over her latest true crime doc obsession, and we end with Tay’s controversial, highly scientific taste-test of Whit’s favorite candy: the Take 5. Spoiler: feelings were hurt.

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2 months ago
55 minutes 24 seconds

How Are We 40?
My House Is A Haunted House 👻
It’s our Halloween episode and chaos is in the air: a possible intruder at Whitney’s house, Tay’s run-in with a black cat, and a deep dive into our college slutty costume era. Happy Halloween, everyone. 👻🎃🕸️

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2 months ago
43 minutes 36 seconds

How Are We 40?
We Can Talk About Leo
This week, we’re talking (and fan-girling) with legendary costume designer Renée Ehrlich Kalfus—the genius behind Blake Lively’s jaw-dropping looks in A Simple Favor, the vintage perfection of Hidden Figures, and basically half the movies that shaped our style. She tells us how costumes build characters, what it’s really like to dress Hollywood royalty, and which looks she still can’t get out of her head.

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2 months ago
47 minutes 28 seconds

How Are We 40?
"Umm...We Don't Die"
Tay + Whit jump-scare right into spooky season with their first-ever guest! Real-life psychic medium 👻✨ Jen from The DeMystics teaches them all about trusting their instincts, Whit listening to her whisper-quiet intuition, and Tay's sneaking suspicions of stalker spirits. Whether you're a hardcore believer or a questioning skeptic, come along for the supernatural ride.

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2 months ago
29 minutes 50 seconds

How Are We 40?
It's My Birthday You Stupid Bitch
It’s Tay’s 39th birthday and she’s spending it exactly how she dreamed: spiraling down an internet K-hole about a woman who thinks Sandra Bullock is trying to poison her Panera Diet Coke. Whit, meanwhile, is busy gluing on fake lashes and getting roasted by her optometrist. There’s also a Jim Harris cameo (unhinged as always), and Whit finally watched The Tinder Swindler and has thoughts. So grab a Diet Coke and join the madness.

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3 months ago
48 minutes 10 seconds

How Are We 40?
I Have PTSD From MAC Lipglass
It’s the beauty episode! Whit + Tay spill their hacks, fails, hot takes and questionable wisdom (Whit once used hairspray as setting spray. Like on purpose…). Beauty school dropouts, reporting for duty.

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3 months ago
34 minutes 53 seconds

How Are We 40?
Baby, I'm Worth It
This week we’re catching up and, frankly, spiraling. Whit is suddenly relating a little too much to the Pedro Almodóvar classic Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown. And Tay has entered the seventh circle of hell otherwise known as Facebook Marketplace, where strangers ask 84 questions before ghosting you over a $50 chair. It’s further confirmation that adulting is mostly just paperwork and unrelenting anxiety 🤡

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3 months ago
44 minutes 48 seconds

How Are We 40?
We Can Plot Together, Babe
Your two favorite unlicensed therapists are back with another round of Unqualified Advice. On the docket: husbands double-tapping thirst traps, coworkers claiming credit for your genius ideas, and the complicated math of age differences in dating. 

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3 months ago
45 minutes 40 seconds

How Are We 40?
He’s Got A Ringlet Situation
Whit’s finally recovering from six straight weeks of living at Party City (three kids, three August birthdays = Groundhog Day with icing). Now we're leaning into fall with pumpkin spice, fleece, and all things cozy and basic. We swap stories on our own childhood birthdays (Q-ZAR supremacy, anyone?) and plot Tay’s Real Housewives–themed 40th—complete with casting ourselves as Housewives.

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3 months ago
45 minutes 22 seconds

How Are We 40?
We're Shopping at Talbots
From Gaga at MSG to the closet chaos of turning 40, this episode covers it all. Whit relives her night out as a little monster, then she and Tay dive into fashion, identity, and the bizarre challenge of dressing for an age that feels… undefined. Is fashion at 40 liberating, maddening, or both? They’re figuring it out in real time.

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4 months ago
54 minutes 21 seconds

How Are We 40?
LOVE MY LIFE, LIVE MY LIFE

This week Tay + Whit dive Into the wild world of wellness—where “the power of positive thinking” is apparently a cure-all and crystals are sold as medical devices. Tay reports back from bathhouse-of-the-moment Othership, Whit lays down the law on soundbath behavior, and together they discuss how a lot of what’s termed “self-care” may be a scam. 


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4 months ago
47 minutes 33 seconds

How Are We 40?

Welcome to How Are We 40?, the podcast where two sisters-in-law unpack the unhinged reality of being a millennial woman in the 2020s. Each week, Taylor and Whitney—one in the throes of mom life, the other spiraling out about her singledom—will share the brutal and hilarious realities about modern womanhood, when “having it all” just means feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and on the verge of a menty b. 


Expect unfiltered conversations about marriage, dating, body changes, work woes, and Google search histories that include "how to make friends at the dog park”. So, get ready to ride or die with two deeply flawed females who will overshare like it's going out of style and remind you that everyone is really just making it up as they go.


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.