Part Three: Out But Not Down
Redefining One's Understanding of "Defilement"
Broadening You "Us" to Include More of "Them"
Is Worship Style A Racial Thing?
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Legalists Are People Too
Pride, Envy and Enemies
God and Governments Want Your Charity?
The Ordinary, Everyday Nature of Legalism
Part Three: Out But Not Down
Outside Perspectives
More Than One Kind of Person
Boundaries
Driving Your Own Car
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Henry's Pamphlet (ESV: Standard English Version/Modern Language)
Jim's Story
Sects, Lies and Videotape
Systems Seem Threatened By People Seeking Answers
Leaving A Group
Some People's Stories of Leaving
Why Discuss Legalistic Church Experiences?
More People's Stories
Why Does Legalism Lead, While Love Leaves?
Part Three: Out But Not Down
Conscience, Sin and the Flesh
Higher Standards for Treating Others
Making Life Decisions
Coming to Terms With Grace
Jesus as Law-Bringer?
Going After Good Stuff, Instead of Staying Away From Bad Stuff
God With You
Shame and Self-Punishment
Who Are You Now?
A Dark, Epic Journey of Transformation and Self-Discovery
Part Two: Starting to Wake Up continues
Shelley's Story
What Systems Are For
Making Order
Division
Lofty Claims
Henry's Pamphlet (read by Henry)
Part Two : Starting to Wake Up
Lost in Translations
Black and White Thinking
Ideas
Not Pretending the Bible Says Things
The Magic of the Bible
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Writing the Unwritten Rules Down
Devil on Your Christian Shoulder
Idols
A Higher Standard Than Rule-Following?
Kung Fu for Dealing With Pharisees
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Some Christian Kids Get Messed Up
The Answers to Everything
Fleeing Normal
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Relationship Steps
Actually Approaching God
Stuff That's Got To Go
Addictions
I Try to Approach God
Harold Talks About Relationships
What To Do With Feelings
The Number One Thing We Did To Avoid Feeling Our Feelings
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Our Way Is The Only Right Way
Which Church Do You Go To?
The New Originals
Living For The Camera
Earning Grace
Part Two: Starting To Wake Up
A Missing Sense of Proportion
Pharisees and Christianese
"Sensible" Voices
Modern Pharisees
When's It Going To End?
Taking the Wheel
Christ Instead Of...?
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Blind to Good
Virtue = Abstaining From Good?
Final Thoughts on the Soil From Which I Sprang
In which the Plymouth Brethren movement is introduced.
Part One: Normal's Whatever You're Used To
Foreword and Introduction
Introduction to God
Conversion Experiences
Testimonies
My Own Conversion Experience
Personal Experiences of God
Old Stuff Is Holier Than New Stuff
The "Other Kind" of Worship
Pulled Out Of Yourself.