What does it look like to truly discern as a family—not just in theory, but in the real, complicated choices of work, money, parenting, and faith?
In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, we welcome back Keith Cieplicki, Executive Director of the Jail Ministry in Onondaga County, New York. You may remember Keith from our earlier episode on accompanying the incarcerated. This time, Keith joins us for our Family Discernment series to reflect on the radical, uncomfortable, and deeply faithful decisions that reshaped his family’s life.
Keith shares the story of leaving a successful Division I basketball coaching career to work in a homeless shelter and eventually lead a jail ministry—choices that required profound trust, sacrifice, and ongoing discernment within his marriage and family. Together, we explore how values take shape in everyday decisions, how fear can quietly drive parenting choices, and how faith sometimes calls us not toward comfort, but toward transformation.
This episode is especially for parents and caregivers navigating big and small decisions: careers, youth sports, financial security, presence with children, and the courage to say both yes and no with intention.
In this episode, we explore:
What family discernment really looks like in practice
Letting go of status, security, and consumerism for a faith-rooted life
Trust, doubt, and learning to “breathe underwater”
Parenting beyond grades, achievements, and cultural pressure
The freedom found in simplicity, presence, and relational love
Why the Gospel often calls us to become uncomfortable
How children grow when they see faith lived, not just taught
Along the way, Keith reflects on the influence of saints like Dorothy Day, the tension between fear and freedom, and the enduring invitation to “live church” every day.
As Keith reminds us, discernment doesn’t mean having all the answers. It means being willing to take the next faithful step.
“Be not afraid.”
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