Links:
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Timestamps:
00:00 "Overcoming Anxiety and Identity Confusion"
03:40 "Overcoming Fear Through Leadership"
07:42 "Dating Success Odds Explained"
11:40 "Rejection Isn't About You"
14:37 Authentic Dating Advice for Men
17:37 "Overcoming Social Fear Together"
20:08 "Dating System for Confidence Growth"
22:19 "Build High-Status Social Circles"
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Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to helping you build your inner confidence and achieve success!
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Links:
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Timestamps:
00:00 Confidence vs. Self-Esteem Explained
03:56 Addiction, Promiscuity, and Identity
06:55 Self-Awareness and Human Behavior
12:01 Primal Mind's Role in Addiction
13:21 Primal Roots of Addiction
17:35 "Modern Dating Guide for Men"
20:53 Finding Purpose and Building Belief
25:25 "Fear, Relationships, and Self-Discovery"
26:33 "Actions Speak Louder Than Words"
31:40 Attraction, Abundance, and Narcissism
35:42 Fixation on Rejection and Labels
38:12 "Oneitis: Letting Go for Closure"
41:17 Overcoming Approach Anxiety
43:27 "Overcoming Social Anxiety Approaches"
47:45 Male Clients, Female Therapist Tension
51:43 "Therapy, Commitment, and Self-Discovery"
53:48 "Therapist Availability & Approach"
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Timestamps:
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Neda's Site: https://snipfeed.co/soulmateastrology
Timestamps:
00:00 Astrology: A Social Connection Tool
06:03 Men's Deep Interest in Astrology
09:14 "Astrology: A Dating Tool"
11:11 "Astrology Beyond Your Sun Sign"
14:01 "Leo Rising, Venus in Taurus"
18:27 Astrology's Role of Degrees
22:01 Astrology App for Love Guidance
25:24 "Dating Advice via Birth Charts"
28:36 Avoid Appearing Needy Early
29:51 Astrology in Dating Timing
35:38 "Build Elite Social Circles"
About Neda The Astrologer:
Neda Farr is a prominent astrologer, content creator, and the founder of Starcrossed, the astrology-based dating app with over 250,000 downloads. Known as the first to coin Soulmate Astrology, she has guided more than 5,000 clients in love and relationships, helping them understand their patterns and navigate toward lasting connection.
Starcrossed is the only app created by a practicing astrologer that predicts when and where you’re most likely to meet your soulmate, offers personalized daily compatibility horoscopes, and now features a viral Soulmate Drawing tool that brings your match to life.
With more than 70 million views, 13 million likes, and 230K followers across her socials, Neda’s content resonates widely with Gen Z and Millennials seeking clarity in both love and identity. Her voice is audacious, emotionally intelligent, and deeply personal — blending lived experience with modern astrology.
Her work has been featured in Vice, The New York Post, MSN, Your Tango, The U.S. Sun, MindBodyGreen, and other leading outlets, establishing her as one of the most pioneering voices in today’s astrology space.
Links: TikTok // Instagram // Neda's Website // Starcrossed - App Store or Google PLAY
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Timestamps:
00:00 "Top Texting Tips for Dating"
03:31 "Fast Replies: A Relationship Concern"
07:43 Frustration with Short Text Exchanges
11:15 Modern Dating Success Guide
12:53 "Excited Texts, Then Ghosted"
16:22 Disjointed Conversations Lead to Miscommunication
21:57 Join Exclusive Social Circle Network
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Timestamps:
00:00 Body Positivity and Height Bias
06:07 Dating Challenges in Small Cities
08:13 "Balancing Attraction Criteria"
11:03 "Level Up: 10 Actionable Steps"
14:32 Meeting Fashion Minimums for Success
19:18 Confident vs. Nervous Attraction
22:24 Mastering Conversation for Attraction
24:06 "Master Conversation and Instagram Skills"
27:16 Curated Instagram for Online Dating
32:02 "Effective Dating Confidence Strategy"
33:21 "Remote Work for Passport Bros"
37:56 "Traditional Masculinity vs. Feminism"
39:52 Don't Pedestalize Her
42:22 Authentic Life Beats Fake Image
46:20 "Join Elite Social Circles"
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Timestamps:
00:00 "Optimize Online Dating Profiles"
05:54 Personalized Shopping Assistance
08:32 "Expert Photos for Dating Success"
09:46 "Finding a Photographer Solution"
13:08 Creating an Online Dating Profile
15:59 "Social Funnel Dating Method"
20:58 Avoid Posting Crowded Landmarks Photos
23:59 "Mastering Social Media Rules"
27:57 "Crafting a Cohesive Instagram Profile"
31:12 "Building Effective Dating Profiles"
31:44 "Join Our Elite Social Circle"
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Links:
Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityGet NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/Timestamps:00:00 Escaping Toxic Relationships: A Guide05:36 "Friends Reflect Future Partners"07:45 Controlling Long-Distance Relationship Struggles10:30 "Mutual Trust in Device Access"14:08 "Modern Dating Guide for Men"16:19 Adoption and Family Dysfunction20:33 "Controlling Behavior Stems from Trauma"23:18 "Authenticity in Relationships"26:56 60s Pianist Pushed to Silence28:49 "Navigating Adult Relationship Bonds"33:05 "Quiet Breakup Strategy"35:18 Healing After Toxic Relationships39:40 "Join Elite Social Circles Now"Connect w/ Robbie:
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Bryan's Site: www.myrelationshipfail.com
Timestamps:
03:42 Father Reconnection Amid Childhood Trauma
06:24 Formative Childhood and Lifelong Impact
12:37 "Navigating Trauma and Emotional Struggles"
13:19 Relationship Tension and Miscommunication
17:01 Attachment Theory Exploration
21:06 "Modern Dating Course for Divorced Men"
23:37 "Relationship as a Drug: Realization"
25:50 Support Network's Crucial Role
30:19 Avoid Triggered Conversations
34:49 "Emotional Roller Coaster and Reconnection"
35:21 Unexpected Eviction Drama
38:27 Improving Communication and Connection
43:17 Healing Core Wounds Awareness
47:30 Childhood Instability and Abandonment Issues
50:26 "Resilience Through Personal Growth"
53:56 "Winning Social Circles for Success"
54:43 Exclusive Community Membership Invitation
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Timestamps:
00:00 Addressing Struggle and Inner Pain
03:41 Struggling with Self-Esteem and Dating
06:48 Priceless Wisdom, Health Investment
11:24 "Join High-Value Social Circles"
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Timestamps:
09:20 "Achieving Hugh Hefner Lifestyle"
12:50 "Time as a Growth Multiplier"
17:07 Real Intimacy vs. Artificial Alternatives
24:56 Navigating Midlife Crisis Challenges
30:25 "Women and Partnering for Success"
32:07 Ideal Dating Scenario for Men
40:39 Comfort Around Attractive Women
42:41 Unconventional Ways to Meet Women
49:05 "Rejecting Dating for Self-Control"
57:34 "Ice Game: A European Adventure"
59:40 Game Sparks Excitement and Connection
01:03:39 "Hosting Parties for Social Success"
01:09:58 Host Your Own Networking Events
01:14:59 Dating and Wingman Insights
01:21:13 "Mastering Event Atmosphere"
01:24:38 "Exclusive Community Invitation"
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Timestamps:
07:45 Missed Connection Before Moving
10:48 "Dance Mastery Through One Style"
19:29 Dance: Embracing Leadership and Flow
22:31 Casual Dance Dynamics Explained
28:25 Journey to Improvement and Challenges
34:03 "Forcefulness on the Dance Floor"
38:36 Country Bar Dance Encounter
45:05 Dance Etiquette: Avoid Consecutive Partners
50:43 Choose Partner Dancing Venues
52:51 West Coast Swing: Fun and Challenging
01:01:20 Dancing Biologist's Double Life
01:03:40 "Dance Addiction in Country Scene"
01:08:00 Build High-Status Social Circles
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Timestamps:
00:00 "Love, Betrayal, and Human Behavior"
03:52 Equally Invested Relationships Work
10:03 "Toxic Relationships and Unrealistic Expectations"
13:04 "Free Dating Course for Divorcees"
16:56 Resolution After Spousal Disagreement
18:49 "Self and Partner Score Matching"
22:01 Date Tips: The Questions Game
23:56 "Self-Love Key to Relationships"
29:18 90% Self-Confidence Mindset Boost
30:46 Enhancing Self-Perception Techniques
34:53 Self-Improvement Framework Guide
38:27 "Partner Trait Ratings: 70-75%"
42:23 Rethinking Age in Relationships
46:40 Evaluate Relationship Values
47:23 Beyond Infatuation in Relationships
51:05 Social Circle Success for Men
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Intro:
Most guys lose women not because they said the wrong thing — but because they gave up their power without realizing it.
In this episode, I answer real questions from the IC Community about how to keep rotation girls invested, avoid slipping into the boyfriend zone, leverage female friendships for social proof, and deal with hot girls who play the game better than you.
This is the real dating game — no fluff, no pickup lines, just hard truths and high-leverage strategies. If you don’t control the frame… you will lose the girl.
Timestamps:
00:00 Dating Journey and Self-Improvement
03:19 Navigating the Friend Zone Dilemma
09:40 Curated Exclusive Party Strategies
12:06 Greek Life Inclusivity Dynamics
16:47 Curated Parties for Safe Socializing
19:37 "Gender Economics in Bar Culture"
21:25 Post-Party Balcony Romance
24:58 "Introducing the Hot Crazy Matrix"
27:25 The Art of Manipulative Charm
31:46 "Join High-Status Social Circle"
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Timestamps:
00:00 Club Success Strategies Simplified
05:08 Navigating Door Policies with Respect
07:37 Building Connections Over Time
12:25 Flirting Techniques and Etiquette
15:25 Party Etiquette: Ask Before Pouring
19:03 Club Strategies for Getting Numbers
22:02 Orchestrating Club Exits Effectively
24:30 "Ice Game Drinking Challenge"
26:43 The Sleazy Ice Game Dynamic
31:40 "Embrace Friend Zone for Social Success"
34:16 Join Elite Social Circle Network
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Intro:
Most guys completely blow it at bars — not because they’re unattractive or awkward, but because they have no idea how to move, where to stand, or how to actually create a connection in a nightlife environment. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason guys fail with women at bars — and giving you a proven system you can follow to approach confidently, spark attraction, and avoid the mistakes that kill your chances before you even open your mouth. If you’re tired of standing around with a drink in your hand waiting for something to happen, this episode is going to flip the script.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Mastering Bar Game Tactics
05:08 Ideal LA Bars for Socializing
09:29 Clubbing Strategy in Major Cities
12:42 Confidence Tips for Bar Newcomers
16:09 Awkward Hand-Holding Encounter
16:54 "Playful Dating Roleplay Banter"
22:47 Late-Night Bathroom Hookup Story
25:33 Approach Etiquette: Acknowledge Her Friends
27:10 "Building Attraction: Playful Interactions"
30:29 "Join High-Status Social Circle"
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Timestamps:
00:00 "Overcoming Approach Anxiety"
07:53 Warm Up to Combat Anxiety
10:50 "Approaching Women Mistakes"
15:21 "Smooth Pickup Line Strategy"
17:47 "Start Small to Practice Dating"
20:59 Instant Date: From Sidewalk to Coffee
24:09 Public Flirting Etiquette Tips
27:11 Wingman Strategy for Dating
31:26 Master Day Game: 500 Approaches
34:38 Mastering Social Approaches
36:04 "Apply to Join Community"
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Timestamps:
03:58 "30 Dates Challenge"
09:29 Courageous Relationship Boundaries Conversation
10:10 "Understanding Casual Relationships"
14:25 "Threesome Story at the Abbey"
17:26 "Threesome Dynamics: Equal Attention"
23:01 Networking Through Lifestyle Circles
23:56 Money, Power, Women Approach
28:54 Top Men, Social Circles, Maturity
30:27 Build Your Dream Social Circle
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Info:
Are you thinking about hiring a dating coach or perhaps you've already invested with little to no return? Robbie exposes the pitfalls of flashy, overpriced programs and sheds light on the truth behind these get-confident-quick schemes. From the allure of the "Chad" persona to the one-size-fits-all scripts, he reveals how these scams often prey on men with genuine social anxieties and dating goals. But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom. Stick around to the end, and Robbie shares a genuine method to advance your dating skills that focuses on consistent growth rather than shortcuts.
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Intro:
We begin with the "Hoping Stage," where many guys find themselves stuck, relying solely on dating apps and chance meetups. Robbie explains how most men falter here, putting potential partners on pedestals and succumbing to neediness. But the good news is that awareness is the first step toward change.
Next, we transition into the "Hunting Stage." This phase is about taking dating seriously – from optimizing profiles to getting out there and facing rejection. It's where you learn to build confidence through real-life interactions. Robbie also offers insights into how to maintain your independence and avoid falling into the trap of monogamous relationships too soon.
Finally, we explore the "Farming Stage," which shifts the dynamic from chasing to being chased. By establishing yourself as a leader within your social circle, you create an environment where potential partners naturally gravitate toward you, setting the stage for meaningful and lasting connections.
Timestamps:
00:00 Navigating Dating Pitfalls
05:51 Dating: Embrace Rejection, Use Wingmen
07:51 "Mastering Relationship Dynamics"
09:50 Mastering Relationship Dynamics
14:16 "Effective Strategy for Attracting Women"
17:43 Online Dating and Networking Tips
20:25 "Accountability Group: Guiding Your Journey"